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Sluts 4 Obama! (Original Post) jillan Mar 2012 OP
Kick and recommend n/t zappaman Mar 2012 #1
I get it, I sort of appreciate it, but, still.... hlthe2b Mar 2012 #2
I agree. n/t ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #4
Any other time, I'd agree. jillan Mar 2012 #5
I want one of those! sinkingfeeling Mar 2012 #3
now see... i really am not into this owning the word slut. AND, i like this. lol. nt seabeyond Mar 2012 #6
I don't care for it either - except in this case. calimary Mar 2012 #8
Made me chuckle. shcrane71 Mar 2012 #15
Limpball doesn't realize that Karma is also a Slut...... FrenchieCat Mar 2012 #7
I think I like yours better... hlthe2b Mar 2012 #9
+1 Tarheel_Dem Mar 2012 #11
Women ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #10
Yes.. that's a big issue for me... hlthe2b Mar 2012 #13
i agree. just makes it more accepting of it being used as a weapon. really... seabeyond Mar 2012 #14
Because I don't buy into the misogyny that makes "slut" demeaning, I like the sentiment. Yet... shcrane71 Mar 2012 #17
So, if it's not demeaning ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #19
I'm going to have trouble expressing my thoughts in writing; so bear with me. shcrane71 Mar 2012 #20
You expressed yourself well. ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #21
I'm not aware of many people who aren't discriminating about who they choose for partners, shcrane71 Mar 2012 #23
Just a matter of semantics ohheckyeah Mar 2012 #24
I understand. Rush's last tirade, and some unsolicited slut-hate posts on my facebook shcrane71 Mar 2012 #25
Post removed Post removed Mar 2012 #12
Ha!! DCBob Mar 2012 #16
PLEASE SELL THESE... MrMickeysMom Mar 2012 #18
My partner and I are both Sluts for Obama as well, both of our insurance covers contaceptives and louslobbs Mar 2012 #22

FrenchieCat

(68,867 posts)
7. Limpball doesn't realize that Karma is also a Slut......
Wed Mar 7, 2012, 03:44 PM
Mar 2012

perhaps he will eventually figure it out!

I wasn't a slut till Ms. Fluke was called that!
If she's to be called one, than I guess than so can I as well as my 2 daughters!!




ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
10. Women
Wed Mar 7, 2012, 04:10 PM
Mar 2012

"owning" the word will give cover to more use of the word with the excuse "they use it". Think about the "n" word and the justification that it is okay to use it because rappers do.

Sorry, I disagree and I don't like it or own it.

hlthe2b

(102,343 posts)
13. Yes.. that's a big issue for me...
Wed Mar 7, 2012, 06:52 PM
Mar 2012

I do not want to "own" that word.

It still rankles the hell out of me to have (usually younger) women tell me that the "c" word is just fine and dandy, because THEY have "reclaimed" it.

That said, I can kind of see why this seems a bit different for many and why the bumper sticker might appeal... On balance, though I still really don't like it.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
14. i agree. just makes it more accepting of it being used as a weapon. really...
Wed Mar 7, 2012, 06:54 PM
Mar 2012

even women use it on themselves. see, not a big deal, you s***

shcrane71

(1,721 posts)
17. Because I don't buy into the misogyny that makes "slut" demeaning, I like the sentiment. Yet...
Wed Mar 7, 2012, 08:36 PM
Mar 2012

I wouldn't put that bumper sticker on my car. I've run into too many Limbaugh-like people, and there's no way I want to give them any reason to tap into their hate. They're all too eager to unleash their venom without my help.

shcrane71

(1,721 posts)
20. I'm going to have trouble expressing my thoughts in writing; so bear with me.
Thu Mar 8, 2012, 01:24 AM
Mar 2012

I don't think that it's demeaning for a woman to have a lot of sex or enjoy having sex or vice versa. Taken in context, women can use the term slut in a non-offensive way, usually amongst friends. Now that I think of it, I've only heard it used as compliment amongst close female friends or gay men. And if one can wall herself off from right-wingnuts, then it's entirely possible to never hear slut used as a slanderous term.

Then there's Limbaugh. It's hard to deny that the context that he uses the term, the tone of voice, the back drop of "traditional family values", coupled with his other remarks about prostitution, all convey that his intentions, when using the term, are to bully, harass, and demean.

These are my experiences and thoughts.

ohheckyeah

(9,314 posts)
21. You expressed yourself well.
Thu Mar 8, 2012, 02:04 AM
Mar 2012

I've just never thought of calling a friend a slut....to me it means much more than just a woman who has a lot of sex and enjoys it. It carries the connotation, to me, that someone is available to most anyone and demonstrates no discrimination in who they have sex with. I like sex a lot, and have friends who are single and have sex when not in a committed relationship, but we are all discriminating in our choices of sex partners. It's not just about getting serviced....to me a slut is someone who only cares about being serviced with no regard for the other person. Maybe I'm reading too much into the word but that's just how I see it.



shcrane71

(1,721 posts)
23. I'm not aware of many people who aren't discriminating about who they choose for partners,
Thu Mar 8, 2012, 03:31 PM
Mar 2012

but I don't give much time to judging someone who is indiscriminate about his or her partners. I'm not insinuating that you do, as you never said that.

I could be reading too much into your response, but your definition of a slut as someone who cares about being serviced with no regard for the other person seems to be similar to someone I would label as a player. Players are disingenuous, and are to be avoided.

shcrane71

(1,721 posts)
25. I understand. Rush's last tirade, and some unsolicited slut-hate posts on my facebook
Thu Mar 8, 2012, 05:52 PM
Mar 2012

page has made me more mindful of the casual use of the term.

Response to jillan (Original post)

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
18. PLEASE SELL THESE...
Wed Mar 7, 2012, 09:16 PM
Mar 2012

I know that I can get many sluts to don them on their slut-mobiles!

We need to make this viral!

louslobbs

(3,238 posts)
22. My partner and I are both Sluts for Obama as well, both of our insurance covers contaceptives and
Thu Mar 8, 2012, 02:52 PM
Mar 2012

we both use condoms and kill millions of sperm every week. We are proud male sluts who stand with and for, all of our sister sluts across this country in our support of President Obama. We also stand with and for all those little girls selling Girl Scout Cookies, who are really little abortionists (according to the Republicans) and we know that they will all grow up to become the next generation of sluts if we use the Republican way of thinking. We're still waitng for Rush and or one of his cohorts to drop the nasty little N word or that disgusting 4 letter C word.
Sluts Rock!
Lou

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