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trumad

(41,692 posts)
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:14 PM Oct 2013

Some sound like a bunch of idiots when they chastise how people spend their money.

Who cares if some young man spends 320 for a belt or a woman spends 2500 on a purse. Hey guess what--- I once bought my wife a Louie Vuitton and it cost a good chunk of money. Great quality, and it looks as new as the day I bought it 8 years ago. Some times you spend more for good quality.

Two stories the last two days about unbelievable racism and the first thing some say is---wow.... they spent that much for a belt?

Who gives a shit.

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Some sound like a bunch of idiots when they chastise how people spend their money. (Original Post) trumad Oct 2013 OP
labor who made the $2500 purse probably got paid about 25 cents nt msongs Oct 2013 #1
Not Louie trumad Oct 2013 #5
I can't help but think that many of the purchases by those very same critics... LanternWaste Oct 2013 #2
The overt racisim of the store and the cops left me speechless. pennylane100 Oct 2013 #3
I understand wanting something like that and saving for it. trumad Oct 2013 #8
I thought I heard that after the incident, the young man returned the merchandise? notadmblnd Oct 2013 #28
Teabaggers needed 'something' to latch onto durablend Oct 2013 #4
I expect that a $320 belt does a really, really good job of keeping one's pants up. (nt) Nye Bevan Oct 2013 #6
Keeping them up fashionably. trumad Oct 2013 #9
A wonderful opportunity to educate the proles about fashion seveneyes Oct 2013 #19
Well---no crime for the rest of the year. trumad Oct 2013 #33
I don't know shit about fashion, I'd never spend that much for a belt, but if someone was MADem Oct 2013 #26
But if Oprah does it, watch out! Phentex Oct 2013 #7
And that's my point. trumad Oct 2013 #10
Agree... Phentex Oct 2013 #13
I don't get it either get the red out Oct 2013 #11
I mean I understand dissing someone for a gold plated car. trumad Oct 2013 #12
Yep get the red out Oct 2013 #15
Or someone sipping from a $300 per glass drink when discussing how much to cut from the poor. BluegrassStateBlues Oct 2013 #17
I agree, considering over time, how much $$ men spend on belts notadmblnd Oct 2013 #30
Quality usually does. trumad Oct 2013 #31
Both of those stories were about the jaw dropping racism. HappyMe Oct 2013 #14
i think that Louis Vuitton is a sociology experiment.. frylock Oct 2013 #16
LOL leftstreet Oct 2013 #18
That makes a nice sterogram seveneyes Oct 2013 #20
You did that too? I was trying to make a rainbow crayon. MindPilot Oct 2013 #21
obviously you dont know Louie trumad Oct 2013 #22
i don't, and please don't take my post as personal.. frylock Oct 2013 #35
That turd brown background, and those ugly-ass flowers! MADem Oct 2013 #27
If racism is not part of the issue, I can agree with the criticism, but... Shampoobra Oct 2013 #23
+1 gollygee Oct 2013 #34
Two more thoughts to add to that: Shampoobra Oct 2013 #37
I concluded long ago Bunnahabhain Oct 2013 #24
Next thing you know, they'll be telling people what they can do with their bodies! csziggy Oct 2013 #25
I agree...it is their money to waste! Rex Oct 2013 #29
Some people spend their money on guns Kaleva Oct 2013 #32
I agree bigwillq Oct 2013 #36
I don't have any problem with any of those people buying expensive things. pnwmom Oct 2013 #38
I think it's not insignificant. It points to something deeply sick in our culture cali Oct 2013 #39
I know--those young ones.... trumad Oct 2013 #40
I was young back then too cali Oct 2013 #41
People have an unhealthy obsession over what other people get, like jealousy IronLionZion Oct 2013 #42
I'm guilty--- trumad Oct 2013 #43
It feels good to save up for years to get something you want. IronLionZion Oct 2013 #44
 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
2. I can't help but think that many of the purchases by those very same critics...
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:24 PM
Oct 2013

I can't help but think that many of the purchases (televisions, a new sectional for the game room, hell, even an evening out with the family for dinner and a movie) by those very same critics would be seen by a Kenyan subsistence farmer as a year's wage.

And would those critics rationalize their own spending by stating a distinction without a relevant difference, or would they realize they've simply criticized others for what they themselves are, in fact, guilty of too?

pennylane100

(3,425 posts)
3. The overt racisim of the store and the cops left me speechless.
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:25 PM
Oct 2013

However, I must admit that after reading the article, I thought the the cost of the belt seemed so high that I did wonder why someone would pay that much, if they had to save for it. It must have been very something he had wanted for a long time. The good news for him is that when he finishes taking all those involved to the cleaners, he will be able to buy all the belts he wants.

I would put that place on my ignore list but it is already there.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
8. I understand wanting something like that and saving for it.
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:29 PM
Oct 2013

The kid was probably pretty proud that he did it...

My 20 year old came home with a leather coat from Macy's last night. Cost him 150.00... on sale from 300.

He was proud that he bought it on his own.

durablend

(7,460 posts)
4. Teabaggers needed 'something' to latch onto
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:26 PM
Oct 2013

They couldn't come right out and say what they wanted to but a few did throw in the expected "Glad to see you spending that welfare money that I paid for"

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
9. Keeping them up fashionably.
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:30 PM
Oct 2013

Of course some here wouldn't know fashion if it hit them upside the head.

 

seveneyes

(4,631 posts)
19. A wonderful opportunity to educate the proles about fashion
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:50 PM
Oct 2013

Perhaps you could describe some of the elusive fashion of which you speak?

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
33. Well---no crime for the rest of the year.
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 05:03 PM
Oct 2013

When I put on a Salvatore Ferragamo suit compared to a suit from JC Penney, I know it.

Not knocking a JC Penney suit....but it aint no Ferragamo.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
26. I don't know shit about fashion, I'd never spend that much for a belt, but if someone was
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 04:35 PM
Oct 2013

discriminating against someone for doing that, I would take issue.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
7. But if Oprah does it, watch out!
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:29 PM
Oct 2013

And she's a millionaire for crying out loud.

Plenty of people tried to deny the racism. Others were more upset about the cost of the purse (and she wasn't even buying it!)

Strange times.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
10. And that's my point.
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:32 PM
Oct 2013

The lady got tax return money and spent it on a purse. It most likely made her feel terrific. Good for her.

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get the red out

(13,466 posts)
11. I don't get it either
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:32 PM
Oct 2013

If someone wants to spend their money on an item I don't necessarily want or need, so what? I'm sure others would have issues with things I spend money on, no matter how little. To each his/her own.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
12. I mean I understand dissing someone for a gold plated car.
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:34 PM
Oct 2013

And yes there are extreme excesses.

But they have to be over the top extreme for me to say anything.

A 320 belt ain't one of those times.

 
17. Or someone sipping from a $300 per glass drink when discussing how much to cut from the poor.
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:43 PM
Oct 2013

Paul Ryan.

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
30. I agree, considering over time, how much $$ men spend on belts
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 04:44 PM
Oct 2013

Let's say one spends 30 dollars on a belt that wears out in a year, in 10 years you will have spent 300 on belts. I would think that a 300 dollar belt would last at least 10 years if not a life time.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
14. Both of those stories were about the jaw dropping racism.
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:36 PM
Oct 2013

That's all. It really isn't anybody's business what people spend their money on.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
16. i think that Louis Vuitton is a sociology experiment..
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:41 PM
Oct 2013

let's take a butt-ass ugly pattern, throw a designer label on it, mark it up exorbitantly, and see who's still willing to purchase it.

 

seveneyes

(4,631 posts)
20. That makes a nice sterogram
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 03:57 PM
Oct 2013

And that brown...I haven't seen that shade of brown since I melted all my crayons together to make a candle.

 

MindPilot

(12,693 posts)
21. You did that too? I was trying to make a rainbow crayon.
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 04:02 PM
Oct 2013

All I got was a very unappealing shade of gray.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
35. i don't, and please don't take my post as personal..
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 05:21 PM
Oct 2013

I have many friends that buy LV, and I tell them the same thing.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
27. That turd brown background, and those ugly-ass flowers!
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 04:37 PM
Oct 2013

It looks like gas station restroom wallpaper!!!

Shampoobra

(423 posts)
23. If racism is not part of the issue, I can agree with the criticism, but...
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 04:20 PM
Oct 2013

...when someone introduces that red herring in the midst of a controversy where blatant discrimination is the issue, I want to shout: "This is America, goddammit! People of color have the right to waste as much money as white people!"

But that's not the issue in these two cases with Barney's. They weren't outraged about people of color wasting that much money, they were outraged about people of color having that much money.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
34. +1
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 05:07 PM
Oct 2013

"People of color have the right to waste as much money as white people."

And yeah they were outraged that he had enough money to shop there, and probably made racist assumptions about how he got that money. I keep hearing people say, "How does a poor college student . . ." and there are a couple of assumptions there. First, that he is a POOR college student - yeah a lot of college students are poor but a lot get money from their parents, and he could be getting money from his parents as easily as a white college student could. And the second issue with that is that white college students waste money all the time, and on things that don't last nearly as long as a belt. At least he's wasting money on something tangible he'll be able to use every day.

I think it makes perfect sense if you want to buy one thing from a fancy designer to choose a belt. It might be an expensive belt but it's probably one of the least expensive things by that designer you'll find, and it's something you can wear every day.

Shampoobra

(423 posts)
37. Two more thoughts to add to that:
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 06:05 PM
Oct 2013

1. One of the only reasons this sluggish economy is still moving at all is because people (like me) keep buying things they don't really need ("just one more exception; this is the last time&quot .

2. How is a $350 belt any more wasteful than six video games (at $60 each)? How is six video games any more wasteful that two nights of drinking and dancing? Personally, I'll take the six video games, but I don't blame a non-gamer for thinking that's a waste of money.

I won't waste $350 on a belt, because I already wasted that money elsewhere.

 

Bunnahabhain

(857 posts)
24. I concluded long ago
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 04:24 PM
Oct 2013

many people seem to feel they have better insight into how my earnings should be spent than I do. I've never felt that way about other people and I find this phenomena curious, fascinating, and at times, a bit pathological.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
25. Next thing you know, they'll be telling people what they can do with their bodies!
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 04:30 PM
Oct 2013

Or what kind of food they can buy, or who they can marry, or whether they can carry a gun, or what religion they should follow.

Those all fit in the same bucket - and they should ALL be thrown out.

pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
38. I don't have any problem with any of those people buying expensive things.
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 06:08 PM
Oct 2013

I only have a problem with any DUer who might buy a $2000 purse and then insist that Obamacare is unaffordable.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
39. I think it's not insignificant. It points to something deeply sick in our culture
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 06:09 PM
Oct 2013

that young people- of any income bracket- feel compelled to spend 2,500 on a handbag or 300 on a belt. We've reached insanity in this consumer driven culture of ours.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
40. I know--those young ones....
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 07:27 PM
Oct 2013

Shit---I remember spending 300 for an eight ball and sifting it in one night.

Of course--I was a young one back then--along with Hendrix, Joplin, Belushi, etc.

We've reached shit.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
41. I was young back then too
Thu Oct 24, 2013, 07:30 PM
Oct 2013

and I came from a well off family and no way would I have spent that kind of money on a handbag.

I'm sorry this has become a culture that is way over focused on "status" items. And yes it's much more pronounced than it was in the 70s and 80s.

IronLionZion

(45,457 posts)
42. People have an unhealthy obsession over what other people get, like jealousy
Fri Oct 25, 2013, 07:31 AM
Oct 2013

Its scary on the other side when they don't want poor people to get benefits. They make some truly heartless assumptions and hold a lot of contempt for the "47%" or the "99" or whatever. They cast a lot of judgement down on many of the things we do.

Its just petty on our side when people don't want others to get or spend more than they "deserve". There are a lot of assumptions about what sort of people work in various occupations or purchase various things as if those people are bad somehow.

I know it feels unjust the way wealth is not equal, but why does it matter if someone else gets something? Its more useful to focus on the ones who don't get enough and try to help them out.


And there is a school of thought that if you buy quality and take care of it, it will pay for itself over time. Or its better to spend more for something that is ethically sourced and manufactured, etc. For example, I got some grief from some of my friends over buying a 3hp $400 blender that was made in Utah with 85% American parts, except for the hippies who live in intentional communities or make green smoothies and know how useful it is. This type of appliance can easily last decades and feed lots of people quickly.

In a pinch, many quality items can be sold as it retains much of its value, or even gain value as a rare antique. Examples are Griswold cast iron pans or Gillette double edge razors or many classic cars.

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
43. I'm guilty---
Fri Oct 25, 2013, 07:36 AM
Oct 2013

I buy quality. Always have when I can afford it. I have clothing in my closet that have lasted a decade and still looks brand new.

People are laughing at the brown Louie Vuitton style but have no idea that there are many other styles of Louie that are beautiful. I bought my wife a 1500.00 Louie several years ago--- it still looks brand new and has a life time guarantee for any defect, etc.

Plus---it makes you feel damn good when you buy it. I am certain the kid who saved money and bought the belt felt wonderful that he did it. Good for him I say.

IronLionZion

(45,457 posts)
44. It feels good to save up for years to get something you want.
Fri Oct 25, 2013, 07:58 AM
Oct 2013

I went to a personal growth workshop that deliberately puts a cap on charitable scholarship amounts because they believe people will be more enthusiastic if we have saved up our own money for part of it.

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