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Obama stood more firmly than he ever has, showing balls of steel (Original Post) bluestateguy Oct 2013 OP
Nerves of steel indeed. Good Obama, stand firm. uppityperson Oct 2013 #1
:thumbsup: Orrex Oct 2013 #9
You are welcome. uppityperson Oct 2013 #14
thanks from me too. BlancheSplanchnik Oct 2013 #113
I agree.. yuiyoshida Oct 2013 #129
Old white male signing on Jackpine Radical Oct 2013 #138
well done! NRaleighLiberal Oct 2013 #38
Thank you, nice to see I am not the only one noticing. uppityperson Oct 2013 #71
We need this Blue Owl Oct 2013 #2
He set his strategy early and maintained his famous cool flamingdem Oct 2013 #3
strategy kardonb Oct 2013 #29
Yep. He made right what he's made wrong in 2011. BlueCaliDem Oct 2013 #4
Another sign of character: learning from one's mistakes. geek tragedy Oct 2013 #5
ITA... AnneD Oct 2013 #99
VPOTUS has noted POTUS' steel spine in the past, elleng Oct 2013 #6
At last. THIS is the man I voted for. CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2013 #7
For So Many Of Us Here... YES IT IS! ChiciB1 Oct 2013 #43
Some of us ALWAYS stand with him CakeGrrl Oct 2013 #59
You are correct. Whisp Oct 2013 #96
Good That You Feel As You Do... ChiciB1 Oct 2013 #142
Agreed Robbins Oct 2013 #8
Next time the Republicans won't have as many facts against them DireStrike Oct 2013 #11
I suspect you may be right..... Swede Atlanta Oct 2013 #23
Cojones grandes. nt BluegrassStateBlues Oct 2013 #10
Agreed. The difference as I see it, Obama was willing to risk his own legacy for the future to libdem4life Oct 2013 #12
nailed it frog64 Oct 2013 #92
Thanks..and I'm sure I'm not the only Democrat who was holding their breath for awhile. I give libdem4life Oct 2013 #103
^ THIS ^ mac56 Oct 2013 #110
I'm not sure if I'd want those TrogL Oct 2013 #13
... TBF Oct 2013 #15
Hope this continues. nt Courtesy Flush Oct 2013 #16
13 Dimensional Chess!!!! LOL, just kidding. He did good! (NT) PBass Oct 2013 #17
YES!! ruffburr Oct 2013 #18
Regular 2D chess beat down The Second Stone Oct 2013 #19
Awesome job on this one. GoneFishin Oct 2013 #20
He just kicked back and let the America watch the baggers fight over the gun to shoot their toes off Snake Plissken Oct 2013 #21
+1 klook Oct 2013 #56
I think Obama has won me back Dopers_Greed Oct 2013 #22
What a stupid, sexist, immature and childish thread title. PeaceNikki Oct 2013 #24
I do prefer backbone myself Patiod Oct 2013 #25
I always try to use backbone, spine, guts NewJeffCT Oct 2013 #89
There are brave people with spinal deformities Silent3 Oct 2013 #91
I prefer "intestinal fortitude" VWolf Oct 2013 #30
I prefer "courage" deutsey Oct 2013 #31
I prefer gonads. yodermon Oct 2013 #36
. Garion_55 Oct 2013 #39
LOL nt SunSeeker Oct 2013 #112
Love it! llmart Oct 2013 #117
Love her! NastyRiffraff Oct 2013 #124
Bahahaha. Always with the situational PC Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #41
It's patriarchal and insensitive. NuclearDem Oct 2013 #47
Then please write to Jon Stewart and Colbert Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #48
And I don't like it when they do it either. NuclearDem Oct 2013 #49
It's not right or wrong. It is your Victorian sensibilities Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #50
My Victorian sensibilities? NuclearDem Oct 2013 #53
Like in this thread where I am swearing? Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #57
You brought it on yourself. NuclearDem Oct 2013 #58
I never called out feminists or women for that matter Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #62
Wow, incredible. NuclearDem Oct 2013 #64
There. You got the last word. Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #65
Steel ovaries just doesn't have the same ring to it. denbot Oct 2013 #68
Well that's because they are internal to the body and won't swing into each other whopis01 Oct 2013 #114
Titanium. Titanium Ovaries > Steel Balls. Any day of the week. NYC_SKP Oct 2013 #121
Duly noted. denbot Oct 2013 #125
One can point out childish sexism without being 'aghast' PeaceNikki Oct 2013 #69
Thank you. I'm not appalled or aghast Patiod Oct 2013 #115
Exactly. PeaceNikki Oct 2013 #116
'Political correctness' is a rightwing term n/t leftstreet Oct 2013 #72
Uh no it's not Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #73
Uh yes it is leftstreet Oct 2013 #74
It's etymology is thus: early 20th century socialists used it as Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #75
And in what sense are you using it? NuclearDem Oct 2013 #76
Wow. Way to not admit you were wrong Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #78
You used it as a perjorative in the context of discussing offensive patriarchal language. NuclearDem Oct 2013 #79
Aye yah!!! You don't want to concede any point Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #82
Someone pointed out a sexist term and explained why it's offensive. NuclearDem Oct 2013 #85
why was what they did "pointing out" and yet what pretzel warrior did was "screaming"? Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #94
So you admit it is a pejorative leftstreet Oct 2013 #77
Can be used in that way. It can also be used within a group Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #80
Oh, now it 'can be used that way' leftstreet Oct 2013 #83
I've disproven your assertion that PC is merely a right wing term Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #84
Yes. Very educational. Thx n/t leftstreet Oct 2013 #95
Six of one, half a dozen of the other... LanternWaste Oct 2013 #108
Exactly. I definitely remember it being used un-ironically when I was in college in the 80s. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #87
Right??? truebrit71 Oct 2013 #86
My nose wasn't bent. I wasn't 'aghast'. And if you can't wrap your brain around the explaination PeaceNikki Oct 2013 #111
Yes mom....sorry.... truebrit71 Oct 2013 #136
No. No "balls" were involved in this deal. You can take your big "manly" balls and shove them. PeaceNikki Oct 2013 #137
Oh yes they were...and for the very first time Obama used his... truebrit71 Oct 2013 #143
I used to rationalize the irrational too. LanternWaste Oct 2013 #107
Let's put it this way. I know I have been insensitive Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #126
you are wrong Enrique Oct 2013 #119
I was here in 2003 and though there was good comment Pretzel_Warrior Oct 2013 #141
Remind me not to drink out of the DU punchbowl this evening. mac56 Oct 2013 #109
Proud of our president!! N/t Politicub Oct 2013 #26
Yes and the dems stood firm with him florida08 Oct 2013 #27
Two-Dimensional Checkers. Iggo Oct 2013 #28
Mr. President DonCoquixote Oct 2013 #32
THANK YOU Skittles Oct 2013 #35
+1 Raffi Ella Oct 2013 #44
this is who he should have been from the start Skittles Oct 2013 #33
In his first term Obama saved America from the 2nd Great Depression and killed Bin Laden. aaaaaa5a Oct 2013 #34
Sure glad to see this fortitude. The country wins on this one. Scalded Nun Oct 2013 #37
President Obama is the same man he's always been. Perceptions are what have changed. IrishAyes Oct 2013 #40
+1000 CakeGrrl Oct 2013 #42
As one who has regularly criticized his Le Taz Hot Oct 2013 #45
I'm thinking about changing my signature. russspeakeasy Oct 2013 #46
May BHO stand just as firmly on ever issue until January 20, 2016, and put back on the table indepat Oct 2013 #51
See? FredStembottom Oct 2013 #52
Balls of steel beats brains of shit. edbermac Oct 2013 #54
lol! HappyMe Oct 2013 #67
I think he gives most people the Isoldeblue Oct 2013 #55
He's going to twist the knife by pushing immigration reform now. alfredo Oct 2013 #60
I'm just happy I don't have to bemoan another capitulation... Moostache Oct 2013 #61
Big test coming with "Entittlement Reform" CtDemoFarmer Oct 2013 #63
... Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2013 #66
hate to be a downer angrychair Oct 2013 #70
I don't know gollygee Oct 2013 #81
Oh, FFS. This was a rout. Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #90
I hope you're right angrychair Oct 2013 #101
Doesnt medicaid already do something similar? Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #102
can't compare it...yet angrychair Oct 2013 #104
Actually, it has been defined. jeff47 Oct 2013 #106
There is no new income verification term added to the ACA. SunSeeker Oct 2013 #130
impressive angrychair Oct 2013 #135
*** Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #88
Bullshit. We were scammed again by corporatists in both parties. woo me with science Oct 2013 #93
+1 leftstreet Oct 2013 #100
You should probably know the difference between a budget and a continuing resolution before jeff47 Oct 2013 #105
Excellent post. Thanks. nt SunSeeker Oct 2013 #131
+1000. thanks woo. kath Oct 2013 #139
I would call it Nerves of steel, or a steel spine Whisp Oct 2013 #97
Yes he did, it was reasuring to see! DrewFlorida Oct 2013 #98
And tits of titanium. nt valerief Oct 2013 #118
He was pretty sexy with the consistent NO! trublu992 Oct 2013 #120
... showing a rectum of wrought iron. MiddleFingerMom Oct 2013 #122
Except the entire "crisis" was a load of crap Corruption Inc Oct 2013 #123
+1 kath Oct 2013 #140
Well Done Barry! Well Done! Wolf Frankula Oct 2013 #127
He really did DissidentVoice Oct 2013 #128
A salute to Pres Obama from this vet! livingwagenow Oct 2013 #132
He is not going to run again he has nothing to lose and everything to gain as seen. 4bucksagallon Oct 2013 #133
As libdude Oct 2013 #134

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
113. thanks from me too.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 07:18 PM
Oct 2013

plus, "nerves of steel" is dignified, befitting the excellent President of the United States, who is dignified.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
138. Old white male signing on
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 11:07 AM
Oct 2013

to acknowledge the same pet peeve.

And I'll add "cojones" and any other references to testosterone-producing organs as applied to courage, fortitude and the American Way. That stuff always grates on me.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
71. Thank you, nice to see I am not the only one noticing.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 03:36 PM
Oct 2013

And thanks. I will be checking DU tomorrow the the Big Day team signup, yay!

BlueCaliDem

(15,438 posts)
4. Yep. He made right what he's made wrong in 2011.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 12:13 PM
Oct 2013

NO MORE playing games and giving in to Republican demands in return for them doing their job. And it's paying off for the president. He'll be just as tough come January and February when the House of Teapublicans will get to do a do-over again, and most likely will try this shit again, not seeing that we'll be in an election year by that time which will hurt them at the polls.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
5. Another sign of character: learning from one's mistakes.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 12:14 PM
Oct 2013

He hasn't acknowledged it, but his decision to play ball with Boehner on the debt ceiling in 2011 will easily go down as his biggest mistake. But he recognized it, learned from it, and most importantly cleaned up that mess.

AnneD

(15,774 posts)
99. ITA...
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 05:15 PM
Oct 2013

I wish he had chosen his cabinet better. Too much WS influence. And taking Universal Care of as a bartering chip before the negotiations???? He has bargained very poorly for four years, maybe he has finally gotten the hang of it. Hope he doesn't give away Social Security in the process.

ChiciB1

(15,435 posts)
43. For So Many Of Us Here... YES IT IS!
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 01:58 PM
Oct 2013

May he continue and truly understand that WE will stand with him, if HE stands with us!

CakeGrrl

(10,611 posts)
59. Some of us ALWAYS stand with him
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:39 PM
Oct 2013

Call it cheerleading or apologism or whatever else, some of us always know who the REAL enemy is.

Now where is that "Can't trust Obama" thread that got +100 recs just a few short weeks ago?

Ah yes...

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023622685

We'll see if those who were on this bandwagon stay consistent. Not to attack you, but the situational celebrations are a bit trying for people who consistently support (not worship) the President against unprecedented opposition.

ChiciB1

(15,435 posts)
142. Good That You Feel As You Do...
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 11:56 AM
Oct 2013

For me it's kind of like this. This will be weird to some.

I like almost every vegetable you can imagine, and will eat some I don't like. So when I'm offered one that I really like and start eating it enthusiastically, say maybe tomatoes, I want my tomato to be one I really enjoy. But then I get a tomato, which I still like, but get half way through and it turns out to be mushy with a bad texture. That does not mean I then dislike all tomatoes, but I will try to remember where I got that tomato at that point in time. So, since I would prefer my nice tomato, I know there are still good tomatoes and my preference is to find one. Can't find good tomatoes all the time though, some aren't going to taste as good in winter as they are in summer. Still I don't give up on tomatoes, I eat them regardless but not with any zest.

So along comes summer and even THAT place that had the kind of mushy tomato has some really good tomatoes. And that place is closer and more convenient than having to look further, well then I go back and say I'm so glad you have good tomatoes again, I REALLY missed you.

Make any sense to anyone?

Robbins

(5,066 posts)
8. Agreed
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 12:14 PM
Oct 2013

Both he and Reid deserve credit.

They got 98 percent of what they wanted.The tea party lost.

If they try this crap In January/February what makes anyone think now obama and reid will cave.Trying this crap again only helps a
2014 democratic wave.

DireStrike

(6,452 posts)
11. Next time the Republicans won't have as many facts against them
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 12:17 PM
Oct 2013

It is provable that they engineered this shutdown, that they refused 18 budget conference requests, that they were quite happy about this shutdown and the leadership thought it was a stupid idea.

Next time they will all be on the same page from day one. All they have to do is claim "democrats won't negotiate" again, and it will work next time.

We're talking about a month and a half here. Americans generally can't remember what they had for breakfast 5 minutes ago.

 

Swede Atlanta

(3,596 posts)
23. I suspect you may be right.....
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 01:02 PM
Oct 2013

While I wish they had pushed the dates much further out...at least a good 6 months....

Obama said if you re-open the government and give me a clean debt ceiling increase we can talk

Now we have to see if the Republics take him up on his offer - i.e. negotiate in good faith.

The question will be if the Republics in the Senate will actually block attempts to go to budget negotiation conference with the House and if discarding the sequester in favor of a more targeted, understandable, deficit reduction framework can be accomplished.

Time will tell....

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
12. Agreed. The difference as I see it, Obama was willing to risk his own legacy for the future to
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 12:19 PM
Oct 2013

protect future Presidents from this skullduggery...said so many times. He believed in himself and his actions. Yet, he did not once negotiate his legacy accomplishment, the ACA, created for the benefit of the people here and now and into the future.

Cruz swashbuckled Boehner into a position where he, and the Tea Party, have lost not only political legacies, but looked stunningly selfish with their "Me and Mine" and "Too bad for you and yours".

 

frog64

(40 posts)
92. nailed it
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:57 PM
Oct 2013

yes, a real leader does this. He was protecting future presidents from blackmail. I will put him in the top ten for that right now, regardless of how the economy or AHCA turns out.

 

libdem4life

(13,877 posts)
103. Thanks..and I'm sure I'm not the only Democrat who was holding their breath for awhile. I give
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 05:34 PM
Oct 2013

the chances of a repeat anytime soon, after the political dust settles, pretty damn low. The Moderates are coming out of the bunker and I think they will listen to the overwhelming success stories and the online glitches will fade into the dustbin of media hype.

Snake Plissken

(4,103 posts)
21. He just kicked back and let the America watch the baggers fight over the gun to shoot their toes off
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 12:51 PM
Oct 2013

Please proceed baggers,

Dopers_Greed

(2,640 posts)
22. I think Obama has won me back
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 12:57 PM
Oct 2013

He lost a lot of my support because of the NSA and drone policy, but I don't have a single bad thing to say about his handling of the Teabag Party and their fake crisis.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
24. What a stupid, sexist, immature and childish thread title.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 01:04 PM
Oct 2013

"Balls" implies that a positive trait (i.e. courage or strength) is related to manliness or emanates from one's testicles, and that by extension women are unable to be as aggressive or courageous because they "lack balls"... or if used in context of a woman, they are less like a women because they convey these traits.

</soapbox>

VWolf

(3,944 posts)
30. I prefer "intestinal fortitude"
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 01:23 PM
Oct 2013

Besides, having balls of steel would be quite uncomfortable.

On edit: He's happens to be a man, so he has balls. He's been unwavering, so he has balls of steel. If he were a woman, the phrase "ovaries of quartz" would be more appropriate.

deutsey

(20,166 posts)
31. I prefer "courage"
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 01:24 PM
Oct 2013

Not everyone with balls (steel or otherwise) has courage. And plenty of people without them do.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
49. And I don't like it when they do it either.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:15 PM
Oct 2013

So your point is if commentators and figures we agree with do or say something wrong, that makes it alright for the rest of us to as well?

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
50. It's not right or wrong. It is your Victorian sensibilities
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:18 PM
Oct 2013

And I've seen plenty of members be aghast at one non-pC remark and then cheer other ones.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
53. My Victorian sensibilities?
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:24 PM
Oct 2013

Are you fucking kidding me?

Also, bullshit. Most who stand up against bigoted and insensitive crap here do it universally, and I'm willing to bet a lot who do otherwise let something slide do so because they weren't aware of it.

You on the other hand tend to proudly and vocally post offensive or insensitive crap.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
58. You brought it on yourself.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:37 PM
Oct 2013

When someone mentioned how that term is insensitive, you could have just heard them out and learned why. If you had disagreed, you could have politely said so or asked for clarification.

Instead, you went with the tired old equivalent of "why won't you feminists just relax" and acted like a fool. This is all on you.

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
62. I never called out feminists or women for that matter
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:43 PM
Oct 2013

I disn't even check your profile to know if you were male or female.

I know PC when I see it. It is evident all over this thread. My point was larger than this thread or use of "balls" which I do find overly crass myself. I am just fed up with the constant sniping and "reeducating" that goes on here when the post itself was not an offensive sentiment.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
64. Wow, incredible.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:49 PM
Oct 2013

There has to be constant reminders about offensive terminology and language because it's so culturally ingrained. People who refuse to change snipe at the people who take it on themselves to do the reminding.

And whether I'm male or female doesn't have a thing to do with this in the slightest. Whether the OP was intending to be offensive or not, the language is. Even gold people can screw up, but they cease to be good people when they refuse to correct themselves.

It's not "crass", you're just uncomfortable with offensive crap being called for what it is, for whatever reason.

denbot

(9,899 posts)
68. Steel ovaries just doesn't have the same ring to it.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 03:00 PM
Oct 2013

Besides, it should have a male inflection since the President is currently a man.

whopis01

(3,514 posts)
114. Well that's because they are internal to the body and won't swing into each other
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 07:32 PM
Oct 2013

and ring like a bell in the same way balls of steel would.

Or did you mean something else when you said "doesn't have the same ring to it"?

Patiod

(11,816 posts)
115. Thank you. I'm not appalled or aghast
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 07:40 PM
Oct 2013

I just think backbone is less overtly sexist. Of course guys don't understand why it's sexist. They think "having balls" is naturally better than not having balls.

"Balls" means, frankly, that you're a guy and not a woman, and I just don't find that to be superior to NOT having balls.

Spine or intestinal fortitude, courage or guts - that doesn't rely on not being female as a good thing. I know Colbert and Stewart love those phrases, but what do you expect from people who rely on mostly-male writers' rooms? It doesn't upset me to the point that I'd turn it off, but it's just sort of obnoxious.

It's kind of like saying "mighty white of you", assuming that white is better and wondering why a non-white person might not care for that phrase

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
116. Exactly.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 07:46 PM
Oct 2013

Most men, and even many women, really are blind to the barrage of sexism that exists in our society - slight or obvious all the time. And, yeah, I'll call it out when I hear it in real life or read it online in a community from which I expect better. It doesn't make me a killjoy as is stated in this thread. It doesn't mean I was 'aghast' or that my 'nose was bent'. I saw it and I stated how I felt.

So... thanks for 'getting it'.

leftstreet

(36,108 posts)
74. Uh yes it is
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 03:50 PM
Oct 2013

Giving you the benefit of the doubt, you may be too young to know this

The term's original meaning was quickly snarked into a coded wink-nudge to dismiss social criticism concerning equal rights

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
75. It's etymology is thus: early 20th century socialists used it as
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 03:57 PM
Oct 2013

A rebuke of Communists who were more focused on party line rather than outcomes of policy.

In the early 70's it was picked up by the New Left as follows:

In the 1970s, the New Left had adopted the term political correctness;[5] hence, in the essay The Black Woman: An Anthology (1970), Toni Cade Bambara said that “a man cannot be politically correct and a [male] chauvinist, too.” In the event, the New Left then applied the term as self-critical satire, about which Debra Shultz said that “throughout the 1970s and 1980s, the New Left, feminists, and progressives ... used their term politically correct ironically, as a guard against their own orthodoxy in social change efforts”.[5][6][7] As such, PC is a popular usage in the comic book Merton of the Movement, by Bobby London, which then was followed by the term ideologically sound, in the comic strips of Bart Dickon.[5][8] In her essay “Toward a feminist Revolution” (1992) Ellen Willis said: "In the early eighties, when feminists used the term political correctness, it was used to refer sarcastically to the anti-pornography movement’s efforts to define a “feminist sexuality”"[9]


http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Political_correctness

It was not used by conservatives in a perjorative sense until the early 90's
 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
76. And in what sense are you using it?
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:04 PM
Oct 2013

Because it sure doesn't seem to involve the Communist Party line or an injoke with the New Left.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
79. You used it as a perjorative in the context of discussing offensive patriarchal language.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:07 PM
Oct 2013

But then again, you knew that.

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
82. Aye yah!!! You don't want to concede any point
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:12 PM
Oct 2013

Certainly not that I might know what I'm talking about as evidenced by proof. What have you brought to the table? Attacks on my opinion that sometimes DU resembles the Pharisees who were constantly trying to prove who was most righteous.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
85. Someone pointed out a sexist term and explained why it's offensive.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:18 PM
Oct 2013

You reacted by screaming political correctness.

Now several people have called you on it, and you still refuse to acknowledge that. The fact you considered the post some form of petty political correctness shows you don't understand why it's offensive, or that you do know why and just don't care.

The former could've been fixed by just asking for clarification. The latter is abhorrent. Which one is it?

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
94. why was what they did "pointing out" and yet what pretzel warrior did was "screaming"?
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 05:02 PM
Oct 2013

Were there an exceptional amount of exclamation points involved in the "screaming" post?

I think you should check yourself and thoroughly examine why you feel entitled to brazenly mischaracterize other people's communications in such a manner.

leftstreet

(36,108 posts)
77. So you admit it is a pejorative
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:05 PM
Oct 2013
It was not used by conservatives in a perjorative (sic) sense until the early 90's


Interesting
 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
80. Can be used in that way. It can also be used within a group
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:09 PM
Oct 2013

To remind one another we are too focused on keeping our language "free of impurities" and becoming ludicrous.

leftstreet

(36,108 posts)
83. Oh, now it 'can be used that way'
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:13 PM
Oct 2013

What happened to 'uh no it's not' ??



And now you're suggesting that civilized discussion of equal rights is forcing 'impurities' into our language?

My, my

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
84. I've disproven your assertion that PC is merely a right wing term
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:18 PM
Oct 2013

So you can quit while you're behind. You've now gone and misinterpreted my last statement to you to an opposite meaning from that which I clearly intended.

I'm done with this ridiculously PC sub-thread and hope it was as educational for you as it was boring for me.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
108. Six of one, half a dozen of the other...
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 06:18 PM
Oct 2013

"So you can quit while you're behind...."

And you too could simply be respectful of others. Six of one, half a dozen of the other...

"hope it was as educational for you as it was boring for me..."
Education is often "boring" to the under-educated and the sub-literate who like to pretend they are ore clever, wise and mature that they actually are.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
87. Exactly. I definitely remember it being used un-ironically when I was in college in the 80s.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:48 PM
Oct 2013

By people on our side who were dreadfully serious and earnest.



Perhaps not terribly surprisingly, they weren't exactly the fun folks to party with.

 

truebrit71

(20,805 posts)
86. Right???
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:26 PM
Oct 2013

Can't even have one brief moment of celebration without SOMEONE getting their noses bent out of joint...

FYI, the President is a man. Men have balls. His happen to be made of steel.

GET.OVER.IT.

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
111. My nose wasn't bent. I wasn't 'aghast'. And if you can't wrap your brain around the explaination
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 06:53 PM
Oct 2013

I gave as to *why* it's stupid, immature and sexist then *you* GET.OVER.IT.

"balls" are not required for courage, fortitude or strength.

 

truebrit71

(20,805 posts)
136. Yes mom....sorry....
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:54 AM
Oct 2013


And yes, balls, great big steel ones were needed to face down the teahadists and the President has been sorely lacking in them up to this point...
 

truebrit71

(20,805 posts)
143. Oh yes they were...and for the very first time Obama used his...
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 12:49 PM
Oct 2013

....great big shiny steel balls...His testicular fortitude was breathtaking to behold....finally...he backed up his rhetoric with actions...

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
107. I used to rationalize the irrational too.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 06:14 PM
Oct 2013

I used to rationalize the irrational too. Them, before I knew it, third grade was over and I grew up. Just a head's up that being civil, respectful, tolerant and polite is not the same a being PC, regardless og how you may justify it otherwise...

Insert distinction without a difference here...)

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
126. Let's put it this way. I know I have been insensitive
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 10:54 PM
Oct 2013

And I also know I have been judges harshly by the PC crowd. No worries. I'm not trying to justify or defend anything I've said. I am defending the "Obama's got balls of steel" comment because it is not demeaning to anyone.

Enrique

(27,461 posts)
119. you are wrong
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 09:19 PM
Oct 2013

it is a complaint that goes back on du to the bush years. you wouldn't know because it had nothing to do with obama, no one had even heard of him, and people had their own thoughts, among which was the flaw in the op's language.

 

Pretzel_Warrior

(8,361 posts)
141. I was here in 2003 and though there was good comment
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 11:53 AM
Oct 2013

Rebuking anyone who called women b**** . And that is a good thing. My point, proven every day here is the DU pc police apply their umbrage very unevenly.

mac56

(17,569 posts)
109. Remind me not to drink out of the DU punchbowl this evening.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 06:34 PM
Oct 2013

Some people are just hell-bent to add their ingredients to it.

DonCoquixote

(13,616 posts)
32. Mr. President
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 01:29 PM
Oct 2013

If you had stood this way back in 2008, we would be in much better shape, but there was a part of you that really wanted to believe that the GOP would se reason. Doubtless the "pragmatists" are working overtime to ensure that part of you grows back, do not. Rip that out by the root!

Also ask yourself if the left was right on this matter, how many other matters are we right on? You dipped yout feet in the water, and you know the water is a lot warmer than the center, go ahead,take a swim, you might find you are in your true element, instead of being the fish out of water you were in your first term.

aaaaaa5a

(4,667 posts)
34. In his first term Obama saved America from the 2nd Great Depression and killed Bin Laden.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 01:31 PM
Oct 2013


In his second term he has saved the American Presidency and implemented the ACA, rivaling only FDR with SS and LBJ with Medicare in US Presidential history.




Um... not too bad!

Scalded Nun

(1,236 posts)
37. Sure glad to see this fortitude. The country wins on this one.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 01:39 PM
Oct 2013

Voted for him twice as well.

I will say, though, that I do not think the right would have been so willing to push this had he not caved on important issues in the past. Their miscalculation was thinking he would cave on his legacy.

Would sure love to see this doom the TPers.

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
40. President Obama is the same man he's always been. Perceptions are what have changed.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 01:52 PM
Oct 2013

This was one of the best laid traps I've ever seen sprung. To put it mildly, quoting Biden, "Don't*Ever*Play*Chess*With*That*Man".

What looked like retreat in the past was no more than allowing the enemy to push him exactly where he wanted to go. Now they've totally unmasked themselves and committed virtual political suicide. What could be better than that, I ask?

For all who've been asleep or even napping this long hard winter, I answer: Nothing!

CakeGrrl

(10,611 posts)
42. +1000
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 01:56 PM
Oct 2013

Just because some latelys are just now seeing it doesn't mean it wasn't always there.

Like it or not, the VOTERS are responsible for bringing this ugly Congress to Washington, not just the MSM enablers. There was never any question for some of us who was the real enemy and the only choice.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
45. As one who has regularly criticized his
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:00 PM
Oct 2013

corporate-friendly polities, among other things, he did good on this one. There was NO WAY he could have/should have backed down on this. He done good.

indepat

(20,899 posts)
51. May BHO stand just as firmly on ever issue until January 20, 2016, and put back on the table
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:21 PM
Oct 2013

everything heretofore conceded to Repukes since January 20, 2008, crushing with gusto every Repuke's political balls in the process.

FredStembottom

(2,928 posts)
52. See?
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:23 PM
Oct 2013

Now DU is united.
As I have been pointing out for years, we were only divided because the Dem leadership divided us.

Isoldeblue

(1,135 posts)
55. I think he gives most people the
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:28 PM
Oct 2013

benefit of the doubt, to be better. Until he finds out they can't and won't - be better. Then it's "FU". He is no one's fool!!!

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
61. I'm just happy I don't have to bemoan another capitulation...
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 02:42 PM
Oct 2013

Its nice to see him finally stand firm in the face of the anarchists and lunatics in the GOP.

Now, Mr. President, about that closing Guantanamo Bay and the Patriot Act and the NSA and the expansion of the police state...at least he has removed the "always caves to Republican demands" tag...baby steps I guess...although at this rate, we would be looking at the middle of his fifth term* to get to those issues...

*Yes, I KNOW you can only be elecetd twice...its called hyperbole!! Sheesh...some people have no sense of humor!

angrychair

(8,699 posts)
70. hate to be a downer
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 03:35 PM
Oct 2013

But, as written, we still made concessions. Income verification will become a new stick for the teacups to beat up the poor. Not to mention a concession, even a small one, empowers these nutjobs to do it again. Yes, we won the battle...but we lost the war.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
81. I don't know
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 04:12 PM
Oct 2013

I doubt they'd feel that the beating they've taken in the polls was worth it. We have at least some chance at taking the House in 2014. We had no real chance before this.

angrychair

(8,699 posts)
101. I hope you're right
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 05:29 PM
Oct 2013

And, because of this, we don't start hearing stories of people who apply for healthcare and only make $12, 000 a year being dragged through an IRS audit to prove they need the subsidy. The more red tape and hoops you create the less likely people are to do it. "Income verification" could become the teacups poison pill for the ACA.

angrychair

(8,699 posts)
104. can't compare it...yet
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 05:55 PM
Oct 2013

The "income verification" concession has not been defined yet. The implication of the wording would denote a invasive process that ensures income standards are being met but for right now it falls under the header "the how is what are to be determined at a later date".
My intent is not to piss in the pool but to make the point we made concessions when we said we would not. This was not a "clean CR" and nothing less should be acceptable. Yes, the teacups blinked...but so did we. When you are dealing with rabid dogs, a twitch, that blink, is the only response they need to know that, in the end, they will be the only one walking away whole.

jeff47

(26,549 posts)
106. Actually, it has been defined.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 06:05 PM
Oct 2013

HHS gets to decide the details. HHS IG is supposed to certify the verification is effective in July.

Considering the ACA is heavily involved with the IRS, it's really not hard to see how "income verification" will work.

Send paystub. If no paystub, send last year's tax forms. If no tax forms, you're either breaking the law, or making so little money you aren't receiving a subsidy and thus are not subject to income verification.

SunSeeker

(51,559 posts)
130. There is no new income verification term added to the ACA.
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 02:53 AM
Oct 2013

As Rachel Maddow explained tonight, the income verification provision is already in the ACA; this "concession" amounts to little more than a clarification that this term is in fact there and will be enforced. Rachel used the analogy of saying it is about as much of a concession as Dems letting the GOP call the day after Tuesday "Wednesday." In other words, they got nothing.

On the other hand, the Dems got a whole lot. The debt ceiling is raised and the government is back open while the GOP is finally forced to negotiate a new budget that will get away from the sequester terms (after refusing Dems' 21 separate requests to do so over the last year). What no one is talking about (only Rachel pointed it out tonight) is that the Dems ALSO got a whole list list of funding items tacked onto the debt ceiling legislation:
1. Colorado flood recovery 
2. Wildfire recovery
3. Wildfire prevention 
4. Ohio River Construction project 
5. Payment of $174K owed to former Senator Frank Lautenberg's widow 
6. Privacy and Civil Liberties Oversight Board 
7. LI-HEAP (low income heating assistance)

And that passed the House tonight with 87 GOP votes. It is a resounding victory over the Tea Party's attempted economic coup.

Be happy.

angrychair

(8,699 posts)
135. impressive
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 09:48 AM
Oct 2013

I didn't get to watch RMS last night. I stand corrected. I hope that this is a portent of things to come.

woo me with science

(32,139 posts)
93. Bullshit. We were scammed again by corporatists in both parties.
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 05:01 PM
Oct 2013

Let's not forget what really happens as a result of this deal. And let's not forget how we got here.

Let's remember this critical point made by DUer, cui bono:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10023864395

But what is in the bill being passed is a budget with sequestration. A bill with less spending than Ryan's budget.


And let's repeat a post by leveymg that also explains what is really going on here:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=3839411

67. It's because this lunacy is all a quite rational way to propel the Center-Right Austerity agenda.

That's precisely why I don't believe this BS about 40 Teahadis being responsible for the "crisis."

A partial shutdown suits the deficit hawks in both parties just fine, since it's been adjusted so it doesn't actually impact payrolls in the military and Intelligence agencies. This is simply austerity and cuts to social programs without anyone having to actually vote for it, and that's making the Center-Right smile.

Of course, they won't allow actual default of the debt - the "threat" of that just another psychological device to make this seem like a real crisis. It's not - it's simply austerity by default.



It has caused and will cause more pain to the 99 percent, and it never should have gone this far. The faux fiscal "crisis" should have been utterly rejected by a Democratic President TWO YEARS ago. Let's remember how we got started down this road of sequestrations and shutdowns in the first place. Republicans should have been slapped down hard then. Instead, the axe of sequestration was embraced by Democrats, and we got soaring speeches about eating our peas. None of this should have happened at all. It was orchestrated by corporatists in both parties, and now we have perpetual rule by shock doctrine. This is not a win, except for corporate thieves in both parties.

Every single deal, every single orchestrated crisis, every single shock doctrine scam moves us further into corporate slavery. We are being played by both corporate parties, over and over again.




jeff47

(26,549 posts)
105. You should probably know the difference between a budget and a continuing resolution before
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 06:01 PM
Oct 2013

claiming that this is a loss that is utterly irreversible. Hint: Debate on spending levels are going to come up again in 2 months.

You should probably also understand that this:

A partial shutdown suits the deficit hawks in both parties just fine, since it's been adjusted so it doesn't actually impact payrolls in the military and Intelligence agencies.

Is false. Not only were civilians in both the military and intelligence agencies furloughed, but only soldiers got paid. That's a wee bit of an impact on payroll.

The faux fiscal "crisis" should have been utterly rejected by a Democratic President TWO YEARS ago. Let's remember how we got started down this road of sequestrations and shutdowns in the first place. Republicans should have been slapped down hard then.

TWO YEARS ago, the Republicans had massive victories at the polls. If you win a massive victory, you set the agenda.

Don't like it? Well then perhaps whining about Obama not getting enough done in his first two years wasn't the best strategy in 2010. Perhaps busting our asses as in 2008 and 2012 would have been a better plan.

kath

(10,565 posts)
139. +1000. thanks woo.
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 11:47 AM
Oct 2013

And thanks to cui bono and leveymg for their reality-based posts quoted here. (Soooo sick of the politics-as-a-team-sport mentality)

 

Corruption Inc

(1,568 posts)
123. Except the entire "crisis" was a load of crap
Wed Oct 16, 2013, 10:26 PM
Oct 2013

I doubt the American people will like the taste of "balls of steel" when criminal "austerity measures" come up in Jan.

Go team go, LMFAO!

Wolf Frankula

(3,601 posts)
127. Well Done Barry! Well Done!
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 12:02 AM
Oct 2013

When you stand up to the bullies, you can beat them. It makes me glad I voted for you, Mr. Obama.

Wolf

DissidentVoice

(813 posts)
128. He really did
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 01:07 AM
Oct 2013

Mr. President, props and more props.

You didn't cave when the Tea Potty crybabies tried to undo what you did with the ACA.

Would that all Democrats would develop such a backbone.

libdude

(136 posts)
134. As
Thu Oct 17, 2013, 08:48 AM
Oct 2013

Bob Dylan said " you don't need a weatherman to tell which way the wind blows ". The real credit goes to those in Congress that stood firm against this extortion, that put the long term interests of the American people first. It was.good to have the President keep a low profile and not make this issue about him, just giving the right wing extremist more ammunition to divert the issue.
This was an important gut check for the Democrats in order to create a post-Obama approach to governance. Now the real test will be during the negotiations and will they start with the usual start in the middle offers to compromise or continue to hold a hard line fir the American people.

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