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joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
Fri Oct 11, 2013, 06:08 PM Oct 2013

A very sad update, the little 2-year-old has died...

A 2-year-old son of Minnesota Vikings star running back Adrian Peterson died on Friday in a Sioux Falls, S.D., hospital, the victim of alleged abuse by a man dating the boy's mother, police confirmed.

Peterson's father Nelson confirmed Friday afternoon that the child is Adrian Peterson's. Peterson met with the media Friday, hours before the boy passed away, and said at the time he still planned to play in Sunday's game against Carolina, but declined to get into details about the case.

Peterson posted a statement on his Twitter account after news of the child's death.

"Thank you to my family, my fans and fans of other teams for their support. The NFL is a fraternity of brothers and I am thankful for the tweets, phone calls and text messages from my fellow players. God Bless everyone and thank u so much," Peterson wrote.

http://www.usatoday.com/story/sports/nfl/vikings/2013/10/11/adrian-peterson-son-critical-condition/2966015/

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A very sad update, the little 2-year-old has died... (Original Post) joeybee12 Oct 2013 OP
This is so awful. nt octoberlib Oct 2013 #1
There should be a brutal punishment for anyone who would hurt a baby Heather MC Oct 2013 #2
I think it's sad that AP says he's focused on the game and will play on Sunday. Brickbat Oct 2013 #3
We all deal with grief in our own way . . . Journeyman Oct 2013 #6
I agree. Maybe helps him not think about it. I would be the same way. n-t Logical Oct 2013 #13
he never met the child. cali Oct 2013 #22
How very sad. The man has a family violence record! The Mom should have never moved to his home. Sunlei Oct 2013 #4
This happens a lot YarnAddict Oct 2013 #8
According to the local news this guy has a prior record for abusing another woman and her child. dflprincess Oct 2013 #15
When it comes to men, YarnAddict Oct 2013 #18
Having a child is often what helps a woman get out of a relationship or break the cycle. dflprincess Oct 2013 #19
"I can change him" YarnAddict Oct 2013 #21
Why. Wait Wut Oct 2013 #5
Poor Child, Condolences to A.P. vt_native Oct 2013 #7
. Rex Oct 2013 #9
That poor kid. I can't believe he's still going to play on Sunday LittleBlue Oct 2013 #10
My mother died on thanksgiving day, 1981... awoke_in_2003 Oct 2013 #11
or anything to distract from that horrible feeling JI7 Oct 2013 #17
I heard that. Babies that age are wonderful. :( roguevalley Oct 2013 #12
My son is 2 years old. Barack_America Oct 2013 #14
sad, Liberal_in_LA Oct 2013 #16
It's both sad and common for a boyfriend to abuse tillikum Oct 2013 #20
Peterson didn't know the child was his until recently and had never met him. cali Oct 2013 #23
Let the poster's have their fantasy about the strong father and the evil mother who is to blame... PassingFair Oct 2013 #24
 

Heather MC

(8,084 posts)
2. There should be a brutal punishment for anyone who would hurt a baby
Fri Oct 11, 2013, 06:14 PM
Oct 2013

And I don't care what any one thinks about me saying this
I hope he suffers daily in prison for his crime if he is found guilty

Journeyman

(15,035 posts)
6. We all deal with grief in our own way . . .
Fri Oct 11, 2013, 06:34 PM
Oct 2013

I can't measure my pain against another's bereavement. He could be burying his sorrow in his work. I've done that.

 

YarnAddict

(1,850 posts)
8. This happens a lot
Fri Oct 11, 2013, 07:24 PM
Oct 2013

The new boyfriend has no vested interest in the last guy's kid. A relationship dissolves, and the mom moves on, thinking she can make a nice new family with her kid and the next guy to come along, but it doesn't always work out that way.

dflprincess

(28,079 posts)
15. According to the local news this guy has a prior record for abusing another woman and her child.
Sat Oct 12, 2013, 12:09 AM
Oct 2013

It also said the mother had "recently" begun a relationship with the jerk and had moved in with him.

I cannot understand why any woman would let her child anywhere near a man with that kind of record. She should be charged as an accessory.

 

YarnAddict

(1,850 posts)
18. When it comes to men,
Sat Oct 12, 2013, 09:19 AM
Oct 2013

some women can be just plain stupid. My niece was in one abusive relationship after another. She has a little boy now, and fortunately she realized they are both better off if she doesn't get into another relationship.

dflprincess

(28,079 posts)
19. Having a child is often what helps a woman get out of a relationship or break the cycle.
Sat Oct 12, 2013, 10:01 PM
Oct 2013

It's pretty common that an abused woman will end a relationship with an abuser when she fears he is about to (or has already) turned on the kids. That's why I can't understand someone with a child getting involved with some oaf who has already pled guilty to abusing another girlfriend's child.

 

YarnAddict

(1,850 posts)
21. "I can change him"
Sun Oct 13, 2013, 09:24 AM
Oct 2013

I think that's at the heart of a lot of these situations, especially when women are young and naive. "All he needs is the RIGHT woman, to turn his life around." Doesn't make sense, but lots of us can look back and see a relationship in our past that was more of a project than a relationship.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
5. Why.
Fri Oct 11, 2013, 06:26 PM
Oct 2013

Not a question, a statement. The question has been asked for centuries without an answer.

It's time to make a statement. There is no answer this monster could give that would give reason.

Stop the damned circle. Report suspected abuse/neglect. If you are a victim of childhood abuse/neglect, heal yourself or find someone that can help you heal.

Damn it. That poor baby. Imagine the fear.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
10. That poor kid. I can't believe he's still going to play on Sunday
Fri Oct 11, 2013, 07:29 PM
Oct 2013

He must be very strong emotionally, I'd be a wreck.

RIP

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
11. My mother died on thanksgiving day, 1981...
Fri Oct 11, 2013, 10:36 PM
Oct 2013

I was 13. I buried it for so long, trying to be brave for my younger sisters. In my mind i had to live up to the ridiculous ideal we place on men via movies, media, etc. In my case, at least, I wouldn't call it strength- in the long run the suppression was a weakness on my part. You just can't see that when you are in the middle of it.

Barack_America

(28,876 posts)
14. My son is 2 years old.
Fri Oct 11, 2013, 11:50 PM
Oct 2013

I can't even imagine. There's a local story here about a man beating his little 5 month daughter to death.

The violence we see against children these days is just crushing. It just seems to worsen as income inequality does. So much fear, anger and hatred these days.

 

tillikum

(105 posts)
20. It's both sad and common for a boyfriend to abuse
Sat Oct 12, 2013, 10:13 PM
Oct 2013

another mans children. Often with compliance from the mother.

We aren't that far out of the cave after all.

PassingFair

(22,434 posts)
24. Let the poster's have their fantasy about the strong father and the evil mother who is to blame...
Sun Oct 13, 2013, 09:43 AM
Oct 2013

for it all.

The cycle of violence is HER fault.

Not the non-present father or the monstrous "boyfriend" SHE subjected him to.

Stop repeating the truth about this story.

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