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nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:15 PM Oct 2013

DUer DirkGently could use your prayers/positive thoughts right now

Last edited Tue Oct 8, 2013, 11:05 PM - Edit history (3)

I wanted to address this to GD b/c this is where he posts.

Dirk is in surgery for a ghastly leg break (compound, pilon fracture: both tibia and fibula, with some joint involvement). He fell off a ladder this weekend -- it happened in a split second.

They've scheduled 2.5 hours for the procedure. He's about 30 minutes into it right now and I'm worried b/c I perceived a lack a coordination with his pre-op team...so maybe throw some of those positive thoughts my way too. I'm kicking myself that I didn't "interrogate" things a little further. I feel like if something happens it will be on me. Nurses seemed tired and confused about his anesthesia. Everyone looked harried.

His doc is amazing and I have the utmost trust in him -- this is his second surgery for plates and screws. I'm sure once the doc is there everything will be fine.

He hasn't posted much since the accident, but I want you to know that DU has kept him positive and engaged, and gave him something to focus on other than pain and worry. When he was getting extra anxious we changed the topic to the shutdown and how evil and stupid the Republicans are -- this had an amazingly good impact.

He values the community here and looks forward to recovering in a recliner with his iPad and good conversation in between trying to work from home.

I believe in the power of positive thinking...so, perhaps I'm really just trying to adjust my own attitude -- I left quite aggravated to come home and feed the dogs. His parents are in the waiting room. I just had to get it off my chest. This is going to be longest 2 hours ever.

update -- going back to the waiting room. he should be out in about 30-45 minutes! will take iPad for updates!

UPDATE 2 -- doc just came and said he's done and did great! two plates, one for tibia one for fibula. he has a nerve block that's going to keep him in the hospital another 24 hours. phew! He made it! no weird reaction to anesthsia...as the worst case scenario, that's therefore automatcally where i go

omg...thank you SO MUCH for the encouragement! i think i just got worn down!


UPDATE 3 -- post-op delerium...patient complains the Koch Brothers are keeping him from getting ice to make his throat feel better --

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DUer DirkGently could use your prayers/positive thoughts right now (Original Post) nashville_brook Oct 2013 OP
Best wishes and we will need that leg back in shape to kick GOP ass. grantcart Oct 2013 #1
that is exactly the kind of thing that will motivate him! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #9
Oh my goodness! Sending all the get well vibes I can... ScreamingMeemie Oct 2013 #2
it's not usually like me to be a worry-wart nashville_brook Oct 2013 #20
Sending good healthy healing thoughts his way madokie Oct 2013 #47
thank you! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #66
That's scarey BobbyBoring Oct 2013 #109
they are bad luck! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #211
Talked like him too, a bit. DirkGently Oct 2013 #227
i had a moment when i expected ping pong balls to fall from the ceiling. nashville_brook Oct 2013 #232
He had the voice, too. DirkGently Oct 2013 #248
sending out loving, healing thoughts RainDog Oct 2013 #3
So sorry to hear this. He is in my prayers. hrmjustin Oct 2013 #4
Sending good Karma his way! redstatebluegirl Oct 2013 #5
Thinking of you both. enlightenment Oct 2013 #6
i had kept my what-ifs under control until today nashville_brook Oct 2013 #167
Delighted to see that! enlightenment Oct 2013 #169
Sending healing vibes to DirkGently! City Lights Oct 2013 #7
Sending good vibes... NYC_SKP Oct 2013 #8
focusing on his amazing surgeon! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #11
It sounds like a complicated break with pins and all. NYC_SKP Oct 2013 #19
they did emergency surgery the night it happened to put everything back in place nashville_brook Oct 2013 #71
Wow! A generation or two ago that leg would have not made it, I gather. NYC_SKP Oct 2013 #82
yes, that's essentially the fixture -- they attach it inside to the bone, and it tightens outside nashville_brook Oct 2013 #90
Get well soon Dirk. FSogol Oct 2013 #10
ha! you know what's funny is that i followed him in the ambulance and the only item nashville_brook Oct 2013 #14
Good thing you didn't panic. n/t FSogol Oct 2013 #18
i had just left the house -- checked out the work he was doing on a tree nashville_brook Oct 2013 #25
Calmness during disaster is a good quality to have. FSogol Oct 2013 #29
oh yeah, he was totally in shock -- he was more concerned that the EMS guys weren't nashville_brook Oct 2013 #43
LOL. A towel is just about the most massively useful thing any interstellar Hitchhiker can carry. Electric Monk Oct 2013 #104
Definitely thinking positive thoughts for DG! Here's hoping for a petronius Oct 2013 #12
Keeping him in mind TuxedoKat Oct 2013 #13
Ah jeez leftstreet Oct 2013 #15
Hang in there big guy!! Buddaman Oct 2013 #16
My best vibes coming his way. May he have a speedy recovery. myrna minx Oct 2013 #17
Oh no...good thoughts for him... joeybee12 Oct 2013 #21
So sorry to hear about this, strong and loving arthritisR_US Oct 2013 #22
Sending good vibes to both of you... redqueen Oct 2013 #23
thanks redqueen...just talking about it is helping immensely! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #32
I've gone thru this.... 2 plates 12 screws, He'll be fine. Ellipsis Oct 2013 #24
yes, i think he's doing two plates -- did you have joint involvement? nashville_brook Oct 2013 #28
yes... shoulder socket, and I had bone chip as well on top of the humorous... Ellipsis Oct 2013 #52
Good Vibes coming your way! KelleyD Oct 2013 #26
Best wishes, and I am looking forwards to conversations over dueling Ipads nadinbrzezinski Oct 2013 #27
gotta love the iPad for DU-ing! we've spend many rainy weekends doing just that. nashville_brook Oct 2013 #36
To be honest, I have one. And I forget it half the time nadinbrzezinski Oct 2013 #39
one day we'll be able to just think at it :) then we're in real trouble! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #73
Here's wishing him a speedy recovery. lpbk2713 Oct 2013 #30
(((((vibes!)))) I hope his recovery is smooth and trouble free nt riderinthestorm Oct 2013 #31
Making with the positive waves, man Fumesucker Oct 2013 #33
AWESOME! that's exactly the state of mind i'm looking for!! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #38
Fantastic picture, thanks! One of my favorite guys. IrishAyes Oct 2013 #144
good vibes to you Dirk ! nt steve2470 Oct 2013 #34
May all go better than expected, Dirk. blogslut Oct 2013 #35
All the best to you & Dirk. Tarheel_Dem Oct 2013 #37
Give him my best. yellerpup Oct 2013 #40
May he have a safe & speedy recovery. William769 Oct 2013 #41
Best wishes dendrobium Oct 2013 #42
this i what i've been telling everybody, that right now is the easy part nashville_brook Oct 2013 #53
Don't worry, they probably are tired, but that's their daily life AAO Oct 2013 #44
comparing his experience in Florida Hospital to my experience in Tennessee hospitals nashville_brook Oct 2013 #63
Tenn. hospitals ain't that bad Go Vols Oct 2013 #171
Sending good vibes to KT2000 Oct 2013 #45
Get well soon Dirk! Paulie Oct 2013 #46
Sending positive thoughts Sienna86 Oct 2013 #48
we're looking forward to your update in which everything went smoothly renate Oct 2013 #49
i will know something in about an hour, i hope! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #54
Ouch! silverweb Oct 2013 #50
Sending good thoughts! dorkzilla Oct 2013 #51
Best wishes. nm rhett o rick Oct 2013 #55
(((...))) handmade34 Oct 2013 #56
Good vibes and best of everything to Dirk and to you Bluenorthwest Oct 2013 #57
Ouch! Calming, healing vibes to you both. SaveOurDemocracy Oct 2013 #58
Sending healing thoughts. gademocrat7 Oct 2013 #59
Oh My! kentuck Oct 2013 #60
as soon as he's sober i'll show him the thread...he'll be floored :) nashville_brook Oct 2013 #67
wishing him a speedy recovery. liberal_at_heart Oct 2013 #61
Good vibes and a prayer for a quick recovery. n/t westerebus Oct 2013 #62
So very sorry! wendylaroux Oct 2013 #64
best of luck on that leg Dirk rurallib Oct 2013 #65
Clogging! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #76
Here are some powerful positive thoughts from Beverly Hills, Sherman Oaks, and louslobbs Oct 2013 #68
from west coast to east! thank you!! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #74
k&r Liberal_in_LA Oct 2013 #69
So sorry and positive vibes to you both! JimDandy Oct 2013 #70
Good wishes and prayers headed his way Gothmog Oct 2013 #72
sending positive thoughts JI7 Oct 2013 #75
You got it! pacalo Oct 2013 #77
(((vibes))) Starry Messenger Oct 2013 #78
We sing this at services in my temple Gothmog Oct 2013 #79
that is beautiful -- thank you! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #93
Positive thoughts and best wishes for a speedy recovery. n/t Gormy Cuss Oct 2013 #80
Sending Positive Thoughts ... rustysgurl Oct 2013 #81
Wishing a speedy recovery! LiberalEsto Oct 2013 #83
All good thoughts to Dirk! Squinch Oct 2013 #84
Get better soon, {{DirkGently}}! WinkyDink Oct 2013 #85
Sending love and light to both of you, and to all the medical staff involved in his care. scarletwoman Oct 2013 #86
awwww! you know, that's sometimes the hardest part... nashville_brook Oct 2013 #92
With the surgeons they have in modern medicine LittleBlue Oct 2013 #87
somehow we lucked out with an amazing ortho institute on our side of town nashville_brook Oct 2013 #96
Great LittleBlue Oct 2013 #105
Strength & healing to ya, DirkGently! n/t TygrBright Oct 2013 #88
Best wishes, Dirk! cristianmarie533 Oct 2013 #89
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~positive waves~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ madrchsod Oct 2013 #91
Best of luck with this surgery and recovery. icymist Oct 2013 #94
Prayers, good thoughts, Unknown Beatle Oct 2013 #95
Oh NO!!! One of DU's absolute FINEST! PassingFair Oct 2013 #97
he'll love that! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #127
A card for you made by me! Generic Other Oct 2013 #98
i LOVE this! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #158
WOW. Thank you. THANKS EVERYONE for all the kind words DirkGently Oct 2013 #223
Sending vibes malaise Oct 2013 #99
Positive thoughts coming his way! Sissyk Oct 2013 #100
Thanks for letting us know, nashville_brook. We'll be waiting, and sending good thoughts! calimary Oct 2013 #101
In my thoughts. Came within a couple inches of that myself a couple years ago when the ladder fell. leveymg Oct 2013 #102
sending healing thoughts from the north riverbendviewgal Oct 2013 #103
Best wishes to Dirk! Hayabusa Oct 2013 #106
Sending positive thoughts. ozone_man Oct 2013 #107
My thoughts, wishes & prayers are with you both. Jackpine Radical Oct 2013 #108
I'm a retired Navy nurse. dgibby Oct 2013 #110
dirk is one of those patients who worries about being a good patient! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #123
omg, I had no idea! bunnies Oct 2013 #111
Best wishes for a speedy recovery. juajen Oct 2013 #112
Best wishes and positive thoughts to Dirk onestepforward Oct 2013 #113
Good luck buddy. mahina Oct 2013 #114
Sending healing vibes and prayers to DirkGently for a Cleita Oct 2013 #115
Good thoughts on the way... GoCubsGo Oct 2013 #116
have him remember the gory details so he can get out of anything he doesn't want to do dembotoz Oct 2013 #117
Oh, I love Dirk. Blue_In_AK Oct 2013 #118
back in the waiting room...will know something soon i hope! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #121
Hope DirkGently gets well quickly. Good thoughts on the way. LoisB Oct 2013 #119
Vibes, juju, mojo, all things good coming your way Dirk! nolabear Oct 2013 #120
I wish him all the best! Update when you can! nt msanthrope Oct 2013 #122
Keeping DirkG in my thoughts... Hell Hath No Fury Oct 2013 #124
Sending good vibes TxDemChem Oct 2013 #125
Hey! Don't fall for us! hootinholler Oct 2013 #126
sending best wishes and hopes for a fast recovery! mike_c Oct 2013 #128
Oh, man. Get Well Soon!!!! Warren DeMontague Oct 2013 #129
Get well soon! xfundy Oct 2013 #130
Very very best thoughts! LeftishBrit Oct 2013 #131
Wow. I hope he heals quickly BumRushDaShow Oct 2013 #132
Best wishes for a speedy and comfortable recovery! Owl Oct 2013 #133
Here's to a holistic recovery! riqster Oct 2013 #134
I assume, by his user name... awoke_in_2003 Oct 2013 #135
i think he might have been trying that trick! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #159
Well, he needs to get it down... awoke_in_2003 Oct 2013 #168
Swift and gentle healing; good vibes to you both Hekate Oct 2013 #136
Best Wishes greatlaurel Oct 2013 #137
Praying for him. madashelltoo Oct 2013 #138
best wishes for a good outcome AtomicKitten Oct 2013 #139
() Jack Rabbit Oct 2013 #140
wishing the best for both of you, Dirk's health and your peace of mind carolinayellowdog Oct 2013 #141
Get well soon! amborin Oct 2013 #142
Please keep us posted and/or updated. dixiegrrrrl Oct 2013 #143
will update above too - he's out of surgery and doc is HAPPY with results nashville_brook Oct 2013 #146
That's great news! PasadenaTrudy Oct 2013 #149
Yay! Good news Mz Pip Oct 2013 #176
I hope and pray Dirk comes through this ordeal safely and quickly Uncle Joe Oct 2013 #145
Get better, DirkGently! graywarrior Oct 2013 #147
Keeping DirkGently in my thoughts for a speedy recovery. Autumn Oct 2013 #148
ain't that the truth nashville_brook Oct 2013 #162
As a relative newbie, I didn't know about either of you previously IrishAyes Oct 2013 #150
Prayers and healing for you gopiscrap Oct 2013 #151
I hope his recovery will be swift Warpy Oct 2013 #152
I'm old enough to remember something like this requiring traction.... Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2013 #153
me too - his bed actually has a pullup bar that reminds mme of those nashville_brook Oct 2013 #166
I hope he's enjoying his meds. Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2013 #172
probably not as much as one would hope nashville_brook Oct 2013 #230
That's because building rooms costs money that could go into the pockets of the rich. Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2013 #239
Sending good vibes! nt octoberlib Oct 2013 #154
DG, may you been healed and may it be quickly! meti57b Oct 2013 #155
Go slowly Dirk let yourself heal benld74 Oct 2013 #156
+10000000 nashville_brook Oct 2013 #231
sending good vibes for continued good results. eom ellenfl Oct 2013 #157
The one thing that Orlando, Florida does well is orthopedic surgery. Baitball Blogger Oct 2013 #160
it's almost as good as a ski town nashville_brook Oct 2013 #164
He is in my thoughts and prayers emsimon33 Oct 2013 #161
I'm so sorry to hear about his accident... KoKo Oct 2013 #163
k&r... spanone Oct 2013 #165
Sending healing vibes! RetroLounge Oct 2013 #170
bless his heart. Take care and get the therapy. roguevalley Oct 2013 #173
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2013 #174
sending positive, healing, gentle thoughts for both of you. thank you so much for keeping us niyad Oct 2013 #175
Speedy recovery! Rosa Luxemburg Oct 2013 #177
Yikes! Here's hoping for a speedy and complete recovery! opiate69 Oct 2013 #178
Delerium? Oakenshield Oct 2013 #179
Dirk! progressoid Oct 2013 #180
Best wishes to DirkGently CreekDog Oct 2013 #181
Live from my hospital bed -- thanks everybody! DirkGently Oct 2013 #182
^^^^ HE LIVES ^^^^ nashville_brook Oct 2013 #185
Take good care, Dirk. Blue_In_AK Oct 2013 #188
Glad the surgery went well - a word about recovery times Divernan Oct 2013 #195
Nope, my experience is reduced to crutches nadinbrzezinski Oct 2013 #233
Glad your doing well Boudica the Lyoness Oct 2013 #244
just remember... handmade34 Oct 2013 #249
Get well soon, DirkGently! Lugnut Oct 2013 #183
So sorry you're going through this! I know what it's like to have your life pnwmom Oct 2013 #184
it happens in a split-second -- we're so very fragile. nashville_brook Oct 2013 #186
I don't remember ever seeing so many recs on a post, nashville_brook. pnwmom Oct 2013 #187
it's a wonderful Get Well Card from DU! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #201
Thoughts and prayers for Dirk and his family and friends. DevonRex Oct 2013 #189
Is there any way he can send the bill to the Kock Bros? sabrina 1 Oct 2013 #190
I agree Gothmog Oct 2013 #197
they could surely afford it! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #212
That's good to hear nb. sabrina 1 Oct 2013 #219
Prayers being sent for a quick and complete recovery! KitSileya Oct 2013 #191
K&R. Forwarding healing vibes............nt Enthusiast Oct 2013 #192
Great to hear he is out of surgery and doing well. Sending love and light to both of you. Maraya1969 Oct 2013 #193
Glad he's coming thru ok. Granny M Oct 2013 #194
Best wishes! Looks like He's doing well. Work hard in PT!! It's worth it in the long run!! hue Oct 2013 #196
Get well soon DirkGently. OnyxCollie Oct 2013 #198
I'm glad to hear that everything is working out okay. Buns_of_Fire Oct 2013 #199
Get well soon! sinkingfeeling Oct 2013 #200
Best wishes for fast healing! LiberalLoner Oct 2013 #202
Sending good vibes. Skinner Oct 2013 #203
Please continue updates Yo_Mama Oct 2013 #204
the nerve block is starting to wear off nashville_brook Oct 2013 #214
yeah and it's necessary Yo_Mama Oct 2013 #220
Damn! Get better soon! MynameisBlarney Oct 2013 #205
time to recover + pain med dangers = 2 important things to remember! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #240
IMPORTANT cali Oct 2013 #206
^^^ flagging for Dirk ^^^ nashville_brook Oct 2013 #210
thank you so much. really wishing dirk the best cali Oct 2013 #213
great description...will read up on this too. nashville_brook Oct 2013 #216
here are a couple of links for you cali Oct 2013 #218
Glad to read that Dirk is doing ok! CrispyQ Oct 2013 #207
No, no, it was his leg that was broken and now it's... randome Oct 2013 #208
That's great news! ClusterFreak Oct 2013 #209
Best wishes to DirkGently!! MoonRiver Oct 2013 #215
My best wishes to both of you, nashville_brook pinboy3niner Oct 2013 #217
Hope all it going better!!! Peacetrain Oct 2013 #221
big ouch! no more ladder climbs! get well soon. Sunlei Oct 2013 #222
Glad to hear that he's going to be okay Boomerproud Oct 2013 #224
best get well soon card EVER! nashville_brook Oct 2013 #229
hugs from the other side of the Pond idwiyo Oct 2013 #225
Didn't see this earlier...so thankful the surgery went okay!!! Crossing my fingers for a swift dkf Oct 2013 #226
Gla d he made it through without any complications other than the Koch ice crises. LOL. Ranchemp. Oct 2013 #228
glad to hear he is doing well Liberal_in_LA Oct 2013 #234
heal fast and get back to DU soon tomm2thumbs Oct 2013 #235
:) nashville_brook Oct 2013 #236
Yay! tomm2thumbs Oct 2013 #237
That happened to a friend of mine; he had a long recovery. MADem Oct 2013 #238
THANK YOU for the update, nashville_brook! calimary Oct 2013 #241
A Big Ouch! Bryn Oct 2013 #242
Our hopes and prayers are for a full and speedy recovery. indepat Oct 2013 #243
You and Dirk are two of the best suffragette Oct 2013 #245
((((((( Good Vibes))))))) WillyT Oct 2013 #246
DUer DirkGently has my prayers/positive thoughts right now. bvar22 Oct 2013 #247

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
9. that is exactly the kind of thing that will motivate him!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:19 PM
Oct 2013

i've been keeping him up on the FL repubs who are going down with the ship: Yoho, Young and Webster. We want those seats BLUE, and they're doing all they can to help us make it so.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
2. Oh my goodness! Sending all the get well vibes I can...
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:17 PM
Oct 2013

I will keep him in my thoughts.

Try not to worry, although it's hard not to.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
20. it's not usually like me to be a worry-wart
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:24 PM
Oct 2013

his anesthesiologist looked like Captain Kangaroo and kept forgetting what he was doing. i'm running on caffeine and fumes right now...i'm sure he's had way more sleep than i. probably he was just trying to seem "casual."

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
66. thank you!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:48 PM
Oct 2013

they always say the patient gets all the good meds, while it's the family that could use some anxiety medication!

enlightenment

(8,830 posts)
6. Thinking of you both.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:18 PM
Oct 2013

Stay strong and continue with those positive thoughts. All the "what ifs" in the world don't mean a thing - and you know that's true.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
167. i had kept my what-ifs under control until today
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 11:21 PM
Oct 2013

so glad he's out and seemingly okay after 3.5 hours of surgery.

enlightenment

(8,830 posts)
169. Delighted to see that!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 11:31 PM
Oct 2013

And as the queen of "what if" (no, I frequently cannot practice what I preach), I know how those things can prey on your psyche, even when you're trying to be rational.

I hope you can sleep well tonight, knowing that he's past the danger and now just needs to recover.

My best to you both.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
19. It sounds like a complicated break with pins and all.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:24 PM
Oct 2013

Is it normal to wait day to do the surgery?

PS, I fell off a ladder during the summer of last year. Several broken ribs, they still hurt.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
71. they did emergency surgery the night it happened to put everything back in place
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:52 PM
Oct 2013

and they attached this CRAZY metal fixture that literally attached to the bones and tightened up on the outside -- kinda like a halo.

they had to let the swelling go down, which has taken 3 days...and they also gave him heroic amounts of antibiotics including vancomycin to make sure that anything he might have contacted with the open wound is beaten down into submission.

This surgery is for plates. if all goes well it will be his last. more surgeries will address anything that goes wrong...if anything goes wrong, of if he heals in a way that causes pain or disability.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
82. Wow! A generation or two ago that leg would have not made it, I gather.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:07 PM
Oct 2013

Modern medicine is amazing!

I went searching for images of "compound leg fracture immobilization fixture", but got pictures of scary accidents.

Eeeesh!

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
90. yes, that's essentially the fixture -- they attach it inside to the bone, and it tightens outside
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:15 PM
Oct 2013

all of his injury was down by the ankle. it was lighter weight, and kinda wrapped around to the back to the fibula.

and you're right! this is tricky surgery with a lot of possible complications including infection. his boot was hanging on just from flesh (ghastly!). i can easily imagine it being an amputation years ago.

FSogol

(45,487 posts)
10. Get well soon Dirk.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:21 PM
Oct 2013


“He felt like an old sponge steeped in paraffin and left in the sun to dry.” - Douglas Adams

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
14. ha! you know what's funny is that i followed him in the ambulance and the only item
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:22 PM
Oct 2013

i brought was a towel.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
25. i had just left the house -- checked out the work he was doing on a tree
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:27 PM
Oct 2013

cutting down a limb, and thought, no big deal. He didn't even seem to need help carrying it away.

10 minutes later i get a voicemail, in the calmest manner imaginable, "EMS is on the way. I'm lying in the driveway with a compound fracture. I'm not kidding."

Not a hint of panic in his voice -- just the facts.

FSogol

(45,487 posts)
29. Calmness during disaster is a good quality to have.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:29 PM
Oct 2013

Of course, that could be shock.

Hope to see him back soon.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
43. oh yeah, he was totally in shock -- he was more concerned that the EMS guys weren't
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:34 PM
Oct 2013

freaked out by it, and joked...they gave him morphine, which enabled that.

then...every med student in the hospital came by to see the rare and spectacular injury. couldn't help myself...i took a few pics with the iPhone b/c i know...one day...he'll be able to look at that and say, "shit, i made it thru that!"

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
104. LOL. A towel is just about the most massively useful thing any interstellar Hitchhiker can carry.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:33 PM
Oct 2013

Partly it has great practical value. You can wrap it around you for warmth as you bound across the cold moons of Jaglan Beta; you can lie on it on the brilliant marble-sanded beaches of Santraginus V, inhaling the heady sea vapours; you can sleep under it beneath the stars which shine so redly on the desert world of Kakrafoon; use it to sail a miniraft down the slow heavy River Moth; wet it for use in hand-to-hand combat; wrap it round your head to ward off noxious fumes or avoid the gaze of the Ravenous Bugblatter Beast of Traal (a mind-bogglingly stupid animal, it assumes that if you can't see it, it can't see you — daft as a brush, but very very ravenous); you can wave your towel in emergencies as a distress signal, and of course you can dry yourself off with it if it still seems to be clean enough.

More importantly, a towel has immense psychological value. For some reason, if a strag (strag: nonhitchhiker) discovers that a hitchhiker has his towel with him, he will automatically assume that he is also in possession of a toothbrush, washcloth, soap, tin of biscuits, flask, compass, map, ball of string, gnat spray, wet-weather gear, space suit etc., etc. Furthermore, the strag will then happily lend the hitchhiker any of these or a dozen other items that the hitchhiker might accidentally have "lost." What the strag will think is that any man who can hitch the length and breadth of the Galaxy, rough it, slum it, struggle against terrible odds, win through and still knows where his towel is, is clearly a man to be reckoned with.

Hence a phrase which has passed into hitch hiking slang, as in "Hey, you sass that hoopy Ford Prefect? There's a frood who really knows where his towel is."

http://hitchhikers.wikia.com/wiki/Towel


(get well soon, Dirk)

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
32. thanks redqueen...just talking about it is helping immensely!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:30 PM
Oct 2013

i can't unload this on his parents...they'll worry too much.

Ellipsis

(9,124 posts)
24. I've gone thru this.... 2 plates 12 screws, He'll be fine.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:27 PM
Oct 2013

They do amazing work now ... Physical therapy is super critical.


Stay in charge you're the client. Keep on em.



Best.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
28. yes, i think he's doing two plates -- did you have joint involvement?
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:29 PM
Oct 2013

both bones mostly sheared away from his joint, which is good, but there's some damage. He's been wearing the external fixture for a few days, and the swelling finally went down enough to finish the surgery.

flying is going to be extra fun now!

Ellipsis

(9,124 posts)
52. yes... shoulder socket, and I had bone chip as well on top of the humorous...
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:41 PM
Oct 2013

they had to suture back on as well as three breaks.

The surgeon was super excited, because of the complexity of the break, it was the worst he'd seen. 17" scar. He was really jazzed about a doing complex surgery. I imagine yours will be as well.... if they cut through the muscle which they almost have to it will take about a 14 months to fully heal.

He'll be flyin' all right...

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
27. Best wishes, and I am looking forwards to conversations over dueling Ipads
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:28 PM
Oct 2013

Tell the family, that even though they don't know us, we will have him in our thoughts.

And as to you, remember to take some time for yourself.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
36. gotta love the iPad for DU-ing! we've spend many rainy weekends doing just that.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:31 PM
Oct 2013

i might have to get him a little keyboard for it

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
39. To be honest, I have one. And I forget it half the time
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:33 PM
Oct 2013
Though I'd better remember to take it to fires, just in case I have to submit from the PHONE. I can do IPAD and on board keyboard. The phone, not really.

dendrobium

(90 posts)
42. Best wishes
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:34 PM
Oct 2013

I broke my leg last November and the worst part was after the surgery. I was basically helpless. I couldn't get around much. I really learned to appreciate who my true friends were. Some family and friends just disappeared. When they saw me on crutches, all they would say was "You still not walking?!". What I'm saying is that recovering from a broken leg is not just physical, but also psychological.
Take care Dirk. Feel free to vent when it gets too frustrating.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
53. this i what i've been telling everybody, that right now is the easy part
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:41 PM
Oct 2013

while he's in the hospital we have the most help we'll have for the whole ordeal. As soon as he comes home...with no IV pain meds, and no extra hands to help...that's when the real work begins.

the psychological part is no joke. most people don't have a serious injury until they break something, so there's no sense of disability. then you realize how limited it makes your world. no stick shift car. no walks with dogs. no going into the office for a while (which has it's own set of psychological issues).

Today was the first day since it all happened that he said felt "optimistic." the sun was out, the pain was down, and he was looking forward to the final surgery. up until then he was beating himself up -- as if he had done something dumb. i can tell you it was a freak accident. i would have never left if i thought he was in any danger.

 

AAO

(3,300 posts)
44. Don't worry, they probably are tired, but that's their daily life
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:35 PM
Oct 2013

They are professional, and will make sure of what they are doing. Of course, I could be wrong...

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
63. comparing his experience in Florida Hospital to my experience in Tennessee hospitals
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:46 PM
Oct 2013

is like night and day. i've had hospital envy thru the whole thing. great docs. great nurse to patient ratio. they even started PT the very next day he was in -- no laying in bed. they made him get into a reclining chair and have him changing the leg position every hour or so. just remarkable care.

then i go to pre-op with him and all of a sudden i feel like i'm at one of my Democratic events where everyone is casting about before showtime, figuring out what's needed of them.

seriously...i think i drank too much coffee. they're on top of it.

Go Vols

(5,902 posts)
171. Tenn. hospitals ain't that bad
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 11:37 PM
Oct 2013

The Bone and Joint Clinic in Franklin did a total knee replacement on me and I was walking the next day,stairs the next,then to home in 3 days total.

Wish him well.

silverweb

(16,402 posts)
50. Ouch!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:38 PM
Oct 2013

[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]What an awful accident!

Sending loads of positive vibes and healing thoughts.

You hang in there, too, nashville.



handmade34

(22,756 posts)
56. (((...)))
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:42 PM
Oct 2013

the best possible positive vibes going out to DirkGently and you been there, done that, only mine was a motorcycle accident... external fixator, then full leg cast, then metal rod and screws and etc., etc... I had 7 surgeries total and boy oh boy Doctors these days are amazing... took a long time and Dirk will go through a lot but will be OK!!

I can walk pretty normal, albeit with a big bad ass scar

Hey, hang in there

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
67. as soon as he's sober i'll show him the thread...he'll be floored :)
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:49 PM
Oct 2013

in a good way! i'm keeping off the floor, come what may!

louslobbs

(3,234 posts)
68. Here are some powerful positive thoughts from Beverly Hills, Sherman Oaks, and
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:50 PM
Oct 2013

Palm Springs California, from our family to yours. We wish Dirkgently a fast and full recovery.
Lou

JimDandy

(7,318 posts)
70. So sorry and positive vibes to you both!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 06:52 PM
Oct 2013

Had both of my legs broken, so I know what he is going through. Hang in there!

Gothmog

(145,264 posts)
79. We sing this at services in my temple
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:01 PM
Oct 2013

I find this prayer helps and hope that it helps here





I still remember Debbie Friedman singing this prayer at a concert at my temple many years ago.

Again, get well.

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
86. Sending love and light to both of you, and to all the medical staff involved in his care.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:13 PM
Oct 2013

I'm so glad you let us know what the two of you are going through, and gave us this opportunity to open our hearts and send healing thoughts.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
92. awwww! you know, that's sometimes the hardest part...
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:18 PM
Oct 2013

you want to go into your shell and spare people the news. but, wow! i feel so much better talking it out. i've known some of you guys here longer than my besties in IRL. and moreover, i think we talk about stuff that really matters to us in a way that's almost impossible to do in person.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
87. With the surgeons they have in modern medicine
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:13 PM
Oct 2013

even the most horrible breaks can be well treated. My cousin is an orthopedic surgeon, and from the stories she tells, DirkGently will be fine in no time.

My thoughts are with him. He won't need it, but good luck anyway.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
96. somehow we lucked out with an amazing ortho institute on our side of town
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:24 PM
Oct 2013

i really can't praise it enough. especially after my own experiences with very bad care in a hospital in Nashville.

they have a commitment to pain management like no other i've seen. it's quiet and calm. clean and low nurse to patient ratio. there's amazing new resources...every two rooms have an IT station where the caregivers can review orders and enter new data. i'm really amazed for it being a suburban annex of Florida Hospital.

 

LittleBlue

(10,362 posts)
105. Great
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:34 PM
Oct 2013

Sounds like a big time ortho institute. I'm sure injuries like this are so common they seem routine to those doctors.

Everything will be fine.

PassingFair

(22,434 posts)
97. Oh NO!!! One of DU's absolute FINEST!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:25 PM
Oct 2013

My offering, in his own words:

“If the Universe came to an end every time there was some uncertainty about what had happened in it, it would never have got beyond the first picosecond. And many of course don't. It's like a human body, you see. A few cuts and bruises here and there don't hurt it. Not even major surgery if it's done properly. Paradoxes are just the scar tissue. Time and space heal themselves up around them and people simply remember a version of events which makes as much sense as they require it to make.”


― Douglas Adams, Dirk Gently's Holistic Detective Agency

HEAL!!!!

DirkGently

(12,151 posts)
223. WOW. Thank you. THANKS EVERYONE for all the kind words
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 12:12 PM
Oct 2013

and good vibes. Must be working -- they say I can probably go home tomorrow. Home with a bucket of medication for pain and blood thinning, and with crutches and a walker. Figuring out how to shower at home should be interesting.



Sissyk

(12,665 posts)
100. Positive thoughts coming his way!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:27 PM
Oct 2013

Thanks for letting us know, nashville brook!

And, positive thoughts for you also as you watch over him!

calimary

(81,267 posts)
101. Thanks for letting us know, nashville_brook. We'll be waiting, and sending good thoughts!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:27 PM
Oct 2013

Think GREEN!!!! Light the green candle, imagine the color! It symbolizes healing, health, youth, vitality, springtime, renewal, and regrowth.

leveymg

(36,418 posts)
102. In my thoughts. Came within a couple inches of that myself a couple years ago when the ladder fell.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:32 PM
Oct 2013

Sheer luck that I landed on my feet between the rungs.

Speedy recovery.

dgibby

(9,474 posts)
110. I'm a retired Navy nurse.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:46 PM
Oct 2013

Tell him to listen to his nurses, 'cause for freakin' sure he doesn't want me to have to come down there!

Seriously, please give him my best. Good vibes and hugs to all.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
123. dirk is one of those patients who worries about being a good patient!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 08:19 PM
Oct 2013

and... such a great team of nurses on his floor! the must be treating everyone well here bc the staff is AMAZING. i'm settled down now from my initial worry about the confusion in pre-op... dont want that to color the opinion of the hospital overall. its truly a great facilty.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
111. omg, I had no idea!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:50 PM
Oct 2013

{{{ good vibes & warm wishes for you both }}}. I cant imagine how stressful and painful that must be.

juajen

(8,515 posts)
112. Best wishes for a speedy recovery.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:56 PM
Oct 2013

One day at a time, is really good advice. Listen to a lot of comedy and beautiful music.

mahina

(17,659 posts)
114. Good luck buddy.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 07:57 PM
Oct 2013

If it's any comfort, he picked the right bones to break. NOT the calcaneous! He is luckier than you may imagine!

Seeing him well and you resting.

Just a thought, probably your docs don't send guys home without a reminder but if they don't give you a urinal, get him something handy to pee in from his bed. We learned the very hard way...my ohana passed out after going to pee, and he really didn't need the complications that followed.

Just for the first day at least!

The other suggestion I'd make, having just gone through a little nightmare in our ohana, is to make a chart for the pain meds that won't be confusing even when the reader is sleep deprived and on said meds, and keep a flashlight handy.

Best best very best wishes, a quick recovery.

Reduce stress...breathe deep in 3 counts, hold 3, out 6 counts, repeat 10 times, you'll feel better!

A l o h a

dembotoz

(16,806 posts)
117. have him remember the gory details so he can get out of anything he doesn't want to do
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 08:03 PM
Oct 2013

screws and plates....he should be able to milk that for years.

more seriously
have him take care and listen to the doctors and nurses and stuff.
they generally know what they are talking about

but give em hell too

and take care

vibes and all that

xfundy

(5,105 posts)
130. Get well soon!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 08:40 PM
Oct 2013

I've got screws in my leg. Always gives you something interesting to talk about at parties!

Best of health to you, Dirk!

BumRushDaShow

(129,026 posts)
132. Wow. I hope he heals quickly
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 08:49 PM
Oct 2013

but hope he is patient and doesn't try to push too hard too early. I expect he'll want to be back up and doing things as soon as he can but it will take awhile. Sending good thoughts!

riqster

(13,986 posts)
134. Here's to a holistic recovery!
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 08:51 PM
Oct 2013

Sounds like you went through the long, dark teatime of the soul in that waiting room. All the best to you both.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
135. I assume, by his user name...
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 08:54 PM
Oct 2013

that he has probably read Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy. He show know the trick to flying is throwing yourself at the ground and missing. He should have hired someone to distract him . Tell him to get well.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
168. Well, he needs to get it down...
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 11:25 PM
Oct 2013

before he makes love to a woman, while flying and startling airline passengers

greatlaurel

(2,004 posts)
137. Best Wishes
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 09:06 PM
Oct 2013

Take care of yourselves and keep ahead of the pain once he comes home. My DH is recovering from a finger joint replacement and we found good pain management was critical. Get some help with the house work so you can get some rest. You will need it.

Good luck and good vibes are being sent your way from the Buckeye State.

carolinayellowdog

(3,247 posts)
141. wishing the best for both of you, Dirk's health and your peace of mind
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 09:09 PM
Oct 2013

You are both among my most-admired DUers.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
146. will update above too - he's out of surgery and doc is HAPPY with results
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 09:25 PM
Oct 2013

took almost three hours. 2 plates, one for tibia one for fibula. he has a nerve block thats going to keep him in the hospital for another 24 hours.

but, yay! he's out!

Uncle Joe

(58,363 posts)
145. I hope and pray Dirk comes through this ordeal safely and quickly
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 09:24 PM
Oct 2013

Strength and healing to him and his family.

Thanks for the thread, nashville_brook.

Autumn

(45,091 posts)
148. Keeping DirkGently in my thoughts for a speedy recovery.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 09:31 PM
Oct 2013

Take care of yourself also. This is the easy time (physically) for you so take what rest and peace you can get. to both of you.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
162. ain't that the truth
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 10:48 PM
Oct 2013

the real work begins in a couple of days when he gets home!

already getting casseroles in order

IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
150. As a relative newbie, I didn't know about either of you previously
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 09:41 PM
Oct 2013

But I'm very glad I happened to spot the OP and could rec it. Prayers and best wishes to all in your circle. I don't like bad things happening to anyone, but especially not people who seem so nice. You don't get such a massive outpouring of support unless you really are. As for his delight in hearing the political news, tell him I said an enemy of my enemy is a friend of mine already.

Warpy

(111,264 posts)
152. I hope his recovery will be swift
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 09:46 PM
Oct 2013

and that he won't need rehab after the cast comes off and will be able to walk without a cane within 3 months.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
230. probably not as much as one would hope
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 01:46 PM
Oct 2013

they've made the mistake of telling him that he can come home as soon as he's okay with no IV pain killers...i think this has set up a bad dynamic.

"I'm fine (teeth gritting). Really really fine (sweat pouring from brow)."


Baitball Blogger

(46,715 posts)
160. The one thing that Orlando, Florida does well is orthopedic surgery.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 10:24 PM
Oct 2013

Never had a problem with a doctor. I'm sure it will be fine.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
164. it's almost as good as a ski town
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 10:56 PM
Oct 2013

i'm floored at the quality and having major feelings of envy for being in a crappy ortho town when i had my injury!

but enough about me

he's out, i'm feeding him ice...still delerious

KoKo

(84,711 posts)
163. I'm so sorry to hear about his accident...
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 10:51 PM
Oct 2013

Give him Regards for his recovery and a from me.

Thanks for posting about this!

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
173. bless his heart. Take care and get the therapy.
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 11:38 PM
Oct 2013

keep working and you will be up and dancing again, sweetie. HUGS!

Response to nashville_brook (Original post)

niyad

(113,315 posts)
175. sending positive, healing, gentle thoughts for both of you. thank you so much for keeping us
Tue Oct 8, 2013, 11:52 PM
Oct 2013

updated! hey!! if he can complain about the kochroaches, we know his brain is still working!!

Oakenshield

(614 posts)
179. Delerium?
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 12:49 AM
Oct 2013

I bet the Koch brothers would be trying to make him uncomfortable if they could. They're really that demented imo. I wish your friend well, and hope he recovers quickly.

DirkGently

(12,151 posts)
182. Live from my hospital bed -- thanks everybody!
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 01:19 AM
Oct 2013

Just a a compound fracture I managed to incur trimming the tree. But I totally did wake up with nasville_brook feeding my scorched throat ice chips, convinced we were post Koch-pocalypse rebels hiding out in some kind steam tunnels beneath Atlanta. Actually several minutes before I got oriented there. Many drugs affecting my perspective. And The post-op space in this hospital totally feels like a rebel base. Just like Revolution on tv, but more plausible.

I am lucky to be an insured American, getting good care from good doctors in a good hospital near home.

Luckier still to have NB watching my back.

Thanks for all the good vibes -- gonna get some sleep and do whatever they tell me to to start healing this up tomorrow.

Anyone have an opinion on a good knee sling / walker?

/

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
185. ^^^^ HE LIVES ^^^^
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 01:34 AM
Oct 2013

I'm exhausted, and he's got the good drugs, so I'll let Dirk take it from here.

3.5 hours in surgery -- his surgeon was exhausted when he came out. here's hoping everything is put back together again!!

Divernan

(15,480 posts)
195. Glad the surgery went well - a word about recovery times
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 08:06 AM
Oct 2013

I had nearly 3 hours of surgery (which went well). My doc told me to take 6 weeks off of work (desk job) for recovery, but I'd told my bosses I was sure I'd be back in 2 or 3. I figured I'd be bored out of my mind at home and my job had little physical demand to it. Wrong. Something about the length of time under general anesthesia - left me weak as a kitten. I totally needed the entire 6 weeks. So take it easy on yourself - except when your physical therapist pushes you. PT is really critical and makes a ton of difference in recovering mobility/strength. Water walking is great for the legs, if you have access to a YMCA or other indoor pool.

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
233. Nope, my experience is reduced to crutches
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 01:51 PM
Oct 2013

I have used them so often I own a pair.



You take it easy ok. And as the meds really wear off, the pain will hit you. Just flow with it. And after that, be a good kid and do your therapy religiously, even if at times it will hurt. Yup, that is from experience.

 

Boudica the Lyoness

(2,899 posts)
244. Glad your doing well
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 02:54 PM
Oct 2013

I was three months non-weight bearing on my right ankle after total ankle replacement. I loved my knee scooter and used it for over three months. Great around the house and shopping. I'm not sure it would be suitable for your surgery though. Here's the link to a knee scooter. It looks like the one I had. My insurance covered the rental;

http://www.amazon.com/Roscoe-Knee-Walker-Scooter/dp/B004M466YY

pnwmom

(108,978 posts)
184. So sorry you're going through this! I know what it's like to have your life
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 01:24 AM
Oct 2013

turned upside down in a moment. All of a sudden you're a patient -- what a shock.

Last year my brother broke his back and had to have it bolted and plated together. Very scary stuff but it all worked out.

Sending positive thoughts your way. Try to get some rest yourself!




DevonRex

(22,541 posts)
189. Thoughts and prayers for Dirk and his family and friends.
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 02:11 AM
Oct 2013

It sounds like there will be some long days ahead. If you need to talk or scream don't hesitate. I'm always willing to listen. we've recently gone through a difficult time ourselves so I know how it is.

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
190. Is there any way he can send the bill to the Kock Bros?
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 02:24 AM
Oct 2013

Thanks for the updates, it is good to know he has done so well and I hope he recovers as fast as possible.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
212. they could surely afford it!
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 11:20 AM
Oct 2013

he's ready to leave the hospital already -- the docs might have to use restraints!

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
191. Prayers being sent for a quick and complete recovery!
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 03:59 AM
Oct 2013

I'm glad he got through surgery well (that you both got through surgery well!) and now I wish him as painless a recovery as possible.

Granny M

(1,395 posts)
194. Glad he's coming thru ok.
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 07:04 AM
Oct 2013

Probably not post op delerium. The kochs really are keeping his ice chips away. The bastards.
Seriously, I wish him a very speedy recovery.

Buns_of_Fire

(17,180 posts)
199. I'm glad to hear that everything is working out okay.
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 09:34 AM
Oct 2013

For such fragile creatures, we tend to be remarkably resilient. Get well soon, and remember that the Kook Brothers may be taking all the ice, but George W. Shit-fer-Brains made off with the good scotch several years ago anyway.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
214. the nerve block is starting to wear off
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 11:25 AM
Oct 2013

he's really wanting to get out of the hospital -- but, I bet that as this block wears off and it's evident that the IV pain meds are needed, he'll cool his jets.



they have employed all sorts of amazing high tech stuff -- machinery to keep the leg cool with ice pumping thru the bandages and other stuff to keep blood from pooling in the other leg.

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
220. yeah and it's necessary
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 11:44 AM
Oct 2013

He's gotta stay put until they get his recovery to a certain point. You have to be able to move around enough not to develop blood clots.

In the initial stage, they often do all that you describe and then passive movement. I sympathize greatly, because I can't even drive past one without the urge to escape, but he needs to be there for a bit. Until he can move around on his own a bit without risk of undue swelling, he has to be there.

MynameisBlarney

(2,979 posts)
205. Damn! Get better soon!
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 10:08 AM
Oct 2013

I had reconstructive surgery on my shoulderblade and collarbone a few years ago, it took 6 months to recover, your recovery will probably be at least that long. I have some friendly advice for you.
Don't get too happy with the pain meds,before I realized it, I was popping hydrocodones like Pez. I felt myself getting addicted and told my doctor, he reduced the dosage and strength of the pills gradually.
I still needed them for a while, until over the counter pain killers could do the job.

Good luck and get well soon!

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
240. time to recover + pain med dangers = 2 important things to remember!
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 02:26 PM
Oct 2013

The pain meds enable us to "get back to it" quicker...which we need to do to get back to work...but it's all too easy to use them as a shortcut to that feeling of "wellbeing." when they're making you too "happy" it's time to dial them back and get thyself to PT.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
206. IMPORTANT
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 10:25 AM
Oct 2013

I really want dirk to get this message.

this sounds much like my break of 2 years ago. Smashed my tibia and fibula- had to have an IM rod, 2 plates. My initial surgery was 4.5 hours. I had 2 subsequent surgeries and ended up with a year before the bones healed entirely.

but worse, I ended up with Complex Regional Pain Syndrome which I believe should have been caught much earlier. I complained about the symptoms for 3 months before anyone attributed it to anything but the breaks.

CRPS sucks and they say the earlier you catch it, the better. Not sure why that is, but that's what I've read.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
210. ^^^ flagging for Dirk ^^^
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 11:18 AM
Oct 2013

This is something I've experienced since my osteomyelitis. You expect that once you're out of the woods, all patched and recuperated that you're done. But the body sometimes has a different idea.

These chronic pain syndromes are serious business and generally you don't get enough information about it when you're discharged. My experience was no pain management info from my ortho. No pain information from my GP. A nurse whispered to me that I needed to see a pain doc, as if it was a dirty secret.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
213. thank you so much. really wishing dirk the best
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 11:24 AM
Oct 2013

My ortho guy is great but it still took him too long to send me to a specialist. If dirk feels any burning pain, pins and needles that won't abate, numbness, he should let his ortho guy/gal know and ask about CRPS which is different from most chronic pain syndromes and is not uncommonly the result of a traumatic injury. CRPS often isn't just about pain- changes in skin, disfigurement, etc.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
216. great description...will read up on this too.
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 11:30 AM
Oct 2013

It's a new one on me, and I thought I had a vast knowledge of pain!

Thank you!

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
208. No, no, it was his leg that was broken and now it's...
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 10:43 AM
Oct 2013

...never mind. Good to hear you're going to be okay, Dirk!
[hr][font color="blue"][center]A ton of bricks, a ton of feathers. It's still gonna hurt.[/center][/font][hr]

ClusterFreak

(3,112 posts)
209. That's great news!
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 10:49 AM
Oct 2013

I'm one of those 'worst case scenario' types myself, so I know what you must have been going through. Glad to hear that DirkGently came through the surgery and things are looking up!

Boomerproud

(7,952 posts)
224. Glad to hear that he's going to be okay
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 12:22 PM
Oct 2013

Update #3 was a keeper. Thanks for keeping Duers up to date. Notice the number of replies wishing Dirk well-obviously he has touched many lives.

nashville_brook

(20,958 posts)
229. best get well soon card EVER!
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 01:42 PM
Oct 2013

i introduced Dirk to DU a few years ago. he was reluctant at first to jump in, but i told him that we need thoughtful/measured voices like his.

He's such a good writer, and moreover, he believes we're all real people who deserve to be taken seriously and treated nicely. He's one of those very special people who can disagree without being disagreeable.



 

dkf

(37,305 posts)
226. Didn't see this earlier...so thankful the surgery went okay!!! Crossing my fingers for a swift
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 12:39 PM
Oct 2013

Recovery.

Get well soon DirkGently!!

 

Ranchemp.

(1,991 posts)
228. Gla d he made it through without any complications other than the Koch ice crises. LOL.
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 12:43 PM
Oct 2013

Best wishes for a full and speedy recovery.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
238. That happened to a friend of mine; he had a long recovery.
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 02:20 PM
Oct 2013

Bright spot, though--he did recover.

And that was twenty to thirty years ago...they're much better at the whole healing process thing nowadays than they used to be back in the old days....

Bryn

(3,621 posts)
242. A Big Ouch!
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 02:31 PM
Oct 2013

It makes me feel his hurt. I am sending positive energies for his quick recovery. I imagine that this won't be fun for a while, but am glad surgery went well. Hugs ...

indepat

(20,899 posts)
243. Our hopes and prayers are for a full and speedy recovery.
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 02:45 PM
Oct 2013

PS Please urge and insist that all recommended therapy is fully performed without fail.

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
247. DUer DirkGently has my prayers/positive thoughts right now.
Wed Oct 9, 2013, 03:36 PM
Oct 2013

He also has my respect for his thoughtful, informative, and well composed posts at DU.

Get Well Soon.

Scary story.
I spent a lot of time on a ladder doing repairs and upgrades on our cabin getting ready for Winter. We will be on the roof cleaning out the stove pipe this afternoon.

Since we are currently uninsured, an accident like this could take everything we have.
It can and does happen in the blink of an eye.
We will be covered under the ACA (if we can ever get registered online).


Prayers/positive thoughts for Dirk right now,
and extra care working on the roof today.

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