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IDemo

(16,926 posts)
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 01:27 PM Sep 2013

Psychology of a fanboy: Why you keep buying the same stuff

None of us want to admit it, but chances are we're all fanboys of something. Whether it's a particular brand of software, gadget, or anything else, we often rally behind companies and ideologies without even realizing it. Here's why we become fanboys and how to prevent it from happening to you.

By definition, a fanboy (or fangirl) is someone who defends their favorite phone/politician/city/browser/OS/game/console/genre/etc. while attacking everything else. Whether it's the blind trust in the next iPhone, a rallying argument about President Reagan, or a fervent argument for the PS4 over the Xbox One, we like to pick sides and stick to them. This alone is obnoxious, but it causes more than just minor annoyances: it means we attach ourselves to brands and can't think critically about the choices we make when shopping.

As a result we waste money and buy crappy products based solely on who makes them. There's no single reason this happens, but we do know a few things about basic human nature that explains why a lot of people tend to become fanboys.

All kinds of factors play into fanboyism, but there's one theory that explains where it starts:social identity theory. Social identity theory suggests that your idea of self-concept is derived from the social group you identify with. When you're part of a group, you're more likely to sympathize and treat other members of the group with rewards. Essentially, it helps you define "us" and "them," which our brain likes to do.

http://www.nbcnews.com/technology/psychology-fanboy-why-you-keep-buying-same-stuff-8C11162082


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Psychology of a fanboy: Why you keep buying the same stuff (Original Post) IDemo Sep 2013 OP
Particularly apt in politics. nt LWolf Sep 2013 #1
It's okay to be loyal, it's not okay to be deluded. dkf Sep 2013 #2
The third one - choice supportive bias - is what I've always thought petronius Sep 2013 #3
We're running out of Reagan fanboys. Spitfire of ATJ Sep 2013 #4
Sounds like a fanatic. Rex Sep 2013 #5
It's elementary Watson 99th_Monkey Sep 2013 #6
Good observation. n/t Egalitarian Thug Sep 2013 #10
Show me a bandwagon and I'll jump off it. tblue Sep 2013 #7
I'm an ex Apple fan boy. Initech Sep 2013 #8
you want I should kick your ex-Apple fanboy ass, Intech? Skittles Sep 2013 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author guyton Sep 2013 #9
Do you have any information to support this assertion? I'm not denying that this phenomenon exists, Egalitarian Thug Sep 2013 #11

petronius

(26,602 posts)
3. The third one - choice supportive bias - is what I've always thought
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 02:37 PM
Sep 2013

was the most important, not just in 'fanboyism' but in repetitive buying habits in general. We want to be right in our decisions, so making a different decision at a later time would retroactively call the original decision into question. Very uncomfortable...

It also wouldn't surprise me if those who do convert are often the fiercest critics of the original choice - "I used to use XYZ exclusively, but they did blahblahblah which was a complete betrayal and now they freaking SUCK!"

 

99th_Monkey

(19,326 posts)
6. It's elementary Watson
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 04:04 PM
Sep 2013

elementary school that is,
where everything in sight & beyond,
all of human knowing is ratcheted down,
into being only ONE of TWO choices,
right v. wrong,
true v. false,
yes v. no, etc.
creating a distorted binary field of psychic vision.

Us v. Them <-- appeals^to^this^same^impulse

tblue

(16,350 posts)
7. Show me a bandwagon and I'll jump off it.
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 04:25 PM
Sep 2013

I wasn't born to follow. Just not in my DNA.

I don't put people down for their attachments, and I understand some see the world only through the prism of allegiances. But when they assume everyone else does too, that's when they get on my nerves: Don't ascribe your proclivities to me. I don't unconditionally adhere to anyone I don't know personally and just because I agree with someone on something, it doesn't mean I follow them or support them and anything ekse they say or do. Some people cannot wrap their brains around that concept, but I probably can't change that, and I don't really care. That's more about them than it is about me.

Initech

(100,087 posts)
8. I'm an ex Apple fan boy.
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 04:29 PM
Sep 2013

I got really tired of OS X and really hated the small screen of the iPhone, and decided to go back to PC, and now I will only buy PCs that I can build myself and I'm even looking at trading my iPad for a Microsoft Surface. I also switched after years of AT&T to Sprint and am really liking Sprint's service so far.

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Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
11. Do you have any information to support this assertion? I'm not denying that this phenomenon exists,
Sun Sep 15, 2013, 04:41 PM
Sep 2013

but I think that the belief that it is genetic in origin is false. If it were "hardwired", it wouldn't require life-long conditioning and reinforcement and would be universal. We are social by nature, but I think mistrust is learned.

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