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Do not regret growing older (Original Post) DainBramaged Aug 2013 OP
Older, wiser, more awesome Hydra Aug 2013 #1
Embrace the gray hair! Lugnut Aug 2013 #2
That's what I say... Johnny Noshoes Aug 2013 #14
Nope I don't. As long as hair color companies are in existence, I will never be gray. n/t RebelOne Aug 2013 #22
Hair? Enthusiast Aug 2013 #24
Haha! My 5 yr old grandson last week Skidmore Aug 2013 #38
I'm starting to get those worry lines between my eyebrows. Oh, well. I have had plenty to worry liberal_at_heart Aug 2013 #41
First off, I call my silver streaked hair "sterling".....just sounds so much more rich. a kennedy Aug 2013 #49
Old age is precious. Too many are denied it Autumn Aug 2013 #3
I'll be 60 next year... Johnny Noshoes Aug 2013 #15
True, but getting old is not painless. . B Calm Aug 2013 #4
Oh I know, boy do I know DainBramaged Aug 2013 #6
I hear ya there rl6214 Aug 2013 #50
no shit n/t medeak Aug 2013 #10
I've told people that if I woke up one morning and nothing was hurting, Arkansas Granny Aug 2013 #35
I hear you. I realized a few days ago that Skidmore Aug 2013 #39
Easy for you to say, you young whippersnapper. Comrade Grumpy Aug 2013 #5
I grew up singing "Hope I die before I get old" whttevrr Aug 2013 #7
One thing I learned as I aged N_E_1 for Tennis Aug 2013 #8
Fortunately, thanks to denial, I'll never have to worry about it! NuclearDem Aug 2013 #9
You are always the same age inside DainBramaged Aug 2013 #12
I used to be "Meathead"........ Ernesto Aug 2013 #11
I'm lovin' it malaise Aug 2013 #13
I hear ya, my husband turned 68 last week and he is still trying to get over turning 40. a kennedy Aug 2013 #51
Isn't that the truth malaise Aug 2013 #55
If you are VERY Lucky, and don't swim with sharks, bvar22 Aug 2013 #16
K & R SunSeeker Aug 2013 #17
Age is great stuff. Spirit grows younger and stronger, more flexible and vital. Love it. toby jo Aug 2013 #18
Yes, it is a privlidge; it is also expensive. russspeakeasy Aug 2013 #19
No Way To Argue That! ProfessorGAC Aug 2013 #20
You have a very smart friend. Rex Aug 2013 #21
I am 74, and I hate being this old, but it is better than the alternative, RebelOne Aug 2013 #23
that's what I say around birthdays dana_b Aug 2013 #28
I LOVE growing older. Le Taz Hot Aug 2013 #25
Nowadays, this is my favorite song. RebelOne Aug 2013 #26
Im not getting older...im getting bitter Gin Aug 2013 #27
Absolutely! You have be tough to get this far. Arkansas Granny Aug 2013 #37
I think about all my childhood friends HockeyMom Aug 2013 #29
Me too, all the time DainBramaged Aug 2013 #30
I always liked what Herb Caen had to say about aging... ljm2002 Aug 2013 #31
To a point 99th_Monkey Aug 2013 #32
How many more generations will there be in which a person can grow old gracefully? skip fox Aug 2013 #33
Ditto. Blue_In_AK Aug 2013 #47
My mom died in her early thirties. I am 37. I will never be ashamed to admit my age. liberal_at_heart Aug 2013 #34
so true!!! GalaxyHunter Aug 2013 #36
I'm glad to have lived to 62, for sure, but I wish my goddamned knee didn't hurt so much. Nay Aug 2013 #40
For all of us "oldies", good night DainBramaged Aug 2013 #42
The only thing I miss is my body. Now, I'm much wiser, Egalitarian Thug Aug 2013 #43
very wise thoughts, I'll have to remember them on my 55th in a few weeks steve2470 Aug 2013 #44
There's nothing to be done about it.. and I do appreciate still Cha Aug 2013 #45
I miss getting up without something not hurting DainBramaged Aug 2013 #48
It beats the alternative for sure. Blue_In_AK Aug 2013 #46
That's what my grandmother always used to say ... LisaLynne Aug 2013 #58
I plan to live until I'm 93. Blue_In_AK Aug 2013 #64
Hell, I was sure I'd die before 30 pinboy3niner Aug 2013 #52
I regretted it when I turned 30... tridim Aug 2013 #53
Here's to "Growing Older (But Not Up)" - Jimmy Buffett DinahMoeHum Aug 2013 #54
Sucks in some ways, doesn't in most. wtmusic Aug 2013 #56
"I got old & shit in my pants" Fozzledick Aug 2013 #57
I don't mind the grey hairs on my head demwing Aug 2013 #59
My hair and mustache have turned mostly grey DainBramaged Aug 2013 #60
I'm 50, beard is white demwing Aug 2013 #61
it beats the alternative... spanone Aug 2013 #62
Every day is a gift DainBramaged Aug 2013 #63

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
38. Haha! My 5 yr old grandson last week
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 04:42 PM
Aug 2013

told me, "Grandma, you are fading to gray."

I wish that I would fade faster to keep pace with my wrinkling and the number of aching joints I have.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
41. I'm starting to get those worry lines between my eyebrows. Oh, well. I have had plenty to worry
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 05:04 PM
Aug 2013

about these past few years. I can still smile though. Something I've noticed about older people with wrinkles. If they are smiling and have laughter in their eyes you just want to be around them.

a kennedy

(29,700 posts)
49. First off, I call my silver streaked hair "sterling".....just sounds so much more rich.
Wed Aug 7, 2013, 07:57 AM
Aug 2013

Gray, ugh boring..... now sterling....rich, shinny, a whole different attitude. JMHO

Johnny Noshoes

(1,977 posts)
15. I'll be 60 next year...
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 01:37 PM
Aug 2013

my little brother never made it to 50..so I figure everyday no matter what my troubles I'm still here, still alive, and there's always possibilities for change.

 

rl6214

(8,142 posts)
50. I hear ya there
Wed Aug 7, 2013, 08:00 AM
Aug 2013

It's 6am here and I'm still awake because of pain from a bad back that went out on me Monday and pain in my feet from diabetic neuropathy.

Arkansas Granny

(31,525 posts)
35. I've told people that if I woke up one morning and nothing was hurting,
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 04:34 PM
Aug 2013

I would think I had died during the night. Such is life!

Skidmore

(37,364 posts)
39. I hear you. I realized a few days ago that
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 04:46 PM
Aug 2013

it had been some time since I had been without aches and pains. Once in a while I consider going to a doctor about it but have a feeling that I will just be told that its due to aging.

N_E_1 for Tennis

(9,773 posts)
8. One thing I learned as I aged
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 12:51 PM
Aug 2013

"You are where you are supposed to be, at the time you are supposed to be there."

Little bit physics, little bit Buddhism.

Younger I tried to escape that, tried to "change" time and circumstance.
Now I accept the thought, embrace it.

a kennedy

(29,700 posts)
51. I hear ya, my husband turned 68 last week and he is still trying to get over turning 40.
Wed Aug 7, 2013, 08:00 AM
Aug 2013

Oh yah, he's having a hard time of it..... I think turning a certain age really does affect some people more then others.

 

toby jo

(1,269 posts)
18. Age is great stuff. Spirit grows younger and stronger, more flexible and vital. Love it.
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 02:14 PM
Aug 2013

Body's gonna kick, so I ignore it, eh?

ProfessorGAC

(65,159 posts)
20. No Way To Argue That!
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 02:21 PM
Aug 2013

I have no issues with getting older every day. Everybody dies, eventually. Better to have lived well, enjoyed at least some of life, and just not worry about it.
GAC

dana_b

(11,546 posts)
28. that's what I say around birthdays
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 02:52 PM
Aug 2013

no, the year added to my body sucks but what's the alternative? Nah, I think we'll just keep adding those years and stick around a little longer.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
25. I LOVE growing older.
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 02:28 PM
Aug 2013

Well, not the stuff with the body but I love all the stuff with the mind. For some reason it sort of all has coalesced in my 50's and I think I finally have it pretty much figured out. I'm as poor as I ever was but am also the happiest I've ever been.

Gin

(7,212 posts)
27. Im not getting older...im getting bitter
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 02:42 PM
Aug 2013

aging is not for the faint of heart.


Instead of being in my golden years....im in my tin foil years.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
29. I think about all my childhood friends
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 02:54 PM
Aug 2013

who never made it to my age (65). Some died far, far too young. Some died fighting for this country in Nam. They did not live long enough to marry, have children, see their children grow up, marry, and have children of their own.

I think the hardest for me is to realize that I am now older than my Dad was (62) when he passed away. I haven't exactly lived my life doing everything doctors say is "healthy" for you, but I have made it. Why? I cannot say, but there must be a reason why. Maybe in the grand plan my work isn't finished yet?

 

99th_Monkey

(19,326 posts)
32. To a point
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 03:25 PM
Aug 2013

I agree.

My mom is 97, and I'm not completely convinced I really
want to live that long, but still ...

one never knows, until the time comes to know.


I never thought I'd "get old" in the first place, and part of
me still doesn't. funny that.

skip fox

(19,359 posts)
33. How many more generations will there be in which a person can grow old gracefully?
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 03:52 PM
Aug 2013

I'm 66 and loving it.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
34. My mom died in her early thirties. I am 37. I will never be ashamed to admit my age.
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 04:32 PM
Aug 2013

I do feel privileged and grateful to be the age I am.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
40. I'm glad to have lived to 62, for sure, but I wish my goddamned knee didn't hurt so much.
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 04:55 PM
Aug 2013

I see the doc next week - hope it's fixable, and not just aging.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
43. The only thing I miss is my body. Now, I'm much wiser,
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 08:38 PM
Aug 2013

I understand much more about a whole range of things that I thought unimportant, I'm a better lover, I appreciate so much more about so many things, and bald is fashion now, so I don't even miss my hair.

I'm also the last living member of my family, so your friend's thought is all the more poignant.

But OMG, I was so beautiful...

Cha

(297,574 posts)
45. There's nothing to be done about it.. and I do appreciate still
Wed Aug 7, 2013, 03:06 AM
Aug 2013

being around. but, that's doesn't mean I don't miss my younger self.

tridim

(45,358 posts)
53. I regretted it when I turned 30...
Wed Aug 7, 2013, 08:35 AM
Aug 2013

and it resulted in essentially wasting my entire 30's. It didn't help that it occurred during the Bush admin.

My attitude completely changed when I turned 40. Not sure why, but so far so good!

DinahMoeHum

(21,806 posts)
54. Here's to "Growing Older (But Not Up)" - Jimmy Buffett
Wed Aug 7, 2013, 08:54 AM
Aug 2013




I'm growing older but not up
My metabolic rate is pleasantly stuck
Let the winds of time blow over my head
I'd rather die while I'm living than live while I'm dead


wtmusic

(39,166 posts)
56. Sucks in some ways, doesn't in most.
Wed Aug 7, 2013, 10:27 AM
Aug 2013

Peace of mind. Perspective. Not giving a rat's ass about what other people think of you.

These give one strength to face the physical challenges.

Fozzledick

(3,860 posts)
57. "I got old & shit in my pants"
Wed Aug 7, 2013, 11:05 AM
Aug 2013
Here We Go 'Round the Mulberry Bush

I got old & shit in my pants
shit in my pants
shit in my pants
I got old & shit in my pants
shit in my pants again

We got old & shit in our pants
shit in our pants
shit in our pants
We got old & shit in our pants
shit in our pants again

You'll be lucky if you get old
& shit in your pants
& shit in your pants
You'll be lucky if you get old
& shit in your pants again

Allen Ginsberg
January 1, 1994
 

demwing

(16,916 posts)
61. I'm 50, beard is white
Wed Aug 7, 2013, 12:27 PM
Aug 2013

And about once a month I'll find a white eyebrow hair. I never see them grow, it's kind of weird. I just wake up and there'll be a big, ropey, white hair in my brow. I think they drain their color overnight.

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