Ohio Plans Unspeakably Cruel Appeal Of Dying Man’s Last Wish

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http://thinkprogress.org/justice/2013/07/25/2354941/ohio-plans-unspeakably-cruel-appeal-of-dying-mans-last-wish/

Ohio Plans Unspeakably Cruel Appeal Of Dying Man’s Last Wish

By Ian Millhiser on Jul 25, 2013 at 3:00 pm


John Arthur is dying. He is in the terminal stages of Lou Gehrig’s disease and has entered hospice care. Arthur is also gay, and in a 20 year relationship with a man named Jim Obergefell. Because the couple’s home state of Ohio will not allow them to marry, Arthur and Obergefell recently flew to Maryland together and were legally married on the tarmac — just weeks after the Supreme Court’s landmark marriage equality decision in United States v. Windsor. Arthur was unable to rise from his hospice bed.

In his final days, Arthur wants to honor his commitment to his husband. He wants his own death certificate to list Obergefell as his “surviving spouse.” And he wants to die knowing that his partner of 20 years can someday be buried next to him in a family plot bound by a directive that only permits his lawfully wedded spouse to be interred alongside him. And, on Monday, a federal judge ruled that Arthur should indeed have the dignity of dying alongside a man that Ohio will recognize as his husband.

And now, Ohio Attorney General Mike DeWine (R) wants to take that dignity away from Mr. Arthur. The day after a judge issued a temporary restraining order requiring Ohio to list Arthur’s husband as his “surviving spouse” on his death certificate, DeWine announced that he would appeal this decision and try to strip a dying man of his final wish.

There are marriage equality cases with sweeping national implications. This is not one of them. The judge’s order is limited exclusively to Arthur and Obergefell. Indeed, as the judge explains, “there is absolutely no evidence that the State of Ohio or its citizens will be harmed by the issuance” of an order requiring Ohio to acknowledge the two men’s marriage. “No one beyond Plaintiffs themselves will be affected by such a limited order at all.”

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Someday very soon, Obergefell will go home, lie in an empty bed, and confront for the first time the prospect of a life without his husband. In that moment of loss, he believes he will find some comfort if the State of Ohio acknowledges that he feels the same pain that he would have felt if he were married to a woman. That’s what DeWine wants to take away. And it will gain the people of Ohio nothing.

[idwiyo]

1. Moments like this is when I wish there really was such thing as hell.

[Tx4obama]

2. Related VIDEO below

The video below is from before today's bad news
It includes their marriage vows...

O'Donnell LastWord Segment regarding Ohio Judge's Ruling to Recogize Out-of State Same-Sex Marriage

VIDEO here: http://video.msnbc.msn.com/the-last-word/52560523

[LittleBlue]

3. Speechless

Just... wow

[dickthegrouch]

4. It's time to invalidate all the benefits of marriage in Ohio

If we can't get equality the sane way, we have to get it the insane way. If our equal protection doesn't include State conferred benefits, neither does anyone else's.