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https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151777946512464&set=a.10151178665787464.502263.266185757463&type=1&theater<a href=".html" target="_blank"><img src="" border="0" alt=" photo 17thug_zpsd1450c94.jpg"/></a>
From The Wall Of Mr. Corey Shy:
I am Trayvon Martin..
The picture on the left was taken when I was 17 years old, had just graduated from high school, and really didn't know what I wanted to do with my life. Based on my appearance in this picture, you probably would have labeled me a thug or a trouble maker. I only graduated in the top 50% of my class and I took my ACT 4 times. A promising future in college doesn't look too well... at this point does it?
But at age 17 (Trayvon's age when murdered), I didn't realize how much I would be judged and stereotyped for the clothes I wore and my physical appearance. Two months after that picture on the left was taken, I entered college and quickly realized that I wasn't pushing myself to be the best I can be. I hardly studied in high school but as as freshman in college I began to study daily. As a matter of fact, I did so well that I was able to participate in a summer medical internship at Yale University. I then went on to graduate from Prairie View A&M University Magna Cum Laude and in two weeks I will be attending Texas A&M Health Science College of Medicine to become a medical doctor.
The picture on the right is where I am now just four years later at the age of 21. The reason I am sharing this with you is because I COULD HAVE BEEN TRAYVON MARTIN!!! The defense team could have gone onto the internet and found pictures of me that were similar to Trayvon's pictures and characterized me as a thug. They would have then portrayed me as the aggressor and as a result it lead to my death. If that would have happened, then I would not have had the opportunity to reach my true calling, which is a medical doctor. My White Coat ceremony is in four days and it marks the next step in my journey. I could have been laying in a casket with a black suit, instead of being in a white coat trying to save lives.
When I was 17, no one would have imagined that I would be doing so well and on my way to medical school. Who is to say that could not have happened to Trayvon Martin if he was still alive? He could have been the next doctor, lawyer, engineer, teacher ,etc.
My prayers go out to his family and friends.
Please share my story so people can be more conscious of their racial profiling. Everyone has the potential, as long as they are alive, to achieve greatness and make a positive impact on this world.
JNelson6563
(28,151 posts)This needs to be posted far and wide!
Julie
SleeplessinSoCal
(9,150 posts)Anybody have it? The link here is to "Urban Livin".
Finally found it: https://www.facebook.com/corey.shy?fref=browse_search
Horse with no Name
(33,957 posts)monmouth3
(3,871 posts)uponit7771
(90,367 posts)gabeana
(3,166 posts)inspirational
Half-Century Man
(5,279 posts)I first titled this post with the first part of the Hippocratic oath, "Do no harm". I removed it, not because I thought it was a poor choice or because you might not get that I was encouraging you to really mean your oath. I think you'll do well in the future based on your past.
I just realized that Do no harm should be part of the oath of office for District Attorneys and Judges.
raging moderate
(4,311 posts)I read somewhere that Trayvon Martin was interested in airplanes.
LittleGirl
(8,291 posts)I was a late bloomer as well. I didn't get my degree until I was 45. Rooting for this young man!
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)... because there's no collective archetype of what a man should be. Even if dad is in the home, and even if he is well adjusted, and even if there are a token man or two teaching in the schools, the prevailing culture really doesn't give boys a clear path to manhood. In fact the word "manhood" itself is treated as borderline pejorative.
The appearance in the photo (just like photos of my older kids at that age) IS SUPPOSED TO inspire the label of thug or troublemaker, because the culture has nothing positive to say about the alternative.
Sure, it's incumbent on all of us to recognize that for many of the kids who want you to see a thug, it's just a phase. But I think it's reasonable to ask why it's such a pervasive phase.
John2
(2,730 posts)George W. Bush once smoked Pot in their youthfu age.
Yep and they became President of the US.
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)It's a kind of pervasive aimlessness. 17 year olds know they are becoming men, yet have only an array of negative stereotypes (against a backdrop of discipline, suspicion, hostility and active neglect in school) to help them define what that means.
Like the guy in the OP, they're having to figure it out entirely from scratch.
It would be easy to describe it as just a phase if it weren't so common for young men to remain there.
Tumbulu
(6,292 posts)I feel that there is a terrible lack of purpose for boys and young men. Just as bad as the constant sexual objectification of the girls/young women in the popular culture imo. It is awful and I wish that I could file a class action suit against to advertisers that make money on these popular culture images. Girls and boys all reduced to trash.
And why? Why when we really need all hands on deck right now to restore and repair our fragile environment?
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)" In fact the word "manhood" itself is treated as borderline pejorative..."
What specifically leads you to believe that as fact?
Xyzse
(8,217 posts)Always nice to hear about successes.
HappyMe
(20,277 posts)I wish all the best for this guy.
Marie Marie
(9,999 posts)We'll never know what he could have been thanks to that low life GZ.
B Stieg
(2,410 posts)More proof that children tend to live up to the expectations they encounter around them, and just how special a person it takes to break out of that deadly rhetorical circle.
Tay123
(11 posts)I'm passing link on as we speak,
calimary
(81,521 posts)Glad both of you are here! I'm gonna share that link, too.
What a powerful and brilliant argument that young man makes! He's completely correct, too. Sadly.
K&R!
KG
(28,753 posts)Spazito
(50,495 posts)walking home in the rain after buying Skittles and an ice tea. He was summarily convicted and executed minutes later.
bigbrother05
(5,995 posts)Spazito
(50,495 posts)for simply walking home in the rain wearing a hoodie.
felix_numinous
(5,198 posts)and been ok too.
It is sad that this young man's point has to be made. But there are also many creative dressers and non conformists out there, and it would be even more sad if they did not feel comfortable simply being themselves.
Tommy_Carcetti
(43,209 posts)Don't know where he is today, though.
Probably in jail or living in a ditch, that's my guess.
skeewee08
(1,983 posts)and his "temper" Ben Carson got in trouble while in school and look at him now.
7962
(11,841 posts)because his opinions are not "approved". He is one of many examples of "be all you can be". Wish I had that dedication.
SleeplessinSoCal
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ananda
(28,879 posts)I can't tell you the number of times a former student has come back
to visit and tell me how well they're doing. And I would just stand
there dumbfounded wondering how they could have changed so much.
I think there's some truth to the idea that teens go through a phase
of rebellion and separation from the authoritarian mainstream, and
they do some really dumb and difficult stuff because they are not
completely mature. But then after high school, their life changes and
so does their maturity level.
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malaise
(269,200 posts)profiled and who have completed several degrees in college.
ms liberty
(8,607 posts)BrainMann1
(460 posts)Lucinda
(31,170 posts)?
NealK
(1,885 posts)K&R
niyad
(113,595 posts)fascisthunter
(29,381 posts)...whether he became successful or not career-wise doesn't matter. His life, precious beyong any and every imagination was stolen from him and the rest of us. Zimmerman had no right to play god.
Catherine Vincent
(34,491 posts)America proud!
Cha
(297,769 posts)on fb, Horse. I imagine Trayvon would have grown into an amazing adult himself. Just look at his parents.
They need the chance and it was yanked from Trayvon.
spicegal
(758 posts)being young, and knows it's ten times worse for young people of color. We live in a nice neighborhood, where he's been out late at night running, sometimes walking, and people will slow down and "stalk" him like they think he's up to something. He was accosted by a man on the street just this week, who basically threatened him, insisted he was driving too fast. I'm certain the guy would not have talked to an older person that way, and we have plenty who sometimes drive down our street a little too fast. Fortunately he didn't pull out a gun.