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trumad

(41,692 posts)
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 07:28 AM Jul 2013

Two women attack McDonalds employee---turned out to be a big mistake.

Apparently they gave the McDonalds employee a 50 dollar bill for payment. He began checking its authenticity. They started calling him names (Pussy), etc... and then one of them slapped his face. He pushed back, one jumped the counter after him, the other went around the counter---he retreated to the back of the store, and then this----

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Two women attack McDonalds employee---turned out to be a big mistake. (Original Post) trumad Jul 2013 OP
not a happy meal dembotoz Jul 2013 #1
made me laugh. nt pintobean Jul 2013 #2
Stop! tblue Jul 2013 #44
Employ stood his ground safeinOhio Jul 2013 #3
Why post this in GD? nt Pale Blue Dot Jul 2013 #4
I don't know---I've been here for 13 years.... trumad Jul 2013 #7
+10 RC Jul 2013 #14
Clearly it belongs in the Photography forum. Dr. Strange Jul 2013 #17
lol. n/t. okieinpain Jul 2013 #75
Why impose your tripe when it offers NOTHING to the thread, other than to impose? LaydeeBug Jul 2013 #26
Jury acquitted him BeyondGeography Jul 2013 #5
a fractured skull -- wow KurtNYC Jul 2013 #22
Things change when you smack someone in the face in public BeyondGeography Jul 2013 #23
Yes, he was just taking the verbal abuse. KurtNYC Jul 2013 #42
People just love to treat min. wage workers like crap. Lunacee_2013 Jul 2013 #73
Hungry people can be very irritable and/or violent KurtNYC Jul 2013 #76
He won't be dissed again marshall Jul 2013 #6
Would you like an ass-kicking with that? hatrack Jul 2013 #8
Better that than a gun trumad Jul 2013 #13
Very true! hatrack Jul 2013 #15
Idiot blonde woman shouting "STOP! STOP!!" MNBrewer Jul 2013 #9
Yea, I didn't get that either. Inkfreak Jul 2013 #10
Even his co-worker was telling him to stop. savalez Jul 2013 #16
At least until they no longer pose a threat. EOTE Jul 2013 #21
Did you mean to respond to me? savalez Jul 2013 #24
Yes. You asked if he should have continued to hit them until they died. EOTE Jul 2013 #25
The co-worker had the best vantage point savalez Jul 2013 #30
I was responding to your question, this really isn't all that difficult. EOTE Jul 2013 #32
You think you are having a debate savalez Jul 2013 #36
You asked a question, I thought I'd give a go at an answer. EOTE Jul 2013 #37
Re-read #36 savalez Jul 2013 #40
I not only re-read it, but I was actually there when I wrote it. EOTE Jul 2013 #41
Typo savalez Jul 2013 #45
Re-read that one as well. EOTE Jul 2013 #43
In order savalez Jul 2013 #46
You definitely won this one. crim son Jul 2013 #61
huh? savalez Jul 2013 #72
Actually anomiep Jul 2013 #62
I saw them continue to approach him several times after he stopped the beating. EOTE Jul 2013 #63
Yep anomiep Jul 2013 #64
I didn't realize that was the only alternative, sorry. MNBrewer Jul 2013 #69
You wrote: savalez Jul 2013 #74
Yeah, seriously. EOTE Jul 2013 #20
There is a big difference between savalez Jul 2013 #27
She didn't say a thing when the stupid girls were attacking the employee. EOTE Jul 2013 #29
The whole thing happened within seconds! savalez Jul 2013 #33
I've never seen anything like this in my life in person. EOTE Jul 2013 #35
I've alread responded savalez Jul 2013 #38
I would have screamed too Generic Other Jul 2013 #31
I'm far more inclined to trust the attacked employer as to when he felt he was no longer in danger. EOTE Jul 2013 #34
I suspect he wasn't charged because Generic Other Jul 2013 #65
Maybe it was truly excessive force (in that it was more than needed to neutralize the threat). EOTE Jul 2013 #66
Yeah, she should have just shut up and enjoyed the whippin' progressoid Jul 2013 #48
How about NOT selectively showing outrage? EOTE Jul 2013 #49
And the co-worker who also tried to stop him? progressoid Jul 2013 #53
No, but he also wasn't the one who was attacked. EOTE Jul 2013 #54
So he ISN'T a fucking idiot? progressoid Jul 2013 #57
He's certainly less of one. EOTE Jul 2013 #60
Well, I'm impressed by your ability to determing levels of fucking idiocy progressoid Jul 2013 #67
OK. So the screeching blond is without a doubt a fucking idiot. EOTE Jul 2013 #68
because maybe she wants to live in a civilized world ? olddots Jul 2013 #56
She lives in the wrong country, then MNBrewer Jul 2013 #70
I don't fault the employee for the initial whacks, but after they were on the ground penultimate Jul 2013 #58
Should have made the asshole cloudbase Jul 2013 #11
..! Quantess Jul 2013 #51
This is old. Happened in October 2011 BklnDem75 Jul 2013 #12
It's a mistake to go there in the first place. n/t L0oniX Jul 2013 #18
At 42 seconds into the video you can see him asking snooper2 Jul 2013 #19
act like a feral beast datasuspect Jul 2013 #28
Some vigilante justice is better than other vigilante justice, I see. nt Dreamer Tatum Jul 2013 #39
Me thinks you do not know what Vigilante means. trumad Jul 2013 #47
Just who is the vigilante in this scenario? nt EOTE Jul 2013 #50
Bad idea. Those women were crazy to fight that guy LittleBlue Jul 2013 #52
From the UK link DainBramaged Jul 2013 #55
Um, this happened in 2011. Apophis Jul 2013 #59
he should have stopped once they were already down JI7 Jul 2013 #71

safeinOhio

(32,714 posts)
3. Employ stood his ground
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 07:58 AM
Jul 2013

after being assaulted. No gun, no one died.

Now, would you like that super sized?

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
7. I don't know---I've been here for 13 years....
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 08:19 AM
Jul 2013

Thought after all that time I'd know where to post an interesting subject like this.

Now please proceed to tell me why I should not have posted something like this in GD. Your wisdom would be most appreciated.

 

RC

(25,592 posts)
14. +10
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 09:50 AM
Jul 2013

I have a problem with people like that in real life. They think they know what's going on, when the reality indicates otherwise.

 

LaydeeBug

(10,291 posts)
26. Why impose your tripe when it offers NOTHING to the thread, other than to impose?
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 12:48 PM
Jul 2013

It was posted in GD because it belongs in GD.

Why would you think it's cool to start something?

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
22. a fractured skull -- wow
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 12:23 PM
Jul 2013

Doesn't say if the bill was fake.

One of my neighbors got a minimum wage job only to have 2 women rip off stuff from the store and then the manager takes it out his puny paycheck. They ordered scooped ice cream for themselves and their 5 kids then gave him a dead debit card while eating the ice cream. They had screamed all kinds of names at him, etc. About $30 worth. Very similar but he just cried and looked for another job.

BeyondGeography

(39,377 posts)
23. Things change when you smack someone in the face in public
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 12:28 PM
Jul 2013

I don't think the guy was going to do anything before that point.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
42. Yes, he was just taking the verbal abuse.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:25 PM
Jul 2013

Once the other woman jumped the counter and no other employee did anything to step up, he was on his own against 2 people who were physically attacking him. There is a lot of dangerous stuff in a commercial kitchen, the deep fryer for example. It could have been worse for all involved.

Lunacee_2013

(529 posts)
73. People just love to treat min. wage workers like crap.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 05:13 PM
Jul 2013

At the very first job I ever had (I was 16) I had to put up with drunk screaming customers all the time, thankfully it was usually over the phone.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
76. Hungry people can be very irritable and/or violent
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 05:23 PM
Jul 2013

When fast food isn't fast enough things can get ugly.

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
9. Idiot blonde woman shouting "STOP! STOP!!"
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 08:36 AM
Jul 2013

Why should he stop? Because the two people who attacked him are women?

Inkfreak

(1,695 posts)
10. Yea, I didn't get that either.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 08:41 AM
Jul 2013

Reminds me of that one person in a movie who won't stop screaming when something bad happens.

savalez

(3,517 posts)
16. Even his co-worker was telling him to stop.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 11:40 AM
Jul 2013

It appeared that the attackers were already neutralized.

Why should he stop? Because the two people who attacked him are women?


Are you suggesting that he continue hitting them until they die?

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
21. At least until they no longer pose a threat.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 12:10 PM
Jul 2013

And I have no idea as to whether they were or not at that time, so I'll side with the guy who retreated when he was being attacked and didn't retaliate until he was pretty much forced to.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
25. Yes. You asked if he should have continued to hit them until they died.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 12:47 PM
Jul 2013

I said he should have continued to hit them until they no longer posed a threat. And considering I couldn't see them at the time, I assume he was right to continue hitting them. They were the ones who started the conflict, they were the ones who made it physical, they were the one who chased after the employee. He was the one who remained calm. He was the one who retreated. He was the one who eventually had to defend himself. Those stupid girls got everything they apparently wanted.

savalez

(3,517 posts)
30. The co-worker had the best vantage point
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 12:58 PM
Jul 2013

and he is clearly heard telling the guy to stop; and he did stop. Good.

they were the ones who made it physical, they were the one who chased after the employee. He was the one who remained calm. He was the one who retreated. He was the one who eventually had to defend himself.


Um, okay. So? Are you answering for the poster that I asked if he should have kept hitting them until the died? Is that your opinion? Hit them until they die?


EOTE

(13,409 posts)
32. I was responding to your question, this really isn't all that difficult.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:02 PM
Jul 2013

And it's really easy for the coworker to say that, he wasn't the one being assaulted. And I've answered your question already, he should have continued until he felt they were no longer a threat. And after their animalistic behavior, I'm far more inclined to believe him rather than them as to when that point was. And apparently juries agree with me as they acquitted the employee and convicted those two dumbass girls.

savalez

(3,517 posts)
36. You think you are having a debate
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:09 PM
Jul 2013

with me about whether or not the guy had the right to defend himself. You're not. Understand that.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
37. You asked a question, I thought I'd give a go at an answer.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:14 PM
Jul 2013

I think when you initiate a fight and then pursue the victim AFTER you've begun your attack, you lose out on pretty much any moral or legal authority when you receive a just ass-whooping in return.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
41. I not only re-read it, but I was actually there when I wrote it.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:24 PM
Jul 2013

And I still agree with my words 100%. Shall I read them once more?

savalez

(3,517 posts)
45. Typo
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:34 PM
Jul 2013
I not only re-read it, but I was actually there when I wrote it.


Ok, that was funny.

I meant #36.

crim son

(27,464 posts)
61. You definitely won this one.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 02:24 PM
Jul 2013

If you're talking two different issues, it clearly isn't your problem.

savalez

(3,517 posts)
72. huh?
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 04:43 PM
Jul 2013
You definitely won this one. If you're talking two different issues, it clearly isn't your problem.


What does that even mean?

anomiep

(153 posts)
62. Actually
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 02:33 PM
Jul 2013

I think based on the video the co-worker was being at the very least reasonable and if the guy had continued to swing more, the case gets better and better that he should have stopped the more he swings.

(at what specific point he switches over from being defender to aggressor, only the two guys behind the counter had the information available to determine what it is, and once people start swinging they're in a swinging mode and it's harder for them to stop than it is for someone who is not swinging to say 'hey, time to stop')

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
63. I saw them continue to approach him several times after he stopped the beating.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 02:39 PM
Jul 2013

And that's when he continued again. Perhaps they weren't much of a threat at that point, but I can understand why he continued, it was well past time that he stopped thinking about THEIR safety and focused on his own. Once you initiate a physical confrontation and pursue a victim, your legal and moral ground becomes extremely shaky.

anomiep

(153 posts)
64. Yep
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 02:47 PM
Jul 2013

And that's certainly fine - if they stop, you stop, and if they start again, you start again.

My point is that in that circumstance there's not necessarily a bright line. I don't fault the two guys who could really see what was going on for having a differing opinion there, *both* of them could have been taking reasonable actions at that exact instant. (one more swing may not have been enough to throw it over to him being the aggressor, while it still being reasonable to not take that one more swing).

savalez

(3,517 posts)
74. You wrote:
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 05:14 PM
Jul 2013
Idiot blonde woman shouting "STOP! STOP!!". Idiot Blonde, Why should he stop? Because the two people who attacked him are women?


You think she intervened to protect her own gender? How do you know she would not have yelled "stop" if they were male? You don't.

Why do you disparage her intelligence? Seems to me yelling stop would be a very natural response in that situation.

I didn't realize that was the only alternative, sorry.


The only alternative to being bludgeoned to the point of a fractured skull and broken bones is to be bludgeoned to death.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
20. Yeah, seriously.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 12:08 PM
Jul 2013

She didn't say shit when those two idiots were attacking him or jumping over the counter. But as soon as he starts to defend himself... "STOP!!!! THIS HAS GONE ON JUST LONG ENOUGH! CALL THE COPS!"

What a fucking idiot she is.

savalez

(3,517 posts)
27. There is a big difference between
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 12:50 PM
Jul 2013

getting involved during a verbal argument and getting involved when it turns violent. It is not unheard of for bystanders to stand ready to intervene should arguments escalate to that level. It's idiotic to think otherwise.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
29. She didn't say a thing when the stupid girls were attacking the employee.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 12:52 PM
Jul 2013

She also didn't say a thing when those same dumbasses jumped the counter to further assault the employee. She DID freak the fuck out when the employee started to defend himself. It's almost as if she believes that only one gender has that right. One's sexism can become rather apparent in situations like this.

savalez

(3,517 posts)
33. The whole thing happened within seconds!
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:04 PM
Jul 2013

It takes humans time to realize what's going on and form an opinion and react. It's a shocking situation. I don't know where you're from but if violence like this regularly occurs at your local McDonalds, to the point where you know exactly how you would react, then you should move. Again, most people shy away from intervening during verbal altercations and most will jump in when it turns violent.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
35. I've never seen anything like this in my life in person.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:06 PM
Jul 2013

But I'd probably behave in much the same way as this employee did if assaulted like that.

And again, it became violent well before that lady started screaming. She only seemed to give a damn when the violence was directed toward the attackers.

savalez

(3,517 posts)
38. I've alread responded
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:14 PM
Jul 2013

to your assertion that the customer is an "idiot" for screaming when it turned violent. See post #36 regarding to the employee.

Generic Other

(28,979 posts)
31. I would have screamed too
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:01 PM
Jul 2013

Even if he is justified using force, he did not need the added problem of killing them if he could stop the attack with anything less. This is probably why his co-worker tried to get him to stop?

I don't know what happens when a person snaps like that. Blind rage. Uncontrollable. Over-the-top. But technically self-defense. I don't normally believe men should strike women, so it is hard to see the rage expressed there. No one -- man or woman -- should try to provoke such a reaction from another person. It is really provoking our reptilian brainstem, and the response is not always controllable.

In some ways, what you see there reminds me of how domestic violence escalates so quickly from verbal abuse to deadly force.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
34. I'm far more inclined to trust the attacked employer as to when he felt he was no longer in danger.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:05 PM
Jul 2013

He did exactly as he was supposed to. He even retreated when he could off gone off on those girls. But he was backed into a corner and did what he needed to do. I don't believe that any person regardless of gender should strike another person out of anger. But those two dumb girls thought differently, and maybe if they have more than a couple of brain cells to rub together, they'll learn a lesson from it.

Generic Other

(28,979 posts)
65. I suspect he wasn't charged because
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 03:21 PM
Jul 2013

a court agreed with you. It just seemed like excessive force to me, but I could understand how he would be seen as justified in acting as aggressively as he thought he needed to do.

Do you think McD's settled with him over the job suit?

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
66. Maybe it was truly excessive force (in that it was more than needed to neutralize the threat).
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 03:24 PM
Jul 2013

But in a case like that, I'm going to be DAMNED sure the threat is neutralized before I stop attacking. Especially when the one who provoked the attack clearly cared so little about my own safety. If he had started attacking once she slapped him, I'd say he had very little standing. But once they jumped the counter and started chasing him, all bets are off. That's psycho behavior.

On edit: I'm not sure how the suit against McDonalds turned out, but I hope he won. I certainly don't think he should have been fired for that.

progressoid

(49,996 posts)
48. Yeah, she should have just shut up and enjoyed the whippin'
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:38 PM
Jul 2013

Why call the cops? What good could that possibly do?

Society functions best when we let our basal instincts rule. Long live Jack Merridew.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
49. How about NOT selectively showing outrage?
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:44 PM
Jul 2013

And she's welcome to call the cops, she should have done that. She should NOT try to get the man who was just assaulted and just retreated to avoid the assault to stop defending himself.

progressoid

(49,996 posts)
53. And the co-worker who also tried to stop him?
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:55 PM
Jul 2013

Is he a "fucking idiot" too?

And I'm wondering how you know so much about the blonde's actions and motivations when she doesn't even show up until the end of the recording?

Make one wonder about "selective outrage".

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
54. No, but he also wasn't the one who was attacked.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 01:58 PM
Jul 2013

So I'll take the word of the assault victim over him.

And the blonde showed up screeching well before the end of the recording. In fact, it was as soon as the victim started to defend himself. I guess only certain folks are allowed to defend themselves. The rest just have to take it.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
60. He's certainly less of one.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 02:17 PM
Jul 2013

And it also appears that he tried to stop the ladies from chasing the employee who was assaulted.

progressoid

(49,996 posts)
67. Well, I'm impressed by your ability to determing levels of fucking idiocy
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 03:32 PM
Jul 2013

using this high quality video.

Kudos.

EOTE

(13,409 posts)
68. OK. So the screeching blond is without a doubt a fucking idiot.
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 03:36 PM
Jul 2013

But his coworker's fucking idiot status is a bit more hard to determine.

penultimate

(1,110 posts)
58. I don't fault the employee for the initial whacks, but after they were on the ground
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 02:11 PM
Jul 2013

he should have backed away.

DainBramaged

(39,191 posts)
55. From the UK link
Tue Jul 16, 2013, 02:03 PM
Jul 2013

McIntosh, who served about a decade on a manslaughter charge, was getting his life back on track when the two women threatened him in McDonald's.
His mother, Maureen Lucas, told the New York Daily News: 'If he didn’t have that record, they would never have arrested him



Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2069469/McDonalds-worker-Rayon-McIntosh-cleared-metal-pole-attack-women.html#ixzz2ZEUmXUzi


The two assholes got him in trouble for being stupid.
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