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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsTwo women attack McDonalds employee---turned out to be a big mistake.
Apparently they gave the McDonalds employee a 50 dollar bill for payment. He began checking its authenticity. They started calling him names (Pussy), etc... and then one of them slapped his face. He pushed back, one jumped the counter after him, the other went around the counter---he retreated to the back of the store, and then this----
dembotoz
(16,826 posts)pintobean
(18,101 posts)Not supposed to make us laugh!
safeinOhio
(32,714 posts)after being assaulted. No gun, no one died.
Now, would you like that super sized?
Pale Blue Dot
(16,831 posts)trumad
(41,692 posts)Thought after all that time I'd know where to post an interesting subject like this.
Now please proceed to tell me why I should not have posted something like this in GD. Your wisdom would be most appreciated.
I have a problem with people like that in real life. They think they know what's going on, when the reality indicates otherwise.
Dr. Strange
(25,922 posts)okieinpain
(9,397 posts)LaydeeBug
(10,291 posts)It was posted in GD because it belongs in GD.
Why would you think it's cool to start something?
BeyondGeography
(39,377 posts)But he did have to find another job.
Bad move by the gals, who wound up being arrested themselves.
KurtNYC
(14,549 posts)Doesn't say if the bill was fake.
One of my neighbors got a minimum wage job only to have 2 women rip off stuff from the store and then the manager takes it out his puny paycheck. They ordered scooped ice cream for themselves and their 5 kids then gave him a dead debit card while eating the ice cream. They had screamed all kinds of names at him, etc. About $30 worth. Very similar but he just cried and looked for another job.
BeyondGeography
(39,377 posts)I don't think the guy was going to do anything before that point.
KurtNYC
(14,549 posts)Once the other woman jumped the counter and no other employee did anything to step up, he was on his own against 2 people who were physically attacking him. There is a lot of dangerous stuff in a commercial kitchen, the deep fryer for example. It could have been worse for all involved.
Lunacee_2013
(529 posts)At the very first job I ever had (I was 16) I had to put up with drunk screaming customers all the time, thankfully it was usually over the phone.
KurtNYC
(14,549 posts)When fast food isn't fast enough things can get ugly.
marshall
(6,665 posts)Not anytime soon.
hatrack
(59,592 posts)Have a nice day!
trumad
(41,692 posts)hatrack
(59,592 posts).
MNBrewer
(8,462 posts)Why should he stop? Because the two people who attacked him are women?
Inkfreak
(1,695 posts)Reminds me of that one person in a movie who won't stop screaming when something bad happens.
savalez
(3,517 posts)It appeared that the attackers were already neutralized.
Are you suggesting that he continue hitting them until they die?
EOTE
(13,409 posts)And I have no idea as to whether they were or not at that time, so I'll side with the guy who retreated when he was being attacked and didn't retaliate until he was pretty much forced to.
savalez
(3,517 posts)Because that has little to do with what I wrote.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)I said he should have continued to hit them until they no longer posed a threat. And considering I couldn't see them at the time, I assume he was right to continue hitting them. They were the ones who started the conflict, they were the ones who made it physical, they were the one who chased after the employee. He was the one who remained calm. He was the one who retreated. He was the one who eventually had to defend himself. Those stupid girls got everything they apparently wanted.
savalez
(3,517 posts)and he is clearly heard telling the guy to stop; and he did stop. Good.
Um, okay. So? Are you answering for the poster that I asked if he should have kept hitting them until the died? Is that your opinion? Hit them until they die?
EOTE
(13,409 posts)And it's really easy for the coworker to say that, he wasn't the one being assaulted. And I've answered your question already, he should have continued until he felt they were no longer a threat. And after their animalistic behavior, I'm far more inclined to believe him rather than them as to when that point was. And apparently juries agree with me as they acquitted the employee and convicted those two dumbass girls.
savalez
(3,517 posts)with me about whether or not the guy had the right to defend himself. You're not. Understand that.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)I think when you initiate a fight and then pursue the victim AFTER you've begun your attack, you lose out on pretty much any moral or legal authority when you receive a just ass-whooping in return.
Fixed to read 36.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)And I still agree with my words 100%. Shall I read them once more?
Ok, that was funny.
I meant #36.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)And you sure have a funny way of NOT getting into a debate.
to debate we'd have to be discussing the same issue.
crim son
(27,464 posts)If you're talking two different issues, it clearly isn't your problem.
What does that even mean?
I think based on the video the co-worker was being at the very least reasonable and if the guy had continued to swing more, the case gets better and better that he should have stopped the more he swings.
(at what specific point he switches over from being defender to aggressor, only the two guys behind the counter had the information available to determine what it is, and once people start swinging they're in a swinging mode and it's harder for them to stop than it is for someone who is not swinging to say 'hey, time to stop')
EOTE
(13,409 posts)And that's when he continued again. Perhaps they weren't much of a threat at that point, but I can understand why he continued, it was well past time that he stopped thinking about THEIR safety and focused on his own. Once you initiate a physical confrontation and pursue a victim, your legal and moral ground becomes extremely shaky.
And that's certainly fine - if they stop, you stop, and if they start again, you start again.
My point is that in that circumstance there's not necessarily a bright line. I don't fault the two guys who could really see what was going on for having a differing opinion there, *both* of them could have been taking reasonable actions at that exact instant. (one more swing may not have been enough to throw it over to him being the aggressor, while it still being reasonable to not take that one more swing).
MNBrewer
(8,462 posts)savalez
(3,517 posts)You think she intervened to protect her own gender? How do you know she would not have yelled "stop" if they were male? You don't.
Why do you disparage her intelligence? Seems to me yelling stop would be a very natural response in that situation.
The only alternative to being bludgeoned to the point of a fractured skull and broken bones is to be bludgeoned to death.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)She didn't say shit when those two idiots were attacking him or jumping over the counter. But as soon as he starts to defend himself... "STOP!!!! THIS HAS GONE ON JUST LONG ENOUGH! CALL THE COPS!"
What a fucking idiot she is.
savalez
(3,517 posts)getting involved during a verbal argument and getting involved when it turns violent. It is not unheard of for bystanders to stand ready to intervene should arguments escalate to that level. It's idiotic to think otherwise.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)She also didn't say a thing when those same dumbasses jumped the counter to further assault the employee. She DID freak the fuck out when the employee started to defend himself. It's almost as if she believes that only one gender has that right. One's sexism can become rather apparent in situations like this.
savalez
(3,517 posts)It takes humans time to realize what's going on and form an opinion and react. It's a shocking situation. I don't know where you're from but if violence like this regularly occurs at your local McDonalds, to the point where you know exactly how you would react, then you should move. Again, most people shy away from intervening during verbal altercations and most will jump in when it turns violent.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)But I'd probably behave in much the same way as this employee did if assaulted like that.
And again, it became violent well before that lady started screaming. She only seemed to give a damn when the violence was directed toward the attackers.
savalez
(3,517 posts)to your assertion that the customer is an "idiot" for screaming when it turned violent. See post #36 regarding to the employee.
Generic Other
(28,979 posts)Even if he is justified using force, he did not need the added problem of killing them if he could stop the attack with anything less. This is probably why his co-worker tried to get him to stop?
I don't know what happens when a person snaps like that. Blind rage. Uncontrollable. Over-the-top. But technically self-defense. I don't normally believe men should strike women, so it is hard to see the rage expressed there. No one -- man or woman -- should try to provoke such a reaction from another person. It is really provoking our reptilian brainstem, and the response is not always controllable.
In some ways, what you see there reminds me of how domestic violence escalates so quickly from verbal abuse to deadly force.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)He did exactly as he was supposed to. He even retreated when he could off gone off on those girls. But he was backed into a corner and did what he needed to do. I don't believe that any person regardless of gender should strike another person out of anger. But those two dumb girls thought differently, and maybe if they have more than a couple of brain cells to rub together, they'll learn a lesson from it.
Generic Other
(28,979 posts)a court agreed with you. It just seemed like excessive force to me, but I could understand how he would be seen as justified in acting as aggressively as he thought he needed to do.
Do you think McD's settled with him over the job suit?
EOTE
(13,409 posts)But in a case like that, I'm going to be DAMNED sure the threat is neutralized before I stop attacking. Especially when the one who provoked the attack clearly cared so little about my own safety. If he had started attacking once she slapped him, I'd say he had very little standing. But once they jumped the counter and started chasing him, all bets are off. That's psycho behavior.
On edit: I'm not sure how the suit against McDonalds turned out, but I hope he won. I certainly don't think he should have been fired for that.
progressoid
(49,996 posts)Why call the cops? What good could that possibly do?
Society functions best when we let our basal instincts rule. Long live Jack Merridew.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)And she's welcome to call the cops, she should have done that. She should NOT try to get the man who was just assaulted and just retreated to avoid the assault to stop defending himself.
progressoid
(49,996 posts)Is he a "fucking idiot" too?
And I'm wondering how you know so much about the blonde's actions and motivations when she doesn't even show up until the end of the recording?
Make one wonder about "selective outrage".
EOTE
(13,409 posts)So I'll take the word of the assault victim over him.
And the blonde showed up screeching well before the end of the recording. In fact, it was as soon as the victim started to defend himself. I guess only certain folks are allowed to defend themselves. The rest just have to take it.
progressoid
(49,996 posts)But the "screeching" blonde is an idiot for doing the same thing?
EOTE
(13,409 posts)And it also appears that he tried to stop the ladies from chasing the employee who was assaulted.
progressoid
(49,996 posts)using this high quality video.
Kudos.
EOTE
(13,409 posts)But his coworker's fucking idiot status is a bit more hard to determine.
olddots
(10,237 posts)MNBrewer
(8,462 posts)penultimate
(1,110 posts)he should have backed away.
cloudbase
(5,524 posts)go bobbing for french fries.
BklnDem75
(2,918 posts)They dropped the charges.
http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2011/12/03/update-charges-dropped-against-mcdonalds-cashier-who-hit-women-with-metal-rod/
The ladies pleaded guilty in a no-jail deal
http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/women-lashed-greenwich-village-mcdonald-worker-plead-guilty-no-jail-deal-article-1.1157596
L0oniX
(31,493 posts)snooper2
(30,151 posts)You want fries with that?
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)you get treated like a feral beast.
Dreamer Tatum
(10,926 posts)trumad
(41,692 posts)EOTE
(13,409 posts)LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Glad no one died at least.
DainBramaged
(39,191 posts)McIntosh, who served about a decade on a manslaughter charge, was getting his life back on track when the two women threatened him in McDonald's.
His mother, Maureen Lucas, told the New York Daily News: 'If he didnt have that record, they would never have arrested him
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2069469/McDonalds-worker-Rayon-McIntosh-cleared-metal-pole-attack-women.html#ixzz2ZEUmXUzi
The two assholes got him in trouble for being stupid.
Apophis
(1,407 posts)I don't understand how it's relevant now.