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kpete

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Sun Jul 14, 2013, 11:41 AM Jul 2013

Who doesn't want their child to believe that everything will be alright?

SUN JUL 14, 2013 AT 08:24 AM PDT
No Innocence Left to Kill: Racism, Injustice and Explaining America to My Daughter
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And so it continues. Year after year and case after case it continues, with black life viewed as expendable in the service of white fear, with black males in particular (but many a black female as well and plenty of Latino folk too) marked as problems to be solved, rather than as children to be nurtured. And tonight, their parents will hold them and try to assure them that everything is going to be OK, even as they will have to worry again tomorrow that their black or brown child may represent the physical embodiment of white anxiety, and pay the ultimate price for that fact, either at the hands of a random loser with a law enforcement jones, or an actual cop doing the bidding of the state. In short, they will hold their children and lie to them, at least a little -- and to themselves -- because who doesn't want their child to believe that everything will be alright?

But in calmer moments these parents of color will also tell their children the truth. That in fact everything is not going to be OK, unless we make it so. That justice is not an act of wish fulfillment but the product of resistance. Because black parents know these things like they know their names, and as a matter of survival they make sure their children know them too.

And if their children have to know them, then mine must know them as well.

And now they do.

If their children are to be allowed no innocence free from these concerns, then so too must mine sacrifice some of their naiveté upon the altar of truth.

And now they have.

So to the keepers of white supremacy, I should offer this final word. You can think of it as a word of caution. My oldest daughter knows who you are and saw what you did. You have made a new enemy. One day, you might wish you hadn't.



http://www.dailykos.com/story/2013/07/14/1223540/-No-Innocence-Left-to-Kill-Racism-Injustice-and-Explaining-America-to-My-Daughter

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Who doesn't want their child to believe that everything will be alright? (Original Post) kpete Jul 2013 OP
k&r for exposure. n/t Laelth Jul 2013 #1
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