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Men, how would you like it if women chose your birth control? (Original Post) TalkingDog Feb 2012 OP
that's why I got my vasectomy 30-some years ago.... mike_c Feb 2012 #1
And a couple of tender days afterwards while taking the stairs ProgressiveProfessor Feb 2012 #7
Do not mention stairs to me dipsydoodle Feb 2012 #12
Same here dipsydoodle Feb 2012 #9
I was going to say "I wouldn't," but she does make it look interesting. nt ZombieHorde Feb 2012 #2
you know, I don't like that one RainDog Feb 2012 #3
no, it isn't only gop men--remember stupak-pitts? niyad Feb 2012 #5
I guess I have a hard time recogizing them as democrats RainDog Feb 2012 #8
we know it is not all men--however, I don't hear a lot of d' men in the legislatures around the niyad Feb 2012 #14
I don't know how someone can be a democrat RainDog Feb 2012 #15
unfortuntely, people can call themselves whatever they want--randall terry being a case in point niyad Feb 2012 #16
this is the 2010 tea party Republican faction RainDog Feb 2012 #18
Mine did... ProgressiveProfessor Feb 2012 #4
That was MY choice almost 17 years ago. HopeHoops Feb 2012 #6
Good Post. MarianJack Feb 2012 #10
There are advantages peace frog Feb 2012 #11
How about we start the meme that EC Feb 2012 #13
lol eom tledford Feb 2012 #17
They DO choose my form of birth control FrodosPet Feb 2012 #19

mike_c

(36,281 posts)
1. that's why I got my vasectomy 30-some years ago....
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:10 PM
Feb 2012

It took the onus off my partner. Half an hour in the urologist's office and viola! Problem solved.

ProgressiveProfessor

(22,144 posts)
7. And a couple of tender days afterwards while taking the stairs
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:18 PM
Feb 2012

Still, it is the easiest and safest permanent method.

dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
12. Do not mention stairs to me
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:32 PM
Feb 2012

I went back to work the next day. I was selling photocopiers at that time. I went out canvasing and unfortunately chose a London street with all 5 story buildings and no effing lifts. I'd also walked a mile or so to get there. I lasted about 2 hours, caught a taxi back to the office and went home sick.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
3. you know, I don't like that one
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:12 PM
Feb 2012

because it's not ALL men - it's GOP men - and some GOP women.

I am sex positive and I want humans, no matter their sexual orientation or gender, to be able to have happy and loving sexual lives.

niyad

(113,600 posts)
5. no, it isn't only gop men--remember stupak-pitts?
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:16 PM
Feb 2012

you may be sex positive, but the woman-haters of the legislatures and churches are not. this is simply an attempt to get those jerks to see things from the other side.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
8. I guess I have a hard time recogizing them as democrats
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:19 PM
Feb 2012

but, again, I do say it's not all men.

however, if any feminists want to start a forcible castration vigilante group for the women-haters - I would really be tempted to sign up. lol.

(just joking, agent mike)

niyad

(113,600 posts)
14. we know it is not all men--however, I don't hear a lot of d' men in the legislatures around the
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:44 PM
Feb 2012

country opposing this woman-hating garbage.

hey, agent mikey--where do YOU stand on women's bodily autonomy?

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
15. I don't know how someone can be a democrat
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 05:01 PM
Feb 2012

and side with religious demand over equal rights for women.

The compromise the administration offered is reasonable b/c it does not have catholic organizations directly offering contraception. What I don't understand, however, is why this matters since Catholics do not follow this dictum. It's like a joke - it's like saying to Galileo that, of course the earth doesn't revolve around the sun - because that was the traditional belief.

The idea that people may not use birth control in any situation is simply delusional.

The state may not collude with a minority of religious believers to force others to face discrimination because they work for this or that corporation - as in churches that lobby to influence law.

niyad

(113,600 posts)
16. unfortuntely, people can call themselves whatever they want--randall terry being a case in point
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 05:04 PM
Feb 2012

this whole issue of fighting about contraception is nothing new--the only thing new is how openly and virulently they are doing it.

RainDog

(28,784 posts)
18. this is the 2010 tea party Republican faction
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 05:15 PM
Feb 2012

and it looks like they've taken over the Republican party.

and this is how they govern.

ProgressiveProfessor

(22,144 posts)
4. Mine did...
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:16 PM
Feb 2012

Actually we both agreed a vasectomy was the right answer for us. I took the occasional eunuch jokes in stride.

 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
6. That was MY choice almost 17 years ago.
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:17 PM
Feb 2012

Fifteen minutes of being a baby on a table and two weeks of getting stitches caught on EVERYTHING!!!!

EC

(12,287 posts)
13. How about we start the meme that
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 04:43 PM
Feb 2012

Viagra makes men permiscuous. Isn't that their reasoning about the pill, we suddenly become whores?

Every single man I knew that had viagra, had it to keep up with the young girls they were cheating with.

FrodosPet

(5,169 posts)
19. They DO choose my form of birth control
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 05:19 PM
Feb 2012

It's called ABSTINENCE!



(Yes, I laugh to hide the pain of knowing women avoid overweight, middle aged, sensitive men with underdeveloped junk like the plague)

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