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After watching the video of Mrs.Obama handling the heckler.. (Original Post) HipChick Jun 2013 OP
Just plain rude. NYC_SKP Jun 2013 #1
Civil disobedience by its nature is rude and disruptive. LonePirate Jun 2013 #2
It was private property; where do you draw the line? & What if the issues were reversed? nt patrice Jun 2013 #4
What difference does it make that it was on private property? She was removed from the premises. LonePirate Jun 2013 #6
I think it's highly unlikely that there will be extreme consequences & I don't think there should be patrice Jun 2013 #10
Did she do anything illegal, destructive or harmful? No. She interrupted a speech. So what? LonePirate Jun 2013 #11
Does that mean that you think private property should not be under the control of its owners? patrice Jun 2013 #18
She was removed from the premises. Were you wanting her drawn and quartered? LonePirate Jun 2013 #20
That kind of exaggeration causes people to mistrust your intent. I'm trying to support & patrice Jun 2013 #23
& I'd still REALLY like to understand your limitations when it comes to private property, please. patrice Jun 2013 #25
What if the owners don't want you to do something? & If there wishes can be over-ridden "for princip patrice Jun 2013 #19
Then the property owners should contact the authorities on a trespassing charge. LonePirate Jun 2013 #21
So, I was correct above, it's okay, even good, when it's for a principle, for people to use other patrice Jun 2013 #28
You said that, not me. I said call the cops. Maybe you prefer vigilantism in these instances. LonePirate Jun 2013 #33
You seem to be deflecting & re-directing. Removed by the police, of course. & People's right to defe patrice Jun 2013 #48
So what about Westboro Baptist Church? treestar Jun 2013 #47
Who gets to decide when the disruption is just? Or is it always just? NYC_SKP Jun 2013 #5
If he won't keep his promises or listen to his voters, then yes, we should heckle them everywhere. LonePirate Jun 2013 #8
One must ask what happens to public discourse if everyone with a cause starts heckling? Liberal Veteran Jun 2013 #16
If heckling becomes commonplace, then maybe he should re-evaluate how he treats his base LonePirate Jun 2013 #27
What does that have to do with the working conditions at Foxconn? Liberal Veteran Jun 2013 #32
Both? Why not all four? Don't forget Malia and Sasha! Scootaloo Jun 2013 #26
most everyone here would agree that the kids are off limits.. frylock Jun 2013 #36
If you're going to adopt spurious reasoning, you might as well go all the way Scootaloo Jun 2013 #39
i think that FLOTUS is a legit political figure.. frylock Jun 2013 #44
What makes you think this was an act of civil disobedience? bluedigger Jun 2013 #7
She violated expected public decorum, custom and behavior. That is civil disobedience at its essence LonePirate Jun 2013 #9
I guess we will have to disagree on our definition. bluedigger Jun 2013 #14
Civil disobedience jberryhill Jun 2013 #17
There are some things that need to happen to protect that EO once it gets out there, otherwise patrice Jun 2013 #22
Why are fears or hypotheticals of presidential actions in 2017 preventing certain actions today? LonePirate Jun 2013 #24
it's also tacit admission of expecting a republican to win the presidency.. frylock Jun 2013 #37
He's not a king. It would be FAR worse for LGBT for him to sign an EO & then it's gets fucked with patrice Jun 2013 #42
It takes the steam out of any bills pending in Congress treestar Jun 2013 #49
You actually think this Congress is going to pass ENDA? LonePirate Jun 2013 #53
Well, I'm glad someone realizes Congress has some power treestar Jun 2013 #54
No it is not always rude. It can be quiet, respectful and dignified. alphafemale Jun 2013 #13
I have seen that the EO for this issue is written, but not signed, so WHAT was the point? patrice Jun 2013 #3
What the White House said just hours before Michelle's speech, below Tx4obama Jun 2013 #46
Thanks for that course correction! She heckled over federal contracts; I knew, but forgot that patrice Jun 2013 #52
The interrupter isn't very people-smart BeyondGeography Jun 2013 #12
People like that disruptor do not really care about the issue they claim to support. alphafemale Jun 2013 #15
Yes and the result KT2000 Jun 2013 #34
Maybe she can scream at Neil Patrick Harris and his husband and children tomorrow. alphafemale Jun 2013 #35
like the code pink heckling obama JI7 Jun 2013 #43
It is never effective. Ever. alphafemale Jun 2013 #51
This was a private fundraiser where attendees PAID to hear FLOTUS speak. Zen Democrat Jun 2013 #29
pretty simple really.. frylock Jun 2013 #38
Yet everyone here would cheer anyone who heckled Laura Bush. Apophis Jun 2013 #30
I get the sentiment KT2000 Jun 2013 #31
Yeah, I...uh...you know, it's interesting how people are. I've never heard her speak like... Poll_Blind Jun 2013 #45
This was a bs move and even Code Pink called it out flamingdem Jun 2013 #40
Exactly. I'd like to know if this person would ever go to treestar Jun 2013 #50
"Epic fail", indeed. GoCubsGo Jun 2013 #56
It's kind of funny how many who feel the protestor was not rude or disruptive and had the right Common Sense Party Jun 2013 #41
Michelle is awesome. Atman Jun 2013 #55

LonePirate

(13,431 posts)
2. Civil disobedience by its nature is rude and disruptive.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:46 PM
Jun 2013

Do you not approve of using civil disobedience to further a cause or to achieve a goal?

LonePirate

(13,431 posts)
6. What difference does it make that it was on private property? She was removed from the premises.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:56 PM
Jun 2013

It wouldn't matter to me if the issues were reversed because once we start clamping down on civil disobedience with extreme punishments or consequences, then we become a police state which is exactly what the Republicans want. Is that what you want?

patrice

(47,992 posts)
10. I think it's highly unlikely that there will be extreme consequences & I don't think there should be
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:04 PM
Jun 2013

but a consequence I would like would be for the group's, and all such other groups', funding sources to be public information.

I don't understand why this happened, as I have seen that EO is in the final drafting stages now.

Just clarifying here: are you saying it's okay to do things for principles on other people's property, as long as the person doing so is removed?

LonePirate

(13,431 posts)
11. Did she do anything illegal, destructive or harmful? No. She interrupted a speech. So what?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:08 PM
Jun 2013

If she had done something illegal, then by all means she should face the consequences of her actions or principles.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
23. That kind of exaggeration causes people to mistrust your intent. I'm trying to support &
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:47 PM
Jun 2013

I said the only consequence that I'm interested in is in knowing who is funding these PACs. Are you at all concerned that a corporate person could attack PO's economic justice agenda by driving a wedge into his base over this issue?

I am.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
19. What if the owners don't want you to do something? & If there wishes can be over-ridden "for princip
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:27 PM
Jun 2013

le" does that mean that they can also be compelled to do certain things "for principle"?

LonePirate

(13,431 posts)
21. Then the property owners should contact the authorities on a trespassing charge.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:30 PM
Jun 2013

It's pretty simple to do.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
28. So, I was correct above, it's okay, even good, when it's for a principle, for people to use other
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:52 PM
Jun 2013

people's property however they deem necessary as long as they are removed.

LonePirate

(13,431 posts)
33. You said that, not me. I said call the cops. Maybe you prefer vigilantism in these instances.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:57 PM
Jun 2013

Or do you prefer a Second Amendment solution? I do not advocate violence as a means to resolve issues; but then again, I actually support and advocate progressive ideals.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
48. You seem to be deflecting & re-directing. Removed by the police, of course. & People's right to defe
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 12:17 AM
Jun 2013

nd their private property, IF NECESSARY, with a gun is one aspect of the 2nd Amendment that I support, though my definition of defend and necessary are probably quite a bit more narrow than some people we hear about in the news.

I do hope that our definitions of support and advocate are similar. Mine date from the mid-70s, before all of this became so fashionable, and include nuclear freeze, arms control, environmental publishing and activism, anti-war, including the war on Iraq BEFORE we invaded, racism resistance, and the occupy. My time and money have gone in support of Liberal economic and social policies, before this most recent resurgence in the use of the word "progressive".

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
5. Who gets to decide when the disruption is just? Or is it always just?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:52 PM
Jun 2013

Maybe we should just heckle both Obamas constantly, all day long, wherever they speak.

Would that be OK just because it's civil disobedience?

Is it always OK, then?

What would be accomplished? Probably, there would be fewer and fewer public appearances.

I disapprove of trying to hijack Michelle's presentation when this presidency has been so (comparatively) yielding to audience disruptors.

LonePirate

(13,431 posts)
8. If he won't keep his promises or listen to his voters, then yes, we should heckle them everywhere.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:02 PM
Jun 2013

There was nothing violent in this protest. It was a tame act of civil disobedience, all things considered. Just or unjust is irrelevant in this instance given the ridiculously minute scale\scope of this heckler.

If this leads to fewer and fewer public appearances because the president refuses to honor his campaign promises or because he is afraid of someone speaking out against him, then so be it. He's the president. After everything the Republicans have said and done, if he can't handle a progressive heckler, then maybe he should seriously give some thought to his lack of support for issues of concern to the Democratic base.

Liberal Veteran

(22,239 posts)
16. One must ask what happens to public discourse if everyone with a cause starts heckling?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:21 PM
Jun 2013

We can all take solace in Saint Joe Wilson and his example at the State of the Union for showing how things should be done?

Or the teabaggers that disrupted forums to point that the only people showing up anymore for awhile were teabaggers?

LonePirate

(13,431 posts)
27. If heckling becomes commonplace, then maybe he should re-evaluate how he treats his base
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:50 PM
Jun 2013

Forgive me for expecting a Democratic president to cater more to his base than to Republicans.

Liberal Veteran

(22,239 posts)
32. What does that have to do with the working conditions at Foxconn?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:56 PM
Jun 2013

Don't you realize that people are killing themselves so you can enjoy cheap computer equipment?

What do you have to say about that?


(Note: I decided to take your advice and talk about my own pet cause rather than the one being discussed.)

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
26. Both? Why not all four? Don't forget Malia and Sasha!
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:50 PM
Jun 2013

After all, fathers listen to their daughters too, right? So they're "valid targets" as well!

frylock

(34,825 posts)
36. most everyone here would agree that the kids are off limits..
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:18 PM
Jun 2013

It's something that was *mostly* honored here during shrub's reign of terror.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
39. If you're going to adopt spurious reasoning, you might as well go all the way
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:29 PM
Jun 2013

If Michelle is a valid target because she's the president's wife and thus "has influence," as you and so many others insist, then there is no reason for you to draw a line for the children. After all, they have influence as well, and their father has even said so.

frylock

(34,825 posts)
44. i think that FLOTUS is a legit political figure..
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:44 PM
Jun 2013

She campaigned for him, and is out promoting his policy. I agree without about everything you post on this board. I'm just going to have to beg to differ on this one.

bluedigger

(17,087 posts)
7. What makes you think this was an act of civil disobedience?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:00 PM
Jun 2013

Where was the Challenge to the State?

At least Thoreau spent the night in jail for not paying his poll tax, which was neither rude nor particularly disruptive, I might add. This was just a case of drawing attention for a cause by being rude. I don't find anything noble in spending $500 for the opportunity to heckle the First Lady while facing no repercussions other than the disapproval of much of society. It's just trollery in RL.

LonePirate

(13,431 posts)
9. She violated expected public decorum, custom and behavior. That is civil disobedience at its essence
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:04 PM
Jun 2013

Personally, what I find rude is the President not honoring his campaign promise to sign the EO. Which is worse? The heckle or the lie?

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
17. Civil disobedience
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:21 PM
Jun 2013

Is refusal to obey unjust laws or to passively interfere in the administration of unjust laws.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
22. There are some things that need to happen to protect that EO once it gets out there, otherwise
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:40 PM
Jun 2013

it can be over-written by another EO, from a different president, and states can design legislation specifically to counter the EO.

Now that I think about it, depending upon who the funders are behind the group that put the heckler there, perhaps the group's intended message in this is that the EO would survive a Republican president, so that leaves only the states who could use the EO to defeat LGBT rights to marry.

Perhaps, by waiting, Obama is fishing for a foundation to get DOMA over-turned by Congress . . . ? That would mean more than an EO, which everyone gripes about anyway.

LonePirate

(13,431 posts)
24. Why are fears or hypotheticals of presidential actions in 2017 preventing certain actions today?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:47 PM
Jun 2013

I do not understand that cowardly excuse. It's the same one used to keep the filibuster in place and it's detrimental to achieving progress right now. Any EO the next President may sign that could overturn an EO he signs should be of no concern. That is merely catering to the Republicans and their obstructionism and do-nothingness.


If the President doesn't want to lead and do what's right, be it signing this EO, closing Guantanamo, or whatever else, then why did he want to be President?

patrice

(47,992 posts)
42. He's not a king. It would be FAR worse for LGBT for him to sign an EO & then it's gets fucked with
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:40 PM
Jun 2013

after he leaves office. I appreciate that he doesn't want to take chances with other people's lives any more than he can avoid doing so. It could still happen, because some people are very busy destroying his political support, but at least he himself would have made the effort to do the right thing and over-turn DOMA.

Disregard for hypotheticals is what resulted in 9/11 and Iraqis greeting us with IED instead of roses. Not all hypotheticals are equally significant, but part of what I'm paying my taxes for is for responsible persons to identify the nature, likelihood, and significance of the ones that I and people like the LGBT community might be concerned about. Do you really want to be so cavalier about the effect of a failed EO on people who are TRYING to put their lives together?

I'm pretty sure that you know why Guantanamo isn't closed & that Congress is trying to make a Catch 22 out of that.

"lead"? Your critique of PO suggests that you have a more authoritarian definition for that word than I do. If everything that happens comes only from one branch of government, solutions may be quite a bit less durable, not to mention quite a bit more dysfunctional.

I'm not happy about the filibuster reform. NOT. The consequences have been huge. But I also must yield to people who know extremely much more about the myriad complexity of details, personell and situational, that are part of that calculation than I do. And even though it is tremendously much harder, I have to agree with the concept of not just tinkering with this and that, not enabling a bad system to make itself look better, letting the full dysfunction display itself and hopefully activate those who need to change themselves and what they are doing in order to change Congress.

LonePirate

(13,431 posts)
53. You actually think this Congress is going to pass ENDA?
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 06:08 AM
Jun 2013

Exactly how is the bill going to pass the House?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
54. Well, I'm glad someone realizes Congress has some power
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 09:13 AM
Jun 2013

The one elected in 2014 might. That is if people can quit blaming the President for Congress not being very liberal at this time.

As for the EO, Obama has a strategy. Not liking that is one thing, but being a jerk to the FL is stupid.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
13. No it is not always rude. It can be quiet, respectful and dignified.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:09 PM
Jun 2013

That is really the only time it has worked.

Shouting and rudeness will not cause people to listen.

It has the exact opposite result.

Tx4obama

(36,974 posts)
46. What the White House said just hours before Michelle's speech, below
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:50 PM
Jun 2013

-snip-

The heckling happened a bit after 6 p.m. under a white tent in the backyard of the residence of Karen Dixon and Nan Schaffer in Northwest DC. Rep. Debbie Wasserman Schultz, the chair of the Democratic National Committee, also was in attendance at the event, which benefits the DNC.

The incident came hours after White House press secretary Jay Carney reiterated the president’s focus being on legislation, the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, that would ban most private employers from discriminating on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity, and not the proposed executive order

-snip-

http://www.buzzfeed.com/chrisgeidner/michelle-obama-heckled-for-presidents-inaction-on-proposed-l


patrice

(47,992 posts)
52. Thanks for that course correction! She heckled over federal contracts; I knew, but forgot that
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 12:25 AM
Jun 2013

, just focusing, instead, on heckling on private property, which seems like such an obvious non-starter to me.

BeyondGeography

(39,377 posts)
12. The interrupter isn't very people-smart
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:09 PM
Jun 2013

Or she doesn't spend enough time getting to know the people she's messing with. First time I've seen the clip, but having watched Michelle Obama for years, what made Sturtz think she wouldn't get major pushback? She not only interrupted, she was trying change the subject and take the focus off of kids, which is the First Lady's passion.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
15. People like that disruptor do not really care about the issue they claim to support.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:16 PM
Jun 2013

They care only about their own egos and camera time.

They are causing real harm to the issue they claim to support with this self serving crap.

KT2000

(20,586 posts)
34. Yes and the result
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:58 PM
Jun 2013

is that President Obama will immediately sign that EO - NOT.

That woman harmed her issue badly.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
35. Maybe she can scream at Neil Patrick Harris and his husband and children tomorrow.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:03 PM
Jun 2013

She doesn't really care about the issue.

She cares about the minutes her face is on camera.

JI7

(89,262 posts)
43. like the code pink heckling obama
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:43 PM
Jun 2013

she kept interrupting him from speaking about the issue she claimed to care about . like WTF is that ? oh, you can't have attention go to the issue , it has to be on ME ME ME .............

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
51. It is never effective. Ever.
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 12:24 AM
Jun 2013

It alienates people that might have been brought to support the cause, if only these shouters had acted like a decent human being.

Zen Democrat

(5,901 posts)
29. This was a private fundraiser where attendees PAID to hear FLOTUS speak.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:54 PM
Jun 2013

She deserved to be thrown out for disrupting. She had a right to say it and get thrown out. What's the problem?

Poll_Blind

(23,864 posts)
45. Yeah, I...uh...you know, it's interesting how people are. I've never heard her speak like...
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:49 PM
Jun 2013

...that, either.

PB

flamingdem

(39,319 posts)
40. This was a bs move and even Code Pink called it out
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:35 PM
Jun 2013

Poorly conceived and inelegant, and clearly an epic fail

Save it for the real jerks who deserve it in congress

treestar

(82,383 posts)
50. Exactly. I'd like to know if this person would ever go to
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 12:20 AM
Jun 2013

a place where she could heckle Newt Gringich or Pat Robertson or such persons on the subject.

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
56. "Epic fail", indeed.
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 09:28 AM
Jun 2013

Instead of getting people to discuss her cause, she has them discussing whether or not it's appropriate to heckle the First Lady. Nice job, Ms. Heckler!

Common Sense Party

(14,139 posts)
41. It's kind of funny how many who feel the protestor was not rude or disruptive and had the right
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:36 PM
Jun 2013

to interrupt and talk about her own agenda...

...are DUers who will throw a conniption fit if someone dares to hijack a thread on a message board with an off-topic discussion.

Atman

(31,464 posts)
55. Michelle is awesome.
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 09:22 AM
Jun 2013

We had two of our dearest friends over for dinner last weekend. And got to meet the new addition to their family, a beautiful, happy 1 year old. This lesbian couple could not be happier with the Obamas. Fortunately, we're all New Englanders, where gay marriage is normal. They certainly weren't doing so well under the Republican administration. I think this heckler was rude, obnoxious and out of place.

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