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LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 04:35 PM Feb 2012

Why does anyone care what I do in my bedroom?

I am a law abiding citizen of this country.
What I only involves another law abiding consenting adult.

Don't I have the right to make my own choices for my body?

Why is it their business?

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Why does anyone care what I do in my bedroom? (Original Post) LynneSin Feb 2012 OP
Because they're control freaks and pevs. geardaddy Feb 2012 #1
They like to watch? MineralMan Feb 2012 #1
Because we have a nation of "Gladys Kravitizes." Behind the Aegis Feb 2012 #3
I need to know MrCoffee Feb 2012 #4
Because they are authoritarian control freaks, and many of them do it RKP5637 Feb 2012 #5
To paraphrase Lenny Bruce... dogknob Feb 2012 #6
the Snivelling Shits....................... agree stockholmer Feb 2012 #13
Funny, I just wrote my congressman who is a republican. I told him that I felt the republicans southernyankeebelle Feb 2012 #7
they think the govt should be small, but in you bedroom spanone Feb 2012 #8
God is in the mix (nt) Nye Bevan Feb 2012 #9
They don't care. They're upset that you're having more fun in your bedroom than no_hypocrisy Feb 2012 #10
Right!?! And more to the point HillWilliam Feb 2012 #11
Have you seen this? Ruby the Liberal Feb 2012 #14
I, at least, missed that and thank you so much for posting it here! n/t renie408 Feb 2012 #18
Oh, I did! And thank you for reposting it! HillWilliam Feb 2012 #34
Pick up a copy of "1984" n/t LadyHawkAZ Feb 2012 #12
I've read that and Animal Farm too LynneSin Feb 2012 #16
Have you read "A Handmaiden's Tale"? Excellent read. A Simple Game Feb 2012 #44
It is their business, that's the problem, we're just "customers" or "consumers" Uncle Joe Feb 2012 #15
They don't want you to have more 'fun' than they are able to get up to, that's why. MADem Feb 2012 #17
This post is worthless without pictures. ieoeja Feb 2012 #19
evangelize the world dembotoz Feb 2012 #20
They do not care what you do in your bedroom. L. Coyote Feb 2012 #21
Some people exist only to control others. Rex Feb 2012 #22
Because Jeebus will punish us all... liberalmuse Feb 2012 #23
Because... fifthoffive Feb 2012 #24
You know Rex Feb 2012 #26
It's only their business if you film it and upload it to the internet. Fuzz Feb 2012 #25
Then please don't tell me what you do in your bedroom. there but 4 fortune Feb 2012 #27
It's very generous of you to include 'heteros' too. Fuzz Feb 2012 #30
You're welcome (I think). there but 4 fortune Feb 2012 #31
It's hard to be so equally offended. Good effort. Fuzz Feb 2012 #32
But ya are, Blanche. ya are. Iggo Feb 2012 #38
???? i own my story Feb 2012 #41
Oh, you're back! Iggo Feb 2012 #43
Thank you for clarify that with us heteros. Was about to post a thread about my sexcades! LynneSin Feb 2012 #36
I included it so that I wasn't accused of homophobia. I just don't want to hear about who anyone i own my story Feb 2012 #42
I don't know, but I am so flippin' tired of it. a la izquierda Feb 2012 #28
Yes, I care all the time. Cleita Feb 2012 #29
DUR Redstate Bluegirl Feb 2012 #33
As it should be! Your body, your choice, your business (and no one else's)*** hughee99 Feb 2012 #35
If you just make some vidoes and post them online, we'll leave you alone. JoePhilly Feb 2012 #37
It's all part of the republican 'make government smaller' thing..... wandy Feb 2012 #39
Sexual repression leads to sexual obsession n/t Prophet 451 Feb 2012 #40

Behind the Aegis

(53,961 posts)
3. Because we have a nation of "Gladys Kravitizes."
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 04:38 PM
Feb 2012

"Abner! Abner!" (Bewitched reference)

Seriously, look at the increase in "reality" TV shows. Everybody wants to know what everyone else is doing in order to "keep up with the Joneses" or "wag a finger at their sinful, dirty ways." It is pathetic!

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
5. Because they are authoritarian control freaks, and many of them do it
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 04:40 PM
Feb 2012

under the guise of religion. Religion is a great cloak for control freaks. I'm surprised they haven't introduced a bill to require cameras and monitoring of every bedroom.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
7. Funny, I just wrote my congressman who is a republican. I told him that I felt the republicans
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 04:42 PM
Feb 2012

were the ones who were doing the War on religion and on women. I told him as a catholic I didn't like it and that the republican party woke up a sleeping bear. Women will not stand by and lose their birth control. They will lose a lot of independent and even some republican women.

no_hypocrisy

(46,130 posts)
10. They don't care. They're upset that you're having more fun in your bedroom than
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 04:46 PM
Feb 2012

they're having in theirs.

HillWilliam

(3,310 posts)
11. Right!?! And more to the point
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 04:49 PM
Feb 2012

why do they care so much about to whom my heart leads me. You know what they say: lovin' don't last, cookin' do. What's left after years of commitment and dedication, but the love? Hot sex fades somewhat as you age (raise a family, nookie-time becomes tend to the kids time or do the grocery shopping time or cut the lawn time; always something else needs doing first). We're lucky if we get to SLEEP in our bedroom, let alone swing from the light fixtures any more. Yannow??

WTF difference does it make in THEIR lives who I'm loving and supporting in mine?

HillWilliam

(3,310 posts)
34. Oh, I did! And thank you for reposting it!
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 07:04 PM
Feb 2012

I admit I got a bit choked up seeing her passion and pride in her daughter.

That vid is a bit of awesomeness.

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
44. Have you read "A Handmaiden's Tale"? Excellent read.
Sat Feb 11, 2012, 04:33 PM
Feb 2012

By the way, I know a guy, that knows a guy on the inside, that says they only care about the bedrooms of people that have a strong liking for cowbells.

Uncle Joe

(58,366 posts)
15. It is their business, that's the problem, we're just "customers" or "consumers"
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 04:57 PM
Feb 2012

to be sold a product, candidate, down the river or all of the above.

Authoritarians by nature believe they should control everything about you and the right wing authoritarian quadrant on the political spectrum is what's being promoted by the corporate media as "centrist," "moderate" or "mainstream" nowadays.

The vast majority of the corporate media is not your friend, they believe in authoritarianism because corporations by nature are authoritarian.

Corporate supremacist loving authoritarians want to control everything about you, me and most everybody else along with "We the People's" government.

Thanks for the thread, LynneSin.

MADem

(135,425 posts)
17. They don't want you to have more 'fun' than they are able to get up to, that's why.
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 05:01 PM
Feb 2012

It's bitter envy, pure and simple!

dembotoz

(16,808 posts)
20. evangelize the world
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 05:10 PM
Feb 2012

make everyone just as god fearing as they are.

whatever the strip
whatever the cloth
whatever the book.

L. Coyote

(51,129 posts)
21. They do not care what you do in your bedroom.
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 05:14 PM
Feb 2012

They care what you do on election day, and the bedroom issue influences what happens on election day. And we all know what happens on election day ...

All the little piggies determine who controls the trough full of your money

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
22. Some people exist only to control others.
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 05:21 PM
Feb 2012

And the only way they can do that is to control what The People can do socially. It feeds their huge insecurities with negative feedback(which they love). It makes them feel safe when they persecute someone else, even better if that person is powerless. It causes them to be distracted from their horrible personal lives. It moves us one step closer to living in a true police state, and that is the way the paymasters want it.

liberalmuse

(18,672 posts)
23. Because Jeebus will punish us all...
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 05:30 PM
Feb 2012

by killing our crops and making our naughty parts shrivel up and drop off if you deviate from teh missionary secks.

 

Rex

(65,616 posts)
26. You know
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 05:41 PM
Feb 2012

I think THAT is it right there. It is the "if I cannot have icecream, no one can have icecream" syndrome that I just made up on the spot.

 
27. Then please don't tell me what you do in your bedroom.
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 05:44 PM
Feb 2012

I really DON'T want to know! And this goes for heteros, too! Just keep it to yourselves!

 
31. You're welcome (I think).
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 05:57 PM
Feb 2012

Of course you are insinuating that I really am directing my remarks to the gay community and that I am really a homophobe but no, that's not it. Hopefully you can get over yourself!

Edit: I can't believe I wrote "YOUR" initially. I need to get off the Internets ASAP!

Iggo

(47,558 posts)
38. But ya are, Blanche. ya are.
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 07:24 PM
Feb 2012

You're getting off the internets one website at a time.

Starting with this one.

LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
36. Thank you for clarify that with us heteros. Was about to post a thread about my sexcades!
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 07:18 PM
Feb 2012


You know I agreed with you on the first part - honestly, I really don't want to hear other people's sex stories. But why did you feel you had to clarify 'oh that includes you heteros too'?

BTW, most GLBT couplese really don't want to share their bedroom antics with others.
 

i own my story

(33 posts)
42. I included it so that I wasn't accused of homophobia. I just don't want to hear about who anyone
Sat Feb 11, 2012, 01:36 PM
Feb 2012

wants to do! And I dislike it being framed as what one does in the bedroom because it gives the impression that the gay community is more promiscuous than straights. Which I doubt is true for lesbians but could be possibly true for gay men because...you got two men in the picture!

a la izquierda

(11,795 posts)
28. I don't know, but I am so flippin' tired of it.
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 05:44 PM
Feb 2012

I'm sick of the Republican party, of sick of their maniacal supporters, and I'm sick of the power they have in this country.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
29. Yes, I care all the time.
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 05:51 PM
Feb 2012

NOT! I'm thinking this birth control controversy is a set up by the conservatives to put BO on the defensive. It seems to me that Big PhRMA would be pissed about a big part of their market being made illegal. The fact that they are silent and know there isn't a serious threat there makes me think so.

hughee99

(16,113 posts)
35. As it should be! Your body, your choice, your business (and no one else's)***
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 07:13 PM
Feb 2012

*** unless we're talking about a law abiding, consenting adult smoking in their bedroom, in which case, some corporations and government entities have decided that THAT is their business, and can fire you for doing so.

JoePhilly

(27,787 posts)
37. If you just make some vidoes and post them online, we'll leave you alone.
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 07:19 PM
Feb 2012

We're just curious because part of your screen name is "Sin".

OHHHH Wait ... that's not what you meant ... never mind.

My bet is that the Religious right is upset that you might be having more fun then them.

So actually, if you made some videos and posted them online, they might learn something and leave you alone. Or, try to outlaw some of the things that they have no idea that you are doing.

Tough call.




wandy

(3,539 posts)
39. It's all part of the republican 'make government smaller' thing.....
Fri Feb 10, 2012, 07:32 PM
Feb 2012

What do republicans have to offer. Basically Hate and Fear. Go ahead, call me on this.
So.....
If I know what you do in you're bedroom AND....
I can find enough people who disapprove of it...
And/Or I find enough people who are afraid of it, as in they might want to try it.
Then they will hate and fear you.
They will unite in my cause and I can spread Santorum all over the land.

Don't even bother to ask if a Moose; who doesn't give a rats a** about what other people do in their bedrooms; has had a bad day.

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