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"Tell me how you really feel about masturbation, and I can more or less predict how you'll feel about the more frequently debated 'sex war' issues."
HUGO SCHWYZERMAY 22 2013, 9:28 AM ET
When we think of the culture wars, we tend to think of sex. And when we think of the most contentious political fronts in the sex wars, we usually think of gay marriage, abortion rights, and pornography. As divisive as those issues remain, a universal human activity may lie at the heart of these contemporary struggles: masturbation. The questions that self-pleasure raises are foundational: to whom do our bodies belong? What is sex for? Tell me how you really feel about masturbation, and I can more or less predict how you'll feel about the more frequently debated "sex war" issues.
Masturbation is almost certainly the most common human sexual practice. Though statistics about private sexual behavior vary widely, there's little dispute that the vast majority of both men and women will masturbate over the course of their lifetimes. Perhaps nothing so universal is discussed with greater embarrassment (or denied with greater frequency). That enduring shame and silence is one reason behind National Masturbation Month, which comes (sorry) to an end next week. First organized by the pioneering sex shop Good Vibrations in 1995 to protest the firing of Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders (who had dared suggest that teaching young people to masturbate could have a place in sex education), the month's events include innumerable education events across the countryand a Masturbate-a-Thon in San Francisco that raises money for charity. The month serves, as Good Vibrations announced in its annual press release, as "a necessary reminder that self-satisfaction is a healthy, accessible form of pleasure engaged in by almost everyone."
The view of masturbation as benign and beneficial is a new one. The Judeo-Christian tradition has long been hostile towards self-pleasure, at least for men. The Talmud compares spilling seed to spilling blood; the Zohar (the central work of Kabbalah) calls it the most evil act a man can commit. The traditional Christian view was no more tolerant; Catholic and Protestant authorities framed masturbation as a deeply sinful (though forgivable) waste of precious semen. Women were left out of these prohibitions for the obvious reason that most male religious authorities didn't consider the possibility that women were capable of or interested in giving themselves orgasms.
The campaign against masturbation became medicalized in the middle of the 19th century. Health reformers like Sylvester Graham (of the cracker) and John Harvey Kellogg (of the cereal) warned against the feminizing and enervating effects of male masturbation, describing it not as a sin but as a habit that could rob boys of their vital life force. At the same time, doctors began to warn of something theologians either hadn't considered or dared to mention: the dangers of female self-pleasure. Beginning in 1858, Dr. Isaac Baker-Brownthe president of the Medical Society of Londonbegan to encourage surgical clitoridectomies to prevent hysteria, epilepsy, mania and even death that would surely follow as a consequence of the stimulation of the clitoris.
Other Victorian-era doctors took a seemingly more enlightened attitude...
http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/05/masturbation-is-at-the-root-of-the-culture-wars/276110/
Scuba
(53,475 posts)TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)"The Puritan hates bear-baiting not because it gives pain to the bear, but because it gives pleasure to the spectators."
And still today there are those who live in unspeakable dread that somewhere someone is having a good time.
hobbit709
(41,694 posts)xchrom
(108,903 posts)mojowork_n
(2,354 posts)Back in the 70's or 80's or whenever it was, at a county fair in some bucolic Balkan province, I saw a tiny bear with a gi-normous ring through its nose. It wasn't much bigger than a really large dog, but it was being led around with chains and iron rings and wooden restraints that might have served to tether a Velociraptor.
It was awful.
A part of me is with the Puritans on this one.
What Michael Vick went to jail for looked like nothing, compared to what that bear was going through.
Matt_in_STL
(1,446 posts)I must be on a lifelong, one man crusade against my penis.
niyad
(113,552 posts)Fumesucker
(45,851 posts)Egalitarian Thug
(12,448 posts)So, explain again how fervent belief in a fantasy is good for us?
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)I'm leaning toward "no."
AnnieBW
(10,457 posts)This would explain the British insult of calling someone a "wanker" or a masturbator. Maybe.
Jokerman
(3,518 posts)I'll never forget that Bill Clinton fired her for saying that.
siligut
(12,272 posts)http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joycelyn_Elders