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kristopher

(29,798 posts)
Wed May 22, 2013, 10:01 AM May 2013

Masturbation Is at the Root of the Culture Wars

Masturbation Is at the Root of the Culture Wars
"Tell me how you really feel about masturbation, and I can more or less predict how you'll feel about the more frequently debated 'sex war' issues."
HUGO SCHWYZERMAY 22 2013, 9:28 AM ET


When we think of the culture wars, we tend to think of sex. And when we think of the most contentious political fronts in the sex wars, we usually think of gay marriage, abortion rights, and pornography. As divisive as those issues remain, a universal human activity may lie at the heart of these contemporary struggles: masturbation. The questions that self-pleasure raises are foundational: to whom do our bodies belong? What is sex for? Tell me how you really feel about masturbation, and I can more or less predict how you'll feel about the more frequently debated "sex war" issues.

Masturbation is almost certainly the most common human sexual practice. Though statistics about private sexual behavior vary widely, there's little dispute that the vast majority of both men and women will masturbate over the course of their lifetimes. Perhaps nothing so universal is discussed with greater embarrassment (or denied with greater frequency). That enduring shame and silence is one reason behind National Masturbation Month, which comes (sorry) to an end next week. First organized by the pioneering sex shop Good Vibrations in 1995 to protest the firing of Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders (who had dared suggest that teaching young people to masturbate could have a place in sex education), the month's events include innumerable education events across the country—and a Masturbate-a-Thon in San Francisco that raises money for charity. The month serves, as Good Vibrations announced in its annual press release, as "a necessary reminder that self-satisfaction is a healthy, accessible form of pleasure engaged in by almost everyone."

The view of masturbation as benign and beneficial is a new one. The Judeo-Christian tradition has long been hostile towards self-pleasure, at least for men. The Talmud compares spilling seed to spilling blood; the Zohar (the central work of Kabbalah) calls it the most evil act a man can commit. The traditional Christian view was no more tolerant; Catholic and Protestant authorities framed masturbation as a deeply sinful (though forgivable) waste of precious semen. Women were left out of these prohibitions for the obvious reason that most male religious authorities didn't consider the possibility that women were capable of or interested in giving themselves orgasms.

The campaign against masturbation became medicalized in the middle of the 19th century. Health reformers like Sylvester Graham (of the cracker) and John Harvey Kellogg (of the cereal) warned against the feminizing and enervating effects of male masturbation, describing it not as a sin but as a habit that could rob boys of their vital life force. At the same time, doctors began to warn of something theologians either hadn't considered or dared to mention: the dangers of female self-pleasure. Beginning in 1858, Dr. Isaac Baker-Brown—the president of the Medical Society of London—began to encourage surgical clitoridectomies to prevent hysteria, epilepsy, mania and even death that would surely follow as a consequence of the stimulation of the clitoris.

Other Victorian-era doctors took a seemingly more enlightened attitude...


http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/05/masturbation-is-at-the-root-of-the-culture-wars/276110/
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Masturbation Is at the Root of the Culture Wars (Original Post) kristopher May 2013 OP
I'm sorry. Scuba May 2013 #1
Babington once said... TreasonousBastard May 2013 #2
You got it. hobbit709 May 2013 #4
+1 xchrom May 2013 #5
Nicely phrased, accurate assessment... but I wish he'd used a different example. mojowork_n May 2013 #10
I never thought of myself as a culture warrior. Matt_in_STL May 2013 #3
had almost forgotten about all that niyad May 2013 #6
The pause that refreshes Fumesucker May 2013 #7
Genocide in a sock... Egalitarian Thug May 2013 #8
Is there anything in this society that religion hasn't poisoned? Arugula Latte May 2013 #9
Wankers AnnieBW May 2013 #11
"I think that it is part of human sexuality, and perhaps it should be taught." - Joycelyn Elders Jokerman May 2013 #12
Surgeon General Joyce Elders was terminated for her views on it siligut May 2013 #13

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
2. Babington once said...
Wed May 22, 2013, 10:08 AM
May 2013

"The Puritan hates bear-baiting not because it gives pain to the bear, but because it gives pleasure to the spectators."

And still today there are those who live in unspeakable dread that somewhere someone is having a good time.

mojowork_n

(2,354 posts)
10. Nicely phrased, accurate assessment... but I wish he'd used a different example.
Wed May 22, 2013, 01:23 PM
May 2013

Back in the 70's or 80's or whenever it was, at a county fair in some bucolic Balkan province, I saw a tiny bear with a gi-normous ring through its nose. It wasn't much bigger than a really large dog, but it was being led around with chains and iron rings and wooden restraints that might have served to tether a Velociraptor.

It was awful.

A part of me is with the Puritans on this one.

What Michael Vick went to jail for looked like nothing, compared to what that bear was going through.

 

Matt_in_STL

(1,446 posts)
3. I never thought of myself as a culture warrior.
Wed May 22, 2013, 10:09 AM
May 2013

I must be on a lifelong, one man crusade against my penis.

Jokerman

(3,518 posts)
12. "I think that it is part of human sexuality, and perhaps it should be taught." - Joycelyn Elders
Wed May 22, 2013, 02:01 PM
May 2013

I'll never forget that Bill Clinton fired her for saying that.

siligut

(12,272 posts)
13. Surgeon General Joyce Elders was terminated for her views on it
Wed May 22, 2013, 02:11 PM
May 2013
In 1994, she was invited to speak at a United Nations conference on AIDS. She was asked whether it would be appropriate to promote masturbation as a means of preventing young people from engaging in riskier forms of sexual activity, and she replied, "I think that it is part of human sexuality, and perhaps it should be taught." This remark caused great controversy and resulted in Elders losing the support of the White House. White House chief of staff Leon Panetta remarked, "There have been too many areas where the President does not agree with her views. This is just one too many." [1] Elders was fired by President Clinton as a result of the controversy in December 1994.[1][7][8] Elders had previously made a number of other statements that put her in the public spotlight, like her quote in January 1994 "We really need to get over this love affair with the fetus and start worrying about children."[9]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joycelyn_Elders


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