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Posted without comment: (Original Post) CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 OP
My Dear CaliforniaPeggy... NYC_SKP Apr 2013 #1
My dear NYC_SKP! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #2
UNrec. The subject line should note the OP is anti-smoking. Tx4obama Apr 2013 #3
UNrec my ass! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #4
My Dearest CalifPeggy HipChick Apr 2013 #5
Oh good, my dear HipChick! I'm carryin' on! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #6
Everyone in my family smokes.. HipChick Apr 2013 #18
I made it 3 &1/2 years before they found throat cancer olddots Apr 2013 #7
Oh, my dear olddots... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #11
that's what I've always been curious about. Is there a high or buzz? Sirveri Apr 2013 #59
I am glad to say i got both of my parents to stop smoking in the past 2 years. hrmjustin Apr 2013 #8
Good for you, my dear hrmjustin... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #12
Thirty years after quitting JayhawkSD Apr 2013 #9
You know, I wanted so much to smoke back in college, my dear JayhawkSD... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #14
Well, thanks, but... JayhawkSD Apr 2013 #62
I quit cigs on 4/20/2003 OriginalGeek Apr 2013 #10
Good for you, my dear OriginalGeek! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #15
Thank you kindly Ma'am OriginalGeek Apr 2013 #17
Proud to Rec. cbrer Apr 2013 #13
Wow, cold turkey! Congrats, my dear cbrer... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #16
I bask in the warmth of your kindness cbrer Apr 2013 #19
That unrec was just a joke--not to worry! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #20
My Dear California Peggy cbrer Apr 2013 #23
Thank you... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #26
Cold turkey on 07/09/70 indepat Apr 2013 #55
The risk of cancer never goes back to the same as non-smokers, I take it? snot Apr 2013 #21
I just looked at it again, my dear snot... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #22
the money saved is awesome too!!! Skittles Apr 2013 #24
Damn right, my dear Skittles! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #27
but the best part hfojvt Apr 2013 #45
Smokers RobinA Apr 2013 #60
I am 18 years without smoking now tandot Apr 2013 #25
I hope you'll be fine too, my dear tandot! CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #28
my husband had A-fib and Atrial flutter tandot Apr 2013 #32
Thank you tandot for sharing this information! BrotherIvan Apr 2013 #54
I quit 8 months ago KauaiK Apr 2013 #29
A little reinforcement is always a good thing, my dear KauaiK... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #30
Quit drinking booze 29 years ago and then stopped smoking 1 year later... WCGreen Apr 2013 #31
These pre-senior cataracted eyes can't read this... Contrary1 Apr 2013 #33
Here ya go! Hope it helps... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2013 #46
This message was self-deleted by its author Maynar Apr 2013 #34
Love it! IGoToDU Apr 2013 #35
I quit 32 years ago jimlup Apr 2013 #36
I think everyone who ever quit has some form of that dream rurallib Apr 2013 #37
I know... pipi_k Apr 2013 #41
Yep that's it exactly! jimlup Apr 2013 #43
15 months quit here alcibiades_mystery Apr 2013 #38
ONE YEAR CIGARETTE-FREE on Tuesday! Earth_First Apr 2013 #39
Right on mokawanis Apr 2013 #58
Someone mentioned above pipi_k Apr 2013 #40
Good OP Old Codger Apr 2013 #42
Thank you for posting this CaliforniaPeggy. 99Forever Apr 2013 #44
Thank you, Peggy. All these DUers and this post will TheManInTheMac Apr 2013 #47
August 14 1977, 8:05 am smoked my last cigarette madokie Apr 2013 #48
Don't know what you got under your sink nadinbrzezinski Apr 2013 #52
Thank you for posting that, California Peggy. GoCubsGo Apr 2013 #49
Haven't smoked in three years I'm proud to say and it's true you do feel better. Arcanetrance Apr 2013 #50
450k smoking related deaths a year- 49k from second hand smoke geckosfeet Apr 2013 #51
My mom was a lifelong smoker (along with everyone else in the family) forthemiddle Apr 2013 #53
We're about to go cig-free in my place after 30 years of smoking mokawanis Apr 2013 #56
Great timing, Peggy! Scruffy Rumbler Apr 2013 #57
This EX-smoker appreciates the graphic! Duppers Apr 2013 #61
I should add that my father died at age 72 JayhawkSD Apr 2013 #63
Thanks for Posting! Non-smoker going on 23 years! rustydog Apr 2013 #64
 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
1. My Dear CaliforniaPeggy...
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:14 AM
Apr 2013

Thank you so very much for posting this.

I'm proud to be able to say that without exception that I have not smoked since November 18th 2007 and I will never ever ever ever again do that bad thing.

I love you.

Be well right now!


CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
2. My dear NYC_SKP!
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:18 AM
Apr 2013

I am thrilled to hear that you will never smoke again!

It is a very damaging habit, and I want you to live well for a very long time...





I am doing well, sweetie.......thank you...

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
7. I made it 3 &1/2 years before they found throat cancer
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:26 AM
Apr 2013

I said finally 43 years and about 60 thousand dollars down the drain for a habit with no buzz and the money goes to some of the worst scum on earth ----the doctor told me he didn't know if it was the ciggs but I'm pretty sure .


CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
11. Oh, my dear olddots...
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:33 AM
Apr 2013

I am so sorry to hear this awful news, sweetie...

It probably is the cigarettes.....but you didn't know.

Sirveri

(4,517 posts)
59. that's what I've always been curious about. Is there a high or buzz?
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 10:01 PM
Apr 2013

I mean, what's the point otherwise if it doesn't alter you in some way? Pot I get, because you can get high off it, same with alcohol and a bunch of other drugs. But it doesn't seem like you get a 'drug' effect from smoking, so I've never understood the appeal.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
8. I am glad to say i got both of my parents to stop smoking in the past 2 years.
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:28 AM
Apr 2013

I stopped in my teens but i developed asthma so I guess i paid for it.
Thanks for posting this CaliforniaPeggy and I am hoping and praying you will feel better.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
12. Good for you, my dear hrmjustin...
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:35 AM
Apr 2013

My parents didn't stop smoking till after my brother and I had left the nest...

I am feeling better now, and thank you, sweetie...

 

JayhawkSD

(3,163 posts)
9. Thirty years after quitting
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:29 AM
Apr 2013

Unfortunately, the 50% of each lung that has been destroyed by emphysema is still dead air space.

Don't start.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
14. You know, I wanted so much to smoke back in college, my dear JayhawkSD...
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:37 AM
Apr 2013

But it made me sick, so I never really started...

And then I married a devout non-smoker, so that was that.

I am really sorry about the emphysema.

 

JayhawkSD

(3,163 posts)
62. Well, thanks, but...
Mon Apr 15, 2013, 11:01 AM
Apr 2013

I happen to have unusually large lungs, so I function fairly normally for an 85-year-old guy.

Of course, I'm only 70, but still... I don't use an oxygen tank, and I'm not crippled.

I have very few lung problems and seldom have issues, but when I do they are never small. I had pneumonia this winter and was in the hospital for two weeks, and was on antibiotics for a bit over two months. Lost 25 pounds in that process, and two months after my lungs are "back to base line" I'm still rebuilding my stamina. My pulmanologist never uses the word "normal" in reference to my lungs, refers to them as my "left disaster area" and my "right disaster area." He's a fun guy.

San Diego climate helps.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
10. I quit cigs on 4/20/2003
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:33 AM
Apr 2013

and yes I picked that day on purpose.





I still have 3 to 6 cigars a year. My doc ain't mad at me for that though. He's mad that I struggle with not having dessert. Right now the sugar is worse for me than the occasional cigar.

 

cbrer

(1,831 posts)
19. I bask in the warmth of your kindness
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:51 AM
Apr 2013

*Despite* ANY method of quitting those damned things being a huge plus.

I'm glad that one worked for me. Insidiously evil product. Must be worse than heroin.

But that still bears no explanation for reply #4.

How might one go about unrec.ing your ass?

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
20. That unrec was just a joke--not to worry!
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:55 AM
Apr 2013

I always try to be kind since I know how tough it is when people are unkind...

 

cbrer

(1,831 posts)
23. My Dear California Peggy
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 02:07 AM
Apr 2013

I've noticed that about you during my brief tenure at this fine site.

And feel a slight inclination to apologize for my crude attempt at humor.

You are without a doubt, the kindest person inhabiting this particular electron flow.

indepat

(20,899 posts)
55. Cold turkey on 07/09/70
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 09:30 PM
Apr 2013

Suspect check-out time would have been long ago if had not quit. All out best wishes California Peggy.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,611 posts)
22. I just looked at it again, my dear snot...
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 02:02 AM
Apr 2013

And I guess you're right: the risk never goes back all the way to that of non-smokers.

I hadn't realized that.

I'm sorry...

tandot

(6,671 posts)
25. I am 18 years without smoking now
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 02:19 AM
Apr 2013

Hopefully, I'll be fine.

I got an almost 4 year old boy that I want to be around for

tandot

(6,671 posts)
32. my husband had A-fib and Atrial flutter
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 02:56 AM
Apr 2013

he was on several bad meds (amiodorone, coumadin, levothroid, etc.). Before our son was born, he was in the hospital for congestive heart failure. We are both in our late 40ies. He had several electrical cardioversions.

We did some research and he is taking CoQ10, L-Carnitine, magnesium, and some other supplements. He is totally off prescription meds.

I don't know what your diagnosis is, but I would recommend some research and talking to your cardiologist. This is where we started:

http://www.afibbers.org/atrial_fibrillation.htm

Of course, you shouldn't do anything without talking to your doctors. His doctors were fine with him trying it and he is doing great now for over 4 years.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
54. Thank you tandot for sharing this information!
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 05:16 PM
Apr 2013

Our family friend was also hospitalized with atrial fibrillation and chest pains. He is very healthy and under 40 and has already had a heart attack. Has been on high dose statins to deal with his cholesterol. Strictly following doctor's orders which ended in a heart attack. I gave him a lot of information and with a no sugar, low carb diet (which lowers insulin which is the fastest way to lower cholesterol) and magnesium supplementation, he is off meds and all his stats look AMAZING. Statins are scuzzy drugs and the pharmaceutical companies are making a fortune off them.

I feel I feel very sorry for the state of American health care. The drug companies have totally captured care in this country and now every doctor just prescribes pills instead of trying to create health. It is bankrupting seniors who fear if they wean themselves off expensive medications they will die. When sometimes lifestyle changes can do far more. I wish your husband and California Peggy great health and wellness.

Response to CaliforniaPeggy (Original post)

rurallib

(62,411 posts)
37. I think everyone who ever quit has some form of that dream
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 10:07 AM
Apr 2013

or so I have been told.
I am 40 years quit, but I still have the dream about once a year.
Shows how much you abhor the thought of ever smoking again.
I used to literally wake up sweating after one of those dreams

ETA - Hoping you are doing well, Peggy.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
41. I know...
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 10:22 AM
Apr 2013

I have those dreams too.

I wake up in the morning almost swearing that I've had a cigarette.

Or sometimes I'll smell cigarette smoke around the house even though the Mr. and I quit in '96.

It's weird, to say the least.

jimlup

(7,968 posts)
43. Yep that's it exactly!
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 12:08 PM
Apr 2013

After one of those dreams I feel as if I smoked for a few days. And I feel the guilt and the shame and the whole thing.

I'm glad I'm safely on the ex-smoker side now and I guess those dreams are just reminders for us to never go back.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
38. 15 months quit here
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 10:11 AM
Apr 2013

Cold turkey, after 22 years.

Was moderately annoying for first four days, then poof, gone. First and only time trying to quit.

For anybody who thinks they can't quit, it's not that bad. Ain't nothin' to it but to do it.

I was a moderate smoker (about a pack a day).

Earth_First

(14,910 posts)
39. ONE YEAR CIGARETTE-FREE on Tuesday!
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 10:15 AM
Apr 2013

I made it!

I still have a penchant for an occasional 'occasion' cigar, however I have successfully quit!

Thanks for the reminder (and continued motivation) why I quit, Peggy!

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
40. Someone mentioned above
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 10:19 AM
Apr 2013

the money saved...

Mr Pipi and I both quit in August of 1996.

He found a program someplace that calculated how much money has been saved by not smoking.

Haven't calculated in a while, but last time we did...about six or seven years ago...we discovered that between the two of us we had saved over $70,000.

We've gotten a whole lot of really neat stuff with that money. Additions to the house...fun electronics...new vehicles...

I've been trying to get both my kids to quit, but it's hard. They fall off the wagon, so to speak, and figure, oh well...might as well keep on smoking. I tell them to keep trying until it sticks. I understand how extremely difficult it is to quit...just keep trying, that's all.

 

Old Codger

(4,205 posts)
42. Good OP
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 11:23 AM
Apr 2013

Quit in 91 after 38 years as heavy smoker, COPD is not fun but can be worse .. Good Post...

Hope all works out well for you

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
44. Thank you for posting this CaliforniaPeggy.
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 12:17 PM
Apr 2013

I promised myself when I quit smoking 5 years ago, that I would not become a "smoking Nazi," but I am very much in favor of positive messages like this one. Quitting smoking is without a doubt the best thing I have ever done for my health. Thanks again.

TheManInTheMac

(985 posts)
47. Thank you, Peggy. All these DUers and this post will
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 01:56 PM
Apr 2013

hopefully get me to quit some day. I was just thinking today, when I was a kid people would tell me "smoking will stunt your growth." It's strange, of all the horrible things smoking does, people used to pick the one thing it doesn't do to try to scare kids away from it.

madokie

(51,076 posts)
48. August 14 1977, 8:05 am smoked my last cigarette
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 02:13 PM
Apr 2013

Kept a pack with me for months just in case I couldn't handle quiting. Months later a friend and I are checking our plants and he was jonesing pretty bad when I remembered I had a pack in my glove box. He took it out and at some point in time I had opened the pack but didn't smoke one. He took one and lit it up and about choked because it was so dry. At the next stop for him to get a pack of cigarettes I threw the pack I'd kept all these months in the trash. I quit drinking the same way, kept a bottle handy just in case. Its been 5 going on 6 years now and I think I the bottle is still under the kitchen sink, never been opened. It helped me to know that if I just had to have a smoke or a drink it was handy. Otherwise I'd have went to the store to buy some and probably would still be smoking and or drinking today.
the two bestest thing I ever did for myself. Except settle down and marry my sweetheart of all those years prior. been married for a couple months shy of 23 years now.
We met and fell in love shortly after I returned from the war but I was bug nuts at the time and knew that I couldn't handle marriage So we parted, remained friends. She married had two sons and divorced and a chance meeting 23 years ago the fire was rekindled and the rest is history.
I love her. I love life

 

nadinbrzezinski

(154,021 posts)
52. Don't know what you got under your sink
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 04:18 PM
Apr 2013

But been using some expensive vodka for mildew removal.



We don't drink...and since my dad passed...

GoCubsGo

(32,081 posts)
49. Thank you for posting that, California Peggy.
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 03:25 PM
Apr 2013

My grandfather died of lung cancer and emphysema from smoking. And, I'm convinced that those goddamn coffin nails are responsible for at least the first round of my breast cancers. Every time I see a young person light up, I just want to smack them in the head, granted that wouldn't do anything for them. If they don't know those things will kill them by now, they'll never learn.

Arcanetrance

(2,670 posts)
50. Haven't smoked in three years I'm proud to say and it's true you do feel better.
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 03:46 PM
Apr 2013

Also living in NYC the money I'm saving is ridiculous

forthemiddle

(1,379 posts)
53. My mom was a lifelong smoker (along with everyone else in the family)
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 04:19 PM
Apr 2013

She successfully quit smoking "almost" 10 years ago. She was so excited to reach that decade point.......On the day before Thanksgiving she was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer, and we are now in the throws of chemotherapy, and hoping she lives for her first Grandsons college graduation at the end on May.

I also quit smoking after 30 years, almost 2 years ago. I hope my luck is better than hers......

I will never be a smoke nazi, in fact I still love the smell of smoke wafting by, but it has killed my family's life, and I wish everyone would quit today.

mokawanis

(4,440 posts)
56. We're about to go cig-free in my place after 30 years of smoking
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 09:35 PM
Apr 2013

We painted, replaced the curtains, scrubbed walls etc. and now we're going to switch to e-cigs, as a step toward our goal of being nicotine-free. It's a start.

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
61. This EX-smoker appreciates the graphic!
Sun Apr 14, 2013, 11:17 PM
Apr 2013

3-pack a day, 27 years long gone.

Yep, my chest is proudly stuck out. Giving them up was hard but do-able.

It's troubling to see folks in denial; even when I was inhaling the toxins I knew and admitted that I needed to quit.


You rule, Peggy!

 

JayhawkSD

(3,163 posts)
63. I should add that my father died at age 72
Mon Apr 15, 2013, 11:13 AM
Apr 2013

from cancer that originated in his lungs, after a lifetime of smoking.

I didn't stop until several years later when I was diagnosed with "well advanced emphysema," but some of us are just plain stupid.

Quitting cold turkey is by far the best way to go. I have assisted quite a people in that process, both with smoking and drinking (I stopped drinking in 1982), and addiction is about not allowing urges to control you.

All on the chewing gums and patches and such are about "controlling" the urges, but it works far better if you simply decide not to let the urges to control you. Just "ride out this one urge." It will pass. Another will come and it too will pass. Ride them out one at a time, not thinking about the ones that are behind you or ones that will come. The only one that exists is this one and it will pass.

In time the urges will be farther apart and less compelling, and that process will begin sooner than you think. And the day will come that the urge doesn't happen at all.

You may get a group of people with experience to help ride it out. I did so on the drinking issue.

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