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I get that many of you seriously don't care, good for you. Be proud.
For those that actually might, I thought I'd offer something more enlightening than the average YouTube quality comments.
Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)If someone opens a door for me, am I about to get raped? I'm serious. A lot of people open doors for me, and I don't want to get raped.
And, being the kind of person who takes a kind gesture and pays it forward, I hold doors open, too. Does that mean I am a latent rapist?
redqueen
(115,103 posts)But congrats on your continuing the herculean efforts to mock and trivialize feminist issues.
Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)I don't trivialize or mock issues of import. However, if this was an offshoot of the "opening a door for a woman is benevolent sexism", yeah, I was getting excited for some real trivializing of an incredibly stupid stance.
But, since this thread is about something important, I'll leave you to it.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)you'll go back to another thread where you can keep muddying waters and throwing feces.
Got it.
Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)Time to alert my post?
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Don't let me hold you up, there are plenty of threads dedicated to mocking and trivializing that you could be busy in.
Squinch
(50,955 posts)You need to lighten up.
Melon_Lord
(105 posts)Angst over being nice to or protecting women because of a subconscious urge to subjugate them doesn't qualify IMO...
niyad
(113,331 posts)the sarcasm icon.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)Ian David
(69,059 posts)niyad
(113,331 posts)keep up the proud tradition here.
Regardless of red queen's motivations, my suspicions are being confirmed.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)What honest question did you ask her?
Whisp
(24,096 posts)niyad
(113,331 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)feminists, that never existed. lie after lie after lie in op after op after op to make yourself victim with such poutrage and outrage, for 24 hours you have been running around with your hair on fire.
treestar
(82,383 posts)There's no reason to limit it to that in order to make it look silly.
It's the society wide idea that women are delicate and need protection and men should gallantly help women they don't know (even if those women may be perfectly able to open doors or change tires or may know more about whatever it is than the man does.)
Ian David
(69,059 posts)... and just watch women open the doors by themselves, for hours. That way, they'll know how not benevolently sexist I am.
Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)Hold the door handle from the other side and keep it closed. This is particularly fun if they are laden with packages and trying to get out or if the weather is hideous and they are trying to get in.
Ian David
(69,059 posts)Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)I salute you.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)How in the world do you get from the information posted here:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022512182
To what you have written in your post. I just don't see how it is possible.
Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)I asked a question of red queen, and she answered.
But thanks for taking the time ...
niyad
(113,331 posts)fishwax
(29,149 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)They're bad it would seem. Try going down the chimney.
Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)babylonsister
(171,070 posts)niyad
(113,331 posts)dear goddess, they ARE out early this morning.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)As someone else said, it's just too hard to believe that this many people are having this much trouble understanding the real issue here.
Apophis
(1,407 posts)niyad
(113,331 posts)Katashi_itto
(10,175 posts)Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)I think Confucius said that. Maybe Aesop.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Katashi_itto
(10,175 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)out, repeatedly, to dismiss a womans voice? what a bummer.
Apophis
(1,407 posts)Now it just seems like its spamming general discussion.
If you want serious discussion, don't create 5747474646987 threads on them, threads I end up trashing.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)All that outrage and drama, simply because some wish to discuss how these ideas fuel rape culture, and are attempting to convey the serious issues involved.
Hmmmmm
Apophis
(1,407 posts)You're not discussing this topic du jour with those who are actually discussing it. Hmmmm.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)because I don't see many people discussing benevolent sexism. Most people seem to be discussing door opening.
Apophis
(1,407 posts)It seems as though a few of you like the drama and don't much care to have an actual, civil, adult conversation on the issue. I'm an observer and even the blind can see this.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Post #31 is one of few that supports the OP. If you find it worthwhile, why don't you join THAT discussion instead of pretending that the OP is merely yet another stupid door opening thread.
Apophis
(1,407 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)be kicking. Please provide links because I can find only two that are attempting to discuss benevolent sexism. All the rest are about door opening.
Um kick any 100 of the other treads on this topic.
Now it just seems like its spamming general discussion.
If you want serious discussion, don't create 5747474646987 threads on them, threads I end up trashing.
Apophis
(1,407 posts)For future reference, try educating people instead of being confrontational. You'll get more people to listen to what you have to say.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)theKed
(1,235 posts)pure drama. Ot was started to be dramatic, many of the posters are happy to throw logs on the fire. And the cycle continues.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)the second someone said it's sexist to open doors for women. I mean no offense, but that's just a fact. After that, it became a joke.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)used the door issue to create lies attacking feminists.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)That could only be inferred if someone didn't bother to read, because this was the body of the post:
Benevolent sexism motivates chivalrous acts that many women may welcome, such as a man's offer to lift heavy boxes or install the new computer. While the path to benevolent sexism may be paved with good intentions, it reinforces the assumption that men possess greater competence than women, whom benevolent sexists view as wonderful, but weak and fragile.
Cross-national comparisons show that hostile and benevolent sexism go hand-in-hand (that is, nations that endorse hostile sexism also endorse benevolent sexism). The beliefs work together because benevolent sexism "rewards" women when they fulfill traditional roles whereas hostile sexism punishes women who do not toe the line, thereby working together to maintain traditional relations. In other words, act sweet and they'll pat you on the head; assert yourself and they'll put you in your place.
Numerous studies by various researchers document benevolent sexism's insidious effects. For example, when led to expect benevolently sexist help in a masculine workplace, women became unsure of themselves, got distracted, and consequently performed poorly.
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/10/111004121314.htm
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)then go read how many people actually claimed that opening doors for women is sexist. Someone told me that in a reply just a few hours ago.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Quote & link?
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)He didn't say "opening doors for women" is sexist.
He said "If you only do it for women than it is sexist", which is a true statement.
Are you unclear on how these two statements are very different?
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I did misread his statement. Maybe I just thought it was so ridiculous that I dismissed it.
I don't only hold doors open for women. Generally, I hold them open for anyone when it seems appropriate. Even if I only held them open for women, it wouldn't be sexist. It's the polite thing to do. At least that's what I was taught, and it's still what I believe. If that pisses somebody off, then so be it.
Squinch
(50,955 posts)they are women, and that pisses somebody off, so be that too.
What is the big freaking deal?
Why the outrage that some women disagree with you about the meaning of holding doors?
treestar
(82,383 posts)The number of threads represents the number of men desperate to avoid this subject and so trying to make it look ridiculous.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)no matter how many people keep pretending it is.
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/10/111004121314.htm
Benevolent sexism motivates chivalrous acts that many women may welcome, such as a man's offer to lift heavy boxes or install the new computer. While the path to benevolent sexism may be paved with good intentions, it reinforces the assumption that men possess greater competence than women, whom benevolent sexists view as wonderful, but weak and fragile.
Cross-national comparisons show that hostile and benevolent sexism go hand-in-hand (that is, nations that endorse hostile sexism also endorse benevolent sexism). The beliefs work together because benevolent sexism "rewards" women when they fulfill traditional roles whereas hostile sexism punishes women who do not toe the line, thereby working together to maintain traditional relations. In other words, act sweet and they'll pat you on the head; assert yourself and they'll put you in your place.
Numerous studies by various researchers document benevolent sexism's insidious effects. For example, when led to expect benevolently sexist help in a masculine workplace, women became unsure of themselves, got distracted, and consequently performed poorly.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I was giving my opinion of when the subject began to go downhill, not the origins of the subject.
MattBaggins
(7,904 posts)had to do something with it
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Just wait until "breast-feeding" or "circumcision" day. This is a walk in the park by comparison. No levity is allowed in those.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)How anyone could turn "opening doors" into "misogeny" is beyond me.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)males victims when it is not happening, in a mob mentality.... that would be misogyny.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)I don't see any misogyny here, just a manufactured tempest. The second someone (seriously) replied to me this morning that opening doors for women is sexist, I saw how ridiculous the whole thing had become.
treestar
(82,383 posts)being deliberately misunderstood and taken personally, so it takes as many threads to counter that idea, which we are allowed to do.
The door thing is all those poor men who feel so personally affronted by a social theory because they know they've been holding doors open for women and are scared that it's sexist. It's been all about how some men are afraid of the subject and to distract us from talking about it to placating them that they are "doing things right" and "being courteous."
quinnox
(20,600 posts)of things to do, right under googling for the teachings and precepts of scientology, in terms of priority.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Rape culture, which is why Steubenville happened. Why Jyoti Singh was raped and murdered. Why Anene Booysen was gang raped and murdered. Why sexual harassment is something girls start experiencing in elementary school.
Got it, thanks.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)Good point
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Buzz Clik
(38,437 posts)Are you seeing a trend here?
redqueen
(115,103 posts)but lose interest re: serious issues.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)quinnox
(20,600 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)like women to lighten up on the whole steubenville rape thing.
right?
wrong. not gonna happen
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)Somehow I think it's completely lost on you.
geek tragedy
(68,868 posts)subject.
Niceguy1
(2,467 posts)slope. First it is door then one thing leads to another
If I'm going to look at bizarre and wacked out philosophies, I would look at scientology first. At least it would be colorful!
redqueen
(115,103 posts)and are more likely to recommend shorter sentences to perpetrators for the most common types of rape.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)I suspect the ones who are seeking to educate everyone on the subject are assuming as much.
The idea that the same people who hold extreme views that women should be barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen are the same ones who believe women may be "asking for it" just doesn't seem like it's all that much of a revelation.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)The idea of benevolent sexism is you're doing women a favor by encouraging them in traditional gender roles.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen, does not.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ambivalent_sexism#Theoretical_framework
redqueen
(115,103 posts)that would lead one to believe that they aren't quite making the connection that benevolent sexism fuels rape culture.
One would think that being concerned with such things as victim blaming and rape culture would mean less mocking and more serious discussion of the circumstances which lead to people blaming rape victims.
What's the alternative? That they understand that benevolent sexism ties into victim blaming, but still think it's better to muddy the waters with nonsense about doors?
What would that indicate, if that were the case?
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)First of all, there's no evidence that I know of that demonstrates a causal relationship between the two things you are claiming do have such a relationship.
Some people (men and women) hold extreme views when it comes to traditional gender roles. Not surprisingly, those who believe women should be barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen are also some of the same ones who believe some women are asking for it. That is coorelative evidence and shouldn't be confused for causation.
Just because some people hold the doors open for women, doesn't mean they believe women should be raped. It also doesn't mean they are unwittingly encouraging other people to believe such things.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)I'm guessing no.
Hostile sexism is the 'barefoot and pregnant' stuff. Benevolent sexism is different. There have been many links posted which explain it very well.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)The studies I've read have stated that tested subjects who tested the highest for benevolent sexism also happened to be some of the same people who were willing to assign blame to women in aquaintence rape cases.
This is correlative evidence, and correlation does not imply causation.
Just sayin'
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)and vocal in the process? amazing.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)I don't see the danger, really.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)about damn doors. a duer comes in clueless, with all the OPs about doors and you men being victimized by the mean ole, bad feminists picking on "nice" men. now, lets talk about the "nice" men concept. men going around saying how nice they are. yet.... create lies to attack the feminist on du with a bogus argument.
nothing nice about it. pure dismissal of women and womens issues. sexism at the least, misogyny at worst. there is your "nice" men on du.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)So you may have something there.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)That's pretty much all one needs to read to discern your attitude.
quinnox
(20,600 posts)I find it almost as enlightening as the teachings of Scientology.
Logical
(22,457 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)Logical
(22,457 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)have been asserting this OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
It's about THIS:
no matter how many people keep pretending it is.
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/10/111004121314.htm
Benevolent sexism motivates chivalrous acts that many women may welcome, such as a man's offer to lift heavy boxes or install the new computer. While the path to benevolent sexism may be paved with good intentions, it reinforces the assumption that men possess greater competence than women, whom benevolent sexists view as wonderful, but weak and fragile.
Cross-national comparisons show that hostile and benevolent sexism go hand-in-hand (that is, nations that endorse hostile sexism also endorse benevolent sexism). The beliefs work together because benevolent sexism "rewards" women when they fulfill traditional roles whereas hostile sexism punishes women who do not toe the line, thereby working together to maintain traditional relations. In other words, act sweet and they'll pat you on the head; assert yourself and they'll put you in your place.
Numerous studies by various researchers document benevolent sexism's insidious effects. For example, when led to expect benevolently sexist help in a masculine workplace, women became unsure of themselves, got distracted, and consequently performed poorly.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)like someone is going to say "oh, now I get it!"
Katashi_itto
(10,175 posts)Hell with Chivalry, its now evil..somehow.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)The most well known theory behind victim blaming is the just world hypothesis.
"Individuals that have a strong belief in a just world can have this belief challenged when they encounter a victim of random misfortune such as a rape victim. The individual wants to believe that the world is a safe, just place where people get what they deserve and deserve what they get.
Even when evidence suggests otherwise, the individual is very reluctant to give up this belief that the world is not just. In the face of contradicting evidence, research suggests (Kleinke and Meyer, 1996) that people with a high belief in a just world will do one of two things: either they will try to eliminate the suffering of the innocent victims or else they will derogate them for their fate.
Since it is impossible to reverse the crime of rape, and thus relieve the victim of her suffering, the rape victim is often subjected to derogation and blame. In this manner, the person who believes in a just world can maintain this belief as there is no longer a suffering person, but a woman who deserves her misfortune."
http://www.ibiblio.org/rcip/vb.html
redqueen
(115,103 posts)like someone else said, it isn't really surprising that people who have a lot of benevolently sexist views would be more likely to blame rape victims and go easy on rapists... but it is surprising that so many would work so damn hard to trivialize the issue and muddy the discussion about it. Well... kinda surprising. Not really all that surprising, actually.
cali
(114,904 posts)or taking your hat off when you speak to a woman. It's about a pattern that's part of something larger and institutionalized.
Whisp
(24,096 posts)It's pretty obvious, and over done.
They either don't want to because it may cause some discomforts in their world views, particularly about women. And sometimes learning new things and accepting you may have been wrong most of your life, well, that's kind of threatening. It's can be pretty unsettling.
Or they have other objectives of which learning isn't one of them - but attacking certain individuals no matter what opinions those individuals have. It's about the person, not the subject.
JI7
(89,251 posts)MjolnirTime
(1,800 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)theKed
(1,235 posts)need another thread on this topic?
This is quickly approachong spam-levels in GD.
This isn't something that can be continued to be discussed in the numerous other threads?
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Perhaps you should take your concerns to those threads.
theKed
(1,235 posts)...do we really need another?
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)yes, we need another thread. maybe you ought to address the men that lie OP after OP about feminists on du being outraged about doors. maybe that would be a more apt outrage for you.
theKed
(1,235 posts)Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Click it.
theKed
(1,235 posts)Four threads on the first page alone of GD on the topic og sexism. Most, if not all, containing some measure of discussion on the topic of "benevolent sexism". Most, if not all, featuring the same people arguing the same points.
Another thread is vanity, and spam, and really is bringing nothing new to the table.
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)I mean, door opening and not about sexism. They may contain comments about benevolent sexism but those posts are attempts to clean up the straw.
theKed
(1,235 posts)(i even excluded the "sexual benevolence" thread from that count ... so five, really).
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Still going to open the door and pull out a chair for women
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)It's what my mother taught me.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)no one really expects you to see benevolent sexism as an issue.
LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)Sexism is one thing, but opening doors for women? Really?
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)...that we have a long way to go with sexism in this country while simultaneously believing that the OP likes to pick fights on the subject.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)seabeyond
(110,159 posts)not about the door. no one is "outraged" about doors and the OPs were only created to make men victims of mean old feminists with lies?
does that warrant a comment from you? or only a dissing of the feminist the made her second OP on benevolent sexism to counter the upward of ten OPs on doors?
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)My comment was fairly general in nature, and I'll leave it there.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Edited for spelling.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)niyad
(113,331 posts)datasuspect
(26,591 posts)cartoon feminism
troll feminism
niyad
(113,331 posts)and, again, define "true feminism". this is not contrast and compare but define, with actual, dictionary definitions, and cite the dictionary, because none of the ones I have checked list those terms.
Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)First you say this:
53. I think it's entirely plausible to believe
...that we have a long way to go with sexism in this country while simultaneously believing that the OP likes to pick fights on the subject.
When called out by seabeyond:
71. and what about the upward 10 Ops making this about a damn door when we have repeatedly said it is
not about the door. no one is "outraged" about doors and the OPs were only created to make men victims of mean old feminists with lies?
does that warrant a comment from you? or only a dissing of the feminist the made her second OP on benevolent sexism to counter the upward of ten OPs on doors?
You say this:
78. I'm not going to swim in all this, no
My comment was fairly general in nature, and I'll leave it there
So, after explicitly referring to redqueen 'the OP' as someone who 'likes to pick fights', you then turn around and back out of defending your comment because you say it's 'general in nature'. Hahahaha. Such integrity.
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)...caught that in my original post, I said right up front that we have a long way to go as regards sexism. You're trying to make me swim in this swill; not happening. Good day.
Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)And I couldn't agree more. But then you had to make a direct attack on redqueen, for no reason, and then back away when called out on it. It's all there, for everyone to see.
Apophis
(1,407 posts)On both accounts.
lumberjack_jeff
(33,224 posts)It's a coalition of women who like the privileges of men "being nice" (yet are surprised that the pay raises go them) allied with men who think chivalry=feminism.
Unexamined attitudes are the most dangerous.
sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)to slamming doors in the faces of those behind me.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)At least you can't be accused of sexism.
chervilant
(8,267 posts)Quite a different tone than "ambivalent sexism."
Have you read Dorothy Dinnerstein's "The Mermaid and the Minotaur"? William Ryan's "Blaming the Victim"? Carol Gilligan's "In a Different Voice"? (I know I'm dating myself here...)
Sexism (and misogyny--sadly, no equivalent word for hatred of men) has long been a gaping, festering wound on our species' emotional development. It is stultifying and damaging to us all.
dreamnightwind
(4,775 posts)chervilant
(8,267 posts)Thanks.
RetroLounge
(37,250 posts)RL
klook
(12,155 posts)I imagine this is not news to you, redqueen, but I found this interesting and suggest that everyone with a sincere interest in sexism and its ramifications check this out:
http://www.understandingprejudice.org/asi/
If one carefully considers and answers the questions honestly, it's a thought-provoking exercise.
Info on the origins of understandingprejudice.org can be found here:
http://mith.umd.edu/WomensStudies/OtherWebSites/Prejudice.html
Luminous Animal
(27,310 posts)Orrex
(63,215 posts)I scored a 1.18 Hostile Sexism Score and a 1.45 Benevolent Sexism Score.
Perhaps there's hope for me after all.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)it's the sound of your credibility drying up and blowing away in the breeze.
niyad
(113,331 posts)NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)If not, cool. If yes, then you are applying a double standard by using the term.
niyad
(113,331 posts)it absolutely cracks me up that this thread has been subjected to all sorts of nonsense about the original post, and yet, this is what you criticize. wow. . .just. . .wow.
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)Nonsense is in the eye of the beholder, BTW. Also, a little nonsense once in a while is good.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)keep telling yourself that, sizzlebutt.
niyad
(113,331 posts)a little clue here: you really have to do much better than that. we can read you all too well.
datasuspect
(26,591 posts)u mad?
niyad
(113,331 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Hmmmm, clever.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Would you consider that sexism? Or perhaps gender-based bigotry?
How about "men are more or less inherently violent and there is no way to stop this or change it"
Do you think that is a bigoted statement?
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
(16,399 posts)For some reason, that's all I can think of.
dogknob
(2,431 posts)...but don't look for a discussion to happen here.
ismnotwasm
(41,988 posts)Is wrong with people? I have a book, among many books on sexism and gender studies, about the same thing, only it's called 'enlightened sexism'--very, very easy read. I've taken classes and listen to lectures and read blogs and participated in Webinars regarding topics of gender. Yes benevolent sexism exists, yes it helps maintain sexist and heteronormative standards and yes it's fucked up.
Why is this an argument?
Door opening? Don't give a shit. I open doors, people open doors for me. Boob size preference? Don't give a shit about that either.
It's like watching dumass caribou being chased by a lion from thread to thread on this topic. One way then the other en masse.
All in all, I'd rather be the lion.
dogknob
(2,431 posts)Pretty much.
Meanwhile, while we are enjoying the, um, discussions -- TPP's going to become the law and DU will go buh-bye.
Watch the birdie!
NaturalHigh
(12,778 posts)it must be true. Not like anyone just makes stuff up and prints it.
Ian David
(69,059 posts)In fact, whenever I see a toilet seat that is down, I always make sure to lift it back up, even if I'm not using the toilet.
That way, I'm completely non-sexist, benevolently or otherwise.
ismnotwasm
(41,988 posts)That puts you in the same category as women who 'squat' over the toilet.
Katashi_itto
(10,175 posts)That way, I'm militantly non-sexist, benevolently or otherwise.
d_b
(7,463 posts)one can never be too militantly non-sexist.
Katashi_itto
(10,175 posts)JTFrog
(14,274 posts)Seriously.
The mentality behind the taunting, the ridiculing, the belittling, the shaming, the posturing, the name calling and all of the other tactics used by some incredibly transparent asshats individuals shows their true colors.
All I have to say is, may they all reap the karma they sow.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Good thing no one here is that screwed up in the head.
JTFrog
(14,274 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)Egads, that sort of thing really doesn't belong on a progressive website, if you ask me.
JTFrog
(14,274 posts)Good for you. I see what you've done there. Oh so clever. As usual.
Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)No, No, I know what you're saying. Gee, whiz, that's kind of uncalled for, that acronymic personal attack.
Lucky for you I'm not one of the button-happy alert jockeys.
GPAARYHMFDOB,YAYPATLSODU. HYTISLEVITPSSYPAYSPAZC. BTWWKAATMAG,YGAFA.
PS,MHCIFOE,JGWTGGPOAT,AIYXAMYJMGBIT.
JTFrog
(14,274 posts)Warren DeMontague
(80,708 posts)That part is a gimme.
Katashi_itto
(10,175 posts)Just like the group "Coldplay" Except "Coldplay" is all guys (Real Sexist) and this is one girl and sings a totally different style. Otherwise their the same.