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erpowers

(9,350 posts)
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 11:43 AM Mar 2013

Thoughts on the phrase "In my opinion"

Some grammar authorities state that people should usually not use the phrase "In my opinion". They claim the phrase adds nothing to a sentence. How is someone supposed to know that a person is making a statement of opinion if that person do not use the phrase "In my opinion"? I understand that if a person is making a statement it is likely that the statement is there opinion, but is is not possible for a statement of opinion to seem like a statement of fact. For instance, "President Obama is wonderful" versus "In my opinion President Obama is wonderful." I understand that someone could make the argument that both statements regardless of how they are written are statements of opinion. My response would be, but the first statement could be met with the response, "well that is your opinion".

So, should people follow the grammar rules and not use the phrase "In my opinion"? Should people use the phrase if they feel it is necessary?

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Skinner

(63,645 posts)
1. I think it's a really useful phrase on an Internet discussion forum.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 11:48 AM
Mar 2013

Whatever the statement, it softens delivery and makes it less controversial.

TDale313

(7,820 posts)
3. I agree.
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 11:53 AM
Mar 2013

Online, where tone is so hard to gage, it makes it clear that you understand and respect that yours isn't the only take on things. Similar to ymmv. That's not always a given.

Arkansas Granny

(31,518 posts)
2. "In my opinion" clearly shows that what you are saying is not necessarily a proven fact,
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 11:50 AM
Mar 2013

but your personal thoughts about a topic of conversation. I think it's use can help avoid confusion during a discussion.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
4. I prefer it when
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 11:53 AM
Mar 2013

people say, "In my opinion".

It sounds less arrogant than saying (using your example), "President Obama is wonderful", which makes the statement sound like a fact that the listeners better agree with or else.

I can deal with opinions.

I don't like someone sounding like they are the sole fountains of Truth.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
6. Well, in my opinion...
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 12:02 PM
Mar 2013

...some grammar authorities need to find another hobby. The phrase is necessary in some instances, as you mentioned, to separate fact from opinion. In this day and age, it should be used more often, not less. Too many people are accepting opinion as fact because some 'journalist' didn't tell them they could think for themselves.

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
10. I think there is frequently an underlying attitude
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 12:10 PM
Mar 2013

that when we type something lots of other people read it is a pronouncement from on high. It ain't. This is just a big cocktail party with court reporters.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
11. Some things are obvious opinion, such as the phrase "you think...".
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 12:12 PM
Mar 2013

In the above case it's also an obviously ill-considered opinion.

There are some things that may not be obvious in which case the statement is clarified by adding "in my opinion" or "it is demonstrably true that" (or a link better yet)

This is a discussion board so if it's unclear most of us assume that a statement is opinion.

 

graham4anything

(11,464 posts)
12. IMHO negates the "Prove It Totally Annies" who demand proof.How the hell do you prove an opinion?
Thu Mar 14, 2013, 12:17 PM
Mar 2013

everything is an opinioin, everyone has an angle, and saying IMHO means it is ones personal opinion, especially if there are no links/articles, which of course, if there is there is a discussion on that.

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