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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsIgnorant people are really starting to bum me out.
I have this bumper sticker on my car:
Some guy approached me about it in the parking lot of a market and asked me who was going to pay for it. I said everyone would and everyone would benefit. He said it would break the nation. I told him that was nonsense. He said he was eighty years old and from east Germany and he knew how awful it was. I said if he was eighty years old he is already using Medicare and everyone should have it. I asked him when he came from Germany. He said in 1952. I told him he should look what Germany is doing with health care today. He says he knows because the government isn't involved. Again I said that's nonsense. They have a system that is non-profit and run under government guidelines. He then walked away from me shaking his hand at me.
I shouted at him that if Medicare wasn't paying for his medical expenses that he probably couldn't afford the Mercedes he was driving but he wouldn't talk to me anymore. I was ready to go the distance with him to wear him down with facts, but this is what is wrong with old people today, they would rather listen to Hannity, and the rest of the distributors of disinformation than hear the truth.
GoCubsGo
(32,086 posts)There was one who had a bumper sticker that said "Poverty is owning a horse." She was driving a BMW. These assholes wouldn't know poverty, Socialism, government-run healthcare, etc., if it jumped up and bit them in the ass. I am sick of them, too.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)Honestly, the propaganda has really made a bunch of tea bagging zombies out of the majority of them.
GoCubsGo
(32,086 posts)Perhaps the techniques used to deprogram cult members would work. They ARE cult members, after all.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)I can't believe some of the crap I overhear when I'm at the gym. It's alarming.
airplaneman
(1,239 posts)The only way is to outnumber and outvote them. Maybe over time the mindset will change but not if they gain ground politically. Its a serious battle. We can never give up.
-Airplane
BadgerKid
(4,553 posts)No exposure to critical thinking: Do what you are told because I said so.
And, fortunately, it seems that most younger people these days aren't buying the right-wing bullshit. But, I don't think that the old ones to which Cleita refers can be convinced that all the crap they have been fed is just crap. the vast majority of them are too far gone.
October
(3,363 posts)They are either incapable of THINKING, or unwilling. Facts mean nothing to them. Gibberish Foxspeak is the only language they understand. I honestly don't know if it's possible to turn them into non-angry normal people. They cannot function without an enemy. Even when they had Congress, the President, and the Judicial branch, they were angrier than ever. It's all they have. Anger.
of military age during Nazi Germany if he is really 80 years old and came here in 1952.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)definitely Hitler Youth age before the war ended. Look I don't doubt he probably went through crap after the Russians took over East Germany. I had a German friend whose family went through hell then. So what he's thinking of is nationalized health as the Soviets did it. I really wanted to talk to him further, but he wouldn't talk to me. He doesn't want to know.
Egalitarian Thug
(12,448 posts)Cleita
(75,480 posts)of some ugly rednecks back when I was canvassing during elections.
Egalitarian Thug
(12,448 posts)DirkGently
(12,151 posts)Calm tone, aiming for non-condescending or mocking. But it's amazing the utter nontruths people in the general population bandy about casually. I never bring up politics in a business setting. But twice recently someone has casually mouthed off about one idiotic thing or another (the government can't provide good healthcare, Obama was "in control of Congress for two years!" and I didn't let it go. Got some neutral vibes back, some positive, some negative.
I won't start it. But people need to understand the conservative "common wisdom" is simply false.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)I usually just overhear stuff. I don't interfere in other's conversations although they drive me crazy. But like today I have been directly confronted and I'm not letting it go anymore. But it seems they don't want to stay and be educated. It's like the bully who backs off when the wimp fights back.
DirkGently
(12,151 posts)All these rightwing nuggets of illogic have piled up unchallenged (to one extent or another) until we are all standing in the shadow of that "Shit Mountain" Jon Stewart talked about.
But if enough sons and daughters and co-workers and neighbors and friends question them -- not with partisan slogans of our own, but with facts and empathy and thought, we will wear down the mountain of B.S. to the little, ridiculous nub of nut-wingery it really is.
I hope.
October
(3,363 posts)Still, it's hard to keep up! I mean, you almost need a handy list of facts to keep on-hand to counter their untruths. They just say anything -- but they demand facts from liberals. It's infuriating at times. Most times.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)they know this from. None of them can answer other than that they heard it somewhere.
xtraxritical
(3,576 posts)OldDem2012
(3,526 posts)....There are quite a few "old people" who post on this board and from what I've read, they are VERY different from the individual you encountered in the parking lot.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)group.
OldDem2012
(3,526 posts)...They can come from ANY age group.
How many people do you encounter every day in our age group who turn out NOT to be ignorant?
Cleita
(75,480 posts)us a little wiser than the yung uns'. Unfortunately, the people in our age group that I encounter these days, like this fellow, I can't really relate to anymore. The propaganda has done its job. I really don't know one in real life (other than DU) who isn't ignorant, but I don't go out that much.
Samantha
(9,314 posts)I am an older person and I have never watched Hannity. In fact, I have boycotted FOX for the last 12 years.
I think the problem with Medicare is the wholesale gouging by insurance and prescription drug companies. That is known as the true white collar crime in America, and it is not difficult to perceive that many politicians are simply aiming to pass those extremely highly-inflated costs to the government and participants rather than holding the companies which do this accountable.
Other than that, I have an 80-year old neighbor with a serious heart problem who is the trendiest fashionista on the street, and she even wears her hair in a pony tail. She is truly cool, pretty computer-literate, and to my knowledge, never looks down on people decades younger than she -- simply because they haven't lived as long as she and acquired that vast wealth of information and knowledge that she has....
Sam
LiberalElite
(14,691 posts)This is what's "wrong with old people"??? It's more like this is what's wrong with the willfully ignorant right wing.
All old people are not listening to Hannity. I'm verging on old (60's) and am just beginning to get the special ageist treatment, so I'm a little sensitive. Blanket statements about one age group or another are unhelpful. To illustrate - some time ago, maybe in late 1980s, Japanese Emperor Hirohito died. I was born after WWII but I knew from history lessons that Hirohito was considered a bad guy and war criminal. As such, I didn't understand why news reports implied that his death was something to be unhappy about. At my job a co-worker, maybe 20 years older than I, went out of her way to confront me and said the media-reported outpouring of grief was all the fault of "your [my] generation" because [we] buy the products of Japanese manufacturers Sony and Panasonic. I answered, "Well, one of YOUR generation (then-president George Bush Sr.) is going to the funeral." My long-winded point is, don't generalize about age groups. None of them are monolithic.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)You are right. I shouldn't paste all old people as being ignorant about current events. I should paste even those on the cusp as that because I'm probably right.
PatrynXX
(5,668 posts)when it occured to me some posting in the porn forums are well over 60!
like oh okay now I look silly..
xtraxritical
(3,576 posts)I'm an old (over 60) white man and I've voted Democratic in every election since 1972. I'm only one of many, I come from possibly the most progressive generation there ever was. I was active in protesting for civil rights. I was doing weed in 1966. I got beat-up by cops in Chicago in 1968. I was in Washington D.C. for Occupy the October before last. I went to Berkley to Occupy the campus last year after the kids got beat up by the cops. Just saying, stereotypes are stereotypes and generalities are generalities.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)ever use the term old white men. I did say "old people" and that's what I meant. They could be anyone. It's just that this old guy who wasn't even an American born person, and he was white, synthesized to me what was pissing me off. It's too bad he wasn't even a "born" American. It wasn't important to me where he came from. He just was what has been pissing me off in the community of the privileged I ended up living in, and I mean I ENDED UP HERE, by circumstance, not choice.
I had a few beatings back in the days myself in protests. So here's to you.
xtraxritical
(3,576 posts)Also, I ask again, why argue with an 80 year old? What if they freaked and had a heart attack or stroke because you upset them? You're so politically correct you have to educate everyone? Just really lame. Have you no discretion?
Cleita
(75,480 posts)Samantha
(9,314 posts)I think of myself also as being in the middle of my life and quite frankly I think it is appalling that some younger people are so quick to criticize a person simply because of his or her age. This recently happened to me when my neighbor's daughter derogatorily called me old. This is a person I watched grow up who came to me for advice whenever she had serious problems. I mean serious problems she could not discuss with her parents, her unexpectedly pregnancy at 17, her abusive boyfriend, should she marry a man that chronically yelled and screamed at her in public -- those types of things. I always took the time to sit down and discuss anything and everything with her. Suddenly, when she became 20, I am "old" to her.
Personally, I think an 80-year old who is stubborn, insulting and cranky probably was just as stubborn, insulting and cranky at 21.
Sam
watoos
(7,142 posts)because the MSM is controlled by corporatists, they control the narrative.
When people like Keith Olbermann, Cenk Uyngur, and Dylan Radigan told the truth on TV, they got canned.
This site is a bit of a comfort to me. It's one of the few sites putting out the truth.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)This site has been comfort to me for almost a decade even with the arguments and other things that go on.
Zax2me
(2,515 posts)Gave me hope for change all over again.
Even so, many out there remain clueless.
BobbyBoring
(1,965 posts)I listen to RW talk radio. The only reason is, I'm trying to figure out how people believe this bullshit. Their opinions and core beliefs are spoon fed to them by ENTERTAINERS! PERIOD! As much as contempt as they have for the "Hollywood" ENTERTAINERS really boggles the mind. At least the "Hollywood" ENTERTAINERS actually entertain while the RW talk and TV hosts do nothing remotely entertaining. They just spew made up bullshit 24/7. They still can't believe RMoney lost, but don't realize he was running against an Obama that doesn't exist. The Marxist, Communist, Socialist, Muslim one.
If I figure it out, it will be on the greatest for years. Don't hold you breath~
Cleita
(75,480 posts)A whole heap of hypocrisy is there.
Dawson Leery
(19,348 posts)They never had to experience the horrors of the great depression. The GI's rebuilt society, the silents came into the workforce in the mid 50's during the post war boom.
juajen
(8,515 posts)I find often that this is caused by what they heard at home and how well they are educated. You would be amazed at what people believe "Critical Thinking" is.
I haven't seen you post much lately or maybe I don't post where you do.
abelenkpe
(9,933 posts)And therefore superior to you says the scene you describe where he walks off ignoring you and drives away in his Mercedes.
Or I watch too many movies...
Cleita
(75,480 posts)first because I'm a woman and I could go on but I won't. And, my ten year old car, which I love and works for me, but wasn't as fancy as his.
Poll_Blind
(23,864 posts)...a viewpoint that people can subscribe to or not.
PB
Phlem
(6,323 posts)I deal with it everyday in my family and extended family on my wife's side. It's an epidemic in this country and along with this notion that "my ignorance is just as important as his facts so F off". They're eye's glaze over the simplest example and then they spout off and froth at the mouth.
I's an impenetrable wall and I am frankly tired of dealing with it.
Now I just make fun of them, its a laugh and it makes me feel better.
I'm open to any other options.
-p
Cleita
(75,480 posts)Phlem
(6,323 posts)hugs back at ya.
-p
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)Cleita
(75,480 posts)he had started with me.
Spitfire of ATJ
(32,723 posts)Zorra
(27,670 posts)He bought them for 50 pesos, which is roughly about $4 US.
He insisted that they were scallops. They absolutely were not scallops.
Then his friend says, "In some places people have different names for things."
Yeah, ignorant people bum me out too; they're actually pretty scary in a way, IMO.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)time ago. But there really aren't any clams anymore. So everyone got screwed.
Kath1
(4,309 posts)Keep that bumper sticker on your car! Way to go in standing up for your ideals and standing up for the facts! isn't it amazing how they crumble when facts get in the way of their brainwashed Limbaugh way of thinking! I've had the same sort of experience many times. You should be proud of how you handled that encounter!
Cleita
(75,480 posts)I think I posted because it's hard not being in the mainstream. I have had the bumper sticker on my car for a long time. I have had my car scratched, I believe because of it. This is the first time I was accosted about it. I won't back off.
colsohlibgal
(5,275 posts)It's amazing what many people don't know or are off base on.
Not so in that evil socialist Scandinavia, I saw on some program lately that grade school kids in Norway could speak and grasp 3 or so languages already. Our kids - not so much.
In some places like Texas it's going to get worse because of all the religious nut cases there.
Cleita
(75,480 posts)Scandanavian countries when I went to the beach. They were from Norway, Sweden, Denmark etc., and were traveling around before they settled into life back home. I was always impressed with how good their English was. They were also so healthy looking, probably because of all that socialist health care they got from inside the womb and throughout their lives.
Knightraven
(268 posts)There are so many that are scared to do the right thing due to not researching. They instead listen to those like Hannity.
Trillo
(9,154 posts)and how, in a capitalist system run by a very few extremely wealthy entities, the educated that many have dealt with have been their tools, and have used their education and intelligence to deceive. Thus, the perception that education past high school is inversely related to integrity. The more education you have, the less integrity you are perceived to have.
JI7
(89,254 posts)but when he can't accept the info you give him he walks off.