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cali

(114,904 posts)
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 04:21 PM Feb 2013

Holy crap: Allow Catholic priests to marry, urges Cardinal Keith O'Brien

The Scottish Catholic leader, Cardinal Keith O'Brien, has said he would be happy for priests to be able to marry. Many priests struggle to cope with celibacy and should be able to marry and have a family, he added, in advance of a trip to Rome where he will help elect the next pope.

O'Brien told the BBC: "I'd be very happy if others had the opportunity of considering whether or not they could or should be married. It's a free world and I realise many priests have found it very difficult to cope with celibacy as they lived out their priesthood, and felt the need of a companion, of a woman, to whom they could get married and raise a family."

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2013/feb/22/alllow-catholic-priests-marry-cardinal

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Holy crap: Allow Catholic priests to marry, urges Cardinal Keith O'Brien (Original Post) cali Feb 2013 OP
'bout fuckin' time, somebody other than the Catholic Lay said it publicly... Volaris Feb 2013 #1
Likely to late, I doubt the Church will change. Katashi_itto Feb 2013 #30
Bet his odds on making Pope just went down CanonRay Feb 2013 #2
To about zero...nt joeybee12 Feb 2013 #11
No white smoke for him, I'm betting. MineralMan Feb 2013 #3
When I first saw that timdog44 Feb 2013 #20
Make him Pope! Drunken Irishman Feb 2013 #4
Obviously with this quote he is not interested in the top job Tanelorn Feb 2013 #28
Let there be married priests and the Church would thrive. onehandle Feb 2013 #5
Let there be women priests (and deacons, and bishops, and cardinals). It would thrive even more. SharonAnn Feb 2013 #6
It's a slippery slope! randome Feb 2013 #8
STOP IT RANDOME Skittles Feb 2013 #15
!!! Man on dog confessionals!! Bucky Feb 2013 #26
I'm in favor of that, however who knows how many people would leave the church. onehandle Feb 2013 #9
Well, it might not be quite a matter of "leaving" at that point skepticscott Feb 2013 #19
Sure but do we want it to thrive? randome Feb 2013 #7
Rome is looking to Africa to fill that need. Ikonoklast Feb 2013 #13
Put a ring on it, Padre! kenny blankenship Feb 2013 #10
I know some priests who would make sweet couples... hunter Feb 2013 #12
Why not? RebelOne Feb 2013 #14
We have a married Catholic priest, with children, here in the PHX diocese. blueamy66 Feb 2013 #16
I'm all for allowing Catholic priests to marry and have children, also! calimary Feb 2013 #21
It's a longstanding practice. I think it goes back to the 70s. Bucky Feb 2013 #27
Let them have sex like normal people and marry whoever they want. jsr Feb 2013 #17
It is the only hope for the long-term survival of the church (nt) LuckyTheDog Feb 2013 #18
Our priests in the Orthodox Church can marry. knitter4democracy Feb 2013 #22
The early Catholic Church did allow priests to be married. ... spin Feb 2013 #23
Geeze, that recently? Bucky Feb 2013 #25
Good for him! St Peter was married. Episcopal priests do okay with spouses. Bucky Feb 2013 #24
Unmarried priests leave no heirs rhiannon55 Feb 2013 #29
Arnold Schwarzenegger is the "LAST POPE" Katashi_itto Feb 2013 #31
I think requiring celibacy used to be good, but it's too big a hurdle nowadays. reformist2 Feb 2013 #32

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
5. Let there be married priests and the Church would thrive.
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 04:56 PM
Feb 2013

As it is, there are too few priests to effectively serve, and it's getting worse every year.

 

randome

(34,845 posts)
8. It's a slippery slope!
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 05:01 PM
Feb 2013

What's next? Dog priests? Hamster priests? OTOH, I guess that wouldn't make much difference, would it?

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
9. I'm in favor of that, however who knows how many people would leave the church.
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 05:02 PM
Feb 2013

Some would over married priests. But women priests?

They would lose their minds.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
19. Well, it might not be quite a matter of "leaving" at that point
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 07:00 PM
Feb 2013

There would almost certainly be a schism in the RCC over women priests. Those who opposed it would "stay" in the "real" church, and would consider the group allowing the ordination of women to no longer be a part.

Ikonoklast

(23,973 posts)
13. Rome is looking to Africa to fill that need.
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 05:24 PM
Feb 2013

Their growth market in Africa will soon be exporting parish priests, and those will be some of the most virulenty conservative Catholics yet seen.

hunter

(38,313 posts)
12. I know some priests who would make sweet couples...
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 05:24 PM
Feb 2013

... and some women who would be good priests.

Mix-and-match genders and orientations would improve the priesthood immensely.

(That's what God is telling this heretic...)

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
14. Why not?
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 05:35 PM
Feb 2013

Episcopalian priests were always allowed to marry, and the Episcopalian church is just one step down from the Catholic church. I used to be an Episcopalian many, many years ago, and the minister at my church was married. I am now a non-practicing Episcopalian.

 

blueamy66

(6,795 posts)
16. We have a married Catholic priest, with children, here in the PHX diocese.
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 06:38 PM
Feb 2013

His name is Fr. Doug Lorig. He was an Episcopalian priest (raised Methodist, I think) and converted to Catholicism in 1979. He was a Deacon at my HS and was ordained when I graduated in 1984.

He is a Pastor of a parish in Scottsdale and has, I believe, 4 children.

There are a few "old school" Catholics here that I know personally who are not happy that he was allowed to convert and be ordained.

He is a very smart and caring man. He has written a short book as well.

I'm all for allowing Catholic priests to marry and have children.

calimary

(81,272 posts)
21. I'm all for allowing Catholic priests to marry and have children, also!
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 07:14 PM
Feb 2013

I wish my church was forward-thinking enough and open-minded enough to consider the reasonable ways that would solve a lot of problems. Priestly celibacy as optional, not mandatory. Married priests. Women priests. Perhaps with all pathways to sex NOT shut off, we wouldn't have quite so much of a pedophilia problem. People need safe outlets. Look what can - and does - happen when stuff stays bottled up.

Bucky

(54,013 posts)
27. It's a longstanding practice. I think it goes back to the 70s.
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 08:01 PM
Feb 2013

It's also, as I understand, an option for Greek Orthodox priests, too.

But not Lutherans or Coptics. Despite me knowing the theological and historical bases for this discrimination, it still seems like they're just throwing dice to see who they'll let in and who they won't.

knitter4democracy

(14,350 posts)
22. Our priests in the Orthodox Church can marry.
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 07:18 PM
Feb 2013

The first church council agreed on this, and priests were able to be married until the Middle Ages in the West. It had nothing to do with the faith but instead primogeniture laws. If they'd just go back to their roots, the RCC priests could be married, too.

spin

(17,493 posts)
23. The early Catholic Church did allow priests to be married. ...
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 07:40 PM
Feb 2013

Sunday, April 28, 2002 - 19:48
When Did the Catholic Church Decide Priests Should Be Celibate?
Helen L. Owen

***snip***

The Church was a thousand years old before it definitively took a stand in favor of celibacy in the twelfth century at the Second Lateran Council held in 1139, when a rule was approved forbidding priests to marry. In 1563, the Council of Trent reaffirmed the tradition of celibacy.
http://hnn.us/articles/696.html

Bucky

(54,013 posts)
24. Good for him! St Peter was married. Episcopal priests do okay with spouses.
Fri Feb 22, 2013, 07:55 PM
Feb 2013

But let's clear something up: allowing priests to marry won't impact the child molestation problem. Except in the rare case where fear of one's wife finding out prevents the crime, people who are pedephiles are not really deterred by marriage and most aren't really capable of getting into a serious relationship enough to get hitched in the first place.

What returning to the old standard of married priests will do is open up the profession to a lot more healthy-minded men. You could weed out the pevs. You might even have a few more colleagues willing to whistleblow on the pedophiles among the clergy. But the real benefit is in opening up the talent pool to guys who want to serve God as well as enjoy the full fruits of one's testicles.

Now, let's talk about wimmin priests and we're having a serious discussion.

rhiannon55

(2,671 posts)
29. Unmarried priests leave no heirs
Sat Feb 23, 2013, 04:33 PM
Feb 2013

"Why aren’t Catholic priests allowed to marry? This has nothing to do with what’s written in the Bible or with any benefits of celibacy. This rule was invented by the Church to prevent their priests from producing heirs. When the priests died, their property would go back to the Church, thereby enriching the rich even more. Apparently God needed more cash. It was a very effective policy, as the Church is now among the richest and most powerful organizations on earth. It’s hard to fail when you have a loyal force of lifetime indentured servants who work cheaply and then yield their life savings to you when they die.

Lay religious people (i.e. non-clergy), on the other hand, are encouraged to have lots of babies because that means more people are born into the religion, which means more money and a bigger power base. Condoms are a big no-no; they’re bad for business. Marriage is a big yes; it means more brainwashed babies will be made."

http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2008/05/10-reasons-you-should-never-have-a-religion/

 

Katashi_itto

(10,175 posts)
31. Arnold Schwarzenegger is the "LAST POPE"
Sat Feb 23, 2013, 04:38 PM
Feb 2013
He was a humble Cardinal... they him made Pope...

They elected him to clean up the Vatican

...he gave them a Baptism of Blood....!

In THEATERS APRIL 1st!

IN 3D!!!
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