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RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 11:39 AM Feb 2013

DU POLL - Since 2000, are there now states you would never move to or work in ...

or possibly even visit? I have, I'm not listing them, but there are now states that have taken a real nose dive as any places I would want to be. I'm just curious if other DU'ers have similar feelings. I'm thinking mostly of how radical and un-American some state agendas have become with the reign of Bush, the teabagger rise, and now Obama hatred ... and a number of other things.


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DU POLL - Since 2000, are there now states you would never move to or work in ... (Original Post) RKP5637 Feb 2013 OP
There are, but pipi_k Feb 2013 #1
I lived in MA for years, loved it, had to move for my job. Western MA is really nice!!! n/t RKP5637 Feb 2013 #12
Yep, it really pipi_k Feb 2013 #35
For never living in - OK, FL, SC HERVEPA Feb 2013 #2
Vermont cali Feb 2013 #3
LOL !!! I love Vermont too!!! I wish the entire US were like Vermont!!! RKP5637 Feb 2013 #13
There are states I wouldn't want to move to, but not because of political reasons. OceanEcosystem Feb 2013 #4
But it's a dry heat! kentauros Feb 2013 #23
Same with my cat! He doesn't like getting zapped all the time with low humidity. He's RKP5637 Feb 2013 #61
The proper response to "It's a dry heat," is "So is a convection oven." PDJane Feb 2013 #102
Notice, too, my use of the "tongue" smilie ;) kentauros Feb 2013 #104
+1 wickerwoman Feb 2013 #47
For the most part Cirque du So-What Feb 2013 #5
It's just gotten so expensive in New England. When I was a kid, it was sooo much more RKP5637 Feb 2013 #14
I would never live in the South. Cultural reasons. nt Romulox Feb 2013 #6
Agreed alcibiades_mystery Feb 2013 #10
I agree with you and my family is from Tennessee Samantha Feb 2013 #147
Yes, and I live in one of them. Scuba Feb 2013 #7
Ditto Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #33
But summer here can be nice HereSince1628 Feb 2013 #77
Yeh. Jackpine Radical Feb 2013 #101
I am interested in visiting other states but living there would be hard to do. Jennicut Feb 2013 #8
I like Connecticut a lot too! RKP5637 Feb 2013 #15
I moved to CT from VA. I couldn't get out of that state fast enough after they engineered the CTyankee Feb 2013 #153
I dont do cold weather, so I would never live north of Georgia NightWatcher Feb 2013 #9
I've gotten so I can't take the cold as well as I used too. I like the first snowfall, pretty and RKP5637 Feb 2013 #16
It's not as cold as it used to be. I remember Long Island Sound was frozen out a mile one January leveymg Feb 2013 #28
my body doesnt do cold anymore. I have Raynaud's NightWatcher Feb 2013 #29
I can handle humidity way better than dryness. n/t RKP5637 Feb 2013 #60
I live north of Asheville Livluvgrow Feb 2013 #11
All I've ever heard is just absolutely wonderful things about Asheville. It always RKP5637 Feb 2013 #18
Live ins West Asheville. The Prez has good taste - he likes us and 7 Bones - BBQ Restaurant. n/t patricia92243 Feb 2013 #93
Hey, neighbor! Born & bred New York City'er moved here 8 years ago tpsbmam Feb 2013 #96
One big thing for me is, psychologically, I can't stand being landlocked. Arugula Latte Feb 2013 #17
Yep, I like the oceans too! n/t RKP5637 Feb 2013 #62
I have lived in Colorado for over 24 years, but am originally from Maryland. beveeheart Feb 2013 #75
When I lived in DC I loved the beaches of Maryland, Virginia and Delaware. Arugula Latte Feb 2013 #76
Yep, the Chesapeake Bay Bridge traffic will slow you down. beveeheart Feb 2013 #80
Yep, the beaches are wonderful. It's been a long time, but I sure remember the RKP5637 Feb 2013 #87
You weren't the only one!! beveeheart Feb 2013 #140
Same here for me (n/t) Tom Ripley Feb 2013 #143
There's no state I wouldn't want to visit OriginalGeek Feb 2013 #19
LOL !!! Major snow storm is hitting here now. PLEASE send some sunshine up!!! RKP5637 Feb 2013 #20
I'm pushing that warm front as hard as I can OriginalGeek Feb 2013 #21
That'll be great!!! I won't have to shovel out the driveway!!! RKP5637 Feb 2013 #25
There's some hills west and south of Orlando. Tommy_Carcetti Feb 2013 #26
Yep, my wife's best friend lives in Clermont OriginalGeek Feb 2013 #82
Kansas, MrYikes Feb 2013 #22
Kansas is going through a morphing into something ... hard to tell where that something is RKP5637 Feb 2013 #27
Anywhere cold. Tommy_Carcetti Feb 2013 #24
Stop it, just plain stop it and come over and help me shovel out all of this damn snow! RKP5637 Feb 2013 #30
I went skiing yesterday and I think I'll go again today. 2naSalit Feb 2013 #45
I don't really want to be where I am now. sadbear Feb 2013 #31
Florida where I unfortunately have to live HockeyMom Feb 2013 #32
I am stuck here permanently... Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #37
Have to say I'm in the same boat. I live in VA, the kid and grandkid live 3 blocks away, and Nay Feb 2013 #94
My relocation choices as well. Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #95
There were already places I would never work or live prior to 2000. 2naSalit Feb 2013 #34
Misssissippi, horrible for health care.... Historic NY Feb 2013 #36
It's a great place to be FROM and get out of. Tom Ripley Feb 2013 #144
Oh, this is going to turn out real well. CBGLuthier Feb 2013 #38
Well, it wasn't meant that way! n/t RKP5637 Feb 2013 #44
Other -- there have been states I would not move to since *before* 2000. Brickbat Feb 2013 #39
I'm with you Mopar151 Feb 2013 #56
Yay! Region bashing! We haven't had any of that here in 12 or 13 minutes! cordelia Feb 2013 #40
Who is bashing regions ??? n/t RKP5637 Feb 2013 #42
Read the thread. cordelia Feb 2013 #70
Yep, it is. Agree, just read it all. n/t RKP5637 Feb 2013 #74
Even before 2000 there were states I had no desire to live in. Solly Mack Feb 2013 #41
I always dreamed of retiring in Arizona.... madmom Feb 2013 #43
Have you considered New Mexico? n/t whathehell Feb 2013 #109
Yes, we are seriously considering New Mexico. Just haven't decided where yet... madmom Feb 2013 #116
I liked the Santa Fe area a lot, though I've only visited. whathehell Feb 2013 #120
Thanks, Santa Fe was one of the areas we were madmom Feb 2013 #121
You're quite welcome, and good luck! n/t whathehell Feb 2013 #138
The Santa Fe area is awesome. Well educated people live there. nt bluestate10 Feb 2013 #123
absolutely stillcool Feb 2013 #46
Texas. Took a train through it once. Close as I plan to ever get. stlsaxman Feb 2013 #48
That's About The Typical Basis For Texas-Bashing, Here At DU. (nt) Paladin Feb 2013 #57
Yeah, and I thought we Texans were the close minded types Ishoutandscream2 Feb 2013 #69
The Only Thing That Surprised Me..... Paladin Feb 2013 #71
Well I can watch Austin City Limits on PBS... stlsaxman Feb 2013 #92
Yeah, As If I'm Wasting Time On Changing A Mindset Like Yours. Paladin Feb 2013 #98
Okay- instead of "wasting time"... how about sighting a few great things about Texas? stlsaxman Feb 2013 #103
Is There Any Point To This? Paladin Feb 2013 #108
Excellent! stlsaxman Feb 2013 #111
My Pleasure. Seriously. (nt) Paladin Feb 2013 #139
Keep working to make your state blue. You guys will be a big lift to our side when you pull bluestate10 Feb 2013 #125
Glad to have set the bar. stlsaxman Feb 2013 #90
You Didn't Set The Bar, You Just Adhered To It. Thanks For Playing. (nt) Paladin Feb 2013 #99
Maybe this will help w8liftinglady Feb 2013 #118
I make visits to Texas. That's enough for me. There are good people there, but the idiots are bluestate10 Feb 2013 #122
Utah is the only state on my personal shit list. TheMightyFavog Feb 2013 #49
So, you have not been to Moab or read Desert Solitaire? Coyotl Feb 2013 #79
I won't move back to Arizona. politicat Feb 2013 #50
How's this for fair to each region? marions ghost Feb 2013 #51
Have toothbrush, will travel. tavernier Feb 2013 #52
Exactly OriginalGeek Feb 2013 #85
And all we need is the winning lotto number! tavernier Feb 2013 #134
for sure shanti Feb 2013 #53
I don't think I could live south of the Mason-Dixon line Ednahilda Feb 2013 #54
Other. GoCubsGo Feb 2013 #55
It's more about the weather..but... Tikki Feb 2013 #58
Since 2000, I have realized that I can only live in California Taverner Feb 2013 #59
It was not until about 2000 that I really started to realize how many unleashed RKP5637 Feb 2013 #65
Yes, this is true Taverner Feb 2013 #66
And California is supposedly immune from unleashed crazies? Tommy_Carcetti Feb 2013 #141
It's not, but the devil you know, right? Taverner Feb 2013 #148
You gotta live a little! Tommy_Carcetti Feb 2013 #149
Visit? Sure! Hella! Taverner Feb 2013 #152
Crocogators are FUCKING AWESOME!!!!! Tommy_Carcetti Feb 2013 #154
If you rub their bellies and sing them a song, will they go to sleep? Taverner Feb 2013 #155
Not only that..... Tommy_Carcetti Feb 2013 #156
no tabbycat31 Feb 2013 #63
I wanted desperately to move back to Madison WI until it became Fitzwalkerstan. Myrina Feb 2013 #64
Where I am sometimes I feel I live in some warped version of the Twilight Zone. n/t RKP5637 Feb 2013 #67
Been in Madison for a long time mokawanis Feb 2013 #146
I really, truly dislike the term "un-American" Spider Jerusalem Feb 2013 #68
Agree!!! Well said!!! n/t RKP5637 Feb 2013 #73
I lived in Texas for seven years Blue_In_AK Feb 2013 #72
I've never been to Alaska, but from what I've heard/seen it's a pretty nice place. n/t RKP5637 Feb 2013 #84
It's a beautiful place with a lot of really great people. Blue_In_AK Feb 2013 #97
Palin did a lot of disservice to Alaska. That whole charade. n RKP5637 Feb 2013 #100
Yes, she did, Blue_In_AK Feb 2013 #110
... love those names! RKP5637 Feb 2013 #114
Living in Dixie during puberty left me with a very bad taste in my mouth Warpy Feb 2013 #78
I loved New England, but I just find it too expensive to get back there again for me. I've heard a RKP5637 Feb 2013 #83
It's too expensive for me, too Warpy Feb 2013 #86
Last I was back in MA I looked in western MA too ... that was expensive. Not as bad as RKP5637 Feb 2013 #88
I lived on the wrong side of Beacon Hill Warpy Feb 2013 #89
Taxes are out of sight. One house I owned years ago now has a tax rate of about $12,000/yr. I was RKP5637 Feb 2013 #91
Florida libodem Feb 2013 #81
It would have to be surrounded by mountains and water -- gateley Feb 2013 #105
You and me both, Gateley, Blue_In_AK Feb 2013 #115
Haha! I'd much rather be up there with you than gateley Feb 2013 #124
Me, too. Blue_In_AK Feb 2013 #131
Not since 2000. The same states that have been on MineralMan Feb 2013 #106
KS continues to get stranger and stranger. One of the things we were discussing the RKP5637 Feb 2013 #113
Many for all kinds of reasons-NY, MS, AZ, NM, OK, TX, AL, probably GA, CA is dicey too TheKentuckian Feb 2013 #107
My list hasn't changed since 1985. GoneOffShore Feb 2013 #112
Yes: MS, AL, LA alarimer Feb 2013 #117
Most of the Bible Belt. n/t backscatter712 Feb 2013 #119
I was glad to get out of the south into a more liberal community rrneck Feb 2013 #126
Arizona moved into the do not visit slot since 2008. I lived in Tuscon in 2006 and love Grijalva Exultant Democracy Feb 2013 #127
Florida, Texas, Arizona juajen Feb 2013 #128
I could pretty much only live in the Northeast (New York and New England). smirkymonkey Feb 2013 #129
I had opposition to moving the same states after as before 2000. LiberalFighter Feb 2013 #130
I thought about moving to Florida to be close to my mother & stepfather, but Jeb and (P)Rick Scott muntrv Feb 2013 #132
Any state that allows carry Benton D Struckcheon Feb 2013 #133
I will never move from the North East Marrah_G Feb 2013 #135
Yep, I know exactly what you mean. I was quite saddened when I had to leave for a job. n/t RKP5637 Feb 2013 #136
I'll trade a Louisiana for a Vermont... southern_belle Feb 2013 #137
I moved to Georgia when it was on a progressive path, now I can't wait to get out... Tom Ripley Feb 2013 #142
There are places in every state that would be attractive to me. Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #145
I would not like to be surrounded by tea baggers treestar Feb 2013 #150
Yeah, same here ... some states seem to be decidedly more teabaggerish, so I'm avoiding them. RKP5637 Feb 2013 #151

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
1. There are, but
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 11:43 AM
Feb 2013

most of the ones I wouldn't live in have been on my Never In A Million Years list since way before 2000 anyway.

I like Massachusetts.

I like Western Mass.

I like my little Hilltowns home.




pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
35. Yep, it really
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:57 PM
Feb 2013

is nice out here.

So often we are ignored in the travel brochures, or given only a cursory mention, the focus being on the eastern part of the state...Boston...Cape Cod...Martha's Vinyard, etc.

It's a shame that so many residents out in those parts don't know more about what it's like here, especially seeing as we're such a small state.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
3. Vermont
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 11:46 AM
Feb 2013

Damn socialist hippie freak state. Now the commies in the statehouse want to tax soda by the ounce and let doctors kill the disabled. Pot smoking punks.

Just kidding. I wouldn't want to live anywhere but here.

 

OceanEcosystem

(275 posts)
4. There are states I wouldn't want to move to, but not because of political reasons.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 11:49 AM
Feb 2013

I just think that some states that I wouldn't like because of the dry or desert geography. Also some states because of the very hot summer heat.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
23. But it's a dry heat!
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:45 PM
Feb 2013


I'm similar in way of climate. Dry air makes me miserable, not to mention turning me into a walking Van der Graaf generator! Any state that has at least 60% (and well above) humidity levels, yet also "very hot summer heat", is a-ok by me

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
61. Same with my cat! He doesn't like getting zapped all the time with low humidity. He's
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 02:13 PM
Feb 2013

a walking Van der Graaf generator too.

PDJane

(10,103 posts)
102. The proper response to "It's a dry heat," is "So is a convection oven."
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 05:27 PM
Feb 2013

You get cooked whether it's arid or tropical. Heat is heat.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
104. Notice, too, my use of the "tongue" smilie ;)
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 05:36 PM
Feb 2013

I agree that it's hot no matter whether dry or humid. Most are going to stay indoors. Although you will find me baking in the heat from time to time to warm up from the walk-in refrigerators also known as "office buildings"

wickerwoman

(5,662 posts)
47. +1
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:21 PM
Feb 2013

Climate change would be the deciding factor for me.

I honestly think in 20-30 years large parts of the South are going to be uninhabitable for people who can't afford thousands a year for air conditioning, not to mention water shortages. I don't think the population down there is sustainable and I would never invest in a house there.

Cirque du So-What

(25,949 posts)
5. For the most part
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 11:49 AM
Feb 2013

the list of states in which I wouldn't live or work hasn't changed since 2000. I am a transplant into the NE quadrant of the US, and that is where I make my stand - for better or worse. If I could find suitable employment, sufficient to offset the higher cost of living (and persuade my spouse to join me), I would relocate to New England in a heartbeat.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
10. Agreed
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 11:59 AM
Feb 2013

I know Southerners have pride in their thing, and that's OK with me, and I'm sure it's all nice. But I couldn't take it. It would be a quality of life deal breaker to live pretty much anywhere in the South for me.

Before you go all "You're a bigot" on me, I'd suggest it would be a quality of life deal breaker for many of y'all to live in New York City, or Chicago or whatever. It's OK to have different cultures, and to prefer one's own culture, so long as we don't actively attack or hurt others. I don't want to live in the South. I don't like the culture. It doesn't suit me. It would grate on me constantly. That doesn't mean it's a bad culture - it's perfectly fine and rich for people who prefer it; it's just not for me.

Samantha

(9,314 posts)
147. I agree with you and my family is from Tennessee
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 12:50 AM
Feb 2013

When I used to go to family reunions, I would hear people still use the N word. It shocked me. I do not go any more.

Last week, when President Obama visited Georgia, some protesters gathered and yelled that word at him. I couldn't live in a state where that happened. I would just not fit in.

Sam

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
77. But summer here can be nice
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 03:20 PM
Feb 2013

if it doesn't rain that week!

Living in WI for the past decade makes me appreciate history much better. I now sort of understand what life was like in the closing years of the Wiemar Republic.


Jennicut

(25,415 posts)
8. I am interested in visiting other states but living there would be hard to do.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 11:56 AM
Feb 2013

I live in Connecticut. I am used to a small state, a faster pace of life, the convenience of everything you need being extremely close by and fairly progressive laws and a socially liberal way of life. And a shoreline! Some people who come here are horrified by our congestion and the sheer amount of people in a small space. And the amount of Dunkin Donuts per town. But gay marriage is legal, no one wants to change the abortion laws, etc.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
153. I moved to CT from VA. I couldn't get out of that state fast enough after they engineered the
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 03:42 PM
Feb 2013

defeat of the Equal Rights Amendment...

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
9. I dont do cold weather, so I would never live north of Georgia
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 11:58 AM
Feb 2013

I thought I was going to freeze one winter in North Georgia and was convinced that I would never live north of Atlanta ever again.

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
16. I've gotten so I can't take the cold as well as I used too. I like the first snowfall, pretty and
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:28 PM
Feb 2013

all, but then when it stays and stays on the ground and turns to a mud look with pot holes and all the charm kind of goes away for me.

leveymg

(36,418 posts)
28. It's not as cold as it used to be. I remember Long Island Sound was frozen out a mile one January
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:53 PM
Feb 2013

in the early 1970s.

Nothing like that in recent times.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
29. my body doesnt do cold anymore. I have Raynaud's
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:54 PM
Feb 2013

and my hands lose feeling when it gets the slightest bit chilly. Plus I'm the only person I know who digs the humidity in the South

Livluvgrow

(377 posts)
11. I live north of Asheville
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:15 PM
Feb 2013

and wouldn't trade in my life for anything. Apparently President Obama likes it as he visits here frequently and just last week said he and Michelle would like to retire here. Wow who would of thunk that the south would be good enough for our president. I was born and raised on the south side of Chicago and after spending 17 dollars on tolls passing through Illinois to Wisconsin I decided Illinois is better being bypassed. I am now in the mountains and in the words of Loretta Lynn "I aint coming down no never I'm not, high on a mountain top".

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
18. All I've ever heard is just absolutely wonderful things about Asheville. It always
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:30 PM
Feb 2013

sounds absolutely beautiful and the people seem very very nice and also open minded!

tpsbmam

(3,927 posts)
96. Hey, neighbor! Born & bred New York City'er moved here 8 years ago
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 04:32 PM
Feb 2013

and absolutely love it! Tons to love about it. Though currently saddled with ReTHUGS thanks to redistricting, Asheville is a very progressive area. Who'd Buncombe go for in the 2004 Democratic primaries? Kucinich! Wow. That happened just as I was moving down -- the progressiveness of the area was what made the move possible for me.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
17. One big thing for me is, psychologically, I can't stand being landlocked.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:30 PM
Feb 2013

I spent a summer in Colorado and I would frequently hallucinate (without the use of drugs) that the Great Plains, as seen from the Rockies, were actually the ocean (they really do look blue/purple in certain lights!).

beveeheart

(1,369 posts)
75. I have lived in Colorado for over 24 years, but am originally from Maryland.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 03:14 PM
Feb 2013

Every year though, I have to go back to Maryland and spend time on/in/near the Chester River, the Chesapeake Bay and the Atlantic Ocean because they were such a part of my life when I was growing up.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
76. When I lived in DC I loved the beaches of Maryland, Virginia and Delaware.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 03:16 PM
Feb 2013

The only downside was that you could easily get stuck in summer traffic and it would take up to four hours to make it to the beach.

beveeheart

(1,369 posts)
80. Yep, the Chesapeake Bay Bridge traffic will slow you down.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 03:35 PM
Feb 2013

Fortunately for me, I was already on the Eastern Shore and knew the back roads to get to the beaches quicker.

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
87. Yep, the beaches are wonderful. It's been a long time, but I sure remember the
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 03:53 PM
Feb 2013

traffic. Years ago I remember coming back loaded a couple of times as a college kid ... scares me some now thinking back on it ...

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
19. There's no state I wouldn't want to visit
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:36 PM
Feb 2013

I'd have to hear the numbers before deciding about moving to and working in but I am willing to listen to the pitch from anywhere.

I sure don't mind living in central Florida. Not to be a jerk to you folks under 10 feet of snow (how I picture everything north of Georgia lol) but I could go get a tee time right now and be playing golf while wearing shorts within 45 minutes counting the time to go home and change clothes. 20 minutes if my spikes were in the car and I wanted to play in long pants.

And as a native who has also lived from Texas to Maryland the heat and humidity don't bother me much any more.


I wouldn't mind some cool hills and more brick houses though. Stucco is getting on my nerves.

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
21. I'm pushing that warm front as hard as I can
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:41 PM
Feb 2013

at lunch I'll go out and shine a mirror your way and hope you get some reflected heat.

hope this helps!

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,184 posts)
26. There's some hills west and south of Orlando.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:50 PM
Feb 2013

Not anything major or anything to be confused with mountains.

But if you take the Turnpike west of Orlando you'll run into some nice rolling hills in the Clearmont area.

(And while you're at it, check out Lakeridge Wineries around there. Some good Florida wine they have there!)

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
82. Yep, my wife's best friend lives in Clermont
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 03:47 PM
Feb 2013

but it's still in a stucco house! man I hate stucco lol.

It's a pretty damn NICE stucco house, mind you, but it's still stucco.

I do like driving around up there - the rolling hills are a nice change.

Been to Lakeridge a couple times and I like it but we just recently visited Keel and Curley Winery near Tampa and I loved their stuff - they concentrate more on fruit wines other than muscadine grapes. Their peach and strawberry wines were delicious. And they have a dry blueberry that was very nice as well. Now, my friends who are into wine consider all that stuff to be Night-train grade swill but I am, fortunately, unburdened by a wine snob palate. I save all my snobbery for beer.

My favorite part of the Clermont area is the Yalaha bakery though. It takes me an hour to get there and it's worth every second.

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
27. Kansas is going through a morphing into something ... hard to tell where that something is
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:52 PM
Feb 2013

ending up. Last election they voted out just about all moderates and into a teabagger controlled state and lots of Koch Brothers $$$$$.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,184 posts)
24. Anywhere cold.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:47 PM
Feb 2013

But to be fair, I think I've felt that way long before 2000.

But I sure am loving the 80 degree February weather today. I think I'm going for a swim on my lunch break!

sadbear

(4,340 posts)
31. I don't really want to be where I am now.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:55 PM
Feb 2013

Texas. But it seems all my family doesn't have a problem with it, so I'm overruled.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
32. Florida where I unfortunately have to live
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:55 PM
Feb 2013

Always felt this way. LONG before 2000. Hopefully, someday soon I can get out. Too many reasons, weather included, to list.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
37. I am stuck here permanently...
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:01 PM
Feb 2013

It was different when we moved here 25 years go.... Now the children are grown and have established themselves ... so I am here till the end.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
94. Have to say I'm in the same boat. I live in VA, the kid and grandkid live 3 blocks away, and
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 04:26 PM
Feb 2013

even though I HATE THIS FUCKING STATE, I am here to the end to be around them.

Otherwise, I'd move all the way across the country, or to Canada.

Historic NY

(37,451 posts)
36. Misssissippi, horrible for health care....
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 12:59 PM
Feb 2013

treated family members bone cancer as if it was arthritis. Its not the state to go to if your expecting quailty medical care or prevention.

http://www.americashealthrankings.org/

CBGLuthier

(12,723 posts)
38. Oh, this is going to turn out real well.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:04 PM
Feb 2013

Nothing like a good old fashioned state bashing thread.

And that is what it will become. It already has started.

Mopar151

(9,989 posts)
56. I'm with you
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:58 PM
Feb 2013

The politics may have gotten more noticable since the false coronation of George The Worst, but the underlying cultural issues have been there awhile.

cordelia

(2,174 posts)
40. Yay! Region bashing! We haven't had any of that here in 12 or 13 minutes!
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:09 PM
Feb 2013

This crap is why we need Urec.

Solly Mack

(90,773 posts)
41. Even before 2000 there were states I had no desire to live in.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:10 PM
Feb 2013

Visiting all the states is a neat thing to do. I'm working on that.

I've lived in states I wouldn't live in again. I've visited states I see no reason to visit again.

I do consider the politics of the state/area/region when looking at places to live. It's not my only consideration.

People like different things.





madmom

(9,681 posts)
43. I always dreamed of retiring in Arizona....
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:12 PM
Feb 2013

but now that it's time, I won't live there until they clean up their politics. Looking for some place in the vicinity, but not Arizona.

whathehell

(29,067 posts)
120. I liked the Santa Fe area a lot, though I've only visited.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 08:52 PM
Feb 2013

Your best bet would be to go to

the New Mexico state forum...They'll give you a better idea.

madmom

(9,681 posts)
121. Thanks, Santa Fe was one of the areas we were
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 09:02 PM
Feb 2013

looking at, along with Albuquerque. I'll check out the state forum.

stillcool

(32,626 posts)
46. absolutely
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:18 PM
Feb 2013

There are places I wouldn't want to drive through. Years ago...in the 80's we took a road trip to Tenn., and got some flack because our license plates gave us away as New Yorker's. I can only imagine....

stlsaxman

(9,236 posts)
48. Texas. Took a train through it once. Close as I plan to ever get.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:31 PM
Feb 2013

But the train stopped on the overpass looking over Dealey Plaza. Saw the Book Depository and the grassy knoll. From the train window it looked like a tiny doll set.

There is nothing else in that state I have even the slightest interest in experiencing.

Paladin

(28,265 posts)
71. The Only Thing That Surprised Me.....
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 02:47 PM
Feb 2013

...was that judgment-by-train-window poster's failure to add the usual, tiresome "But I wouldn't mind going to Austin some day, because everybody knows it's the only cool place in the state!" exception.....

stlsaxman

(9,236 posts)
92. Well I can watch Austin City Limits on PBS...
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 04:19 PM
Feb 2013

and SXSW is a long running scam so why go to Austin?

btw- i LOVED seeing Dealey Plaza from the train- it gave me goosebumps to be so close to the spot where (even horrific) history was made.

Aside from the Texas Board Of Education lobotomizing the children of America with a crucifix- what else does Texas have to offer?

Paladin

(28,265 posts)
98. Yeah, As If I'm Wasting Time On Changing A Mindset Like Yours.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 05:15 PM
Feb 2013

I'll give you credit, though, for the snark about SXSW---that's the one time of the year that my old Austin friends try to be out of town. The city loses some of its charm, with all those out-of-state college kids, puking on sidewalks.....

stlsaxman

(9,236 posts)
103. Okay- instead of "wasting time"... how about sighting a few great things about Texas?
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 05:28 PM
Feb 2013

Granted, my mindset is pretty severe but I even surprise myself on occasion on how open-minded i can be.

Let's make it two great things that aren't food or music related that you would say makes Texas a great place to visit?

and what are your thought on what the Texas School Board is doing to the nations textbooks?

Sincerely, please.

Paladin

(28,265 posts)
108. Is There Any Point To This?
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 06:15 PM
Feb 2013

You've formed an opinion on Texas based on a distant view of the JFK assassination site and the many sins of the state school board. That's like traveling to Germany and restricting your visit to the remains of Dachau. I could give you a hundred saving grace items in my native state, but I'll just restrict myself to just one: Old Tunnel State Park (www.tpwd.state.tx.us/oldtunnel). The experience is enhanced by the consumption of several beers at the Alamo Springs Cafe, which is within easy staggering distance to the park entrance. Check it out---hey, three million Mexican free-tailed bats can't be wrong.....

stlsaxman

(9,236 posts)
111. Excellent!
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 06:27 PM
Feb 2013

Yes- I'm jaded and prejudicial and narrow-minded but, damn... that cave is cool!

Thank you very much for your indulgence.

I've bookmarked this page... I may be looking at a road trip in my future and

http://www.tpwd.state.tx.us/state-parks/

might help me decide on a route.

bluestate10

(10,942 posts)
125. Keep working to make your state blue. You guys will be a big lift to our side when you pull
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 09:10 PM
Feb 2013

that off. Once you go blue, the back of the republican party will be snapped.

bluestate10

(10,942 posts)
122. I make visits to Texas. That's enough for me. There are good people there, but the idiots are
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 09:03 PM
Feb 2013

ruling for the time being.

TheMightyFavog

(13,770 posts)
49. Utah is the only state on my personal shit list.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:33 PM
Feb 2013

Texas used to be on this list but then I read Kinky Friedman's travelouge of Austin. Now I'd actually want to go see Austin.

politicat

(9,808 posts)
50. I won't move back to Arizona.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:37 PM
Feb 2013

My parents' home state was Indiana but I grew up in Arizona.

I will never go back. Arizona was not too bad in the 80s and 90s. I got a great, bilingual education and felt like we lived in an integrated, Norteño culture. (I felt that -- my mother, who speaks no Spanish, feels excluded and I'm starting to see teabag creep into her.) in school, we did Jane Austen and Isabel Allende together, for example. Culturally, I am a Norteño (by the standards of Woodward's American Nations) so it breaks my heart to see my native earth destroyed.

If I want warm weather, I stay in Colorado. If I want snow, I stay here. If I want Norteño culture, I stay here.

tavernier

(12,393 posts)
52. Have toothbrush, will travel.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:44 PM
Feb 2013

Life is an adventure and every state, city and town hold some new and interesting morsel, even if it is only a hill or flower I've never seen before.

Move to or work in? Hard to say... too many variables.

Ednahilda

(195 posts)
54. I don't think I could live south of the Mason-Dixon line
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:53 PM
Feb 2013

and not just because of the politics; I just don't do heat particularly well. I was in North Carolina once and got to see the kudzu and I've been once to Williamsburg, VA so I'm good. I do remember that just seeing the bumper stickers while I was there made me feel really out of place.

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
55. Other.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 01:54 PM
Feb 2013

There are definitely places where I don't want to live or work. However, I am so desperate at this point, I'll go just about anywhere for a job.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
59. Since 2000, I have realized that I can only live in California
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 02:06 PM
Feb 2013

Everywhere else has too many unleashed crazies

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
65. It was not until about 2000 that I really started to realize how many unleashed
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 02:24 PM
Feb 2013

crazies there were in the US. And, I thought a lot of the craziness of past times had gone away. Was I ever wrong.

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
66. Yes, this is true
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 02:25 PM
Feb 2013

Where I saw it the most were places I wouldn't have expected: Denver, CO; Chicago, IL; Herndon, VA

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,184 posts)
141. And California is supposedly immune from unleashed crazies?
Mon Feb 25, 2013, 11:57 PM
Feb 2013

Somehow I doubt that.

Unleashed crazies are a nationwide phenomoena.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,184 posts)
149. You gotta live a little!
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 11:24 AM
Feb 2013

Compare the crazies!

I, for one, would love to visit California and see how their crazies compare to my Florida crazies!

 

Taverner

(55,476 posts)
152. Visit? Sure! Hella!
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 03:33 PM
Feb 2013

Live? Hmmmm, besides the FL crazies there's the crocogators and storms

At least when the big one hits its all over in a matter of seconds

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,184 posts)
154. Crocogators are FUCKING AWESOME!!!!!
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 03:50 PM
Feb 2013

And don't even get me started about the awesomeness of FUCKING CROCOGATORS IN A FUCKING HURRICANE! FUCK YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,184 posts)
156. Not only that.....
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 03:54 PM
Feb 2013

.....they will begin to glow and cure all maladies within a 20 mile radius. It's a pretty cool sight to see.

Myrina

(12,296 posts)
64. I wanted desperately to move back to Madison WI until it became Fitzwalkerstan.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 02:22 PM
Feb 2013
What's happened to my beloved progressive oasis, Wisconsin??

mokawanis

(4,443 posts)
146. Been in Madison for a long time
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 12:35 AM
Feb 2013

and will probably remain, but the last 2 years have been pretty rough.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
68. I really, truly dislike the term "un-American"
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 02:31 PM
Feb 2013

and you know, I find it kind of hilarious that anyone is going to say "un-American agenda" when the USA is a country built on tax evasion, slavery and Native American genocide. Bush? Heh. How about Adams? (Read about the Alien and Sedition Acts, sometime.) Or Polk (Mexican War) or McKinley (Spanish-American War). Curtailing civil liberties and justifying it with "threat to national security"? Nothing new, and as American as baseball (same thing with trumped-up wars for nonsexistent reasons). Radical, sure; the radicalism of the extreme right wing of the Republican party is pretty much what William F Buckley described as "standing athwart history, yelling STOP!". The white evangelical Christian cultural conservatives of places like Georgia and Mississippi and Oklahoma and so on see the world changing around them, see themselves becoming a minority in a generation, see the slow decline of religion, the acceptance of things like divorce, same-sex marriage, and so on, see a black president, and it terrifies them because they have a very narrow idea of what constitutes "America" and can't really cope with the idea that they are becoming increasingly irrelevant. If things go on as they have for another few generations it's entirely possible that this may lead to another civil war. (Especially if both sides keep bandying about terms like "un-American" to describe the other.)

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
72. I lived in Texas for seven years
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 02:51 PM
Feb 2013

and I'm not a fan. I'm a northern and western kind of person anyway...I like snow, I don't like heat...so Alaska is perfect for me climate and scenery wise. We're having some real issues with our gov't right now, but I love this place enough to stay and fight.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
97. It's a beautiful place with a lot of really great people.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 05:04 PM
Feb 2013

We're just being ALECized right now unfortunately, much to everyone's dismay.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
110. Yes, she did,
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 06:26 PM
Feb 2013

but she was just the warm-up act for what's going on here now. We don't get much press these days since Sean Parnell gives the appearance of being sane, but because of that, he is ever so much more dangerous. We have several names for him -- Captain Zero (that one was actually conferred on him by Rep. Don Young), Governor Giveaway, or my personal favorite, Seanoco Parnellips.

Warpy

(111,282 posts)
78. Living in Dixie during puberty left me with a very bad taste in my mouth
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 03:28 PM
Feb 2013

and I can't imagine trying to live there again, even though the Smokies will always call to me. I found southern culture incompatible, not to mention clannish and harsh. Perhaps it would be different now that I'm a grownup and know who to tell to go to hell, but I still don't want to go back there, thanks.

Otherwise, I'm a city gal, so most of the big cities in this country would do since most of them are full of liberals and oddballs, even Salt Lake City.

It was wrenching to leave New England (where I fled when I left the south in the late 60s), but I've found New Mexico to be a decent fit. I think there are more areas I'd be willing to live than I'd want to avoid.

Just don't ask me to live in Dixie, thanks. BTDT

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
83. I loved New England, but I just find it too expensive to get back there again for me. I've heard a
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 03:49 PM
Feb 2013

lot of good things about New Mexico.

Warpy

(111,282 posts)
86. It's too expensive for me, too
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 03:53 PM
Feb 2013

and I inherited money! I just didn't inherit enough for Boston.

NM is a good fit culturally. Since there are three major clashing cultures here (tribal, Hispanic, Anglo), oddballs are tolerated and given a lot of slack. The weather here has completely spoiled me. We got 4 inches of snow overnight and the pavement was dry by noon.

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
88. Last I was back in MA I looked in western MA too ... that was expensive. Not as bad as
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 03:57 PM
Feb 2013

Boston. Years ago I lived in downtown Boston ... I couldn't even remotely think of living there now. I like places that have some slack. I'm pretty much a live and let live person.

Warpy

(111,282 posts)
89. I lived on the wrong side of Beacon Hill
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 04:00 PM
Feb 2013

I'll bet nothing has been done to renovate that odd little apartment in the 30 years since I lived there and I'll bet the rent is in the thousands, plural.

Buying is out of the question, too. I could afford the purchase. I just couldn't begin to afford the property taxes, year after year.

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
91. Taxes are out of sight. One house I owned years ago now has a tax rate of about $12,000/yr. I was
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 04:16 PM
Feb 2013

shocked when I looked it up on zillow.com one day.

gateley

(62,683 posts)
105. It would have to be surrounded by mountains and water --
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 05:51 PM
Feb 2013

we have plenty of both in Seattle and I'm used to looking at the vistas.

I lived in North Carolina for a few years and remember seeing one of the most gorgeous sunsets ever which was disappearing beyond the horizon. I thouhgt "I'll be able to catch it again from a hill" -- but there were no hills where I lived!

Seattle has lots of hills, too. I guess I should just stay put. I SUFFER when it gets any hotter that low '70's.

gateley

(62,683 posts)
124. Haha! I'd much rather be up there with you than
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 09:09 PM
Feb 2013

down in FL or Louisana or AZ!

When we're at 80 -- or higher! -- when people say "enjoying the beautiful weather?" I just want to slap them!

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
131. Me, too.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 09:26 PM
Feb 2013

Last summer we had a couple of days that were pretty warm, maybe 68 or so, and I was sweating like crazy working in my garden. Simply too hot. .

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
106. Not since 2000. The same states that have been on
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 05:55 PM
Feb 2013

my list for a very long time are still on that list:

Mississippi
Arkansas
Alabama
Idaho
Kansas
Missouri

I am forced to enter Kansas and Missouri on very rare occasions, only because I-35 goes through them.

One other I only am in when an airline flight takes me to an airport there:

Texas

Parts of Georgia are also on my list, but I love Atlanta.

I have no reason, nor desire, to set foot in any of those states, and that has been the case since the late 1960s. My reasons are personal ones, and I would not ever criticize any person who lived in any of those states for living in them.

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
113. KS continues to get stranger and stranger. One of the things we were discussing the
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 06:31 PM
Feb 2013

other night here is how many things are hidden in KS 'till suddenly they appear. It seems there is a cone of silence around the shenanigans going on. And seldom on the local news does one hear a lot about the KS government. I've lived in a number of states and it seemed a fair amount of news time was spent each night discussing state issues and politics.

Yep, lots of really good people live in all states and sometimes, of course, the political nature of the state changes around them much to their chagrin.

TheKentuckian

(25,026 posts)
107. Many for all kinds of reasons-NY, MS, AZ, NM, OK, TX, AL, probably GA, CA is dicey too
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 06:06 PM
Feb 2013

as is NJ. I could do WI and MN but would need to winter elsewhere, the cloud cover is a bummer.

Have to have trees and water.

GoneOffShore

(17,340 posts)
112. My list hasn't changed since 1985.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 06:29 PM
Feb 2013

Any state in the southern part of the country - It has to do with bugs and climate. I don't do well in high heat.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
117. Yes: MS, AL, LA
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 08:35 PM
Feb 2013

All of the rest of the south (I'm in NC now but unhappy about it). I've decided my next move will, with any luck, be to a blue state. I'm even willing to put up with cold weather, so New England is definitely in play for for me, though I prefer Oregon and Washington states.

rrneck

(17,671 posts)
126. I was glad to get out of the south into a more liberal community
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 09:14 PM
Feb 2013

but there are a lot of similarities nonetheless.

Exultant Democracy

(6,594 posts)
127. Arizona moved into the do not visit slot since 2008. I lived in Tuscon in 2006 and love Grijalva
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 09:16 PM
Feb 2013

but I wouldn't even feel safe going their these days.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
129. I could pretty much only live in the Northeast (New York and New England).
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 09:17 PM
Feb 2013

I have lived out in San Francisco, which was nice, but I definitely felt that culturally, I didn't belong there. I pretty much only socialized and related to Northeasterners and always knew I would go back. If I didn't live in the Northeastern US, the only other place I would want to live would be Europe.

LiberalFighter

(50,953 posts)
130. I had opposition to moving the same states after as before 2000.
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 09:19 PM
Feb 2013

Either because the climate or working conditions.

muntrv

(14,505 posts)
132. I thought about moving to Florida to be close to my mother & stepfather, but Jeb and (P)Rick Scott
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 09:29 PM
Feb 2013

put a damper on that.

Benton D Struckcheon

(2,347 posts)
133. Any state that allows carry
Thu Feb 21, 2013, 09:30 PM
Feb 2013

Just to be clear to the guys who masturbate with their guns, freakin Dodge City would shoot you on sight - the police would - if they saw you carrying. This was after it became a big city.
The reason for that is obvious if you value the freedom to stroll around town without fearing for your life.

 

Tom Ripley

(4,945 posts)
142. I moved to Georgia when it was on a progressive path, now I can't wait to get out...
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 12:01 AM
Feb 2013

of the hellhole to which it has reverted back. I would actually prefer South Carolina where the rednecks are not quite as redneck-y as the Georgia variety.

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
145. There are places in every state that would be attractive to me.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 12:12 AM
Feb 2013

particularly major college towns, and there are places in every state that would not be attractive. Overall, the most attractive state to me would be Hawaii, while the least attractive one would probably be Louisiana.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
150. I would not like to be surrounded by tea baggers
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 11:25 AM
Feb 2013

But that doesn't cut out any state, since even red states have cities, which are usually blue.

RKP5637

(67,111 posts)
151. Yeah, same here ... some states seem to be decidedly more teabaggerish, so I'm avoiding them.
Tue Feb 26, 2013, 11:47 AM
Feb 2013

All states have teabaggers. I guess as long as near a city/metro area one is OK. Fortunately with the internet it's easier anymore to check out places. I used to love rural areas, but anymore I'm really cautious.

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