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meegbear

(25,438 posts)
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 02:38 PM Nov 2012

Kink Comes to Harvard as Student Group for BDSM Lovers Gains Formal Recognition

A Harvard student club that has been meeting stealthily for over a year to discuss matters of bondage and discipline is set to receive formal recognition form the university's Committee on Student Life according to The Crimson.

Harvard College Munch boasts as many as 30 active members whose sexual preferences range from dom to sub. In a Crimson exposé published earlier this year, members spoke freely of rape fantasies and force feeding. (It's a must-read, if only for such quotes as "when you tell me I'm a whore, what you're really saying is I love you.&quot

The organization has been forced to hold its kinky sex forums in out-of-the-way dinning halls, but approval from the university means members will eligible for DAPA food grants and can encourage recruitment through public announcements.

"It's a little hyperbolic for me to get teary-eyed and paternal about sophomores, but it's really a joy to see the experience they will have now," Munch founder Michael (not his real name) told The Crimson.

Michael, by the by, is a dom who enjoys "punishing his partner."

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http://gawker.com/5964317/kink-comes-to-harvard-as-student-group-for-bdsm-lovers-gains-formal-recognition

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Kink Comes to Harvard as Student Group for BDSM Lovers Gains Formal Recognition (Original Post) meegbear Nov 2012 OP
Which Kink? Ray or Dave Davies? nt OnyxCollie Nov 2012 #1
As crappy as the 50 Shades series is... opiate69 Nov 2012 #2
Masochism would be cool if you could eroticize shit like getting up early Warren DeMontague Nov 2012 #3
Oh believe me, you can... opiate69 Nov 2012 #5
Oh, I'm kinky Warren DeMontague Nov 2012 #13
Heh.. what if that "alarm clock" was actually... maybe I better just message lol opiate69 Nov 2012 #14
Will they put this on their resumes? lalalu Nov 2012 #4
each to their own cali Nov 2012 #6
Saw a tv interview, long time ago, late at night libodem Nov 2012 #7
I know at least one pro-dom with a Harvard degree. Matariki Nov 2012 #8
wait. You think democrats are pure as the driven snow when it comes to bad sexual cali Nov 2012 #9
bdsm is not bad sexual behaviour its just different. loli phabay Nov 2012 #17
yep. you misread my post. cali Nov 2012 #21
rotc's back at harvard too. progress, it's wonderful. HiPointDem Nov 2012 #10
Good thing too... Lightbulb_on Nov 2012 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author Mosby Nov 2012 #11
Of all the Doms/Dommes I know.... opiate69 Nov 2012 #15
plus a million. though no one will change their mind loli phabay Nov 2012 #16
Oddly enough, I think far more people are into being on the bottom, than the top. Warren DeMontague Nov 2012 #19
In my experience, I'd say there's a fair amount of troof to this. opiate69 Nov 2012 #20
Good for them, but why do they need "official" recognition as a club? Blue_Tires Nov 2012 #12
probuably means they can now meet on campus loli phabay Nov 2012 #18
if it's the way it is at public colleges, *funding* from students fees. HiPointDem Nov 2012 #22
 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
2. As crappy as the 50 Shades series is...
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 02:48 PM
Nov 2012

it`s nice to see the community start to get a little more mainstream acceptance.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
3. Masochism would be cool if you could eroticize shit like getting up early
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 02:56 PM
Nov 2012

Balancing the checkbook.

Going to the dentist.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
13. Oh, I'm kinky
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 04:25 PM
Nov 2012

but getting turned on by the alarm clock is beyond even my considerable elastic brain power.

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
6. each to their own
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 03:18 PM
Nov 2012

had a boyfriend once he wanted to do the dom thing. Tried it, but it didn't work for me.

libodem

(19,288 posts)
7. Saw a tv interview, long time ago, late at night
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 03:37 PM
Nov 2012

Where they showed some clips and interviewed the participants of a stage act featuring B/D.

One guy told about being versatile enough to play either role for a performance.
The interviewer asked which role he preceded to play.
He said the masochistic part.
I thought why? You'd be getting hurt?

But he answered my confusion by saying it was "easier".

Gad. What schulb. Made me want to beat him, just for being lazy. Yeesh.

To each his own. Bet Kkkarl likes it rough. Kinky, tubby little weasel.

Matariki

(18,775 posts)
8. I know at least one pro-dom with a Harvard degree.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 03:47 PM
Nov 2012

People shouldn't feel ashamed of their sexual fantasies, so groups like this are very good and healthy for people. Shame leads to all sorts of creepy behavior. Just look at certain members of the Republican party...

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
9. wait. You think democrats are pure as the driven snow when it comes to bad sexual
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 03:53 PM
Nov 2012

behavior?

 

cali

(114,904 posts)
21. yep. you misread my post.
Fri Nov 30, 2012, 08:42 PM
Nov 2012

never said anything remotely like what you surmised. Have no idea how you got that.

Response to meegbear (Original post)

 

opiate69

(10,129 posts)
15. Of all the Doms/Dommes I know....
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 04:35 PM
Nov 2012

Last edited Thu Nov 29, 2012, 05:40 PM - Edit history (2)

none of them need to hurt people to get off.

Warren DeMontague

(80,708 posts)
19. Oddly enough, I think far more people are into being on the bottom, than the top.
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 11:14 PM
Nov 2012

That is my non-scientific analysis of the situation.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
12. Good for them, but why do they need "official" recognition as a club?
Thu Nov 29, 2012, 04:21 PM
Nov 2012

Just wondering...It's not like anyone was stopping them from meeting...

Or are there already other official clubs on campus catering to milder sexual tastes??

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