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Brigid

(17,621 posts)
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:27 AM Nov 2012

OK, this "Black Friday" crap has gone completely stupid.!

Some stores are opening at midnight. Worse, others are opening at 8pm on Thanksgiving. This forces store employees to work these ridiculous hours. Time to boycott stores during these insane times. Christmas shopping before the dishes from Thanksgiving dinner are even done? Really?

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OK, this "Black Friday" crap has gone completely stupid.! (Original Post) Brigid Nov 2012 OP
One of our stores here had Black Saturday this past weekend. proud2BlibKansan Nov 2012 #1
This could however be the first Black Friday worth celebrating if Wal-Mart employees go on strike Bjorn Against Nov 2012 #2
I will, not on the picket nadinbrzezinski Nov 2012 #6
They are opening because they know people will show up with credit cards in hand. Marie Marie Nov 2012 #3
we always eat mid-afternoon. BlueMan Votes Nov 2012 #4
By 8 pm I'm already on my way for leftovers! n/t Victor_c3 Nov 2012 #23
Same here. We like cold turkey sandwiches and root beer in the late evening. FSogol Nov 2012 #37
Shoppers Already In Line For Black Friday. article from 3 days ago below Tx4obama Nov 2012 #5
I actually saw these people lined up outside of Best Buys Raine Nov 2012 #21
it feels like there is more mention of Black Friday than Thanksgiving JI7 Nov 2012 #7
You can thank FDR for that Victor_c3 Nov 2012 #24
I will NOT shop at stores on Thanksgiving! That is ridiculous. Honeycombe8 Nov 2012 #8
I never shop on Black Friday, anywhere, ever. Butterbean Nov 2012 #9
Greedy corporations screwing labor by making them work right after Thanksgiving dinner. sarcasmo Nov 2012 #10
Depends Day And Night Nov 2012 #13
I like the way you think trixie Nov 2012 #26
There is only one answer to this: Brigid Nov 2012 #16
Here in L.A. people started camping out at the stores on Monday. How stupid is that. Booster Nov 2012 #11
Yup, Sunday night I drove passed Best Buy and parking lot was full people in a line outside Raine Nov 2012 #20
In Los Angeles people reported goclark Nov 2012 #28
Normally.. Day And Night Nov 2012 #12
Ask your friends what stores in your area honor other stores early bird specials. justice1 Nov 2012 #17
I agree. musical_soul Nov 2012 #14
I remember when people started to gather on the day after Thanksgiving.... WCGreen Nov 2012 #15
i think that's what it has usually been about , of course there would be sales JI7 Nov 2012 #18
All part of the Christmas War. GeorgeGist Nov 2012 #19
I can't image that any Turkey cooks will be out shopping. Tx4obama Nov 2012 #22
Why aren't the men there helping you? xfundy Nov 2012 #27
Post removed Post removed Nov 2012 #25
That these soldiers are in a combat zone instead of with their families is a damned shame. Brigid Nov 2012 #31
Which is why I don't go anywhere near any retail that weekend..... PavePusher Nov 2012 #35
Heh. Shooting fish in a barrel IS fun! 2ndAmForComputers Nov 2012 #39
I actually am shopping Black Friday because what my daughter wants will sell out. LittlestStar Nov 2012 #29
Friday after Thanksgiving is a great football day! Dyedinthewoolliberal Nov 2012 #30
Best Buy's in Tampa funkhowser1 Nov 2012 #33
That is Child Abuse kairos12 Nov 2012 #34
Thanksgiving Carolina Nov 2012 #32
Wal-Mart is bad, K-Mart is worse. Archae Nov 2012 #36
You don't like buying cheap stuff for you and your family?? cbdo2007 Nov 2012 #38

Bjorn Against

(12,041 posts)
2. This could however be the first Black Friday worth celebrating if Wal-Mart employees go on strike
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:33 AM
Nov 2012

Make sure to join any striking workers in your community on the picket line.

Marie Marie

(9,999 posts)
3. They are opening because they know people will show up with credit cards in hand.
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:33 AM
Nov 2012

Shame on them and shame on us. Give these underpaid workers their Thanksgiving back by NOT shopping at these stores. Yea, that'll happen.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
21. I actually saw these people lined up outside of Best Buys
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 04:13 AM
Nov 2012

at first I thought they were lined up for something for the next morning but realized they had lined up awhole week ahead of time!

JI7

(89,250 posts)
7. it feels like there is more mention of Black Friday than Thanksgiving
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:39 AM
Nov 2012

like Thanksgiving is more about black friday now.

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
24. You can thank FDR for that
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 05:47 AM
Nov 2012

FDR moved thanksgiving to it's current date during the great depression in a move to extend the Chri$tma$ shopping season in 1939. Thank$giving is all about the money.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
8. I will NOT shop at stores on Thanksgiving! That is ridiculous.
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:40 AM
Nov 2012

Besides, I'm going to be so fat and happy and sleepy, I can't imagine going out to stores.

Geez...this consumerism craze is getting out of hand.

Day And Night

(16 posts)
13. Depends
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:55 AM
Nov 2012

It honestly depends on your frame of reference. I used to work retail. It wasn't too bad working Black Fri weekends right after thanksgiving dinner. I'd just slip on my white Nikes, smoke a clip and then I'm on the way. It's my favorite time of the year when I did retail. The days went by in the blink of an eye and there was green -- in more ways than one.

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
16. There is only one answer to this:
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:56 AM
Nov 2012

Consumers refusing to hit the stores until at least a decent hour on Friday. These greedy retailers greedy retailers would get the message when they see empty stores.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
20. Yup, Sunday night I drove passed Best Buy and parking lot was full people in a line outside
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 04:02 AM
Nov 2012

the store. I thought they were waiting for some special in the morning but they are in line for Black Friday ... JESUS CHRIST!

goclark

(30,404 posts)
28. In Los Angeles people reported
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 10:02 PM
Nov 2012

that they could not find a parking space at Target.

It was packed all day.

Day And Night

(16 posts)
12. Normally..
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:53 AM
Nov 2012

Normally, I guess I would agree. I hate shopping. I just want to get in and out. I work 3 jobs, it pays the bills and I'm paying down my student loan debt in as big of chunks as possible. The few hours of free time I do have, I relax by playing on my 360. I've had it for 5 years since it came out. It's on life support now. Last legs and whatnot. Walmart has a black Friday special where I can get a 360 console for 150. If you know of a deal like that anywhere else but Walmart.. I'll take my cash there.

But I'm afraid that.. Capital (cash) rules everything around me. CREAM

justice1

(795 posts)
17. Ask your friends what stores in your area honor other stores early bird specials.
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 01:26 AM
Nov 2012

I'm going to miss my small town Pamida, which is now a Shopko. Everyone in town would get up early and go to the burbs and city. I walked in at 9:00 a.m., with other stores ads, and they price matched everything. Best of all, I was the only person at the register.

musical_soul

(775 posts)
14. I agree.
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:56 AM
Nov 2012

People shouldn't be opening on Thanksgiving Day. That's wrong.

It went crazy when people started running over each other at the Wal-Mart and other stores.

Tis the season to run over your neighbor for a tv.

Falalalalala!

Uh, no.

WCGreen

(45,558 posts)
15. I remember when people started to gather on the day after Thanksgiving....
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 12:56 AM
Nov 2012

And go shopping. It usually was when kids came home from College, most for the first time, and went to the malls to hang out and see if anyone else was hanging around.

One of my friends and I would head up to the top of the town restaurant in Cleveland and drink Martini's and then smoke a couple hits off a joint and then float through the crowds...

Now, i haven't had a drink since 1983 and smoked a joint or anything illegal since about 1982 so that is how long ago it was.

We had a lot of fun as we ran into a lot of people we knew and then headed out to the bars where we hung out when we first graduated from high school.

Now, I wait for the reunions to take a trip down memory lane.

Still, we never really went for the bargains but to try and bridge that gap between high school and real life.

That is what i remember.

JI7

(89,250 posts)
18. i think that's what it has usually been about , of course there would be sales
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 01:35 AM
Nov 2012

but i think it was more relaxing before. more about spending time with people , especially those you no longer regularly see.

Tx4obama

(36,974 posts)
22. I can't image that any Turkey cooks will be out shopping.
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 04:18 AM
Nov 2012

By the time I've cooked Thanksgiving Dinner, get it all on the table, put away the leftovers, and do up the dishes - my back and legs hurt so much that all I want to do is SIT DOWN and not get up! I can't imagine going shopping for at least a couple days after turkey day.

xfundy

(5,105 posts)
27. Why aren't the men there helping you?
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 10:00 PM
Nov 2012

Geez! I grew up in an environment where the women did all the work and the men watched football, both at Thanksgiving and Xmas.

I could never understand why anyone would watch football, let alone golf.

When I was a kid I'd go into the kitchen and try to help out, but would often get asked why I wasn't watching football. Cuz it was boring?

Of course, when I grew up I understood the homoerotic value of watching sweaty "mens" all slappin' each other on the butt. But still, cooking is something that all enjoy, and I love to do my time in the kitchen.

Except for the clean-up ... I didn't get that gene. Nor the decorating one. Sniff.

Response to Brigid (Original post)

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
31. That these soldiers are in a combat zone instead of with their families is a damned shame.
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 10:44 PM
Nov 2012

But that is not what I'm talking about here. I'm talking about the stupidity of people camping out for days (don't they have jobs?) in front of Wal-Mart or Best Buy or some damn place to get a deal on a cheap Chinese-made TV or something else that will soon be broken, discarded, and forgotten, instead of spending time with their families, which is what the holiday is supposed to be about. And these stupid, greedy retailers encourage this--as if people wouldn't just do their shopping on another day. The whole thing just makes no sense to me.

I've gotten so I dislike almost any kind of shopping anymore, and find retailers among the most annoying entities around. You can't make a simple purchase without being plied with "offers" for other crap you have no interest in, which the retailers require that the clerks make (and, in many cases, "rate" them on how much "upselling" they do), which makes any transaction take twice as long as it should; the demand e-mail addresses so they can bombard you with spam, looking at you funny if you won't give them one; and send junk mail by the pound. It makes purchasing anything an exercise in frustration.

 

PavePusher

(15,374 posts)
35. Which is why I don't go anywhere near any retail that weekend.....
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 11:03 PM
Nov 2012

if I can avoid it (and I'm not deployed).

My point is that anyone with a job, even at WalMart, that isn't in a combat zone, does not have my sympathy if they complain about having to work on a holiday.

This year I'm not deployed, but I'm always on-call, and have things coming up that I'll still be preparing for. Parents are coming down from Utah on Saturday, I still don't have the house cleaned up because the last two weekends were spent packing up the house of a comrade dying of cancer. So yeah, sympathy, out-of-stock, on perpetual back-order. TFB.

LittlestStar

(224 posts)
29. I actually am shopping Black Friday because what my daughter wants will sell out.
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 10:12 PM
Nov 2012

But that store doesn't open until 5am. Lucky me.

funkhowser1

(43 posts)
33. Best Buy's in Tampa
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 10:54 PM
Nov 2012

Saw story on local news ... people have been camping out since Sunday. Best Buy provides electrical connections and PortaLets. Sad part was the 5 year old boy that has spent each of his 5 birthdays (Nov. 23) in a Best Buy parking lot with his parents waiting for the bargins.

Carolina

(6,960 posts)
32. Thanksgiving
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 10:50 PM
Nov 2012

used to be food, family, fun and The Wizard of Oz!

Oh, the good old days... when Christmas decorations debuted after Thanksgiving, not before Halloween

cbdo2007

(9,213 posts)
38. You don't like buying cheap stuff for you and your family??
Tue Nov 20, 2012, 11:23 PM
Nov 2012

We easily save hundreds of $$$ on everyday items on black friday and Thanksgiving sales.

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