Just color me "diplomatic".
I live in Texas, a hotbed of right-wingers. They are my neighbors, friends, relatives and myriad acquaintances. During the "Shrub" presidency (or lack thereof), I nearly lost a good friend over a heated political discussion. I resolved never to do so again.
My new method for disarming a potential "dust up" seems to work very well. Nearly everyone with whom I carry on a face-to-face conversation in this locale takes it for granted that I, like they, are Republicans and voted for Romney. I don't mention my support of my President; never call his name. But whenever they make some comment of derision or disgust with regard to the outcome of the election I put on my best smile and say, "I've got a great idea! During the next election, why don't you come over to my place? We can sit out on the deck with a good cup of coffee and have a great conversation. That will save us both time and gasoline by enjoying ourselves and not driving to the polls and canceling each other's vote!"
That suggestion states my position clearly, doesn't offend the other party, does put a rather puzzled look upon the other's face and, most of the time, shortens the conversation abruptly but politely. It's hard to get through a day without wanting to kill somebody (figuratively, not literally), but seventy years and the tutoring of a good wife will make a fellow seek less abrasive posture in dealing with folks.
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