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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsHot damn, ladies and friends of ladies - Look What Happens - When "Sluts" Vote
Hot damn, ladies and friends of ladies. Look at what we did this week:
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We not only kept control of the Senate, but increased our numbers;
We are sending more women to Congress than ever before;
We shrank the rape caucus, including Todd "legitimate rape" Akin and Richard "rape babies are intended by God" Mourdock; and
We showed that the gender gap is real, it's big, and it's not to be taken lightly or for grantedby either party.
In other words, we kicked ass.
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/11/10/1159772/-This-week-in-the-War-on-Women-Yep-Lady-Americans-kicked-all-kinds-of-ass
congratulations WOMEN & Friends Of WOMEN
from fellow "slut", kp
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)to women.
how about the strong voice of the women that were voted into office?
RC
(25,592 posts)These self identified "sluts" helped save our asses, along with the rest of the country.
They are not afraid to stand up, call things as they are, instead of restricting actions and speech and misdirecting from the problems that face us. They are not ashamed to be real adult, confident women, the equal to any man anywhere.
In other words these "sluts" are acting as the equals, or better, that they are, to anyone that thinks they want to put them down. They are not in any sense a 'woe is me, weak woman that needs special rules, to be protected from the real world.' They are taking responsibility for their own lives on the front lines.
Banning words is not only counter productive, but does nothing towards remedying the problem.
BTY, I like strong, confident women. I have a problem with arrogant people in general. There is a big difference between confident and arrogant.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)RC
(25,592 posts)That is what I was thinking when I saw your post. Except you didn't work so hard.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)of intelligence and reason that gained an election, to be heard across the nation, is a bad argument?
wow. what a man you are.
thank you for telling me i am wrong. and how i am suppose to see myself. and who i am suppose to be. you got it all over me, not.
RC
(25,592 posts)You must allow for not all women sharing your views.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)Odin2005
(53,521 posts)leftstreet
(36,109 posts)The few idiots who use that term today are ostracized and look ridiculous
Why bring it back? Why would women want to 'own' a term that shouldn't be used to begin with?
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)we can never own the word as long as men use sex to demean and degrade, on both side of the political. as madrast says, my sexuality is no ones concerns. i can actually address issues without resorting to sexuality.
Quantess
(27,630 posts)Classy comment or not, that's beside the point. They pissed off millions of women all over the country, and they lost! Women are vindicated!
ancianita
(36,111 posts)Women, overall, voted 56 to 43 percent for Obama; men voted 49 to 48 percent for him.
Ladies, Peter Morrison of Texas called us "maggots." Makes one wonder whether this name constitutes some step up in sexist talk from "slut." My take is that a dying political body is always afraid of "maggots."
My favorite quote from the article:
"...Let's give ourselves a round of applause for sending the strongest of messages to the Republican Party: No, you can't take away our health care, oppose equal pay, tell us rape is a gift, and then dismiss our anger as a "distraction" from what really matters, according to the party of old white men who think the problem is that we ladies get to vote at all.
So yes, let's be happy about this week. And then let's get back to work, because we still have a war to win."
alfredo
(60,075 posts)leftstreet
(36,109 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)As long as they are the ones doing it and not Rush Limbaugh or any other person.
Quantess
(27,630 posts)Somehow unmarried women who use birth control are "sluts", according to Rush and his fans. I think it's a bit of irony in the idea of embracing the label "slut", based on some sexist asshole's ridiculous, lopsided standards.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)Like I said, I have no problem with that.
Quantess
(27,630 posts)Although I think it's not a flattering word. But if being an unmarried woman who uses contraception makes me a "slut", well, then I guess I am one! Stupid fucking Rush Limbaugh. I guess we're all sluts, then!
For me, it's the irony in this particular case that I enjoy. A rose by any other name smells as sweet.
ohheckyeah
(9,314 posts)that's worse than the stupid "bitch is the new black" meme.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)It helps to read comprehensively.
edited for spelling
ohheckyeah
(9,314 posts)what's your problem? Do you have a comprehension problem? My comment was about one certain group of women not speaking for ALL women.
Response to kpete (Original post)
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redqueen
(115,103 posts)I speak only for myself, but I do not appreciate having that pejorative, bigoted slur slapped on me.
When WOMEN vote, Democrats win.
noamnety
(20,234 posts)That sums up my feelings.
MadrasT
(7,237 posts)set intentions
(8 posts)I would never use the word 'slut,' even in a misguided attempt at empowerment.
And I also think the government is not responsible for your fuck sessions.
MadrasT
(7,237 posts)I, for one, want nothing to do with that label.
"Taking back" offensive language is not one of my hobbies.
My humanity and worth are unrelated to my sexuality. My sexuality is nobody's fucking business.
I give thanks to all the WOMEN who voted for Obama, regardless of the labels they want to embrace (or not).
I give thanks to all the beautiful PEOPLE who voted for Obama, regardless of gender, race, orientation, or any other divisive label.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)I reject the label because it is used to demonize women based on their sexuality.
I'm sick of people using women's sexuality as a way to discredit, divide, or shame us into silence.
And I'm also sick of the collateral damage: Those girls who get the idea that they're already free to own their sexuality, and find out that societally speaking, we're actually not there yet. We are, in fact, still quite far away.
MuseRider
(34,112 posts)there is nothing else to say except thank you for stating it so clearly.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)I think I may add the words "I Vote" to it too.
madmom
(9,681 posts)republican party, rush, called Sandra Fluke a slut, in essence they were calling all women who want to control their own bodies and health care decisions, sluts. What this OP is saying, IMO, is ok what ever you think we are or choose to call us, WE KICKED ASS!!!!
Quantess
(27,630 posts)because I think the money I pay toward health insurance should pay for contraceptives the same as boner pills
then, Rush Limbaugh can go eat a bag of dicks. Mitt Romney, too!