Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search
85 replies = new reply since forum marked as read
Highlight: NoneDon't highlight anything 5 newestHighlight 5 most recent replies
Will you open your door for trick or treaters tonight? (Original Post) fried eggs Oct 2012 OP
WTF? Brickbat Oct 2012 #1
Where do you live? sadbear Oct 2012 #2
IT likely lives in the soul-sick Republican "Homeland" -- the Home of the Fearful and Hateful Berlum Oct 2012 #34
+1 Go Vols Oct 2012 #74
If I was afraid to open my door after looking outside and seeing little children dressed up former-republican Oct 2012 #50
+1 -- this exactly obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #69
hell yes I will :) demwing Oct 2012 #3
Absolutely - it will be a big night in Denver tonight. kstewart33 Oct 2012 #4
Of course. I like my neighbors and their kids. n/t FSogol Oct 2012 #5
No, cancelled here as the conditions are unsafe Throckmorton Oct 2012 #6
sorry to hear about the bad conditions etherealtruth Oct 2012 #79
Yes. But I can see people feeling anxiety. When I am home alone, I don't open the door if there LiberalLoner Oct 2012 #7
Where I live it's something like a big neighborhood party deutsey Oct 2012 #8
Of course! txdemsftw Oct 2012 #9
Yes, I will be ready ellie Oct 2012 #10
Our complex has a huge party, does yours? catbyte Oct 2012 #30
Yes, and I'll send my kids to knock on other people's doors too gollygee Oct 2012 #11
Absolutely! Dulcinea Oct 2012 #63
No sidewalks, no street lights, acreage between homes...no children ever come by... Tikki Oct 2012 #12
Same here: we used to get trick or treaters, but the neighborhood has aged, hedgehog Oct 2012 #44
Yep. Le Taz Hot Oct 2012 #13
Trick or treat is rarely on Halloween here. nt Comrade_McKenzie Oct 2012 #14
I can't remember the last time we had a trick or treater here tularetom Oct 2012 #15
Yes, we're expecting about 250 Lisa D Oct 2012 #16
Whoa! That's awesome! Llewlladdwr Oct 2012 #81
Nope but we're leaving a big cauldron of candy outside. justiceischeap Oct 2012 #17
yes after our kids go out and do their thing then they like to hand out the candy to others lunasun Oct 2012 #18
Not only will I open my door... Javaman Oct 2012 #19
I live on a mountain Livluvgrow Oct 2012 #20
For the first time in many years, no... luvs2sing Oct 2012 #21
We have a dog issue also. badhair77 Oct 2012 #42
Usually, I sit outside and wait for them Maeve Oct 2012 #22
Agreed! luvs2sing Oct 2012 #33
Howdy from Licking County... a la izquierda Oct 2012 #77
Of course. Last year, we had over 150 trick or treaters. MineralMan Oct 2012 #23
Of course. This 'it's not as safe' stuff is made up, you have zero statistics to support Bluenorthwest Oct 2012 #24
My fun neighbors and I sit out front with a small fire pit, WorseBeforeBetter Oct 2012 #25
Where do you live, in Bladerunner? obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #26
Nah, I bought a shitload of candy when we moved into the apartment complex catbyte Oct 2012 #27
Thank you for your responses! I will participate! fried eggs Oct 2012 #28
Of course! sinkingfeeling Oct 2012 #29
Absolutely. SalviaBlue Oct 2012 #31
I sit in the yard by the sidewalk rurallib Oct 2012 #32
This message was self-deleted by its author Dash87 Oct 2012 #35
I pay my butler to do that. reflection Oct 2012 #36
I will be taking down the 8 signs in my yard for Democratic Candidates RomneyLies Oct 2012 #37
We will for a few hours liberal_at_heart Oct 2012 #38
Oh yeah! Makes life worth living. nolabear Oct 2012 #39
Nothing's the same as it was twenty years ago. Iggo Oct 2012 #40
No. I hate Halloween and purposefully avoid being home. n/t MadrasT Oct 2012 #41
Trick or treaters can't find my door. NV Whino Oct 2012 #43
We gather in the cul-de-sac hamsterjill Oct 2012 #45
My neighborhood is still without power and I'm running on generator but if kids come of course former-republican Oct 2012 #46
Oh, sorry (re the no power) n/t etherealtruth Oct 2012 #76
porch light off justabob Oct 2012 #47
Of course, I will. ieoeja Oct 2012 #48
I spent a week getting my house and yard decorated. Solly Mack Oct 2012 #49
Actually it's probably a lot safer now than it was 20 years ago. NYC Liberal Oct 2012 #51
Seriously. It's sad it took this many replies before someone pointed that out. Posteritatis Oct 2012 #64
People like to remember "the good old days". They never existed. NYC Liberal Oct 2012 #66
No, but not for that reason. Habibi Oct 2012 #52
The SF con in town schedules itself just before Halloween to try to kickstart that sort of thing Posteritatis Oct 2012 #67
No. I'll be at a party at someone else's house. slackmaster Oct 2012 #53
Not exactly - we have over 300 kinds in an hour - we just sit outside and hand out candy. cyberswede Oct 2012 #54
Sure. I figure if they can make it past the barbed wire, the pungee sticks, the moat, and Buns_of_Fire Oct 2012 #55
if it's a kid, they get candy, if it's a teen or older they get a toothbrush... LanternWaste Oct 2012 #56
nah, my house lights will be off here shanti Oct 2012 #57
Yes, if I get any Spirochete Oct 2012 #58
I wish Faith9326 Oct 2012 #59
We never get them. Very few permanent residents in the area where we live. Lucinda Oct 2012 #60
Absolutely FreeJoe Oct 2012 #61
We usually block off the den and have a 'haunted' house maze. woodsprite Oct 2012 #62
We're getting Sandy remnants now so I'm not expecting much of anything this year Posteritatis Oct 2012 #65
No. It's easier to sit on the porch with the candy. gkhouston Oct 2012 #68
not sure yet PD Turk Oct 2012 #70
Huh? Of course I will. Zoeisright Oct 2012 #71
Trick-or-treating took place Sunday afternoon in my neck of the woods. City Lights Oct 2012 #72
My wife Go Vols Oct 2012 #73
I have been handing out treats since ~ 6:00 PM etherealtruth Oct 2012 #75
Not without my fucking Glock cocked and ready quinnox Oct 2012 #78
What trick or treaters? nadinbrzezinski Oct 2012 #80
In a word, yes. Chorophyll Oct 2012 #82
Of COURSE we will open our doors Stinky The Clown Oct 2012 #83
We will. Llewlladdwr Oct 2012 #84
I always do Mz Pip Oct 2012 #85

Berlum

(7,044 posts)
34. IT likely lives in the soul-sick Republican "Homeland" -- the Home of the Fearful and Hateful
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:07 AM
Oct 2012

while the rest of us live in America.

The Americans will have fun with their neighbors children (of all colors, creeds, and personalities) and reward them with smiles and treats.

It is so sorryass pathetic that people with Republican "values" will be cringing in fear in their basements -- attempting in vain to escape the Inner Daemons (R) that they carry everywhere with them.

 

former-republican

(2,163 posts)
50. If I was afraid to open my door after looking outside and seeing little children dressed up
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:43 AM
Oct 2012

in costumes on Halloween night.

I think I would be reevaluating where I live.

kstewart33

(6,551 posts)
4. Absolutely - it will be a big night in Denver tonight.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:39 AM
Oct 2012

Temps are just right - we're expecting 60-70 kids.

Throckmorton

(3,579 posts)
6. No, cancelled here as the conditions are unsafe
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:39 AM
Oct 2012

96% of the town is blacked out. Wires and trees down everywhere.
They haven't determined a make up day

LiberalLoner

(9,762 posts)
7. Yes. But I can see people feeling anxiety. When I am home alone, I don't open the door if there
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:39 AM
Oct 2012

is a salesman outside the door. I'm getting a bit old now and I am too aware of how a young man could easily overpower me if he wanted to, to get in to rob me or something.

But I'm not afraid of Halloween, I mean it's mostly little kids with their parents is all. It feels like a safe time. I don't answer the door after 9 PM though.

deutsey

(20,166 posts)
8. Where I live it's something like a big neighborhood party
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:40 AM
Oct 2012

A few houses don't participate, but it's usually a pretty big thing. I think after Sandy, it will probably even be bigger.

I hope where you are is safe and that you have a good evening!

ellie

(6,929 posts)
10. Yes, I will be ready
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:41 AM
Oct 2012

although I live in an apartment. There are a lot of kids in this complex. I am going to stick a Halloween decoration on my door and buy candy that I like in case no one shows up. I love Halloween! Last year I was traveling for work and although the flight attendant passed out candy to everyone, it wasn't the same.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
11. Yes, and I'll send my kids to knock on other people's doors too
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:41 AM
Oct 2012

I don't see anything unsafe about Halloween.

Dulcinea

(6,669 posts)
63. Absolutely!
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 02:18 PM
Oct 2012

My husband will take our girls trick-or-treating, & I'll hand out candy to the neighborhood ghosts & goblins when I get home (around 8 Eastern.)

Halloween is all about fun! I don't get people who don't get Halloween.

hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
44. Same here: we used to get trick or treaters, but the neighborhood has aged,
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:29 AM
Oct 2012

so i don't think there are any kids in a quarter mile!

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
13. Yep.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:47 AM
Oct 2012

First time in two years. Somehow I managed to eek out enough to buy some Halloween candy this year so I'm REALLY looking forward to it. I especially like the early part when the little guys come to the door. They are SO cute!

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
15. I can't remember the last time we had a trick or treater here
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:47 AM
Oct 2012

Maybe never.

So I'd be very shocked if any of them show up tonight.

Llewlladdwr

(2,165 posts)
81. Whoa! That's awesome!
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 08:03 PM
Oct 2012

We'll be lucky to get 20 to 30. We're in an older neighborhood though so not that many young ones in the area.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
17. Nope but we're leaving a big cauldron of candy outside.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:51 AM
Oct 2012

We're having a Dumb Supper tonight to celebrate Samhain.

More on Samhain Dumb Supper:

http://paganwiccan.about.com/od/samhainoctober31/p/Dumb_Supper.htm

In some Pagan and Wiccan traditions, it has become popular to hold a Dumb Supper in honor of the dead. In this case, the word "dumb" refers to being silent. The origins of this tradition have been fairly well debated -- some claim it goes back to ancient cultures, others believe it's a relatively new idea. Regardless, it's one that's observed by many people around the world.

Javaman

(62,534 posts)
19. Not only will I open my door...
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:52 AM
Oct 2012

My GF and I will be sitting on our rockers on the front porch handing out the candy.

Livluvgrow

(377 posts)
20. I live on a mountain
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:52 AM
Oct 2012

and there is 2 feet of snow on the ground don't think I will be greeting any trick or treaters

luvs2sing

(2,220 posts)
21. For the first time in many years, no...
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:52 AM
Oct 2012

We adopted a shelter dog with numerous behavior issues about six months ago. He's come a long, LONG way since then, but stranger shyness and door reactivity are still minor problems. I'm sure he will be ready for trick or treaters by next year, but not this year. We're taking him to his favorite pet store to "shop" this year and giving the neighbors candy to hand out on our behalf.

badhair77

(4,221 posts)
42. We have a dog issue also.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:27 AM
Oct 2012

She will go crazy with all that activity at the door. I will put a big box of candy on the porch. Only problem is that bigger kids will dump the whole box in their bags. I've learned that thru past experience. Oh well . . .
I will try to see the smaller neighborhood kids earlier.

If I were home alone I might think twice. I don't open the door to just anyone anymore, especially at night. I also lock the front door if I'm in the back yard. Too many things have happened in our area lately. Just a reality, and I am no longer strong enough to fight off someone.

Maeve

(42,290 posts)
22. Usually, I sit outside and wait for them
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:53 AM
Oct 2012

Not tonight--too cold in central Ohio!

Geez, afraid of kids in costumes???

a la izquierda

(11,797 posts)
77. Howdy from Licking County...
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 07:50 PM
Oct 2012

We won't get trick or treaters, as we live in the country. I miss the kids coming by, but luckily we won't have any as I have a migraine brewing.

MineralMan

(146,336 posts)
23. Of course. Last year, we had over 150 trick or treaters.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:53 AM
Oct 2012

We live in a neighborhood in St. Paul, MN, and the whole neighborhood of kids turns out to knock on doors every Halloween. Parents accompany them, and we hand out full-size candy bars.

Why would it not be safe to open the door for children in costumes? That's just silly.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
24. Of course. This 'it's not as safe' stuff is made up, you have zero statistics to support
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:53 AM
Oct 2012

such fear mongering. Twenty years ago it was 1992. Was the crime rate lower or higher in 92? Do you even know that? Of course not....
Of course, Halloween is all about a good scare, so shut out the lights and hide under your bed and just get all freaked out!

WorseBeforeBetter

(11,441 posts)
25. My fun neighbors and I sit out front with a small fire pit,
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:55 AM
Oct 2012

spiked cider, seasonal brews and lots of candy. We LOVE Halloween, even though we don't get many trick-or-treaters.

"Not safe"... is this a reverse razors-in-apples scare tactic? Boo! A 3-year-old in a princess costume... eek!

catbyte

(34,472 posts)
27. Nah, I bought a shitload of candy when we moved into the apartment complex
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 09:57 AM
Oct 2012

thinking lots of kids. Nope. They have a big party in the Community Center. I was eating candy at Christmas, lol.

Response to fried eggs (Original post)

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
37. I will be taking down the 8 signs in my yard for Democratic Candidates
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:10 AM
Oct 2012

and will give heaping handfuls of candy to every child who shows up on my doorstep.

Trick-or-Treating is for the children and politics has no place in it.

The signs go back up at 7:30 PM when Trick-or-Treating ends.

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
38. We will for a few hours
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:11 AM
Oct 2012

then we will put a bowl of candy out and then we're going to watch a Halloween movie with the kids. We've never had a problem with people getting hurt opening the door. Of course of I were a single mother I may feel different. I have turned people away when I was alone who say they are receiving help from a charity that requires them to go door to door to earn some money. I don't like opening the door if I am home alone. I need to finish decorating too. I had a window display that I used last year that doesn't fit in the window of our new place. I want to put some kind of decoration out. I think it's sad how little decoration people put up for Halloween these days. There's always plenty of decorations up for Christmas.

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
45. We gather in the cul-de-sac
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:31 AM
Oct 2012

A bunch of us gather in the cul-de-sac and take our candy buckets along. We shoot the breeze and hand out candy for a couple of hours, then go home. I like this better than staying at the house, and getting up and down and opening the door for each group of trick-or-treaters. This way, the door stays shut so no kitties get out and get into harm's way.

 

former-republican

(2,163 posts)
46. My neighborhood is still without power and I'm running on generator but if kids come of course
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:33 AM
Oct 2012

I don't think they will though.

justabob

(3,069 posts)
47. porch light off
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:33 AM
Oct 2012

But not because of security concerns. I rarely get trick or treaters anyway. My neighborhood doesn't have a lot of kids. Most folks go a few blocks over to where the neighborhood is more families and kid friendly.

 

ieoeja

(9,748 posts)
48. Of course, I will.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:35 AM
Oct 2012

I live in a blue-collar Chicago neighborhood that is around 90% White. Despite this fact a number of my suburban friends are afraid of my neighborhood. A Chicagoan on the Internet assured me that a White person walking in my neighborhood would be shot on sight!

You sound very much like those people. Afraid of your shadow. I feel sorry for you.


Solly Mack

(90,789 posts)
49. I spent a week getting my house and yard decorated.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:38 AM
Oct 2012

You can bet your sweet bippy I'm giving out treats.

NYC Liberal

(20,137 posts)
51. Actually it's probably a lot safer now than it was 20 years ago.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 10:46 AM
Oct 2012

Last edited Wed Oct 31, 2012, 03:49 PM - Edit history (1)

So, sure.

Posteritatis

(18,807 posts)
64. Seriously. It's sad it took this many replies before someone pointed that out.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 02:20 PM
Oct 2012

So many people programmed by the news cycle...

Habibi

(3,598 posts)
52. No, but not for that reason.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 11:15 AM
Oct 2012

We just don't get enough kids in this neighborhood to justify having bags of candy lying around. And probably even fewer this year, as the weather will be cold and rainy.

Plus, the kids we do get don't even try. Seems like "costumes" are a quaint tradition that few in this area participate in.

Posteritatis

(18,807 posts)
67. The SF con in town schedules itself just before Halloween to try to kickstart that sort of thing
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 03:54 PM
Oct 2012

The last few years since it's gotten big it's actually worked; I've seen the local costumes get more common and more elaborate, probably because of it. It's great.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
53. No. I'll be at a party at someone else's house.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 11:17 AM
Oct 2012

Besides, I'm all out of cheap pocket knives to hand out.

cyberswede

(26,117 posts)
54. Not exactly - we have over 300 kinds in an hour - we just sit outside and hand out candy.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 11:21 AM
Oct 2012

There's no way we could be inside and answer the door when the trick-or-treaters come. It's a CONSTANT steady stream from 6:00-7:00 p.m. Most years I buy enough candy for 300-350 kids, and we run out after 45 minutes.

Awesome fun, though!

Buns_of_Fire

(17,201 posts)
55. Sure. I figure if they can make it past the barbed wire, the pungee sticks, the moat, and
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 11:54 AM
Oct 2012

the vats of boiling oil I've set up with tripwires, they deserve some goodies. I even toss in a few shiny new uncirculated Sacajewea dollar coins so they can afford some band-aids and iodine (they still have to make it OUT again! ).

Just kidding. I've got all the stuff, but since the apartment faces a highway, I seldom get trick-or-treaters. The few that DO occasionally come by usually wind up with a couple of pounds of candy each.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
56. if it's a kid, they get candy, if it's a teen or older they get a toothbrush...
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 11:54 AM
Oct 2012

Sign goes up on my door tonight that reads: "You must be at least this short to receive tricks or treats" I'll open the door- when it's knocked on- if it's a kid, they get some good candy, if it's a teen or older they get a toothbrush.

As for the safety issue, I'm simply not too concerned about any nefarious deeds by the residents of my apartment complex.

shanti

(21,675 posts)
57. nah, my house lights will be off here
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 12:31 PM
Oct 2012

that's the best signal. i haven't done halloween since my youngest was 10, and he's now 22.

Spirochete

(5,264 posts)
58. Yes, if I get any
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 01:32 PM
Oct 2012

I don't get many - some years none. So I just get a small bag of candy that I like, because i know I'm gonna end up eating at least some of it. No candy corn, no Baby Ruths...


Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
60. We never get them. Very few permanent residents in the area where we live.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 01:34 PM
Oct 2012

Mostly tourists, and they don't knock on strangers doors.

I would if I lived in a normal neighborhood though. I love Halloween!

FreeJoe

(1,039 posts)
61. Absolutely
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 01:53 PM
Oct 2012

I'm leaving work early today so that I can go with the kids to the neighborhood Halloween party. I'll leave them there because I have to get home to set up. We set up an impromtu photo studio on our driveway with several strobes and a black backdrop. We take professional quality photos of the neighborhood kids when they come by and then share the photos with the neighbors. It's a very popular tradition in our neighborhood.

I love Halloween! It is such a fun holiday. I can't imagine not celebrating it with my community.

woodsprite

(11,928 posts)
62. We usually block off the den and have a 'haunted' house maze.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 01:58 PM
Oct 2012

BUT, since Sandy left us with a 62' tree in the den, we had to dismantle everything and salvage what we could. We are going to sit out at the end of our driveway with our firepit, long bamboo toasting sticks and smores makings, plus our candy bowl and our pneumatic jumping spider prop that my husband made.

Next year we'll add to the Harry Potter theme we tried for this year and rebuild the swinging bridge. Need to find some place to store our huge paper mache basilisk head we made.

If you didn't want to let people in, I know houses where the owners sit out on their porch or steps to wait for the T-or-Ters.

Posteritatis

(18,807 posts)
65. We're getting Sandy remnants now so I'm not expecting much of anything this year
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 02:22 PM
Oct 2012

It's blustery, pouring, and we're getting some absolutely spectacular thunder.

That said, it's safer than ever to open the door for strangers these days by any objective standard there is for determining such things, so I'm not in the least worried on that front.

gkhouston

(21,642 posts)
68. No. It's easier to sit on the porch with the candy.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 04:05 PM
Oct 2012

That way, the house won't become Mosquito Central.

PD Turk

(1,289 posts)
70. not sure yet
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 04:31 PM
Oct 2012

too close to call


I keed, I keed!

Unfortunately I'm out of town working this year, but my wife will be manning the door and the treats. It's kind of a bummer, I usually come up with something to scare the beejezus out of the kids when they come up..... I'm a big kid at heart

a couple years ago I dressed in a scarecrow outfit and sat on the porch in a rocking chair, perfectly still like I was just a big decoration, then when they least expected it, I'd reach out and touch one of them

City Lights

(25,171 posts)
72. Trick-or-treating took place Sunday afternoon in my neck of the woods.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 04:33 PM
Oct 2012

I don't expect my doorbell to ring tonight.

Go Vols

(5,902 posts)
73. My wife
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 04:38 PM
Oct 2012

has been making fudge for the last few hours,we will wrap it and put the return address stickers on it and hand it out like always.

We get the same kids the last few years because they want "the real candy".

 

quinnox

(20,600 posts)
78. Not without my fucking Glock cocked and ready
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 07:54 PM
Oct 2012

And standing by the side of the door as cover while I peek out to see if its trouble. lol, just kidding.

Mz Pip

(27,453 posts)
85. I always do
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 08:09 PM
Oct 2012

But I won't get many. We live on a hill and it's kind of a steep climb. We rarely get many trick or treaters. Some years we don't get any.

It also looks like it might rain. Not a good night for the kiddies.

Latest Discussions»General Discussion»Will you open your door f...