Let's be clear about the effect of the racism directed against President Obama and his family
It's clear that a majority in the black community have taken a personal interest (and some pride) in the election of the nation's first black president. That pride in this president has undergone a natural evening-out as expectations are tempered by the reality of politics and other obstacles to the realization of what folks wanted out of this presidency.
However, the ultimate effect of the persistent racism directed against President Obama and his family by public officials and others visible public figures is going to be a reversion by supporters to that initial rallying and defensive mode that pushes critical judgements about his actual performance aside in favor of a united stand against an atmosphere of hatred that envelopes much more than just the target in its wake.
In effect, the racist attacks on President Obama and his family reflect on our own aspirations for achievement and advancement. On one hand, there is satisfaction in the realization that the barrier to the highest office in the land has been broken by Americans willing to elect this African-American president. The most important step that black Americans can take next is to begin to apply a more critical standard of support for this Democrat which isn't dominated by a necessarily reflexive need to stand-up this president against these attempts to define him outside of the American mainstream based on the color of his skin. Yet, to allow this president to be diminished on the basis of race diminishes us all.
American politics has reached a historic milestone which most of my family and peers have been impatiently anticipating all of our lives, yet, would not have predicted it to happen now. It's fair to say that many in the black community (and without) have been inspired to believe that a black man can be elected president, in this day and age, by the audacity and urgency of Barack Obama's bid for the highest office in the land. It's also fair to say that much of that inspiration and belief has come from the mere fact of Obama's success, so far, in convincing so many non-blacks to support and elevate his presidency.
Racism certainly isn't chic anymore; not like it was in the days where slurs, slights, and outright discrimination were allowed to flourish under the umbrella of segregation and Jim Crow. But, it has still been used by some, over the years since the dismantling of that institutionalized racism, to manipulate and control the level of access and acceptability of blacks in a white-dominated political system.
I still recall the mere handful of blacks I found in Congress when I first explored the Capitol. I remember seeing the tall head of Rep. Ron Dellums, ever present on the House floor, and imagining that there were many more like him in the wings. It wasn't until 1990, though, that we actually saw a significant influx of minorities elected to Congress, enabled by the 1990 census Democrats fought to reform and manage (along with their fight for an extension of the Voting Rights Act which Bush I vetoed five times before trading his signature for votes for Clarance Thomas) which allowed court-ordered redistricting to double the number of districts with black majorities.
Open racism hasn't been in fashion for decades, but the fear and insecurities which underlie discrimination and prejudice still compel some to draw lines of distinction between black and white aspirations and potential for success. What is often unspoken is the reluctance some Americans have in envisioning blacks in a position to make decisions for a white majority, resulting in attempt to set boundaries and define the roles blacks must assume to achieve success and approval.
The gains blacks have made in our political institutions have not kept pace with even the incremental gains which have occurred in the workplace, for example. We may well have an abundance of black CEOs, military officers, business owners, doctors, lawyers and other professionals. However, Americans have yet to support and establish blacks in our political institutions with a regularity we could celebrate as 'colorblindness.' And, to be fair, not even many blacks would likely agree that we've moved past a point where race should be highlighted (if not overtly emphasized), in our political deliberations and considerations.
The persistent racism directed against President Obama has not allowed folks to feel secure in this one advancement. In the immediate wake of Reconstruction and the election of a handful of black lawyers, ministers, teachers, college presidents to the national legislature, there was a concerted campaign by their white peers and other detractors to challenge their seats and to construct discriminatory barriers to the election of other blacks which persisted for generations and generations. The 'birther' movement is no stranger to those who recall that 'Jim Crow' past.
The attacks in this generation are not to be taken lightly, even though we may assume that the nation is past all of that. The attacks need to be openly and loudly defended against by Democrats and Republicans alike. They can't just be brushed aside as some sort of acceptable standard of discourse. For the most part, they've been responded to with dispatch and sincerity. For the other, there's a glaring silence -- and even a rhetorical encouragement by some in the political arena who are leveraging age-old stereotypes to serve their cynical campaigns for office.
Catherine Meeks, Ph.D., wrote in HuffPo today that, "The entire discussion is almost beyond comprehension for those of us who are not being blinded by bigotry and hatred."
"Magic Mulatto, Mrs. YoMama, Touching A Tar Baby, Your Boy, Orbameo, Watermelons on the White House Lawn, cartoons with the President Obama's head and a chimpanzee's body, references to monkeys who escaped the zoo being related to the First Lady, and the list goes on with the racial slurs that have been hurled at this President and his family," recalls Meeks. "Along with these is the recent attack of racial slurs against 11-year-old Malia, his youngest daughter."
"Whatever policy issues that anyone finds themselves at odds with him about should be spoken about, debated and fought over in whatever civilized manner that discourse can occur," she wrote. "But I am talking about this low level of racist discourse that has been going on since day one. A discourse that has exhibited no respect for the office of President in the first place as well as no respect for this man, his wife and children. But even larger than this is the lack of respect that is being shown toward every African American in this country," she said.
Who are we; we the people of color? We the African Americans? We Minorities, we Negroes, we Blacks? Our history in this country is rooted in slavery and oppression, but in the search for the roots we sometimes find that the more we draw closer to our black identity, the more we seem to pull away from the broader America. An insistence that our community must necessarily be at odds with white America, because of our tragic beginnings, threatens to render our successes impotent. But, what becomes of a quest for a national identity when many of blacks' contributions in developing and reforming this nation have not been acknowledged or reciprocated? Can we really put aside our identification with our unique heritage and regard ourselves as 'homogenized,' even as our particular needs are seemingly ignored? Even as the advancement of a person of color to the highest office in the land is openly disparaged by racism?
We the Egyptians. We the Portuguese. We the Sudanese; the Nubian; the Ashanti; the Mossi. We the Arabs; we the Spanish; we Indians; we Europeans. We the Moslem; the Muslim; we Christian; we Buddhist; we agnostic and atheist. We are all driven to roil tradition and unite, to prevent us from isolating ourselves into obscurity. We desperately need to move on.
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but I was heartened that so many people supported Obama and elected him so handily. I felt bad for under-estimating and misjudging my fellow Americans.
THEN, in horror, I watched the jokes, the comments, the disrespect, and the hatred/fear that had been hidden for many years seemed to become acceptable and flaunted.
It sickens and saddens me.
a chance to get to KNOW someone of a different race.
It was his first time out of Reading, Pennsylvania and he was shipped to New Guinea and placed in an all-black unit. Their job was to clean up after the other troops had come through; bodies, equipment, etc.. They interacted with white soldiers, but didn't work alongside of them.
He was placed in charge of his unit because he was well-spoken because of his youth in a 'Quaker' school and he thought his lighter skin also gave him an edge. As a matter of fact, that same combination of lighter skin and good diction helped propel him into the newly-created positions in civil service supervising other blacks and providing that 'token' pretense in the workforce that the government was striving to accommodate in that era. He later rose up through EEOC, EOC, and to become Deputy Director of Civil Rights.
Despite the service in New Guinea, though, he still had to switch cars from the integrated train of soldiers at the beginning of his journey to the 'Negro' train on his way back home as he passed through the segregated regions and localities. I always though that was a poignant reminder of how slowly the nation came out from under the blanket of segregation and discrimination.
He also rose to be a Lt. Colonel in the Army Reserves, but it was his brief service in New Guinea which allowed him to be buried in Arlington Cemetery.
Kinda off of your point, but I always recall a segregated military when I think of the past.
growing up in the whitest city in the country as one of my friends put it (Seattle). It wasn't a way of life up here, and the subject never really came up, but I was aware of it from society just because of the times (that was the 50's, too). I feel very fortunate that I didn't have to excise that poison from my soul.
You are to be commended. I lived in NC for a few years and people there were GOOD people. I was astonished at the lack of racism (so I thought). I found out that they watched what they said in front of me 
On a person-to-person level they didn't appear racist at all (a lot of people at work were Black) but that had been instilled in them and they were generally racist. I thought that never speaking dispargingly about Blacks in front of me indicated they KNEW in their hearts it was wrong.
I often think it would be ideal if all the races mixed to the point where we all looked exactly the same, but I'm sure we'd find some tribal ways to divide us. Plus, I wouldn't want to mush together all our proud heritages.
But we're making progress as evidenced by Obama's win, and the light shining on those closet bigots is a good thing, I think.
I'm happy you had such a wonderful mom!
She had her faults, of course, but I do miss her very much.
Do you still have your parents?....I hope you do.
great memories that make me smile and laugh. They're here in my heart all the time, as I know your mom is with you, too.
Even though I'm constantly going "I'll ask my dad this" or "my mom will like this" and of course I can't, I somehow always feel they're near.
and I, too, take lots of comfort in those memories...But sometimes,
they just make me want them back more....I found Christmas this year
to be very tough, especially since my only sibling, a sister,
recently told me that "It not in my best
interests to have a relationship with you".
She's basically "disowned" one of her only two kids, too.
It's all very strange. 
Oh well...I'm not hear to sing the blues, as it were...I do have friends,
a great husband, and people like you here at DU.
Back at ya, girlfriend! 
...don't think it ever will. Prejudice is human nature, but that doesn't mean we can't fight it whenever it rears its ugly head. I remember around 2000 when there was talk that somehow racism was dead in America and I remember how it reemerged after 2008 with the idea that we had reached a "post-racial" society. Intellectual rubbish.
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