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MrScorpio

(73,631 posts)
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 08:01 PM Oct 2012

Don't expect everyone to love, or even like you...

Live and let live, but be sure to take solace in the poor quality of character in your enemies.

When it's mostly the horrible people who are hating you, you must be doing something right.

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Don't expect everyone to love, or even like you... (Original Post) MrScorpio Oct 2012 OP
I figure whatever I do in life about 50% or so of humanity is RKP5637 Oct 2012 #1
Me too, and that's just on this board OffWithTheirHeads Oct 2012 #12
Ohhhhh !!! RKP5637 Oct 2012 #13
It's the bad examples that are most instructive, IMO. randome Oct 2012 #2
Thank you for this... CoffeeCat Oct 2012 #3
Kick politicasista Oct 2012 #4
Its just so hard sometimes tho :( darkangel218 Oct 2012 #5
Your revenge is that you never stop trying. randome Oct 2012 #9
I never sought revange. And i did stop trying when my ex left me. darkangel218 Oct 2012 #10
I hear you. Just don't give up. Talk it out. randome Oct 2012 #16
Love yourself and at least one person has your back. n/t porphyrian Oct 2012 #6
Sage Advice Liberalynn Oct 2012 #7
It's hard...I take it very personally when people don't like me.. HipChick Oct 2012 #8
You're so very right, my dear MrScorpio... CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2012 #11
I had that happen not too long, friends I had known for years turned out to be super RKP5637 Oct 2012 #14
People are overrated. RagAss Oct 2012 #15

CoffeeCat

(24,411 posts)
3. Thank you for this...
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 08:09 PM
Oct 2012

It is such a good reminder.

I always tell my kids that it's ok if people don't like you--some won't and that's all right.

I also tell them that if everyone likes them, that they're probably not being themselves. Be yourself. Express yourself. You won't win a popularity contest this way, but you get to live an authentic life.

Thank you for this...

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
5. Its just so hard sometimes tho :(
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 08:20 PM
Oct 2012

You put your trust in them, give them your heart, and in return they spit in your face. Sometimes I just wish I lived on a top of a mountain all alone maybe with a few cats. At least animals would never be as cruel as some humans.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
10. I never sought revange. And i did stop trying when my ex left me.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 08:31 PM
Oct 2012

Now I feel like a ghost of who I was

I'm seeing a terapist next week, I think I'm falling into depression.
My ex took away whatever faith I had left in humanity.

HipChick

(25,485 posts)
8. It's hard...I take it very personally when people don't like me..
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 08:22 PM
Oct 2012

I am really nice to people..

Always wears a smile...

Except 1 week out the month...then I turn into something evil..

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,712 posts)
11. You're so very right, my dear MrScorpio...
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 08:52 PM
Oct 2012

Sometimes it's hard, though.

Especially when you'd thought they were your friends.........and then they turn against you. For bogus reasons.

RKP5637

(67,112 posts)
14. I had that happen not too long, friends I had known for years turned out to be super
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 10:30 PM
Oct 2012

arrogant assholes in later life.

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