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Recently, I had an abortion.
Lining the street in front of the clinic were a dozen or so protesters. They held up large banners with anti-abortion slogans, religious iconography, and images of dead babies.
Just past the bulletproof security doors, the graphic nature of that imagery haunted me in the waiting room. What would my abortion look like? I decided to secretly document my abortion with my cell phone.
My intention in documenting and sharing my abortion is to demystify the sensationalist images propagated by the religious and political right on this matter. The use of lifeless fetus photographs are a propaganda tool in the anti-choice/pro-choice debate in which women and their bodies are used as pawns to push a cultural, political, and religious agenda in the United States.
At 6 weeks of pregnancy, my abortion looked very different than the images I saw when I entered the clinic that day.
This is my abortion.
more . . . http://www.thisismyabortion.com/
xchrom
(108,903 posts)spanone
(135,846 posts)behrstar
(64 posts)is never easy nor happy, I'm sure, which is why I will ALWAYS be pro choice.
Lunabelle
(454 posts)proReality
(1,628 posts)CrispyQ
(36,479 posts)The fundies believe the contents in the jar have more rights than the living, breathing woman.
k&r
StopTheNeoCons
(893 posts)ismnotwasm
(41,995 posts)ProfessionalLeftist
(4,982 posts)porphyrian
(18,530 posts)secondwind
(16,903 posts)I'm a clinic escort here in Boston, I know exactly how they can harrass and intimidate and make women/girls feel ashamed and afraid.
They are the worst.
JitterbugPerfume
(18,183 posts)nc4bo
(17,651 posts)Women are perfectly capable of making their own decisions and have a right to choose; it is our life and our body!! The anti-choice brigade is oh so so wrong in what they do.
valerief
(53,235 posts)at one time or another. The baby-addiction campaign hadn't started in earnest back then.
hamsterjill
(15,222 posts)This took great courage. My thanks to the author for setting the record straight.
No, this certainly does not look like what we see on the anti-choicers' posters. On behalf of any woman who may have had a procedure like this before cell phone cameras were prevalent, etc., thank you.
WinstonSmith4740
(3,056 posts)They're never easy. The crazies don't make it any better, but fortunately back then, they weren't out yet. I always questioned those pictures they carry. Were we supposed to believe someone who worked in a clinic took them? Even before photoshop, people could do lots of stuff with film if they knew what they were doing. All they really needed was someone who could do "special effects". Do they really think we don't know what we're doing? The required ultrasounds, videos, etc., just confirms that they think we're just empty-headed little fluff brains who need to be "educated" about what's happening.
All these nut cases have really done is make this procedure harder, emotionally and physically, for the woman involved. But then again, we're not important, only that group of cells.
Take care of yourself.
sarge43
(28,941 posts)marshall
(6,665 posts)Bless her for her courage and compassion, to share such an intimate moment. It's a work of art.
ThatsMyBarack
(7,641 posts)I had to stop looking at the top.
Images I'd rather see: Pro-lifers being made to SHUT UP and GO AWAY!
me b zola
(19,053 posts)AzDar
(14,023 posts)LibGranny
(711 posts)for sharing! We all do what we have to do and I'm happy we can make our own choices!
Mad_Dem_X
(9,565 posts)HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)It's the anti-abortion equivalent of "Reefer Madness" (which I consider to be a humorous cult classic now). I'm really disgusted by the "abortion as birth control" meme the right uses. I've known several girls and women who've had them and they aren't exactly pleasant experiences, and not one that any female would intentionally accept for a quick lay.
LittlestStar
(224 posts)I mean seriously I have used Planned Parenthood many, many times for annual exams and never encountered protesters (thankfully I don't live in Kansas). How the hell do they know what you are doing there?
calimary
(81,328 posts)"That was not me - that was my press person," he said.
http://www.politico.com/blogs/glennthrush/0411/Kyl_I_misspoke_on_Planned_Parenthood.html
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)One of my favorite stories is about escorting a young lady to the clinic who was probably about 8 months pregnant. The protesters were shouting, "Don't kill your baby!" She was low income using PP for pre-natal exams, They use/used a sliding scale.
LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)"They kill babies on Fridays!" I suspect he thought I was lying.
I explained that the only thing I needed killed was a bladder infection, and I had no intention of waiting until Monday to get some antibiotics.
The guy told me that I should go to the CPC, that PP was going to use the money they made off of my bladder infection to "kill babies."
I got a lecture from the escorts for engaging the people trolling outside the parking lot.
FWIW, I called the CPC later. They don't have a doctor on staff, and at most they could have referred me someplace else, though the lady on the phone sounded decidedly disinterested in helping me out once she figured out that I wasn't pregnant, didn't think I was pregnant, and there was no in to give me a slut shaming lecture. Which is totally what you need when you're doubled over in pain and trying not to pee your pants.
nolabear
(41,987 posts)Vinca
(50,281 posts)They had to use a magnifying glass on the evacuated contents to be sure the procedure was successful. The aborted embryo looked like a teeny white puff ball.
glowing
(12,233 posts)their stories and stop living silently shamed by society. Most women have had or know other women close to them that have had an abortion. At 6 wks, on a sonogram, the picture looks like a round dot. My friend who had one recently, took the picture with her (FL law and all to do a sonogram before performing the procedure), anyway, she literally thought she was looking at a picture of her belly button.
She was not in a financial position to take on another child. I would say that if the people standing outside the clinics supported policies that loved the children outside of the womb more than inside as a fetus, more women would have an easier time in choosing to have a child, but its their choice. Medical choices and decisions should be left up to a woman, doctor, and family if she so chooses.