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proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 09:12 AM Sep 2012

THIS IS MY ABORTION

Recently, I had an abortion.

Lining the street in front of the clinic were a dozen or so protesters. They held up large banners with anti-abortion slogans, religious iconography, and images of dead babies.

Just past the bulletproof security doors, the graphic nature of that imagery haunted me in the waiting room. What would my abortion look like? I decided to secretly document my abortion with my cell phone.

My intention in documenting and sharing my abortion is to demystify the sensationalist images propagated by the religious and political right on this matter. The use of lifeless fetus photographs are a propaganda tool in the anti-choice/pro-choice debate in which women and their bodies are used as pawns to push a cultural, political, and religious agenda in the United States.

At 6 weeks of pregnancy, my abortion looked very different than the images I saw when I entered the clinic that day.

This is my abortion.

more . . . http://www.thisismyabortion.com/

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THIS IS MY ABORTION (Original Post) proud2BlibKansan Sep 2012 OP
Du rec. Nt xchrom Sep 2012 #1
k&r... spanone Sep 2012 #2
Abortion behrstar Sep 2012 #3
K&R Lunabelle Sep 2012 #4
K&R n/t proReality Sep 2012 #5
Good for her! CrispyQ Sep 2012 #6
Thank you for your courage to post...nt StopTheNeoCons Sep 2012 #7
K&R ismnotwasm Sep 2012 #8
recommend. n/t ProfessionalLeftist Sep 2012 #9
. n/t porphyrian Sep 2012 #10
Your bravery will help others to find their own courage. K&R! cont......... secondwind Sep 2012 #11
thank you JitterbugPerfume Sep 2012 #12
Thank you! I had to comment. nc4bo Sep 2012 #13
When I was younger, I didn't know any other younger women who hadn't had an abortion valerief Sep 2012 #14
Powerful and moving! hamsterjill Sep 2012 #15
Mine was in 1976. WinstonSmith4740 Sep 2012 #16
Hand salute, ma'am and thank you. n/t sarge43 Sep 2012 #17
Truly touching! marshall Sep 2012 #18
Clicked on the link, but.... ThatsMyBarack Sep 2012 #19
K&R me b zola Sep 2012 #20
K & R AzDar Sep 2012 #21
God bless you and thanks LibGranny Sep 2012 #22
Thank you for sharing that. k&r Mad_Dem_X Sep 2012 #23
I can hear the "silent scream" from here. Yes, I've seen the movie and it's really dumb. HopeHoops Sep 2012 #24
How do the creeps know you aren't just getting an annual exam? LittlestStar Sep 2012 #25
They just assume the worst, prompted by IDIOTS like jon kyl who get their facts from up their asses. calimary Sep 2012 #26
Back in the 70's I was an Escort for Planned Parenthood. Le Taz Hot Sep 2012 #30
I asked a protester that, when I was on my way into PP. LeftyMom Sep 2012 #32
Brave and sad and very important. nolabear Sep 2012 #27
Many years ago I worked in the office of a doctor who performed early abortions. Vinca Sep 2012 #28
This has been posted before. I do wish that more women would come forward with glowing Sep 2012 #29
So frustrating that it's even an issue. Brickbat Sep 2012 #31

CrispyQ

(36,479 posts)
6. Good for her!
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 09:59 AM
Sep 2012

The fundies believe the contents in the jar have more rights than the living, breathing woman.

k&r

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
11. Your bravery will help others to find their own courage. K&R! cont.........
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 10:14 AM
Sep 2012


I'm a clinic escort here in Boston, I know exactly how they can harrass and intimidate and make women/girls feel ashamed and afraid.

They are the worst.

nc4bo

(17,651 posts)
13. Thank you! I had to comment.
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 10:27 AM
Sep 2012

Women are perfectly capable of making their own decisions and have a right to choose; it is our life and our body!! The anti-choice brigade is oh so so wrong in what they do.


valerief

(53,235 posts)
14. When I was younger, I didn't know any other younger women who hadn't had an abortion
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 10:29 AM
Sep 2012

at one time or another. The baby-addiction campaign hadn't started in earnest back then.

hamsterjill

(15,222 posts)
15. Powerful and moving!
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 10:40 AM
Sep 2012

This took great courage. My thanks to the author for setting the record straight.

No, this certainly does not look like what we see on the anti-choicers' posters. On behalf of any woman who may have had a procedure like this before cell phone cameras were prevalent, etc., thank you.

WinstonSmith4740

(3,056 posts)
16. Mine was in 1976.
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 10:45 AM
Sep 2012

They're never easy. The crazies don't make it any better, but fortunately back then, they weren't out yet. I always questioned those pictures they carry. Were we supposed to believe someone who worked in a clinic took them? Even before photoshop, people could do lots of stuff with film if they knew what they were doing. All they really needed was someone who could do "special effects". Do they really think we don't know what we're doing? The required ultrasounds, videos, etc., just confirms that they think we're just empty-headed little fluff brains who need to be "educated" about what's happening.

All these nut cases have really done is make this procedure harder, emotionally and physically, for the woman involved. But then again, we're not important, only that group of cells.

Take care of yourself.

marshall

(6,665 posts)
18. Truly touching!
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 10:49 AM
Sep 2012

Bless her for her courage and compassion, to share such an intimate moment. It's a work of art.

ThatsMyBarack

(7,641 posts)
19. Clicked on the link, but....
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 10:51 AM
Sep 2012

I had to stop looking at the top.

Images I'd rather see: Pro-lifers being made to SHUT UP and GO AWAY!

LibGranny

(711 posts)
22. God bless you and thanks
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 11:39 AM
Sep 2012

for sharing! We all do what we have to do and I'm happy we can make our own choices!

 

HopeHoops

(47,675 posts)
24. I can hear the "silent scream" from here. Yes, I've seen the movie and it's really dumb.
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 12:46 PM
Sep 2012

It's the anti-abortion equivalent of "Reefer Madness" (which I consider to be a humorous cult classic now). I'm really disgusted by the "abortion as birth control" meme the right uses. I've known several girls and women who've had them and they aren't exactly pleasant experiences, and not one that any female would intentionally accept for a quick lay.

LittlestStar

(224 posts)
25. How do the creeps know you aren't just getting an annual exam?
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 03:08 PM
Sep 2012

I mean seriously I have used Planned Parenthood many, many times for annual exams and never encountered protesters (thankfully I don't live in Kansas). How the hell do they know what you are doing there?

calimary

(81,328 posts)
26. They just assume the worst, prompted by IDIOTS like jon kyl who get their facts from up their asses.
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 03:20 PM
Sep 2012
But what about the claim that it was "not intended to be a factual statement" when Kyl said 90 percent of Planned Parenthood's services were abortion related?

"That was not me - that was my press person," he said.

http://www.politico.com/blogs/glennthrush/0411/Kyl_I_misspoke_on_Planned_Parenthood.html

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
30. Back in the 70's I was an Escort for Planned Parenthood.
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 08:11 PM
Sep 2012

One of my favorite stories is about escorting a young lady to the clinic who was probably about 8 months pregnant. The protesters were shouting, "Don't kill your baby!" She was low income using PP for pre-natal exams, They use/used a sliding scale.

LeftyMom

(49,212 posts)
32. I asked a protester that, when I was on my way into PP.
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 08:57 PM
Sep 2012

"They kill babies on Fridays!" I suspect he thought I was lying.
I explained that the only thing I needed killed was a bladder infection, and I had no intention of waiting until Monday to get some antibiotics.
The guy told me that I should go to the CPC, that PP was going to use the money they made off of my bladder infection to "kill babies."

I got a lecture from the escorts for engaging the people trolling outside the parking lot.

FWIW, I called the CPC later. They don't have a doctor on staff, and at most they could have referred me someplace else, though the lady on the phone sounded decidedly disinterested in helping me out once she figured out that I wasn't pregnant, didn't think I was pregnant, and there was no in to give me a slut shaming lecture. Which is totally what you need when you're doubled over in pain and trying not to pee your pants.

Vinca

(50,281 posts)
28. Many years ago I worked in the office of a doctor who performed early abortions.
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 03:26 PM
Sep 2012

They had to use a magnifying glass on the evacuated contents to be sure the procedure was successful. The aborted embryo looked like a teeny white puff ball.

 

glowing

(12,233 posts)
29. This has been posted before. I do wish that more women would come forward with
Sat Sep 22, 2012, 07:02 PM
Sep 2012

their stories and stop living silently shamed by society. Most women have had or know other women close to them that have had an abortion. At 6 wks, on a sonogram, the picture looks like a round dot. My friend who had one recently, took the picture with her (FL law and all to do a sonogram before performing the procedure), anyway, she literally thought she was looking at a picture of her belly button.

She was not in a financial position to take on another child. I would say that if the people standing outside the clinics supported policies that loved the children outside of the womb more than inside as a fetus, more women would have an easier time in choosing to have a child, but its their choice. Medical choices and decisions should be left up to a woman, doctor, and family if she so chooses.

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