How many of us live alone? I haven't sat down and talked to a real person in 3 weeks

[leftyladyfrommo]

Fortunately I have 3 dogs to keep me company.

I don't normally cook but i am managing to cook enough to stay alive. You just have to ignore how it tastes.

The man who normally cuts my lawn is super high risk so he might not be there. Just have to let it grow.

[Wounded Bear]

1. I live alone. Don't have pets..nt.

[no_hypocrisy]

2. Loner by choice.

And I'm nested.

I only leave the house to work in a grocery emporium.

[polmaven]

3. I do live alone, but

I am a cashier at a grocery store, so I am working (part time) several days a week.

[leftyladyfrommo]

4. I am a pet sitter. No one is going anywhere.

As long as SS keeps coming I will be ok. Just need to be really careful.

[RKP5637]

16. That's been my worry, will SS keep coming in. I don't currently live alone, but when

I might have to, I would have a cat. My last one was like a 7x24 soul mate.

[tblue37]

5. I live with 4 cats and several e-readers. nt

[RKP5637]

17. I love cats, some are incredible company. n/t

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

6. I'm in the same boat, except with cats instead of dogs.

I've talked to real people on the phone and via the Internet but haven't actually been face-to-face with any since March 14. I don't really like my own cooking but that's OK; since I'm on a diet I don't have to eat very much of it. But now I'm in the process of cleaning and sorting out some stuff I should have taken care of months ago. I have no excuse for ignoring this project anymore. When this is all over my house will be clean, and I will be thinner and grayer and probably will have a terrible case of agoraphobia.

[leftyladyfrommo]

9. I need to finish sorting through old stuff, too.

But it's so dusty. I need a day when I can open up the house. Three dogs make for a lot of dust.

I don't have a TV. I found some books to read ar CVS. The library closed before I could get there.

[avebury]

45. You should check out the website thefussylibrarian.com

You can subscribe to it and they will send you an emails with suggestions of free books. When you sign up you can indicate what genres that you prefer. If you don't have access to a kindle you can probably download a kindle reader for your computer or cell phone.

You would be surprised what you can find on youtube to watch for free. Another great website is watchnewslive.tv .


If you do have a cell phone there are a lot of great aps:
Old Movies
Podbean
Podcast Republic
Amazon Kindle
Worscapes
Happy Color
Mahjong

[Tanuki]

76. Have you checked out Project Gutenberg? They have thousands of

public domain books you can read for free. Even if you don't have a special e-book reader, you can read right from your browser.

https://www.gutenberg.org

[True Blue American]

81. I had a load of Library books

My Librarian told me to stock up! All read,I broke down, signed up on the Library site. Am now reading Ebooks on my IPAD. After years of resistance I am actually enjoying it. With Internet, phone and Face Time it is not bad.

[xmas74]

97. Just reading through.

You have a Mid Continent card? You can use it online.

[Siwsan]

7. I talk to my neighbors when we are out walking or doing yard work

I life in an older subdivision and there's quite a bit of space between houses which allows for much more than a 6 foot social distance.

[Sherman A1]

11. Same here

Just talking to the neighbors.

[leftyladyfrommo]

15. I don't know my neighbors.

The guy on one side is a real freak and I just try never to see him.

I have really young kids on the other side and they could care less about an old lady.

[Siwsan]

47. I'm even talking to the ones I don't know. If they are walking by, they are fair game

I find everyone seems glad to have a change of scenery and the chance to talk to someone different.

[Demovictory9]

64. "fair game"

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

54. One of my neighbors is nice but I rarely see her.

The neighbors on the other side are assholes who, a couple of summers ago, sprayed Round-Up along the property line and killed a 2' wide swath of everything growing on my side of the line, just to let me know how much they hated my landscaping (native plants, no lawn). I wish my social distance from them could be measured in miles rather than feet.

[leftyladyfrommo]

59. That's how I feel about mine, too.

He doesn't like my dogs.

Something weird is going on over there. I don't think they have any utilities except water. The gas meter is gone. I never see any lights. The blinds are always down and they never come outside.

I kind of wonder if he is a vet with ptsd or something. He doesn't work.

I keep hoping they will move. They rent.

[Doreen]

63. That sounds like the movie called "The Burbs."

[Lulu KC]

86. Natives FTW!

[Jamastiene]

8. Same here.

Except I have two cats instead of 3 dogs. Same with the lawn. I'm gonna have to let it grow for now. I have lived alone, officially, since last March, but before that I took care of my quadriplegic aunt who became a shell of her former self in the last few years. I still need to undo all of the alterations to my home to accommodate her huge medical equipment and her needs. It was like living alone with a lot of extra responsibility and no help from anyone in the rest of the family. My aunt died last October. I have since had to cut ties with the rest of the family because of the way they tried to take the credit for taking care of her for the 30 years, all of my adult life from age 18 until last March. I gave up having a life at all the minute I was old enough to have an adult life and they tried to shove me out of the way and claim credit. They knew nothing about how to take care of my aunt. So, the Hospices and hospitals let them run their mouths, then called me to find out what really was our routine before. They knew.

As bad as it can get sometimes, alone is better, in my case. I'm not hurting as far as the dealing with the being alone stuff so much, because I am kind of used to it. It has always been on my shoulders to figure out what to do, because even when I was taking care of my aunt, it was still on me to run the household and take care of her too. Now, it's just me and the cats. I'm relieved because of that, in a way, even though I do miss my aunt. She was really the one who raised me. I despise MS though, for taking her, slowly and painfully.

[Kitchari]

57. Bless you for being there for your aunt

All caregivers have my utmost respect

[renate]

65. What you've been through sounds not just sad but actually traumatic

I’m so sorry. It sounds like a difficult and lonely 30 years, and then to be treated like that by your family is absolutely horrible.

I hope that you are able to bloom and blossom now that your caregiving has come to an end. It won’t be easy to figure out how, because you have a 30-year delay compared with others your age, but it will be worth it. You did something so wonderful for your aunt and now you deserve joy.

[Sunriser13]

73. Damn hard row to hoe.

Sending a hug - please hug yourself, too...

[Cirque du So-What]

10. I'm gonna name a volleyball 'Wilson'

Nah, I’m OK.

[Newest Reality]

12. Alone

No pets, friends or family. In a tent.

You get an opportunity to know yourself, which can be an ongoing process. Often, people will turn to diverse distractions in order to avoid that; things like work, entertainment, games, sex, drugs, etc. The amount of distancing from self depends on many factors, especially since we tend to be wired to be social, or so it seems.

Some people have an introverted, natural proclivity for being alone. Others have a strong avoidance factor based on past experiences, conditioning and such. However, knowing one's self, (whatever that turns out to be or not be) is an ancient practice, especially when, once you start looking, you find that it is not a tangible thing to grasp. That's when you look into what we call mind and find out what you are, or are not.

With persistence and understanding, there can be a deep, profound, clear and luminous peace within that recognition and it even changes one's views about life, existence and death. So, you could say it can be a valuable opportunity if you are willing to go all the way.

[Rorey]

32. That's what I've been doing for the last year

I've been getting to know myself. Turns out I'm pretty awesome.

I had the good luck to catch my now-ex-husband cheating a little over a year and a half ago. I didn't realize how miserable I had been for so long until he was gone. On a personal level, I've never been happier.

[leftyladyfrommo]

43. I'm happier by myself. nt

[Rorey]

75. So am I

I'm kinda surprised at how much I like it. I have absolutely no interest in complicating my life again.

[malaise]

13. What are you trying to cook?

I'll help you make it taste delicious. It's much easier than you think.

[leftyladyfrommo]

23. I am limited because i only have a big steamer ,

a little egg steamer, a small crock pot and a small coffee maker, and a toaster .

Most things are ok steamed but meat has no flavor. I can live with no flavor. I have to eat some meat because I have trouble with severe anemia.

Fish is good and I like fish. Chicken isn't too bad. Beef and pork have no taste.

I am managing ok. But I will keep that in mind and contact you if I get desperate for something that tastes decent.

Thank you

[csziggy]

35. Do you have any herbs and spices?

You can make a rub for meat, then cook it in the crock pot nearly dry. Put onion, carrot, celery, or potato (or any combo you have) underneath the meat so it is not down in it's own juices. This works for chicken, beef, and pork. I also put garlic in a lot of things.

Try these for ideas on using herbs and spices:
A Beginner's Guide to Herbs and Spices

How to Use Herbs and Spices in Cooking

One tip I have is once you begin using herbs and spices in recipes, vary the amounts. One of the most boring things about packaged and restaurant food is that it is the same every single time. Cooking your own, you can change out the flavorings, change the amounts, and make it different every time.

[leftyladyfrommo]

41. I do have onions and potatoes.

if i put the onions and potatoes on the bottom and meat on top how much water? It's a small crockpot.

I don't have spices except salt.

I bought ham hocks to fix with beans and rice. That will last a while.

I really stocked up on beans and rice. I have canned meat for sandwiches.

I am just not a cook. I did really stock up on cereal so i have that and coffee for breakfastl.

[csziggy]

49. If I want to meat to "brown" I don't put in any water

Maybe some wine, but not much. If it is a fatty cut of meat, sometimes I don't put in any liquid.

With pork, I mostly make it for pulled pork - then I do put in some beer or red wine after rubbing the roast with seasonings.

I think you need to see about building a "library" of herbs and spices - that would make a world of difference in adding flavor. You can add a few at a time so the cost is not out of range - or look for one of the sets of spices and herbs to get started. Right now I can't find any to recommend, but I gave one last Christmas that was very nice for a great price from Costco.

Fresh herbs are best, but dried herbs are easier and cheaper.

I'm a big fan of herbs and spices - but then my husband and I owned a store that sold them so I've had access to as many varieties as I wanted for decades. I also prefer making my own blends rather than buy off the shelf so I can tailor them to my tastes.

[Sunriser13]

77. Penzeys is great for spices

There are some good variety boxes for reasonable prices. There are also some really good recipes on the site.

Penzeys Spices

As a bonus, Bill Penzey is a terrific Wisconsin democrat. I recommend subscribing to his e-mails, as they offer some very good specials, with both free and sale products. Besides, his writings are really powerful, enough so that Repubs called for a boycott of his business. The attempt just gave him free advertising.

Anyway, check it out - I have no affiliation to the site, I'm just a very satisfied customer.

[csziggy]

80. I was going to recommend them, but they are closed for now

At the link you posted:

For community safety we are shutting down order processing until April 13th.

If I didn't have an excellent local food co-op which sells loose herbs and spices, I'd order from Penzey's.

[Sunriser13]

82. Shoot, I forgot about that!

Yeah, he shut it down about March 21st or so. He said it'd be about 3 weeks (from then), but I'd imagine this stay-at-home will last a bit beyond that...

Sorry!

[avebury]

38. A single burner might give you some more options in cooking.

I picked up a single burner at the Walmart neighborhood store for about 9 or 10 bucks. You might be able to find more flavorful ways to cook your meat.

I made home made fried rice yesterday. You can use your steamer to cook the rice. I use my single burner to cook 3 scrambled eggs (which are then set aside). I use a bigger pan to cook a few cup up pieces of bacon (set aside). If I can get a bag to xs shrimp I will buy a bad and thaw out some to heat up (put aside).

For the veggies, I cut up some mushrooms, onion and carrots after which I add some big bean sprouts, lettuce and a bad of frozen veggies. Once the veggies are cooked you add in the scrambled egg (it helps to keep the rice from drying out too much), bacon, shrimp (if you have it on hand) and rice and heat it up. If you have soy sauce if you have it on hand.

I live by myself and make a pretty good size batch of fried rice. I tend to add whatever veggies that I can get ahold of.

[leftyladyfrommo]

42. I was thinking about that. Or an electric frying pan.

I ordered a coffeepot from Amazon but it won't be delivered until the end of April. So ordering is getting more difficult.

I will go to walmart early in the morning.

[avebury]

52. A crockpot at some point might be helpful. I love my crockpot and

you can do a really mean crockpot roast in one. It is great for soups too. You can find a lot of recipes online for the different types of crockpot meals.

[leftyladyfrommo]

56. I have a small crockpot.

My big steamer has a slow cooker setting. But I don't want to tie it up for hours because I use it for just about everything.

I also have a lot of pasta I could cook in the slow cooker with some meat and vegetables.

[csziggy]

55. All through college I baked and cooked using an electric frying pan, toaster oven, and an iron

This was long before microwaves were household appliances. The frying pan was a lot easier and safer than a hot plate (these days you might want to invest in an induction hot plate and pans that will work with it).

A toaster oven is more versatile than a regular toaster and can be used as a mini oven. I even cooked a mini Thanksgiving dinner from scratch in a toaster oven - Cornish game hen over dressing with green beans cooked in a little electric hot water pot.

The iron was great for making grilled cheese sandwiches or what today is called a panini. Make the sandwich, butter the bread (today I'd spray oil on the outside), wrap in foil. Turn the iron on medium to high, put on top of the sandwich, flip the sandwich over after a few minutes, "iron" the other side. You'd have to play with the time and settings for your iron. Plus, this keeps the iron clean so you can still use it on your clothes!

All my appliance were bought from thrift stores back in the day, but they lasted me through college and a ways past graduation.

[Aquaria]

58. Electric skillets

Are awesome. Took mine with me on a business trip when I got put on a low sodium diet. I was able to make taco meat, rice and refried beans with it. You need to use foil between the lid and pan to get rice to have a tight enough seal to turn out right during the simmer process, but that’s no biggie. I’ve made pasta with it, too, in a pinch.

[Aquaria]

53. Are you able to invest in an air fryer?

Small ones can be had for around $30. They’re not really fryers, but mini-convection ovens. The oven part can make all the difference in cooking flavorful food. I use one for burgers, steaks, chicken, salmon, pork chops and more.

I started with a small one, but then got a larger one for roasting chicken, turkey breasts, and even halves of pot roasts. Now I now use the smaller one to make veggies or reheat fast food onion rings. My husband swears by the air fryer as the best, ever, at reheating French fries and tater tots. I take his word for it since I don’t eat any potato (allergy). I also use it now to re-heat the occasional takeout burger, to reduce the chance of COVID-19 infection. If I don’t make something, I don’t trust it, really.

[malaise]

66. You'd be surprised what you can cook in a crock pot or a steamer

[leftyladyfrommo]

89. I cook everything in my steamer.

It's a big one. You can slow cook and fix oatmeal. I usually just steam stuff. I am not picky about how things taste.

[marybourg]

14. I sit and talk to my neighbor every few days,

either 6 feet apart on her patio or mine, or at the edge of my open garage. Neither of us have much other exposure to people and both of us were in the midst of important transitions that are being stymied by the virus. We each need to encourage and comfort the other.

[ooky]

18. I'm divorced, live with my dog, and have for a long time. And love it. Still,

this is a change to never see my adult children or grandkids these days. My 7 year old granddaughter and I communicate pretty much daily using Messenger, she's having a hard time with the isolation too.

I also have friendly neighbors on three sides and we shout back and forth. One of them sits on his side and me on my side and have a beer together.

[AmericanCanuck]

19. Can't you do skype with friends and family?

Also, the guy who mows your lawn on the outside poses no danger to you. Just pay him directly into his bank account via your bank's mobile app.

[leftyladyfrommo]

26. I know he's no danger. But he is so high risk that

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I doubt he is leaving his house now. I might still hear from him. Mowing yards should be pretty safe.

I don't know how to Skype and my brother is doing good to use FB. But we call each other pretty often.

I keep in touch with my neices on FB.

[AmericanCanuck]

83. Just download Skype or Zoom

and have all your loved ones do so also. It is much better than a call - you get to see as many as 6 people on video at once and hold a get-together.

[UTUSN]

20. My 80 yr old sister, lifelong single, barely cooks, no pets. Never even liked going to stores.

There are several nieces and their families in the same city, all in text/phone communication. Retired teacher, no sewing/crafts/musical instrument. Her only pursuits were Catholic mass *daily* (besides rosary, praying) and concerts, both public things gone (just on t.v.).

I joked with her that, really, the rest of the world has been forced to live *her* life.

[appalachiablue]

21. Living in a community w nice green spaces, flowers, trees

convenience store, community ctr. and plenty of folks of all ages and pets. Units are smallish but cozy, and so with music, the pc, radio, books, contacts nearby, distancing and precautions things will be ok.

[PJMcK]

22. My wife and I have self-isolated for about 3 weeks

We've kept to ourselves in our mountain house. The only people we've seen were at the supermarket.

My wife said the same thing you wrote: She hasn't sat down and talked to a real person in 3 weeks.

(wink)

[spinbaby]

24. I'm by myself, too

Eight cats. I keep in touch with people by phone. My son drops off groceries. Fortunately I live in a very walkable neighborhood and can chat with neighbors at a distance.

[Baclava]

28. I prefer the term "naturally anti-social", yes, I am rowing that same boat

Stocked up for a month or two, and I have ordered TP and masks, on the way from China on a slow boat, should be here by the end of the month, lol

[Rorey]

40. I had to look it up. I had no idea.

schiz·oid:
denoting or having a personality type characterized by emotional aloofness and solitary habits.

I'm definitely not emotionally aloof, but I do have solitary habits.

I learned something new today. Awesome. Thanks.

[Baclava]

46. Yeah that explains it better, I belong to private social clubs, we all have fun with new people

But on the home front I prefer self sufficient behavior, we all adapt to what works best for us, I hope

[Rorey]

36. Social sprint and social marathon

Well stated, and that's how I am. I actually do enjoy being around others once I'm there, but there's a limit to how long I want to do that before it's time for me to go home and be with my favorite person (myself).

[Decoy of Fenris]

91. Nice to see another member of Hermits United!

I can't wait for the next ten-year meeting where all us hermits gather up to swap stories about caves. It's all good fun, for a hermit.

Seriously. This entire affair has been 'business as usual' for me and mine and I'd be lying if I said I didn't get a chuckle about all the super-social people losing their minds. Keep rockin' on, mate! You set a wonderful example for all to follow.

[wryter2000]

27. I do

Fortunately, I love being alone. I speak to real people on zoom at least once a week.

[phylny]

30. I "sat down" outside with a friend yesterday outside of her house.

We were about 10 feet away from each other. It was nice.

I wish you well.

[leftyladyfrommo]

31. I haved lived alone all my life so I don't really get lonely.

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But i do miss not being able to go to the library and to my customer's houses.


And watching the news on internet is so depressing.

[CousinIT]

33. My cats are lovin it.

I work from home so a lot of Zooming during the week, that keeps my mind busy. Also puttering in my yard and going for walks (mask on) helps me keep sane.

[roamer65]

67. My cats are 2.

Daddy’s home.

[Lars39]

37. My husband's workplace has several single people.

They're instituting "Happy Hour" at least once a week online for everybody to chat non-work stuff.
Just trying to help everybody get thru this ok.

[DarthDem]

39. Glad about your dogs :)

It's nice that they're there to keep you company. Maybe try Zooming or Skyping with friends, family, or groups (book club, support group, what have you) on a regular basis.

[cry baby]

44. I live alone as of last Saturday.

I was a caregiver for my mom who was 92. She passed away last Saturday.

I have a wonderful little cat and my kids live nearby. My kids aren’t allowed in the house, though. They understand. They’re staying in their own homes.

I’m a bit of a low energy introvert, so feeling ok about staying in until it’s safe.

[Siwsan]

50. My heartfelt condolences for the loss of your mother.

My mother died 5 years ago, from Alzheimer's. She was 87.

[cry baby]

51. Thank you. My heart goes out to you. Alzheimer's wasn't a factor

with my mother. I can’t imagine how hard it is to lose a loved one to that horrible disease.

[lunasun]

71. My condolences on the loss of your mom . Take care.

[cry baby]

87. Thank you, I will. You take care, too. nt

[tavernier]

48. I'm alone but lots of family and friends in town .

And lots of places to walk .

Send me a message if you get bored or lonely. I’m always up for a good conversation.

[sagetea]

60. My heart is breaking for you....

I was alone for 5 yrs. saw my husband 20 days a year. In that time, I learned guitar, oil painting, belly dancing, and Lakota language. Thank god for You tube!!! I also have 3 acres. with gardens and an orchard.

My daughter who had taken a year off from school, came home, now this happens!! lol!! She got accepted into grad school though (Yay!) the school is about 40 min. from the house!

I wish I could send you a care package! Even a hand written letter seems to help sometimes...I don't know why, but, it does...maybe it's nostalgia...?

At one point (in my self isolation) I got so lonely, I invited a woman I met in a motel parking lot, to come home with me....it didn't turn out so well! But, I just wanted a friend so bad!! I don't recommend that...lol!!!

sage

[wendyb-NC]

61. I live alone. It is my preference.

I have 3 cats and a Chihuahua. They keep me busy, and usually aren't argumentative. Due to Coronavirus , I kind of dread going out, but, I do go for supplies and necessities. I plan ahead and find that the stores are less crowded when the first open in the morning. I made a cloth mask on the sewing machine from some t-shirt cloth and a cotton print fabric.

I do talk with family and friends occasionally, through texts or phone call. I'm always talking with the pets, they seem to be good listeners. I know they understand me because, well yesterday morning , I wanted shower before going to the store, but didn't want my hair wet. I have no shower cap so I put a plastic bag on my head. I had a feeling I was being watched, turns out it was my tabby cat staring at me as if to say, Now what? Never a dull moment.

[IADEMO2004]

62. Living alone four years but hail storm resulted in lots of visitors.

and they all want money to fix the roof and siding.

Surprised last fall when a caucus volunteer I was training said I was a loner. I thought I was just comfortable at home. I was always the family cook so I have that covered. Lucky I have family and friends that are musicians that keep in touch on facebook. Not the same as being with them live but better than nothing. I'm getting by OK but hope this ends soon with minimal loss of life.

[mnhtnbb]

68. I live alone with my dog

in a downtown high rise apartment building.

I have been staying in since I returned a week early from a birthday trip on March 9. Spent a couple of days stocking up with food, library books, etc., and have only been in a store twice since then.

I have to go out to walk the dog several times/day. Used to enjoy chatting with people in the elevator or on walks. Not now. I keep my distance. Management put up signs in the elevator to remind people to observe social distancing in the elevator.

We do have a 24 hour staffed front desk in the lobby. The other day the guard sitting there spoke to me and my voice cracked from lack of use when I tried to respond!

[Indykatie]

69. I Would Be Alone But My GD Goes to College in IN and Came to My House Whenher School Shut Down

I am loving having her here. Our personalities are similar (introverts) and it's a big house so we each have plenty space. Just knowing she's in the house is comforting even when I can't see her in her basement lair.

[Codeine]

70. Sounds like heaven.

Social interaction grates on me.

[Happy Hoosier]

72. Visiting friends digitally.

My wife and daughter are here, and we’re doing okay, but each of is trying to talk to friends a few times a week using phones or computers. That helps!

[SharonClark]

74. I live with a great dog who needs walks twice a day.

We talk with other walkers (from a safe distance). I talk on the phone to friends and family several times a day. I've spring cleaned every cupboard, drawer, and closet. I have a ton of books. And my favorite thing, I'm trying new recipes. What I miss are concerts and theatre and random shopping and drinking wine with friends in person.

I plan to go to the grocery store for the first time in 2 weeks although I may not go and just continue with what I have on hand.

I just take it day by day and I'm grateful to be retired.

[ananda]

78. Me either.

I talk to people on the phone and play online bridge.

[keithbvadu2]

79. Seen on facebook: Anyone else getting 3 weeks to the gallon?

Seen on facebook: Anyone else getting 3 weeks to the gallon?

[leftyladyfrommo]

88. I normally fill up 3 x a week. I am saving a lot of money

by not having to drive. Of course I don't have any money coming in.

[lindysalsagal]

84. If anyone like me who lives totally alone wants to do a zoom meeting

1. I already run zoom meetings: They're easy. Download free zoom and just click the link. No login.
2. PM me. I won't post emails.
3. We'll need to use real email, so, think twice
4. I absolutely promise I won't record it
5. Earbuds are a must so the sound doesn't feedback
6. I think anyone who joins must use their phone or laptop camera and not stay hidden.
7. We'll stick to screen names, exclusively

[Midnight Writer]

85. Life long introvert, lucky enough to own a home in a quiet neighborhood.

I often go for weeks at a time without interactions, save for checkout clerks at stores.

It's not that I don't like people, it's just that I find it exhausting to deal with them.

[leftyladyfrommo]

90. I'm not good with people.

I am ok for a while and then I need to go home again.

[hauweg]

92. I live alone

I'm trying to adjust after my wife of 24 years passed last month. Sometimes I walk to the grocery store to get some food, but most of the groceries is delivered and dropped at the door. No close interactions in some time besides with my cat. It's not easy to cope with the new situation.

[leftyladyfrommo]

93. Man. That would be difficult.

I am used to being alone. I talk to myself a lot.

I have a friend who just lost his wife of 26 years. And they had a really close relationship.

He is trying to stay busy but it's just hard.

[cayugafalls]

104. My heart goes out to you. Please reach out if you need anything.

Stay well.

[xmas74]

94. Where are you in Missouri? Nt

[leftyladyfrommo]

95. KCMO

[xmas74]

96. Maybe some of the Zoom meetings?

I know my clubs in Warrensburg are running through Zoom. Our meetings are shorter, mostly just to check in.

[leftyladyfrommo]

98. 8 don't have a computer. Just a phone.

I don't know anything about Skype or Zoom.

I do message people on FB. I can check in that way

[xmas74]

99. Check your messages.

And I usually Zoom on my phone. I can check in on my break at work.

[shanti]

100. Another singleton here

No dogs, but two old cats. I'm a good cook, so no problems there. I went shopping a week ago, after 3 weeks in, but I did talk to the cashier, lol. Other than that, I have 4 sons, a brother, and a guy friend that I talk to by phone on a regular basis, so I don't feel entirely alone. No front lawn to care for, as I had it xeriscaped a couple of years ago, but I do have a small backyard that needs some TLC. Now, if my internet goes out, I'll be in big trouble!

Stay safe and healthy!

[lunatica]

102. I live alone with my cat

I’m pretty much of a hermit, so my life hasn’t changed. I get my groceries delivered which I’ve been doing for years.

[AllaN01Bear]

103. ive been alone since 2004 . living on my own for 15 years .

had cable but dumped it twice . took over my late moms comcast extended basic. price went outa sight . dumped it , then got digital economh at $25.00 , that kept going up . went to comcast office and said youre fired , never looked back.lots of youtube videos over the years and going out with my healthcare worker twice a week for shopping . keeps me insane . part self cooker and tv dinners and the like . watched a charlie brown christmas on my own dvd that i bought and just set aside . its doabe.