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FirstLight

(13,362 posts)
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 12:26 PM Sep 2012

Before my kids went to school today...

we had a brief history lesson... I showed them part of a film of 9-11 and explained the tragedy to them as best I could...how our world changed, how we have been at war their entire life, how 3000 people died, and the heroism of a small group on a plane that crashed in pennsylvania... there is no way to explain the shock i felt that morning watching the news, as we all did...i was pregnant with my daughter at the time and wondered what kind of world I was bringing a child into.

It gives me pause today, to think that it has been 11 YEARS, that our lives have changed so much and yet we hardly remember now what it was like without airport security....all those romantic movies where the guy or girl runs to the gate to stop the person they love - they would be tackled, tazed or worse now!
We are still in the clusterfuck of Afganistan, and yet we don't hear as much about that quiet little war still raging...drones, civilians, soldiers...so many more lives damaged and lost in the wake of that one september morning...and how many of those people, either civilians or soldiers, even have a stake in an event that happened 11 years ago? How many families buried in rubble in remote villages, how many orphans? How many more soldiers and families torn apart by injuries, or suicide?

Sept 11 is our generations' pearl harbor....we had never known that kind of feeling of violation as a country for many a decade... but in the decade since, how has it changed us? and what kind of world AM i raising my kids in?

where we basically accept the fact that data mining and wiretapping is the norm.
where we know it could mean being pulled into a room and groped if we step out of line or speak out at an airport (and sometimes ANY public place)
where first amendment rights of peaceful assembly are no longer tolerated
where our country can hold indefinitely both foreign and us citizens with no access to legal aid, much less humane treatment

oh god, I could go on but you get the drift. There's so much about our lives that has changed in such insidious ways.
and there's still so many pieces of the 9-11 puzzle that need to be completed and the right thing has to be done...
and while I stop this morning to send prayers to the families of the victims, etc...I pray even more for US, because we are still victimizing ourselves and so many others because of this wound.

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Before my kids went to school today... (Original Post) FirstLight Sep 2012 OP
11 years after Pearl Harbor WWII had been over for 7 years. TeamPooka Sep 2012 #1
... abelenkpe Sep 2012 #4
Ugh I just dont understand this incessant need to wallow in this. Egnever Sep 2012 #2
It reminds me of those sharp_stick Sep 2012 #3
Wallowing... FirstLight Sep 2012 #5
 

Egnever

(21,506 posts)
2. Ugh I just dont understand this incessant need to wallow in this.
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 12:33 PM
Sep 2012

Year after year.

I agree so many horrible changes to our country since that day. Which is one of the reasons it makes me really just despise this day every year. It's another excuse to drag people through this to try and justify all the garbage that has taken place since.

I think I am just going to turn off all forms of media today. I cant stomach all this rubbernecking of a ten year old tragedy.

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
3. It reminds me of those
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 12:39 PM
Sep 2012

ghoulish roadside memorials that you see all over the place. Hate those things.

FirstLight

(13,362 posts)
5. Wallowing...
Tue Sep 11, 2012, 02:22 PM
Sep 2012

I am not one of those who observes this stuff often. also, we don;t have TV, so it has not been bombarded into our home for years on the anniversary, etc...

FWIW - my kids are 10 & 9 - and I thought since THIS year in school they are talking about the elections and getting some civics information, I thought they could also do with a dose of the reality of why our world these days is the way it is. Explaining to them how we used to NOT have to be patted down before a plane trip, how basic things like our communications and police are different, and we are still at war....I want them to know about all angles of this event, because it *DID* change us, and our world....maybe not for the better.

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