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The Polack MSgt

(13,192 posts)
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 04:47 PM Feb 2020

My wife became a citizen yesterday

In a lovely ceremony in a local Junior High Gymnasium.

32 people from 20 countries from Japan to Cote De Ivoire, South Africa to Venezuela became our newest Americans, it was pretty moving TBH

High lights included an A1C from South Korea say "I came to love America as an exchange student, and today i swore my second oath, my first was my enlistment"

And I was tickled when my wife told the crowd that she can't wait to vote this November.

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My wife became a citizen yesterday (Original Post) The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 OP
How wonderful! MontanaMama Feb 2020 #1
Thank you - The school had the 7th graders in the gym to watch The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #11
What a wonderful lesson for those kids! mcar Feb 2020 #19
My SIL from China became citizen in 92. My brother's 5th grade classes attended. bobbieinok Feb 2020 #64
Our kids came to the ceremony - They are both adults born in the US so no issue there The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #73
Many many congratulations! irisblue Feb 2020 #2
Thank you Irisblue The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #10
Congratulations! Bernardo de La Paz Feb 2020 #3
Thanks man The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #5
Good for her! smirkymonkey Feb 2020 #4
Voting against the Anus was a small part of her motivation, that's true The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #7
My partner became a citizen in 2018 bluedye33139 Feb 2020 #6
Thank you so much, and belated congrats to your partner as well The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #8
Congratulations! Ohiogal Feb 2020 #9
I told her that she'll enjoy going to the Cardinals games even more now - The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #13
Oh, we are so honored and proud to welcome another citizen to our beautiful country!! Leghorn21 Feb 2020 #12
Thank you! The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #15
Congrats to you both!! InAbLuEsTaTe Feb 2020 #14
I appreciate it - She'll get a kick from the thread when she gets home The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #17
Welcome to the family! Hekate Feb 2020 #16
Wonderful. Our DIL's ceremony last year was similar and very moving. Hortensis Feb 2020 #18
Thank you for the good thoughts and congrats to your DIL a swell The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #43
Awww. Congrats to both your wife and family. Laffy Kat Feb 2020 #20
Thank you Laffy Kat The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #44
A couple of years ago two friends became citizens and I attended the ceremony MLAA Feb 2020 #21
I would second that recommendation. Looking at it from the inside - The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #45
Congrats, and whew! For you both! MLAA Feb 2020 #70
Congratulations to your better half!❤ Karadeniz Feb 2020 #22
Thanks! The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #47
Congratulations to you both. Must be proud! Anon-C Feb 2020 #23
I am proud of her - Well I always was - but this is special The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #48
Congratulations to your wife. drray23 Feb 2020 #24
Thank you The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #49
Congratulations to the both of you GeoWilliam750 Feb 2020 #25
Thank you The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #50
Best wishes! n/t PoliticAverse Feb 2020 #26
Congratulations to your wife! Dem2theMax Feb 2020 #27
That's wonderful. I find the test fascinating, most Americans dewsgirl Feb 2020 #28
People who choose to become Americans and work to do so always impress me captain queeg Feb 2020 #29
That is wonderful news! sheshe2 Feb 2020 #30
Thank you Sheshe2 The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #75
ps... sheshe2 Feb 2020 #79
I would love it -But my wife hates cooked fruit The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #80
When I get a chance will send it to you. sheshe2 Feb 2020 #86
very cool!!! samnsara Feb 2020 #31
Thanks Samnsara The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #82
Congratulations! warmfeet Feb 2020 #32
Nice! peggysue2 Feb 2020 #33
Congratulations! I know the feeling dumbcat Feb 2020 #34
Congrats back to you - And thank you The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #83
Congratulations! Joinfortmill Feb 2020 #35
Congratulations to the United States soldierant Feb 2020 #36
🇺🇸 underpants Feb 2020 #37
We are lucky she chose us! Ilsa Feb 2020 #38
Nice - congrats. nt iluvtennis Feb 2020 #39
Congrats! DashOneBravo Feb 2020 #40
Thanks LT - we appreciate it The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #41
That is wonderful news! brer cat Feb 2020 #42
good Demovictory9 Feb 2020 #46
Kickin' with gusto! Faux pas Feb 2020 #51
It's a really hard process. Congratulations to her, and I am so happy for you both! Squinch Feb 2020 #52
I would bet my SS check Trump couldn't doc03 Feb 2020 #53
Congrats Mrs. TPS! So glad you can vote now! lunasun Feb 2020 #54
Wonderful! snowybirdie Feb 2020 #55
Recommended. H2O Man Feb 2020 #56
What a lovely post. 3catwoman3 Feb 2020 #57
She was Japanese. My wife is from northwest Tokyo The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #58
Thank you for answering. 3catwoman3 Feb 2020 #59
Congrats to both of you. Very cool. panader0 Feb 2020 #60
Awesome. Congratulations and welcome to all. This is what makes America great! Evolve Dammit Feb 2020 #61
Congratulations!!!! spanone Feb 2020 #62
Congratulations! JimGinPA Feb 2020 #63
I was on the road unfortunately. - too bad too. Mike is a - The Polack MSgt Mar 2020 #110
I'm very happy for you. Please accept my wishes for a wonderful PatrickforO Feb 2020 #65
Todays Best News!! Well Done. IADEMO2004 Feb 2020 #66
Wonderful!!! MicaelS Feb 2020 #67
Congratulations to your wife!! meow2u3 Feb 2020 #68
Congrats to you both lillypaddle Feb 2020 #69
And today, our country is even better! NBachers Feb 2020 #71
Congratulations! n/t Beausoleil Feb 2020 #72
Thanks! The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #74
CONGRATS! bluestarone Feb 2020 #76
Welcome to our new voter! dawg day Feb 2020 #77
Welcome to our new voter! dawg day Feb 2020 #78
Congratulations! DAMANgoldberg Feb 2020 #81
An exciting day for all... George II Feb 2020 #84
George II I appreciate the thoughts The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #85
Congratulations to both of you! JohnnyLib2 Feb 2020 #87
Congratulations! Stonepounder Feb 2020 #88
Big congrats to her and your family! BumRushDaShow Feb 2020 #89
Thank you BRDS The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #92
My wife is now eligible for citizenship, but says she doesn't want Trump's signature... CaptainTruth Feb 2020 #90
I get that completely - I never display my retirement certificate The Polack MSgt Feb 2020 #91
Congratulations! mahina Feb 2020 #93
Sorry to sound a sour note, but how many of those would our Idiot-In-Chief regard as "s***holes" ? eppur_se_muova Feb 2020 #94
That is great! KT2000 Mar 2020 #95
Congrats to both of you! murielm99 Mar 2020 #96
Congrats! Maeve Mar 2020 #97
Congratulations! The Conductor Mar 2020 #98
Multiculturalism rules, ok? Aussie105 Mar 2020 #99
As far as "foreign" food goes, America was always one step ahead, even of Europe DFW Mar 2020 #100
Congratulations Gothmog Mar 2020 #101
My wife will never vote in America DFW Mar 2020 #102
We had been married for 30 years when she decided - The Polack MSgt Mar 2020 #103
We have one daughter here and one in the USA DFW Mar 2020 #106
Big congratulations to your wife! FM123 Mar 2020 #104
Without people like your wife we are less of a nation randr Mar 2020 #105
Congratulations!! 58Sunliner Mar 2020 #107
Wonderful!!! Congratulations to your wife!!! nt TuxedoKat Mar 2020 #108
Such good news. democrank Mar 2020 #109

MontanaMama

(23,337 posts)
1. How wonderful!
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 04:49 PM
Feb 2020

Congratulations to you and your wife. I went to a naturalization ceremony at our federal courthouse last summer. It was quite moving.

The Polack MSgt

(13,192 posts)
11. Thank you - The school had the 7th graders in the gym to watch
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 05:01 PM
Feb 2020

as part of their civics class and the band played - it was really quite nice

bobbieinok

(12,858 posts)
64. My SIL from China became citizen in 92. My brother's 5th grade classes attended.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 07:42 PM
Feb 2020

The swearing-in was in the afternoon.The school made it a school-sponsored field trip.

Brother brought their baby. Family joke that she became a US citizen before her mother did.

The Polack MSgt

(13,192 posts)
73. Our kids came to the ceremony - They are both adults born in the US so no issue there
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 08:51 PM
Feb 2020

My wife and I spent many years of my career stationed in Japan and she never felt that she needed to become a US citizen - But 2 years ago we visited Japan for 2 weeks and she decided we'd never live there again.

Then the cheeto started making threatening noises about legal immigrants being deport able for nonsense reasons and she SOOOO wants to vote against him

So she started the process, and I of course tried to help - but mostly I just stayed out of her way

The Polack MSgt

(13,192 posts)
5. Thanks man
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 04:55 PM
Feb 2020

She's pretty happy and relieved the process is done.

It is a pretty hard process to slog through - even for my never been in trouble, married for 30 years, mom of 2 adult children wife.

bluedye33139

(1,474 posts)
6. My partner became a citizen in 2018
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 04:56 PM
Feb 2020

He was comfortable being a legal permanent resident until the Trump administration. Then, he decided that being more involved with the country he was going to live in for the rest of his life was called for it. It was a really magical day for us. Happy vibes to you both!

The Polack MSgt

(13,192 posts)
13. I told her that she'll enjoy going to the Cardinals games even more now -
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 05:03 PM
Feb 2020

And it's time to learn to like Apple Pie. I can't understand why she dislikes it, but that has to change now

Leghorn21

(13,526 posts)
12. Oh, we are so honored and proud to welcome another citizen to our beautiful country!!
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 05:02 PM
Feb 2020

Congrats to you both, MSgt!!

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
18. Wonderful. Our DIL's ceremony last year was similar and very moving.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 05:06 PM
Feb 2020

People from around the world hopefully finally ending what for many must have been hard, long journeys. She'd lived here since she was a child and only finally became a citizen because our little grandson was terrified that she'd be arrested and taken away.

My husband and I have early-voted our best effort to keep them all safe. Which they are not as long as the fascistic nativist RW dominates government.

MLAA

(17,329 posts)
21. A couple of years ago two friends became citizens and I attended the ceremony
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 05:17 PM
Feb 2020

I wasn’t prepared for how emotional it was! What a wonderful experience. If you haven’t attended one, I suggest going once even if you don’t know anyone.

The Polack MSgt

(13,192 posts)
45. I would second that recommendation. Looking at it from the inside -
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 06:39 PM
Feb 2020

My wife and I as we went through the process lost sight of the bigger picture...

But seeing a group of strangers decide to join us and begin a new life as Americans is touching to see

drray23

(7,637 posts)
24. Congratulations to your wife.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 05:43 PM
Feb 2020

A month ago I was invited to be the guest speaker at a naturalization ceremony here in Norfolk, VA. I immediately said yes. It was a great privilege to address new citizens and wish them well.

Dem2theMax

(9,653 posts)
27. Congratulations to your wife!
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 05:50 PM
Feb 2020

This post really brought a smile to my face.

And I saw up thread that she doesn't like apple pie. I can eat her share until she gets used to it.


dewsgirl

(14,961 posts)
28. That's wonderful. I find the test fascinating, most Americans
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 05:52 PM
Feb 2020

I know couldn't pass it. They failed a Swiss ice cream vendor with a question about bears and wolves being enclosed together at the zoo.
Congrats to you both.

captain queeg

(10,242 posts)
29. People who choose to become Americans and work to do so always impress me
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 05:53 PM
Feb 2020

I’ll bet she knows more about the US than most koolaid drinking Trumpsters.

sheshe2

(83,902 posts)
79. ps...
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 08:59 PM
Feb 2020

I have an apple pie recipe your wife might adore. Not a traditional one...yet to die for. It has a crumb crust and the apples tossed with sour cream and other stuff. I have won contests with it.

The Polack MSgt

(13,192 posts)
80. I would love it -But my wife hates cooked fruit
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 09:03 PM
Feb 2020

Baked apples or stewed plums and any fruit pie - she is against 'em all


When I go on the road for my job I eat cobblers and pies every chance I get

soldierant

(6,926 posts)
36. Congratulations to the United States
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 06:02 PM
Feb 2020

on the acquisition of such wonderful people.

And of course warmest wishes to you and your wife for your continued happiness!

3catwoman3

(24,046 posts)
57. What a lovely post.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 07:01 PM
Feb 2020

Celebrate with joy!

If it is not too personal, which of the 20 countries did she come from? )Of course, do not answer if you prefer not to.)

3catwoman3

(24,046 posts)
59. Thank you for answering.
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 07:11 PM
Feb 2020

I spent 2 vey happy years in Japan, on my second active duty tour while in the Air Force nurse corps, at Yokohama Air Base. Met my husband there - we were next door neighbors in the BOQ.

I collected a number of woodblock prints and water colors while there, as well as Imari ware and sake sets, so I am reminded every day of my time there. We went often to Tokyo. Always took the train - too chicken to drive.

JimGinPA

(14,811 posts)
63. Congratulations!
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 07:42 PM
Feb 2020

We haven't chatted for a while. I wondered if you went to Mike Zito's Tribute to Chuck Berry a couple weeks ago. I looked for you...



The Polack MSgt

(13,192 posts)
110. I was on the road unfortunately. - too bad too. Mike is a -
Mon Mar 2, 2020, 09:38 AM
Mar 2020

Last edited Mon Mar 2, 2020, 02:01 PM - Edit history (1)

Reliably good show

My wife and I have tickets for Stephen Marley at the Old Rock House. He's doing acoustic, stripped down versions of his and some of his father's music.

Really looking forward to it.

ETA: April 5th - I believe tickets are still available

DAMANgoldberg

(1,278 posts)
81. Congratulations!
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 09:03 PM
Feb 2020

As I went through the postings so far in this thread, I literally felt shivers throughout my body. These are the stories of people who still think we are part of one of the greatest countries on earth despite current "leadership". Gives me hope for the future.

Again, welcome to the US family!

George II

(67,782 posts)
84. An exciting day for all...
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 09:05 PM
Feb 2020

I can remember about 50 years ago when my mother was sworn in, the whole family was in court for the ceremony.

Congratulations to your wife and you.

Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
88. Congratulations!
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 09:14 PM
Feb 2020

It's a big step and it is what (normally) makes America great. And a big shout out to your wife. Welcome to the good, the bad, and the ugly of being a US Citizen (and it is mainly Good!).

BumRushDaShow

(129,470 posts)
89. Big congrats to her and your family!
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 09:29 PM
Feb 2020


I know that is a big load off your minds given the current administration's nativism.

CaptainTruth

(6,601 posts)
90. My wife is now eligible for citizenship, but says she doesn't want Trump's signature...
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 09:40 PM
Feb 2020

...on her citizenship certificate.

The Polack MSgt

(13,192 posts)
91. I get that completely - I never display my retirement certificate
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 09:43 PM
Feb 2020

Because of fucking W's signature, and My wife is freaked out by his weird saw blade adderall spasm of a signature.

But she gets to vote against his orangeness now at least

eppur_se_muova

(36,289 posts)
94. Sorry to sound a sour note, but how many of those would our Idiot-In-Chief regard as "s***holes" ?
Sat Feb 29, 2020, 11:48 PM
Feb 2020

How many of these people were Norwegian, and thus acceptable to his "base" ?

You got to see (and share in) what some 40% of Americans think should be reserved for only the "right kind" of people. If they had their way, most of those people wouldn't have been there. 45 has even created an office for denaturalization of immigrants who have gained citizenship.

I know all at DU are aware of this, but we need to remind ourselves how many of our friends and colleagues -- and even family -- wouldn't be here if the MAGAts had their way.

The Conductor

(180 posts)
98. Congratulations!
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 06:50 AM
Mar 2020

That is thrilling to hear... One of my responses to Don the Con and his anti-immigrant bigotry cult has been to assist as many people as I can in passing U.S. citizenship. That includes a friend from Japan who had been here some 30 years, but who felt really vulnerable as a non-citizen after her husband died.

Real Americans do not look like the Trump clan and their cargo cult. Real Americans come in an assortment of colors, cultures and beliefs. That's the America I want to live in.

Aussie105

(5,434 posts)
99. Multiculturalism rules, ok?
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 07:36 AM
Mar 2020

It enrichens all our lives.

Why some people feel threatened by it, is a serious question I can't answer.

Just the different foods different cultures brought to Australia over the 60 years I've lived here has convinced me.

I'm sure America is the same.

DFW

(54,437 posts)
100. As far as "foreign" food goes, America was always one step ahead, even of Europe
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 07:56 AM
Mar 2020

I had my first Chinese food at age 7, and that was in Virginia, on the east coast. While in my early teens, I was introduced to Thai, Korean, Indian, Scandinavian, Lebanese and Creole (Caribbean) food. That is not a full list. Food from almost everywhere in Europe, including France, Spain, Italy, Greece, Yugoslavia, Russia, and, finally, Turkey and the rest of the Middle East.

While I was in college in Philadelphia, I used to play music for a café-restaurant run by Assyrians. I wasn't aware that these people still even existed. I had learned about Ashubannipal and Ziggurats in Ancient History classes like everybody else, but had no clue these people were still thriving. To me, it was like having a face-to-face meeting with a coelacanth. Their food was pretty good, too.

My wife, who is from Germany, never even tasted her first pizza until she was 19, and all the oriental food was unknown to her until I intruduced her to them.

DFW

(54,437 posts)
102. My wife will never vote in America
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 08:01 AM
Mar 2020

She is perfectly fine with her identity as a German, and has no inclination to seek American citizenship, as she has no reason to want to live there. She also respects my decision to keep my American citizenship, would never dream of asking me to give it up. Our daughters have both nationalities, as is their birthright, and have no intention of giving up either. They proudly cast their votes for the Democratic candidate in every presidential election, and have done so every time since they were of legal voting age.

The Polack MSgt

(13,192 posts)
103. We had been married for 30 years when she decided -
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 08:28 AM
Mar 2020

To apply.

So I understand both sides of the question.

Had I found a good position in Japan after I retired from the Air Force she would likely never have applied for citizenship.

But we sank roots here in the corn fields and she came to feel more like an American than a resident of America.

It took quite a while to reach that decision DFW. If your family lives in Europe and always expects to, I'm not sure what would lead your wife to apply.

DFW

(54,437 posts)
106. We have one daughter here and one in the USA
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 10:00 AM
Mar 2020

Our elder daughter lives in New York, and says she's home. She grew up here in the Rheinland, but she had always loved visiting New York City, even as a small child, just to visit with my grandfather when he was still alive. He lived to be 102, so my girls had a great grandfather for longer than many western kids do.

My brother was stationed in Japan for a while, and met his wife there as well. She was a bank teller then, and in those days, that was about as high as she could ever hope to rise, career-wise. She went back with him to Washington, and they had to get married if she was going to stay there, so they did (even invited us to take part as active participants, so we had a double wedding that looked like the UN General Assembly). No longer constrained by 1980s Japanese social norms for women, she was a vice-director of the World Bank in Washington within 10 years. Her responsibility was (surprise, surprise) the Asia desk. Because of my brother's security clearance, she was forced to take U.S. citizenship, something she had not been intending to do. But she never planned to live in Japan again, either, so she wasn't bothered by anything other than the paperwork.

My wife is very protective of her identity as a German and a European. If, for any reason, we were ever to move back to the USA permanently, she would seek a green card, but never citizenship.

FM123

(10,054 posts)
104. Big congratulations to your wife!
Sun Mar 1, 2020, 09:28 AM
Mar 2020

I was just a child when my mom was naturalized but I remember how magical and moving it felt to me, even then.....

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