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imanamerican63

(13,798 posts)
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 11:43 AM Feb 2020

Most of you all know that I drive a truck for living?

I just check into a customer for whom I am delivering to! The guy who checked me in was very nice and I didn’t have a problem with him at all. But a guy in line was getting frustrated because it took awhile to check me in. There was an issue with some minor paperwork. As I turned to leave the window, the same guy in line yelled “hurry up you f’ing spick”. I was about to say that was uncalled for, but other drivers told him to shut up! He start to say something about Trump, again he was told to shut up! By this time the general manager came out and told the the man to leave. He looked around and stormed out! Just ridiculous way to try to start something & in the end he was f’ing idiot!

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Most of you all know that I drive a truck for living? (Original Post) imanamerican63 Feb 2020 OP
Jeez! I'm sorry you had to experience that Dennis Donovan Feb 2020 #1
He wasn't talking to me! imanamerican63 Feb 2020 #4
Ah! Well, I'm sorry you had to witness it Dennis Donovan Feb 2020 #11
Kick dalton99a Feb 2020 #2
You can also tell that guy was a Trumper. He says to hurry up, when iman was leaving the window. TheBlackAdder Feb 2020 #53
So sorry you had to face that ugliness MaryMagdaline Feb 2020 #3
See my response! imanamerican63 Feb 2020 #5
Got it. STILL sorry you had to face that ugliness MaryMagdaline Feb 2020 #6
True! imanamerican63 Feb 2020 #8
That sucks that anyone would say that to you or anybody! MuseRider Feb 2020 #7
It sucks... 2naSalit Feb 2020 #9
Completely understand! imanamerican63 Feb 2020 #10
I was able to pull it off for 15 years... 2naSalit Feb 2020 #36
I've never understood why guys are like that. When I was a kid, sometimes guys would PatrickforO Feb 2020 #48
It's all about time. If you have an event 2naSalit Feb 2020 #50
Yeah, I'll go with that. Things in this country are pretty far from being OK PatrickforO Feb 2020 #51
You rock! I love women like you. lunatica Feb 2020 #54
Well I tried... 2naSalit Feb 2020 #55
I like to say to people lunatica Feb 2020 #56
why is their go-to always racist? barbtries Feb 2020 #12
The hard working clerk behind the counter is their greatest threat MaryMagdaline Feb 2020 #13
lol barbtries Feb 2020 #35
Ha! Reminds you of anyone, eh? I thought immediately of rump (being such a zero by mocking... SWBTATTReg Feb 2020 #30
It's probably only half or less who are like that. 2naSalit Feb 2020 #37
that's good to know. barbtries Feb 2020 #38
It was worth it over all 2naSalit Feb 2020 #39
I love the Seal of the 45th POTUS you have on your signature line. PatrickforO Feb 2020 #46
I stole it from 2naSalit Feb 2020 #49
People who use terms like this Scarsdale Feb 2020 #14
It's always the supremacists who overwhelmingly prove their inferiority. CaptYossarian Feb 2020 #15
Caravans arrived❤️❤️ Traildogbob Feb 2020 #16
I bet you turn on druggie limbaugh today and TxVietVet Feb 2020 #19
You are correct Traildogbob Feb 2020 #22
Have a few of them in the family. The women were howling and the men trying to figure how to get appleannie1 Feb 2020 #42
I'm sorry you were subjected to that abuse. I'm glad you had support. 58Sunliner Feb 2020 #17
You didn't deserve that Rider3 Feb 2020 #18
There's a lot of anger and hatred out there. patphil Feb 2020 #20
One of tRumps "soldiers" along with his "bikers" & "cops" that will back him up when he refuses to yaesu Feb 2020 #21
I'm sorry JohnnyRingo Feb 2020 #23
Play this situation out in your mind if Rump wins this year. NoMoreRepugs Feb 2020 #24
It'll be worse RVN VET71 Feb 2020 #25
You are SOOO right!!! not_the_one Feb 2020 #27
My thought too. Just wish more here realize that NoMoreRepugs Feb 2020 #34
You are a hit with the primitives brokephibroke Feb 2020 #26
You had a great day. Wellstone ruled Feb 2020 #28
beautiful!! subana Feb 2020 #29
Raised wrong. Karadeniz Feb 2020 #31
it's a virus... stillcool Feb 2020 #32
I always knew truckers as a group are not to be messed with, and you just confirmed this again. ... SWBTATTReg Feb 2020 #33
I am so sorry you were treated that way. redstatebluegirl Feb 2020 #40
the slur is "spic", letters from "hispanic" Skittles Feb 2020 #41
I didn't know what a "spick" is and had to read the comments. BigmanPigman Feb 2020 #43
Sorry you experienced this Joinfortmill Feb 2020 #44
These Trumpers are Storm Front nazis all the way. PatrickforO Feb 2020 #45
Hey fellow trucker, dware Feb 2020 #47
That's typical trumplove life .Racist angry rants that lead to people being repulsed and asking the lunasun Feb 2020 #52
"Most of you all know that I drive a truck for living?" left-of-center2012 Feb 2020 #57
I was a Receiver for 20+ years Sherman A1 Feb 2020 #58

imanamerican63

(13,798 posts)
4. He wasn't talking to me!
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 11:49 AM
Feb 2020

He was directing it toward the the receiver at the window who was Hispanic. I messed up!

MaryMagdaline

(6,855 posts)
6. Got it. STILL sorry you had to face that ugliness
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 11:53 AM
Feb 2020

Hurts almost as much when directed to another good person

MuseRider

(34,111 posts)
7. That sucks that anyone would say that to you or anybody!
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 11:54 AM
Feb 2020

I feel badly about this. I am heartened that others spoke up for you and that the GM told him to leave. I do not know where you are but find it hard to even believe (I believe you I am just speaking in general) this ever happens. Have a better day!

I just saw your explanation. Still, nobody should have to hear this. Still sorry, still wish you a better day!

2naSalit

(86,646 posts)
9. It sucks...
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 11:55 AM
Feb 2020

But you should have seen what I went through as a woman back in the 70s and 80s which included sabotage to my vehicle a number of times cutting hoses and belts, slashing tires and pulling the lock of the 5th wheel along with the verbal taunts. It wasn't pretty. I was often propositioned for sex and told I should be home making babies... by dock foremen.

Once they saw me back the trailer in and start hefting the freight, they'd shut up, some of them. What really killed them was when I would throw freight in a skirt after backing my shiny rig into the door and no guys showed up to handle the business on the dock 'cuz I was alone.

Sorry, one guy being stupid verbally is small potatoes. I hope the rest of your day goes well and you don't have too much bad roads when this snow storm gets where you are.

2naSalit

(86,646 posts)
36. I was able to pull it off for 15 years...
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 03:38 PM
Feb 2020

I educated a bunch of drivers that way and I could back it in better than most as well. I had good instructors when I was learning. But I also ran the business end rather well too and I threw my own freight most of the time which really made everyone get quiet while I was showing them that I could do the job better than they could, and in a skirt.

It wasn't all male drivers who were like that, many were very respectful too. Waitresses in truck stops would often assume that I was working the parking lot outside and would act as though they couldn't see me at the table in the drivers' section of the restaurant. The guys would start looking at me. So I would just look at them and ask, "What? Am I invisible?" And someone would always say, "Nope, I can see you." Then I'd ask, "Well how come she can't?" At which point they'd get on the waitress' case and she'd begrudgingly come over and take my order.

It was always a thing back then, I had to deal with it nearly every day and I pretty much became something like a stand up comedian with all the responses I learned to give in order to direct the conversation to higher ground or outright put someone in their place for being an asshole. There was at least one a day.

The only thing I miss nowadays is once in a while I'd like to get behind the wheel and take a couple hundred mile spin just because I like to drive them, I just don't want to make it a job anymore. Glad I'm retired from the workforce entirely now, too old and worn out to get really into the physical demands.

PatrickforO

(14,576 posts)
48. I've never understood why guys are like that. When I was a kid, sometimes guys would
Tue Feb 4, 2020, 12:22 AM
Feb 2020

act like fools when mom was driving us somewhere - cutting her off or whatever.

But to cut your hoses and belts...why in the heck would anyone want to do that to somebody? Sometimes I just don't get the hate.

2naSalit

(86,646 posts)
50. It's all about time. If you have an event
Tue Feb 4, 2020, 12:31 AM
Feb 2020

that takes up time by keeping you from rolling down the road, you're losing $$. If you own your rig, something like that can sink you, and that's what they were trying to do. I also had nice vehicles and a lot of the time I went really fast so if I had a flat or something, I could still make up the time by kicking in the afterburners. And they usually got told on by somebody who saw them so I would actually catch and sue them, happened three times.

It was a totally different culture rolling around the country 24/7/365. There were good things to learn and experience, I got to see the whole country where the roads are. And I had the ability to be all alone out in the middle of nowhere. It was a very different life. Now I'm retired and still not liking the way things are in this place people tell me is normal...

PatrickforO

(14,576 posts)
51. Yeah, I'll go with that. Things in this country are pretty far from being OK
Tue Feb 4, 2020, 01:00 AM
Feb 2020

and are certainly not normal. You're not alone with that cognitive dissonance.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
56. I like to say to people
Tue Feb 4, 2020, 03:01 AM
Feb 2020

that even God doesn’t ask anyone to do more than their best.

I’m an atheist, but it’s the thought that I like to get across.

barbtries

(28,798 posts)
12. why is their go-to always racist?
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 11:57 AM
Feb 2020

they got nothing that's why. imagine being such a zero that you can only prop yourself up by denigrating others, not for any good reason, but for the way they look.
it's encouraging that a bunch of truckers lit on him. i tend to think of them rolling down the highway with rush limbaugh for company all the time.

MaryMagdaline

(6,855 posts)
13. The hard working clerk behind the counter is their greatest threat
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 12:01 PM
Feb 2020

Someone coming along and “taking” a job, ie, earning a living. Their whiteness is all they have. Guy behind counter was probably good looking, too

SWBTATTReg

(22,133 posts)
30. Ha! Reminds you of anyone, eh? I thought immediately of rump (being such a zero by mocking...
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 02:05 PM
Feb 2020

others)...good point by you!!

2naSalit

(86,646 posts)
37. It's probably only half or less who are like that.
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 03:42 PM
Feb 2020

But they never miss an opportunity to let you know what they are all about.

I know and knew quite a few progressives who were drivers, back when I still knew any drivers.

ETA: And then there is the misogyny too, they always pull that out whenever they think it's worth it.

2naSalit

(86,646 posts)
39. It was worth it over all
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 03:54 PM
Feb 2020

because I knew I was smarter than most of them and could outsmart them regularly. I had my personal freedom in ways most only dream of so I don't complain about the good parts. The worst was usually people who have very small minds.

PatrickforO

(14,576 posts)
46. I love the Seal of the 45th POTUS you have on your signature line.
Tue Feb 4, 2020, 12:18 AM
Feb 2020

A nice rotten tomato splat.

Trump IS a real stink bomb. Not even the worst of the B movies is as bad as him.

2naSalit

(86,646 posts)
49. I stole it from
Tue Feb 4, 2020, 12:22 AM
Feb 2020

the daily TOONS posted here. It's a Bennett cartoon.

I had a different one that was a little crude for a while and after impeachment happened this cartoon was created. I thought it was perfect so I inserted it into my sig line.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
14. People who use terms like this
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 12:09 PM
Feb 2020

are really feeling inadequate. Calling others nasty names makes them feel more "manly" Look at the example we have in the WH. So inadequate in EVERY way. He is a joke. A lardass with spray on tan, no intelligence, no class, nothing to brag about at all. He thinks he is something special, but even his wife does not care for him. He certainly can not put a smile on her face, can he?

CaptYossarian

(6,448 posts)
15. It's always the supremacists who overwhelmingly prove their inferiority.
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 12:12 PM
Feb 2020

It's why I call the MAGA hat a Dunce Cap.

Traildogbob

(8,748 posts)
16. Caravans arrived❤️❤️
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 12:12 PM
Feb 2020

You know the trump pigs spewed Budweiser everywhere at the Latino filled halftime show. And the evilgelicals stroked over the butt shaking. Tear down the wall. We need much more of that Latino genetic beauty and talent. TRumpers should be deported to Putin's world. Wallow in the pure whiteness.

TxVietVet

(1,905 posts)
19. I bet you turn on druggie limbaugh today and
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 12:22 PM
Feb 2020

he'll be raving about how insulting all the commercials were and how disrespectful the Puerto Rican/American flag was. The way I see it. the whole show poked the conservanazis in the eye with a sharp stick. I'm guessing many conservanazis were howling about not watching the NFL anymore.

I enjoyed the game and commercials very much.

Traildogbob

(8,748 posts)
22. You are correct
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 12:36 PM
Feb 2020

But.......I will never turn on Rusty Limpballs. I too saw little digs all throughout the adds. And...on Fox? Latino Kids in cages dancing. One best dig was pre game about the old ragged Flag, When the medal was awarded to the Marine. The narrator stated the President awards the medal......and as the camera moved upward, it was President Barrack Obama. Surprised they did not Rush Twitler back to the hospital for another stroke.

appleannie1

(5,067 posts)
42. Have a few of them in the family. The women were howling and the men trying to figure how to get
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 07:21 PM
Feb 2020

a better look without their wives realizing they were enthralled by the show.

patphil

(6,182 posts)
20. There's a lot of anger and hatred out there.
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 12:34 PM
Feb 2020

Fundamentally, those people are very unhappy, so they look for situations and/or people to unload on.
I'm not trying to excuse them, they're first class jerks, but they are a product of the times we live in.
It's unhappy, angry people who elected Trump, and want to keep him there because they know he pisses so many people off.
In their crazy-ass world, that gives them a sense of satisfaction.

Still, it's no fun to go through, especially for the guy behind the window.

yaesu

(8,020 posts)
21. One of tRumps "soldiers" along with his "bikers" & "cops" that will back him up when he refuses to
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 12:36 PM
Feb 2020

leave the WH.

NoMoreRepugs

(9,435 posts)
24. Play this situation out in your mind if Rump wins this year.
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 12:44 PM
Feb 2020

The goober n gomer Deplorables will be so emboldened this kind of situation will be commonplace and mild compared to the potential dumbfuckery that WILL happen.

RVN VET71

(2,692 posts)
25. It'll be worse
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 01:31 PM
Feb 2020

We'll be looking back to the good old days when all you had to worry about were racist rants and expletives. Remember: They have guns and ropes and gasoline cans, and want so badly to use them on real Americans. All it will take is an enabling spark on Election Day, a second Trump victory to signal the emergence of a real white-power state.

If we don't kick all of the suckers out of positions of power, from Trump on down to the least influential local politician, we're screwed. GOTV!

 

not_the_one

(2,227 posts)
27. You are SOOO right!!!
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 01:42 PM
Feb 2020

We can't just concentrate on the top of the ballot, we have to throw the shits out, all down the line.

The turd has been enabled by state governments that have been taken over by repubs, although in many cases they are a minority of the population. THAT is what gerrymandering is all about.

I believe you should always vote for the person, but this election is so critical that, for once, vote party line, down the whole ballot.

Paper ballot, I hope. And take a photo of it, or the screen, or the scannable ballot. We may need it.

NoMoreRepugs

(9,435 posts)
34. My thought too. Just wish more here realize that
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 02:37 PM
Feb 2020

we need to do WHATEVER it takes to win - it literally is a war.

 

Wellstone ruled

(34,661 posts)
28. You had a great day.
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 01:48 PM
Feb 2020

Worked the Receiving Dock a few times back in the day. Yah from time to time,you will get a Stupid Turd Driver. Once you pull their dock time or door,they end up at the back of the line unless it is something Hot that was needed for Order picking or a Hot shot. The next time the Stupid shows up,he usually is pretty damn meek.

Seems there are just a hand full of People who want to be a total Stupid Turd and mess up everyone else's day.

subana

(586 posts)
29. beautiful!!
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 01:56 PM
Feb 2020

my dad was a truck driver, he drove a semi all of his life! It's nice to know truck drivers still value things like supporting each other, even while some do not.

stillcool

(32,626 posts)
32. it's a virus...
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 02:09 PM
Feb 2020

low information voters are highly susceptible, and often pass the illness on to others. There is a cure, but it's not available until November. I hear there are many people working very hard to eradicate it, but there are roadblocks. There are those who believe that the virus contains properties that are beneficial to a small percentage of the population. I'm glad you didn't get too close. Stay alert, stay safe, and if you see someone displaying symptoms, it is suggested to keep your distance and let them flame-out.

SWBTATTReg

(22,133 posts)
33. I always knew truckers as a group are not to be messed with, and you just confirmed this again. ...
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 02:14 PM
Feb 2020

Good for you all.

What ever happened to those that practice good manners, that instead of mouthing off at others, simply wait patiently your turn.

Some people have a gutter mouth, and need to be told this (unfortunately since some of us don't see the 'light').

Thanks for sharing the story and keep on trucking!

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
40. I am so sorry you were treated that way.
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 04:51 PM
Feb 2020

My uncle Ralph was a long haul trucker for 40 years until he became to ill to drive. You guys are the hardest working people around, plus you miss your family a lot of the time.

Keep on truckin, the country runs on what you do!

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
41. the slur is "spic", letters from "hispanic"
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 05:06 PM
Feb 2020

great reactions - never remain silent when you see or hear racism

BigmanPigman

(51,609 posts)
43. I didn't know what a "spick" is and had to read the comments.
Mon Feb 3, 2020, 07:31 PM
Feb 2020

Whenever I hear derogatory names (on TV, old shows and movies)aimed at a certain group I rarely know who they are referring to. I guess I am lucky that no one I knew or my family knew used names like that. I could have been insulted and not even known I was at the time.

PatrickforO

(14,576 posts)
45. These Trumpers are Storm Front nazis all the way.
Tue Feb 4, 2020, 12:17 AM
Feb 2020

This is fucking disgusting.

Good for the rest of those truckers who told the guy to shut up. Geez.

dware

(12,397 posts)
47. Hey fellow trucker,
Tue Feb 4, 2020, 12:19 AM
Feb 2020

I've run into a few assholes like that also, they think they're so important and they should be waited on hand and foot.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
52. That's typical trumplove life .Racist angry rants that lead to people being repulsed and asking the
Tue Feb 4, 2020, 01:03 AM
Feb 2020

Magat to GTFO of the place now
Sorry you were working and had to witness that boob start up but it ended well
Resist !

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
58. I was a Receiver for 20+ years
Tue Feb 4, 2020, 06:51 AM
Feb 2020

I would have told the guy to leave at the minute he spouted off. Then he could explain to his boss why he was returning with the load on the back of his truck. He definitely failed the attitude test.

I worked hard to get my drivers in and out as quickly as possible every day but there were times that everyone showed up at once and they had to be patient. Most we on overlapping routes and knew each other so they would work together to help each other as they could get through the day.

There was one day we had a substitute driver for a chip company delivering and he was ogling a beverage merchandiser who was stacking a pallet of Pepsi while she was bending over. He made the mistake of commenting to me that, “she has a great a##.” I responded, looking over the top of my glasses, that she is a hard worker and I consider all the young ladies working back here just as I would my daughter, as I handed him his paperwork and told him it was time to leave now.

I wouldn’t allow anyone to be disrespected in my back room if I could help it.

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