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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMost of you all know that I drive a truck for living?
I just check into a customer for whom I am delivering to! The guy who checked me in was very nice and I didnt have a problem with him at all. But a guy in line was getting frustrated because it took awhile to check me in. There was an issue with some minor paperwork. As I turned to leave the window, the same guy in line yelled hurry up you fing spick. I was about to say that was uncalled for, but other drivers told him to shut up! He start to say something about Trump, again he was told to shut up! By this time the general manager came out and told the the man to leave. He looked around and stormed out! Just ridiculous way to try to start something & in the end he was fing idiot!
Dennis Donovan
(18,770 posts)imanamerican63
(13,798 posts)He was directing it toward the the receiver at the window who was Hispanic. I messed up!
Dennis Donovan
(18,770 posts)I'd be tempted to slug such an idiot.
dalton99a
(81,515 posts)TheBlackAdder
(28,208 posts)MaryMagdaline
(6,855 posts)Glad the other drivers spoke up but still
imanamerican63
(13,798 posts)My bad
MaryMagdaline
(6,855 posts)Hurts almost as much when directed to another good person
imanamerican63
(13,798 posts)MuseRider
(34,111 posts)I feel badly about this. I am heartened that others spoke up for you and that the GM told him to leave. I do not know where you are but find it hard to even believe (I believe you I am just speaking in general) this ever happens. Have a better day!
I just saw your explanation. Still, nobody should have to hear this. Still sorry, still wish you a better day!
2naSalit
(86,646 posts)But you should have seen what I went through as a woman back in the 70s and 80s which included sabotage to my vehicle a number of times cutting hoses and belts, slashing tires and pulling the lock of the 5th wheel along with the verbal taunts. It wasn't pretty. I was often propositioned for sex and told I should be home making babies... by dock foremen.
Once they saw me back the trailer in and start hefting the freight, they'd shut up, some of them. What really killed them was when I would throw freight in a skirt after backing my shiny rig into the door and no guys showed up to handle the business on the dock 'cuz I was alone.
Sorry, one guy being stupid verbally is small potatoes. I hope the rest of your day goes well and you don't have too much bad roads when this snow storm gets where you are.
imanamerican63
(13,798 posts)Sorry you had to endure this too!
2naSalit
(86,646 posts)I educated a bunch of drivers that way and I could back it in better than most as well. I had good instructors when I was learning. But I also ran the business end rather well too and I threw my own freight most of the time which really made everyone get quiet while I was showing them that I could do the job better than they could, and in a skirt.
It wasn't all male drivers who were like that, many were very respectful too. Waitresses in truck stops would often assume that I was working the parking lot outside and would act as though they couldn't see me at the table in the drivers' section of the restaurant. The guys would start looking at me. So I would just look at them and ask, "What? Am I invisible?" And someone would always say, "Nope, I can see you." Then I'd ask, "Well how come she can't?" At which point they'd get on the waitress' case and she'd begrudgingly come over and take my order.
It was always a thing back then, I had to deal with it nearly every day and I pretty much became something like a stand up comedian with all the responses I learned to give in order to direct the conversation to higher ground or outright put someone in their place for being an asshole. There was at least one a day.
The only thing I miss nowadays is once in a while I'd like to get behind the wheel and take a couple hundred mile spin just because I like to drive them, I just don't want to make it a job anymore. Glad I'm retired from the workforce entirely now, too old and worn out to get really into the physical demands.
PatrickforO
(14,576 posts)act like fools when mom was driving us somewhere - cutting her off or whatever.
But to cut your hoses and belts...why in the heck would anyone want to do that to somebody? Sometimes I just don't get the hate.
2naSalit
(86,646 posts)that takes up time by keeping you from rolling down the road, you're losing $$. If you own your rig, something like that can sink you, and that's what they were trying to do. I also had nice vehicles and a lot of the time I went really fast so if I had a flat or something, I could still make up the time by kicking in the afterburners. And they usually got told on by somebody who saw them so I would actually catch and sue them, happened three times.
It was a totally different culture rolling around the country 24/7/365. There were good things to learn and experience, I got to see the whole country where the roads are. And I had the ability to be all alone out in the middle of nowhere. It was a very different life. Now I'm retired and still not liking the way things are in this place people tell me is normal...
PatrickforO
(14,576 posts)and are certainly not normal. You're not alone with that cognitive dissonance.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)You give us women a good name!
2naSalit
(86,646 posts)and I had to survive. It was good money while it lasted.
lunatica
(53,410 posts)that even God doesnt ask anyone to do more than their best.
Im an atheist, but its the thought that I like to get across.
barbtries
(28,798 posts)they got nothing that's why. imagine being such a zero that you can only prop yourself up by denigrating others, not for any good reason, but for the way they look.
it's encouraging that a bunch of truckers lit on him. i tend to think of them rolling down the highway with rush limbaugh for company all the time.
MaryMagdaline
(6,855 posts)Someone coming along and taking a job, ie, earning a living. Their whiteness is all they have. Guy behind counter was probably good looking, too
barbtries
(28,798 posts)ugly is as ugly does
SWBTATTReg
(22,133 posts)others)...good point by you!!
2naSalit
(86,646 posts)But they never miss an opportunity to let you know what they are all about.
I know and knew quite a few progressives who were drivers, back when I still knew any drivers.
ETA: And then there is the misogyny too, they always pull that out whenever they think it's worth it.
barbtries
(28,798 posts)i read your post about what you endured being a female trucker. sigh.
2naSalit
(86,646 posts)because I knew I was smarter than most of them and could outsmart them regularly. I had my personal freedom in ways most only dream of so I don't complain about the good parts. The worst was usually people who have very small minds.
PatrickforO
(14,576 posts)A nice rotten tomato splat.
Trump IS a real stink bomb. Not even the worst of the B movies is as bad as him.
2naSalit
(86,646 posts)the daily TOONS posted here. It's a Bennett cartoon.
I had a different one that was a little crude for a while and after impeachment happened this cartoon was created. I thought it was perfect so I inserted it into my sig line.
Scarsdale
(9,426 posts)are really feeling inadequate. Calling others nasty names makes them feel more "manly" Look at the example we have in the WH. So inadequate in EVERY way. He is a joke. A lardass with spray on tan, no intelligence, no class, nothing to brag about at all. He thinks he is something special, but even his wife does not care for him. He certainly can not put a smile on her face, can he?
CaptYossarian
(6,448 posts)It's why I call the MAGA hat a Dunce Cap.
Traildogbob
(8,748 posts)You know the trump pigs spewed Budweiser everywhere at the Latino filled halftime show. And the evilgelicals stroked over the butt shaking. Tear down the wall. We need much more of that Latino genetic beauty and talent. TRumpers should be deported to Putin's world. Wallow in the pure whiteness.
TxVietVet
(1,905 posts)he'll be raving about how insulting all the commercials were and how disrespectful the Puerto Rican/American flag was. The way I see it. the whole show poked the conservanazis in the eye with a sharp stick. I'm guessing many conservanazis were howling about not watching the NFL anymore.
I enjoyed the game and commercials very much.
Traildogbob
(8,748 posts)But.......I will never turn on Rusty Limpballs. I too saw little digs all throughout the adds. And...on Fox? Latino Kids in cages dancing. One best dig was pre game about the old ragged Flag, When the medal was awarded to the Marine. The narrator stated the President awards the medal......and as the camera moved upward, it was President Barrack Obama. Surprised they did not Rush Twitler back to the hospital for another stroke.
appleannie1
(5,067 posts)a better look without their wives realizing they were enthralled by the show.
58Sunliner
(4,386 posts)Rider3
(919 posts)I'm sorry for peoples' ignorance. There's too much out there.
patphil
(6,182 posts)Fundamentally, those people are very unhappy, so they look for situations and/or people to unload on.
I'm not trying to excuse them, they're first class jerks, but they are a product of the times we live in.
It's unhappy, angry people who elected Trump, and want to keep him there because they know he pisses so many people off.
In their crazy-ass world, that gives them a sense of satisfaction.
Still, it's no fun to go through, especially for the guy behind the window.
yaesu
(8,020 posts)leave the WH.
JohnnyRingo
(18,636 posts)you should know people like that are an embarrassment to the majority of white people.
NoMoreRepugs
(9,435 posts)The goober n gomer Deplorables will be so emboldened this kind of situation will be commonplace and mild compared to the potential dumbfuckery that WILL happen.
RVN VET71
(2,692 posts)We'll be looking back to the good old days when all you had to worry about were racist rants and expletives. Remember: They have guns and ropes and gasoline cans, and want so badly to use them on real Americans. All it will take is an enabling spark on Election Day, a second Trump victory to signal the emergence of a real white-power state.
If we don't kick all of the suckers out of positions of power, from Trump on down to the least influential local politician, we're screwed. GOTV!
not_the_one
(2,227 posts)We can't just concentrate on the top of the ballot, we have to throw the shits out, all down the line.
The turd has been enabled by state governments that have been taken over by repubs, although in many cases they are a minority of the population. THAT is what gerrymandering is all about.
I believe you should always vote for the person, but this election is so critical that, for once, vote party line, down the whole ballot.
Paper ballot, I hope. And take a photo of it, or the screen, or the scannable ballot. We may need it.
NoMoreRepugs
(9,435 posts)we need to do WHATEVER it takes to win - it literally is a war.
brokephibroke
(1,883 posts)Over at the conservative cave....
Wellstone ruled
(34,661 posts)Worked the Receiving Dock a few times back in the day. Yah from time to time,you will get a Stupid Turd Driver. Once you pull their dock time or door,they end up at the back of the line unless it is something Hot that was needed for Order picking or a Hot shot. The next time the Stupid shows up,he usually is pretty damn meek.
Seems there are just a hand full of People who want to be a total Stupid Turd and mess up everyone else's day.
subana
(586 posts)my dad was a truck driver, he drove a semi all of his life! It's nice to know truck drivers still value things like supporting each other, even while some do not.
Karadeniz
(22,535 posts)stillcool
(32,626 posts)low information voters are highly susceptible, and often pass the illness on to others. There is a cure, but it's not available until November. I hear there are many people working very hard to eradicate it, but there are roadblocks. There are those who believe that the virus contains properties that are beneficial to a small percentage of the population. I'm glad you didn't get too close. Stay alert, stay safe, and if you see someone displaying symptoms, it is suggested to keep your distance and let them flame-out.
SWBTATTReg
(22,133 posts)Good for you all.
What ever happened to those that practice good manners, that instead of mouthing off at others, simply wait patiently your turn.
Some people have a gutter mouth, and need to be told this (unfortunately since some of us don't see the 'light').
Thanks for sharing the story and keep on trucking!
redstatebluegirl
(12,265 posts)My uncle Ralph was a long haul trucker for 40 years until he became to ill to drive. You guys are the hardest working people around, plus you miss your family a lot of the time.
Keep on truckin, the country runs on what you do!
Skittles
(153,169 posts)great reactions - never remain silent when you see or hear racism
BigmanPigman
(51,609 posts)Whenever I hear derogatory names (on TV, old shows and movies)aimed at a certain group I rarely know who they are referring to. I guess I am lucky that no one I knew or my family knew used names like that. I could have been insulted and not even known I was at the time.
Joinfortmill
(14,429 posts)The person that guy really hates is himself.
PatrickforO
(14,576 posts)This is fucking disgusting.
Good for the rest of those truckers who told the guy to shut up. Geez.
dware
(12,397 posts)I've run into a few assholes like that also, they think they're so important and they should be waited on hand and foot.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)Magat to GTFO of the place now
Sorry you were working and had to witness that boob start up but it ended well
Resist !
left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)I would have told the guy to leave at the minute he spouted off. Then he could explain to his boss why he was returning with the load on the back of his truck. He definitely failed the attitude test.
I worked hard to get my drivers in and out as quickly as possible every day but there were times that everyone showed up at once and they had to be patient. Most we on overlapping routes and knew each other so they would work together to help each other as they could get through the day.
There was one day we had a substitute driver for a chip company delivering and he was ogling a beverage merchandiser who was stacking a pallet of Pepsi while she was bending over. He made the mistake of commenting to me that, she has a great a##. I responded, looking over the top of my glasses, that she is a hard worker and I consider all the young ladies working back here just as I would my daughter, as I handed him his paperwork and told him it was time to leave now.
I wouldnt allow anyone to be disrespected in my back room if I could help it.