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shockey80

(4,379 posts)
Sat Feb 1, 2020, 03:43 PM Feb 2020

When I was young assholes got punched in the nose, at the very least.

Today people can say , do whatever they want , hurting people and they pay no price. If you punch them you get arrested. This is one of the biggest cultural changes that has taken place in our country.

When I was young, if you crossed a line you would pay a price, someone would kick your ass. It was not accepted. Today in American you can say and do anything that hurts people, cross lines and you do not pay a price. Someone has to sue you, Barf.

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When I was young assholes got punched in the nose, at the very least. (Original Post) shockey80 Feb 2020 OP
So what's your solution? dware Feb 2020 #1
Yes, there are some things that should not be accepted in our culture. shockey80 Feb 2020 #5
Parents don't beat their children enough? jberryhill Feb 2020 #6
So, as a society, we resort back to violence because dware Feb 2020 #7
It's good if you are the one picking the lines jberryhill Feb 2020 #8
That seems to be what the OP is saying. nt dware Feb 2020 #10
That would be my thought, too. "This will hurt me more than it will you!" marble falls Feb 2020 #11
"Blood begets blood," sayeth the Witches in 'Macbeth' . . . Journeyman Feb 2020 #2
Are you roleplaying Monty Burns ? OnDoutside Feb 2020 #3
This was preferable in what way? jberryhill Feb 2020 #4
Bloody nose last a couple hours, hurt feelings a day or two Under The Radar Feb 2020 #9
And that was as fucked up then as it is now. The good old days has a freaking dark side, too. marble falls Feb 2020 #12
I wonder if all that nose-punching is what got us here today. WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2020 #13
"punched in the nose, at the very least" mind you jberryhill Feb 2020 #16
Right, right! WhiskeyGrinder Feb 2020 #17
Batman fan when you were a kid? Dennis Donovan Feb 2020 #14
That's what society needs today sarisataka Feb 2020 #15
Hang in there shocky Under The Radar Feb 2020 #18
One of my high school classmates moved to LA area. Thomas Hurt Feb 2020 #19

dware

(12,385 posts)
1. So what's your solution?
Sat Feb 1, 2020, 03:45 PM
Feb 2020

Go back to violence to solve problems?

Kick someone's ass because you don't like what they say or what political persuasion they are?

 

shockey80

(4,379 posts)
5. Yes, there are some things that should not be accepted in our culture.
Sat Feb 1, 2020, 03:57 PM
Feb 2020

I am not talking gun violence. I am talking about your parents, peers, even your friends kicking your ass if you crossed a line. That's how it was when I young. Now there are no lines in our culture today.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
6. Parents don't beat their children enough?
Sat Feb 1, 2020, 03:58 PM
Feb 2020

Is that it?

Are you complaining that nobody is beating you?

One of the things that is not accepted in my culture, as it turns out, is parents doing just that.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
8. It's good if you are the one picking the lines
Sat Feb 1, 2020, 04:02 PM
Feb 2020

Like, if your children aren’t straight or hang around with the wrong people, a good ass-whooping does the trick, I guess.

Journeyman

(15,031 posts)
2. "Blood begets blood," sayeth the Witches in 'Macbeth' . . .
Sat Feb 1, 2020, 03:54 PM
Feb 2020
"Violence does even justice unjustly." ~ Thomas Carlyle
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
4. This was preferable in what way?
Sat Feb 1, 2020, 03:57 PM
Feb 2020

Donald Trump has said pretty much the identical thing relative to protesters at his events.

Under The Radar

(3,404 posts)
9. Bloody nose last a couple hours, hurt feelings a day or two
Sat Feb 1, 2020, 04:03 PM
Feb 2020

....but it is legal for the president to ruin me financially destroying a 150 year old family business because he thinks tariffs and trade wars are good, legal for him to take away food assistance from people with no means to buy food, affordable medicine and healthcare is gone, which all lead to death, to me makes him a murderer. But I go to jail for terroristic assault for warning him that I will beat his ass. Go figure

Thomas Hurt

(13,903 posts)
19. One of my high school classmates moved to LA area.
Sat Feb 1, 2020, 04:34 PM
Feb 2020

Went to the beach, came back to his car, some dude had broken in and was bent over in the driver's seat trying to get his stereo out.

My classmate kicked the thief in the balls. Not sure whether he ran off or the cops got him, but the thief sued him.

Never did hear how that turned out.

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