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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsDamn people. NINE PEOPLE died in that crash.
I understand the tragedy.
Listening to Bush and Geist for another day of love him and Gigi.
This young girls life cut short
Man, there was another young girl there. A basketball player as well. Anyone know her name?
I googled and this is what I found after googling who else died?
How hard would it be to print names? This is like the fourth paragraph as well.
The victims included Mr. Bryants 13-year-old daughter and two of her teammates, as well as parents who were traveling to cheer for the team. A coach whom Mr. Bryant called the Mother of Defense also died, as did the pilot, who had years of flight experience.
All those lives go unmentioned in every teary remembrance Ive heard. I shouldnt have to search that hard.
RIP all of you.
aikoaiko
(34,183 posts)LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)Two days and NBC couldnt grab a ten second clip to mention the others?
Cripes!! Theyre a news agency.
katmondoo
(6,457 posts)aikoaiko
(34,183 posts)I figured a CBS online news piece would be open access.
Sorry if its not. It has a brief write up on each person
dchill
(38,516 posts)hlthe2b
(102,331 posts)mentioned in many or most stories. I fell asleep to TuneIN radio on Friday night only to wake up irritated at hearing the constant coverage that ignores the broader tragedy. Even the Kobe coverage then turned to the sportscasters who wanted to "stand out" from the rest giving laudatory coverage by claiming Kobe was not a "team player" and other less than flattering issues.
RIP to all the victims and their friends/families. Some of us DO care.
LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)Kaleva
(36,327 posts)Otherwise it'd be a one and done news story. Like underprivileged kids who get gunned down in a drive by shooting.
hlthe2b
(102,331 posts)killed. Seriously... I fell asleep to the story on radio and woke up to it several times. They weren't even mentioning that more than Kobe and daughter were killed.
And even if national coverage does NOT always give details a helicopter with 9 onboard that goes down DOES get coverage, even if no celebrities are on board.
LisaM
(27,820 posts)I don't know that the others sought publicity, or that their families want to be thrust in the spotlight like this, so I can sort of see both sides (though the stations I'm watching have talked about the other coaches). And if I lost a 13-year old daughter, I don't know that I'd want her name splashed all over the news.
I'm more concerned that three 13-year olds died so that a celebrity could live out a lifestyle of taking helicopters everywhere, instead of finding alternative means of travel. No one's talking about that, but I find it irresponsible. I read that Kobe and his wife knew the dangers well enough that they never flew together in the helicopter. The three girls probably didn't have a choice, and were looking to adults to make this decision for them, and I have a problem with that aspect of it. No one needs to go everywhere in a helicopter.
hlthe2b
(102,331 posts)although the pilot would have been assumed as the third. Even AFTER it was known there were 9 killed, most reports only discussed the loss of Kobe (and in most, but not all cases, his daughter), failing to mention there were an additional seven killed as well.
Diminishing a crash killing 9 people (or initially five as some reported) to the one celebrity on the helicopter is not only insensitive, it is despicable.
LisaM
(27,820 posts)The numbers kept changing, but I heard 5, then 7, then 9.
hlthe2b
(102,331 posts)and no, I'm sure you didn't hear the same overnight MSNBC coverage on Tunein, followed by a few hours of CNN, NPR and BBC. But, that is not unique coverage. It has ALL been Kobe-centric which is to be expected, but most over the first 12-18 hours limited to Kobe's death in total indifference to the fact they KNEW others had been killed, even if they weren't sure how many. Not even a 3-second acknowledgment that others died as well, even if they were waiting on both final numbers and identification.
DO you really want to defend such practices? I personally feel as though noncelebrity deaths are important too. But, I suppose that I'm old fashioned in that belief nowadays.
LisaM
(27,820 posts)I think there are reasons not to discuss the deaths of people who haven't sought attention, and I didn't see one report that said it was a single person crash.
Clearly, we're just talking at each other, so I think we should wrap this up.
hlthe2b
(102,331 posts)damn, how insensitive is this society now that only celebrities seem to matter. It is absolutely shameful.
I hope nothing ever happens to someone you care for, but if it did (and assuming you are not a Kardashian level celebrity either) I would hope an acknowledgement of your loss would not be totally ignored while all focus on the one loss the masses feel actually MATTERED.
Blueplanet
(253 posts)The children should have been driven to the event, chances of survival in a vehicle is probably much higher than a helicopter.
Adults can make the decision whether or not they want to fly in a helicopter, not the children. Parents should always think about the safety of their children first.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)What makes you believe that a car is safer?
Relative fatality rates:
Lots of people die in cars. Lots.
How about drive the team on a bus. Does that sound familiar?
Mosby
(16,334 posts)There is also the issue of use, my chance of dying in a helicopter crash is 0, because I don't fly in helicopters.
It's different for people who spend hours of flight time using that mode of transportation.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)But no matter how you slice it, around a hundred people are going to die today in car crashes. And tomorrow, and the day after that...
Several hundred have died in cars since this helicopter crash. Theres simply no comparison. Cars are orders of magnitude more dangerous.
Kaleva
(36,327 posts)The names of the victims of the White Settlement, Texas church shooting were released but I doubt anyone here remembers the names or if anyone here ever did.
hlthe2b
(102,331 posts)numbers of casualties. To limit discussion ONLY to one celebrity death without mentioning the numbers killed along with him in an hour-long panel discussion-- no acknowledgment that others were killed at all--may be acceptable celebrity worship in your mind. It is unacceptable and insensitive in mine and most others'. Fortunately so.
Kaleva
(36,327 posts)You spent an hour watching talking heads go on and on about him Why? I had heard that Kobe was killed in an accident from my father-in-law and saw some OPs here but today is the first I heard it was in a helicopter crash. The accident is tragic to the victims and their loved ones and friends but I feel worse for 4 year old Tripp Shaw who was killed by the negligent actions of his father.
hlthe2b
(102,331 posts)I believe all loss of life should be at least acknowledged if you are going to spend hours discussing one person specifically. I would hope that would be the case for someone you cared about and everyone else.
How rich, that you defend total mediae focus on Kobe while not even acknowledging in a two-second statement that others were killed as well and then claim I am the one obsessed with celebrity. Do you understand the meaning of IRONY?
LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)At this time over 60 people Dee and appreciate our point.
Kaleva
(36,327 posts)hlthe2b
(102,331 posts)exboyfil
(17,865 posts)the niche of a family member in people's consciousness. That is why the news concentrates on naming them. There were over 8,000 homicides in 1963, but JFK's name is the only one repeated regularly.
Such fame has its downside as well. One reporter put out a story that all four daughters were on the copter. Can you imagine the anguish that mistake caused. Same with the rumor that Rich Fox was on the copter.
lunasun
(21,646 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)ScratchCat
(2,002 posts)We have the names/identities only from the flight manifest. As of yesterday evening, ME had only identified two or three of the bodies.
Ilsa
(61,696 posts)for releases in case other family had not been notified. You nev3r know - maybe there was family overseas or in the military or on vacation.
LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)NBC is news not just a gab show. They could have at least said our hearts go out to the other 5, 6 or 9.
malaise
(269,146 posts)LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)Im talking all the remembrances and all the comments by famous people.
malaise
(269,146 posts)If I died on an aircraft with Usain Bolt, it would be the same.
It is what it is.
LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Do you know?
Do you care?
MontanaMama
(23,334 posts)It is heartbreaking, however, to read about these families and what theyre going to go through going for forward. Holy hell, there are a pair of orphaned kids now...whose parents and sister died in the crash! A widowed father with 3 small kiddos at home. And another father who lost a wife and daughter. My goodness. Their stories are as tragic as the Bryants. They shouldnt be forgotten.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Celebrities are used to dealing with that.
Other people not so much.
Lets get the pictures of the crying spouse and surviving children. Lets shine lights on them and stick microphones in their faces.
Because we need to see them!
LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Some things are the obvious and regular sequence of events.
You drop a hammer, it lands on your foot. Thats the way things are.
Did the parents of Sandy Hook children ask for what they got?
Bryants family is used to dealing with celebrity and has mechanisms for dealing with it.
Your child is dead and, oh by the way, youre now famous for that.
LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)I find it ugly for people to want to rubber-neck every disaster. Its creepy as hell.
Ick.
The_jackalope
(1,660 posts)I didn't have a clue who that basketball player was
I sure know his life story now.
I still don't have a clue who the others were. Maybe there was a medical researcher in the group, we'd never know.
Just to make my feelings perfectly clear, I despise the shallow concepts of sports and boob celebrity.
getagrip_already
(14,816 posts)and there have even been stories on the copter itself. Lots of stories, though the one focusing just on kobe and daughter are more frequest.
Takket
(21,608 posts)LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)So its numbers? How do we even know whose lives the others touched. They were coaches. Everyone on earth are influential in somebodys lives.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)What is wrong with people?
LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)You want their names why?
So that Alex Jones and his ilk can weave them into some grotesquery?
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)...I dont want a jackass news van in front of my house looking for comment from my wife. Fuck that shit.
LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)And it will be followed by all manner of freak, ghoul, truther and weirdo.
Getting your name associated with a news story of note is a one-way ticket to a sort of hell that many people simply do not want.
I do not need to know who these people are who have not volunteered for a famous death.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)People have privacy - particularly minors.
Who has consented to disclosure of the minors names? Do you know?
Its astounding how intrusive people are.
LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Anyone who gets their name in the media in association with an event of interest attracts freaks, weirdos, truthers, etc..
Simply assuming that everyone wants that when they are mourning the loss of a loved one is completely insensitive and disrespectful.
Many people have no desire for that sort of thing.
Blueplanet
(253 posts)These families are grieving in ways some of us cannot even imagine. Being in the news is the least of their worries.
csziggy
(34,136 posts)No one here has listed them. From the article linked above:
Kobe Bryant and Gianna Bryant
John Altobelli, Keri Altobelli and Alyssa Altobelli (baseball coach at Orange Coast College in Costa Mesa,his wife and daughter)
Christina Mauser (basketball coach at Harbor Day School in Newport Beach)
Sarah Chester and Payton Chester (mother of a friend of Gianna)
Ara Zobayan (helicopter pilot)
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/kobe-bryant-helicopter-crash-victims-identified-john-altobelli-keri-altobelli-alyssa-altobelli-christina-mauser/
nolabear
(41,990 posts)I wish there was more attention paid to the others IF their families want it, but I think we relive important losses to us when someone we feel connected to dies. In large measure were all comforting one another over the whole experience of shared loss and it helps.
Im deeply sad for the coach an the moms and those girls and the pilot too. But I dont feel their loss as much because I cant post on this thread and feel connected or alienated, I cant recall having been touched by them. And that emotion is connected to every one whose loss Ive felt.
virgogal
(10,178 posts)LakeArenal
(28,835 posts)barbtries
(28,810 posts)who else died with kobe every day since it happened. so far i have only found a total of 7 people, but had not looked today yet.
yes. they ALL matter, and ALL of their loved ones are in a living hell right now.
applegrove
(118,749 posts)living their young lives to the fullest.
Mersky
(4,986 posts)Off and on ever since I heard about it. Is awful, and I mourn for them and their families as I go through these days.
maryellen99
(3,789 posts)pangaia
(24,324 posts)I have wanted to writre something like this dof a couple days. but too cowardly to say. SO WHAT if it was a famous p[erson?
Othe people died. BUT their neames donm't sell advertising...so why bother..
Most 'reporters' and news readers ar just like lemmings.... and sheep....bleating, gasping for air, running after the first bleater who takes off....
And you know what? I don;t need to hear any more about that crash, no matter WHO was in it.
Some 2 year old girl was probably hit by a car this week. Who cares?
bryant was tall and one of the most brilliant at what he did. He died recently. So did Mariss Jansons! One of the greatest conductors who ever lived! Outside the classical music field, who knows about it?
stopdiggin
(11,337 posts)for the most part. (TMZ, et al are going to be their usual sleazy selves). Bryant is one thing because of his super-star celebrity status. And I think a roll call for the other names (which did eventually come about) is in an entirely different category .. both in good reporting, interest to the public, and respect for the families of the lost. I just don't see this as a sign of disrespect.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Id just as soon my name stay out of it.
Does knowing the names mean anything to you? You dont know who they are.
No thanks. I enjoy my privacy, and I sure wouldnt want it violated when I can do nothing about it.
Raine
(30,540 posts)the families of the others might want to remain private and not want their names splashed all over the media.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Ohiogal
(32,036 posts)F-g Yahoo put a photo of Keri Altobelli on the feature article on their home page yesterday ....
In a low-cut bathing suit! Obviously taken when on the beach somewhere. Headline about Coachs wife killed in Kobe helicopter crash.
I dont know whats worse....
usaf-vet
(6,194 posts)It's never failed to amaze me that you can ask the average person on the street what is your favorite team, who are the key players, what is their current standing and when was the last time they won a national trophy? What you will likely get is a stream of stats that would impress a statistician.
But ask them who, their mayor is, who are their school board members, who is the superintendent in their kid's school, what is the community annual budget, what is the school district's annual budget and you will likely get a blank stare.
Now the real test. Who is the President, VP, Speaker of the House, Senate Majority leader and of course who are your Senators and Representatives? Same blank stare.
Part of the blame for this failure is we stopped teaching Civics in public schools.
In this recent tragedy, the world knows the sports star and his daughter. But that is where it stops. Seven other victims are mostly still unknown.
YOHABLO
(7,358 posts)Tipperary
(6,930 posts)When the Titanic went down, the famous were mentioned first. Pretty much the definition of famous. The other names came out later. Do you know any?
Why are you so interested? Sounds like morbid curiosity to me.
SaschaHM
(2,897 posts)Celebrity + Black = The DU Bitterness brigade is going to rise from the swamps.
Hekate
(90,769 posts)SaschaHM
(2,897 posts)Of course, others died in the tragedy. However, given the private space that they occupied in life, most people would feel awkward talking about them and subjecting their family to that. They're getting the same privacy in death that they had in life.
Kobe was a public figure so the treatment of him and various aspects of his life including his death will be different. No one has any qualms about mentioning that he died and reminiscing about his public life.
It's not disrespectful to refuse to subject grieving private families to having to read headline after headline about their private families members because they had the misfortune of of dying near a celebrity.
It's not a competition. It's an acknowledge of the spheres that each individual occupied and a respect for it after death.