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LakeArenal

(28,835 posts)
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:24 AM Jan 2020

Damn people. NINE PEOPLE died in that crash.

I understand the tragedy.
Listening to Bush and Geist for another day of love him and Gigi.
“This young girl’s life cut short”
Man, there was another young girl there. A basketball player as well. Anyone know her name?
I googled and this is what I found after googling “who else died”?
How hard would it be to print names? This is like the fourth paragraph as well.


“The victims included Mr. Bryant’s 13-year-old daughter and two of her teammates, as well as parents who were traveling to cheer for the team. A coach whom Mr. Bryant called the “Mother of Defense” also died, as did the pilot, who had years of flight experience.”


All those lives go unmentioned in every teary remembrance I’ve heard. I shouldn’t have to search that hard.

RIP all of you.

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Damn people. NINE PEOPLE died in that crash. (Original Post) LakeArenal Jan 2020 OP
This article has more details about the 9 who died. aikoaiko Jan 2020 #1
Geist and Bush just threw me over the edge.. LakeArenal Jan 2020 #3
Artical only available to a few katmondoo Jan 2020 #5
Are you saying you can't access it? aikoaiko Jan 2020 #11
This link works for me. dchill Jan 2020 #37
I'm with you. As poignant as the Kobe story is, I am horrified that the others are not even hlthe2b Jan 2020 #2
I'm really shocked by it. I guess I shouldn't be. LakeArenal Jan 2020 #4
The only reason anyone is talking about the others at all is because of their connection to Kobe Kaleva Jan 2020 #12
Issue is for the most part the stories of the first 24 hours didn't even mention there WERE others hlthe2b Jan 2020 #13
They had to notify family first. The LAPD chided TMZ for releasing Kobe's name. LisaM Jan 2020 #44
I didn't say they should have identified. They didn't even acknowledge more than two killed hlthe2b Jan 2020 #46
We must have been watching different news reports. LisaM Jan 2020 #53
Damn, Lisa, did you read my posts at all? Apparently not. hlthe2b Jan 2020 #55
I did. Did you read mine? LisaM Jan 2020 #58
No one is suggesting discussing more than numbers! To aknowledge others were killed? hlthe2b Jan 2020 #60
Use the safest route for the children Blueplanet Jan 2020 #62
Helicopters ARE safer jberryhill Jan 2020 #67
A rate based on time would look much different. Mosby Jan 2020 #69
You can do time / mileage / whatever jberryhill Jan 2020 #71
Issue is that the story wouldn't have got much play had a celebrity not been involved. Kaleva Jan 2020 #56
Again, again, and again. Helicopter crashes are widely reported even outside the area with the hlthe2b Jan 2020 #57
I really don't understand why you are hung up with celebrities. Kaleva Jan 2020 #59
I'm not. You seem to believe it right that they be the only ones discussed. hlthe2b Jan 2020 #63
Geez. Thanks. Some folks refuse to see another point of view. LakeArenal Jan 2020 #76
But you bring up a fair point. Everyone ought to get respect and be afforded dignity Kaleva Jan 2020 #61
Thank you. I"m glad you now "get it." hlthe2b Jan 2020 #64
Celebrities like Bryant kind of occupy exboyfil Jan 2020 #6
The story on TMZ broke before some of thevictim's relatives were notified along with incorrect info lunasun Jan 2020 #22
Ghouls jberryhill Jan 2020 #28
This is probably the reason: ScratchCat Jan 2020 #7
It's also possible that media was waiting Ilsa Jan 2020 #8
No. In the last two days Geist and Bush had every opportunity. LakeArenal Jan 2020 #16
Several of us posted about all the victims malaise Jan 2020 #9
I know DU would post. LakeArenal Jan 2020 #18
People are talking about the person they knew malaise Jan 2020 #19
Well, I guess I don't like how it is. LakeArenal Jan 2020 #21
Do the other families want media attention? jberryhill Jan 2020 #29
Thanks for posting this link. MontanaMama Jan 2020 #10
Let's loose a horde of curiosity seekers upon them! jberryhill Jan 2020 #27
Who said that? Geez. LakeArenal Jan 2020 #30
Who said the sun comes up when night ends? jberryhill Jan 2020 #48
Wow. What a sad view. LakeArenal Jan 2020 #75
Thank you. cwydro Jan 2020 #72
"Celebrity significance" strikes again The_jackalope Jan 2020 #14
There was a good article on the coach, and another on the pilot..... getagrip_already Jan 2020 #15
The most famous in a tragedy get the most attention because they touched the most lives Takket Jan 2020 #17
That's the problem LakeArenal Jan 2020 #20
Their families are entitled to privacy jberryhill Jan 2020 #25
Who said to do that? LakeArenal Jan 2020 #31
To do what? jberryhill Jan 2020 #45
If I die in the company of a celebrity... jberryhill Jan 2020 #24
Who said they should do that? LakeArenal Jan 2020 #32
They WILL do that jberryhill Jan 2020 #43
How hard would it be to print names? jberryhill Jan 2020 #23
Who said we need to intrude on anyone? LakeArenal Jan 2020 #33
It is inherent in the glare of media attention jberryhill Jan 2020 #42
Good point. Blueplanet Jan 2020 #65
Even while complaining that the other people's names are not listed csziggy Jan 2020 #35
They have symbolic value and represent all our losses. nolabear Jan 2020 #26
I posted similar thing Sunday. virgogal Jan 2020 #34
Thanks and two days later Geist and Bush still don't mention them. LakeArenal Jan 2020 #36
i've googled barbtries Jan 2020 #38
Yes. Kids get me especially. They had so little time on this earth. 3 girls applegrove Jan 2020 #39
Thinking about that tragedy has stopped me in my tracks Mersky Jan 2020 #40
The Today Show interviewed the husband of Christina Mauser yesterday nt maryellen99 Jan 2020 #41
THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!!!! pangaia Jan 2020 #47
respectfully. I think the story (and the victims) have been treated well stopdiggin Jan 2020 #49
If I die in some celebrity crash or whatever... cwydro Jan 2020 #50
That's the way I feel too Raine Jan 2020 #54
Same here jberryhill Jan 2020 #68
Yesterday Ohiogal Jan 2020 #51
I know this post will get me in trouble but... If the citizen of this country spent 1/2 the time usaf-vet Jan 2020 #52
I totally agree. Ask people who their Rep is, or Senator is: not a clue. YOHABLO Jan 2020 #78
Why do you need to know? Tipperary Jan 2020 #66
Some people can't help but turn everything into an us vs. them situation. nt. SaschaHM Jan 2020 #74
Thank you Hekate Jan 2020 #70
There's a difference between a private citizen and a public one. SaschaHM Jan 2020 #73
wtf? Kurt V. Jan 2020 #77

LakeArenal

(28,835 posts)
3. Geist and Bush just threw me over the edge..
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:32 AM
Jan 2020

Two days and NBC couldn’t grab a ten second clip to mention the others?

Cripes!! They’re a “news” agency.

aikoaiko

(34,183 posts)
11. Are you saying you can't access it?
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:47 AM
Jan 2020

I figured a CBS online news piece would be open access.

Sorry if its not. It has a brief write up on each person

hlthe2b

(102,331 posts)
2. I'm with you. As poignant as the Kobe story is, I am horrified that the others are not even
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:31 AM
Jan 2020

mentioned in many or most stories. I fell asleep to TuneIN radio on Friday night only to wake up irritated at hearing the constant coverage that ignores the broader tragedy. Even the Kobe coverage then turned to the sportscasters who wanted to "stand out" from the rest giving laudatory coverage by claiming Kobe was not a "team player" and other less than flattering issues.

RIP to all the victims and their friends/families. Some of us DO care.

Kaleva

(36,327 posts)
12. The only reason anyone is talking about the others at all is because of their connection to Kobe
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:56 AM
Jan 2020

Otherwise it'd be a one and done news story. Like underprivileged kids who get gunned down in a drive by shooting.

hlthe2b

(102,331 posts)
13. Issue is for the most part the stories of the first 24 hours didn't even mention there WERE others
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:59 AM
Jan 2020

killed. Seriously... I fell asleep to the story on radio and woke up to it several times. They weren't even mentioning that more than Kobe and daughter were killed.


And even if national coverage does NOT always give details a helicopter with 9 onboard that goes down DOES get coverage, even if no celebrities are on board.

LisaM

(27,820 posts)
44. They had to notify family first. The LAPD chided TMZ for releasing Kobe's name.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:01 PM
Jan 2020

I don't know that the others sought publicity, or that their families want to be thrust in the spotlight like this, so I can sort of see both sides (though the stations I'm watching have talked about the other coaches). And if I lost a 13-year old daughter, I don't know that I'd want her name splashed all over the news.

I'm more concerned that three 13-year olds died so that a celebrity could live out a lifestyle of taking helicopters everywhere, instead of finding alternative means of travel. No one's talking about that, but I find it irresponsible. I read that Kobe and his wife knew the dangers well enough that they never flew together in the helicopter. The three girls probably didn't have a choice, and were looking to adults to make this decision for them, and I have a problem with that aspect of it. No one needs to go everywhere in a helicopter.

hlthe2b

(102,331 posts)
46. I didn't say they should have identified. They didn't even acknowledge more than two killed
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:04 PM
Jan 2020

although the pilot would have been assumed as the third. Even AFTER it was known there were 9 killed, most reports only discussed the loss of Kobe (and in most, but not all cases, his daughter), failing to mention there were an additional seven killed as well.

Diminishing a crash killing 9 people (or initially five as some reported) to the one celebrity on the helicopter is not only insensitive, it is despicable.

LisaM

(27,820 posts)
53. We must have been watching different news reports.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:04 PM
Jan 2020

The numbers kept changing, but I heard 5, then 7, then 9.

hlthe2b

(102,331 posts)
55. Damn, Lisa, did you read my posts at all? Apparently not.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:06 PM
Jan 2020

and no, I'm sure you didn't hear the same overnight MSNBC coverage on Tunein, followed by a few hours of CNN, NPR and BBC. But, that is not unique coverage. It has ALL been Kobe-centric which is to be expected, but most over the first 12-18 hours limited to Kobe's death in total indifference to the fact they KNEW others had been killed, even if they weren't sure how many. Not even a 3-second acknowledgment that others died as well, even if they were waiting on both final numbers and identification.

DO you really want to defend such practices? I personally feel as though noncelebrity deaths are important too. But, I suppose that I'm old fashioned in that belief nowadays.

LisaM

(27,820 posts)
58. I did. Did you read mine?
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:27 PM
Jan 2020

I think there are reasons not to discuss the deaths of people who haven't sought attention, and I didn't see one report that said it was a single person crash.

Clearly, we're just talking at each other, so I think we should wrap this up.

hlthe2b

(102,331 posts)
60. No one is suggesting discussing more than numbers! To aknowledge others were killed?
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:31 PM
Jan 2020

damn, how insensitive is this society now that only celebrities seem to matter. It is absolutely shameful.

I hope nothing ever happens to someone you care for, but if it did (and assuming you are not a Kardashian level celebrity either) I would hope an acknowledgement of your loss would not be totally ignored while all focus on the one loss the masses feel actually MATTERED.

Blueplanet

(253 posts)
62. Use the safest route for the children
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:35 PM
Jan 2020

The children should have been driven to the event, chances of survival in a vehicle is probably much higher than a helicopter.
Adults can make the decision whether or not they want to fly in a helicopter, not the children. Parents should always think about the safety of their children first.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
67. Helicopters ARE safer
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 04:17 PM
Jan 2020

What makes you believe that a car is safer?

Relative fatality rates:



Lots of people die in cars. Lots.

How about “drive the team on a bus”. Does that sound familiar?

Mosby

(16,334 posts)
69. A rate based on time would look much different.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 04:43 PM
Jan 2020

There is also the issue of use, my chance of dying in a helicopter crash is 0, because I don't fly in helicopters.

It's different for people who spend hours of flight time using that mode of transportation.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
71. You can do time / mileage / whatever
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 04:59 PM
Jan 2020

But no matter how you slice it, around a hundred people are going to die today in car crashes. And tomorrow, and the day after that...

Several hundred have died in cars since this helicopter crash. There’s simply no comparison. Cars are orders of magnitude more dangerous.

Kaleva

(36,327 posts)
56. Issue is that the story wouldn't have got much play had a celebrity not been involved.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:15 PM
Jan 2020

The names of the victims of the White Settlement, Texas church shooting were released but I doubt anyone here remembers the names or if anyone here ever did.

hlthe2b

(102,331 posts)
57. Again, again, and again. Helicopter crashes are widely reported even outside the area with the
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:18 PM
Jan 2020

numbers of casualties. To limit discussion ONLY to one celebrity death without mentioning the numbers killed along with him in an hour-long panel discussion-- no acknowledgment that others were killed at all--may be acceptable celebrity worship in your mind. It is unacceptable and insensitive in mine and most others'. Fortunately so.

Kaleva

(36,327 posts)
59. I really don't understand why you are hung up with celebrities.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:30 PM
Jan 2020

You spent an hour watching talking heads go on and on about him Why? I had heard that Kobe was killed in an accident from my father-in-law and saw some OPs here but today is the first I heard it was in a helicopter crash. The accident is tragic to the victims and their loved ones and friends but I feel worse for 4 year old Tripp Shaw who was killed by the negligent actions of his father.

hlthe2b

(102,331 posts)
63. I'm not. You seem to believe it right that they be the only ones discussed.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:37 PM
Jan 2020

I believe all loss of life should be at least acknowledged if you are going to spend hours discussing one person specifically. I would hope that would be the case for someone you cared about and everyone else.

How rich, that you defend total mediae focus on Kobe while not even acknowledging in a two-second statement that others were killed as well and then claim I am the one obsessed with celebrity. Do you understand the meaning of IRONY?

LakeArenal

(28,835 posts)
76. Geez. Thanks. Some folks refuse to see another point of view.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 06:36 PM
Jan 2020

At this time over 60 people Dee and appreciate our point.

exboyfil

(17,865 posts)
6. Celebrities like Bryant kind of occupy
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:35 AM
Jan 2020

the niche of a family member in people's consciousness. That is why the news concentrates on naming them. There were over 8,000 homicides in 1963, but JFK's name is the only one repeated regularly.

Such fame has its downside as well. One reporter put out a story that all four daughters were on the copter. Can you imagine the anguish that mistake caused. Same with the rumor that Rich Fox was on the copter.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
22. The story on TMZ broke before some of thevictim's relatives were notified along with incorrect info
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:19 PM
Jan 2020

yes there is a downside when everyone wants a scoop or angle


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ScratchCat

(2,002 posts)
7. This is probably the reason:
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:37 AM
Jan 2020

We have the names/identities only from the flight manifest. As of yesterday evening, ME had only identified two or three of the bodies.

Ilsa

(61,696 posts)
8. It's also possible that media was waiting
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:39 AM
Jan 2020

for releases in case other family had not been notified. You nev3r know - maybe there was family overseas or in the military or on vacation.

LakeArenal

(28,835 posts)
16. No. In the last two days Geist and Bush had every opportunity.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:05 PM
Jan 2020

NBC is “news” not just a gab show. They could have at least said our hearts go out to the other 5, 6 or 9.

malaise

(269,146 posts)
19. People are talking about the person they knew
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:08 PM
Jan 2020

If I died on an aircraft with Usain Bolt, it would be the same.
It is what it is.

MontanaMama

(23,334 posts)
10. Thanks for posting this link.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 11:46 AM
Jan 2020

It is heartbreaking, however, to read about these families and what they’re going to go through going for forward. Holy hell, there are a pair of orphaned kids now...whose parents and sister died in the crash! A widowed father with 3 small kiddos at home. And another father who lost a wife and daughter. My goodness. Their stories are as tragic as the Bryant’s. They shouldn’t be forgotten.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
27. Let's loose a horde of curiosity seekers upon them!
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:32 PM
Jan 2020

Celebrities are used to dealing with that.

Other people not so much.

Let’s get the pictures of the crying spouse and surviving children. Let’s shine lights on them and stick microphones in their faces.

Because we need to see them!

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
48. Who said the sun comes up when night ends?
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:05 PM
Jan 2020

Some things are the obvious and regular sequence of events.

You drop a hammer, it lands on your foot. That’s the way things are.

Did the parents of Sandy Hook children ask for what they got?

Bryant’s family is used to dealing with celebrity and has mechanisms for dealing with it.

“Your child is dead and, oh by the way, you’re now famous for that.”

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
72. Thank you.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 05:01 PM
Jan 2020

I find it ugly for people to want to rubber-neck every disaster. It’s creepy as hell.

Ick.

The_jackalope

(1,660 posts)
14. "Celebrity significance" strikes again
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:01 PM
Jan 2020

I didn't have a clue who that basketball player was
I sure know his life story now.

I still don't have a clue who the others were. Maybe there was a medical researcher in the group, we'd never know.

Just to make my feelings perfectly clear, I despise the shallow concepts of sports and boob celebrity.

getagrip_already

(14,816 posts)
15. There was a good article on the coach, and another on the pilot.....
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:03 PM
Jan 2020
https://sports.yahoo.com/christina-mausers-husband-calls-wife-extraordinary-remaining-kobe-bryant-crash-victims-identified-174153225.html

and there have even been stories on the copter itself. Lots of stories, though the one focusing just on kobe and daughter are more frequest.

LakeArenal

(28,835 posts)
20. That's the problem
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:09 PM
Jan 2020

So it’s numbers? How do we even know whose lives the others touched. They were coaches. Everyone on earth are influential in somebodys’ lives.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
45. To do what?
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:02 PM
Jan 2020

You want their names why?

So that Alex Jones and his ilk can weave them into some grotesquery?

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
24. If I die in the company of a celebrity...
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:29 PM
Jan 2020

...I don’t want a jackass news van in front of my house looking for comment from my wife. Fuck that shit.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
43. They WILL do that
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:01 PM
Jan 2020

And it will be followed by all manner of freak, ghoul, truther and weirdo.

Getting your name associated with a news story of note is a one-way ticket to a sort of hell that many people simply do not want.

I do not need to know who these people are who have not volunteered for a famous death.
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
23. How hard would it be to print names?
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:28 PM
Jan 2020

People have privacy - particularly minors.

Who has consented to disclosure of the minors’ names? Do you know?

It’s astounding how intrusive people are.
 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
42. It is inherent in the glare of media attention
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 01:58 PM
Jan 2020

Anyone who gets their name in the media in association with an event of interest attracts freaks, weirdos, truthers, etc..

Simply assuming that everyone wants that when they are mourning the loss of a loved one is completely insensitive and disrespectful.

Many people have no desire for that sort of thing.

Blueplanet

(253 posts)
65. Good point.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:43 PM
Jan 2020

These families are grieving in ways some of us cannot even imagine. Being in the news is the least of their worries.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
35. Even while complaining that the other people's names are not listed
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:42 PM
Jan 2020

No one here has listed them. From the article linked above:

Kobe Bryant and Gianna Bryant
John Altobelli, Keri Altobelli and Alyssa Altobelli (baseball coach at Orange Coast College in Costa Mesa,his wife and daughter)
Christina Mauser (basketball coach at Harbor Day School in Newport Beach)
Sarah Chester and Payton Chester (mother of a friend of Gianna)
Ara Zobayan (helicopter pilot)

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/kobe-bryant-helicopter-crash-victims-identified-john-altobelli-keri-altobelli-alyssa-altobelli-christina-mauser/

nolabear

(41,990 posts)
26. They have symbolic value and represent all our losses.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:31 PM
Jan 2020

I wish there was more attention paid to the others IF their families want it, but I think we relive important losses to us when someone we feel connected to dies. In large measure we’re all comforting one another over the whole experience of shared loss and it helps.

I’m deeply sad for the coach an the moms and those girls and the pilot too. But I don’t feel their loss as much because I can’t post on this thread and feel connected or alienated, I can’t recall having been touched by them. And that emotion is connected to every one whose loss I’ve felt.

barbtries

(28,810 posts)
38. i've googled
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 12:47 PM
Jan 2020

who else died with kobe every day since it happened. so far i have only found a total of 7 people, but had not looked today yet.

yes. they ALL matter, and ALL of their loved ones are in a living hell right now.

applegrove

(118,749 posts)
39. Yes. Kids get me especially. They had so little time on this earth. 3 girls
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 01:01 PM
Jan 2020

living their young lives to the fullest.

Mersky

(4,986 posts)
40. Thinking about that tragedy has stopped me in my tracks
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 01:19 PM
Jan 2020

Off and on ever since I heard about it. Is awful, and I mourn for them and their families as I go through these days.

pangaia

(24,324 posts)
47. THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:04 PM
Jan 2020

I have wanted to writre something like this dof a couple days. but too cowardly to say. SO WHAT if it was a famous p[erson?

Othe people died. BUT their neames donm't sell advertising...so why bother..

Most 'reporters' and news readers ar just like lemmings.... and sheep....bleating, gasping for air, running after the first bleater who takes off....

And you know what? I don;t need to hear any more about that crash, no matter WHO was in it.
Some 2 year old girl was probably hit by a car this week. Who cares?

bryant was tall and one of the most brilliant at what he did. He died recently. So did Mariss Jansons! One of the greatest conductors who ever lived! Outside the classical music field, who knows about it?

stopdiggin

(11,337 posts)
49. respectfully. I think the story (and the victims) have been treated well
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:11 PM
Jan 2020

for the most part. (TMZ, et al are going to be their usual sleazy selves). Bryant is one thing because of his super-star celebrity status. And I think a roll call for the other names (which did eventually come about) is in an entirely different category .. both in good reporting, interest to the public, and respect for the families of the lost. I just don't see this as a sign of disrespect.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
50. If I die in some celebrity crash or whatever...
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:18 PM
Jan 2020

I’d just as soon my name stay out of it.

Does knowing the names mean anything to you? You don’t know who they are.

No thanks. I enjoy my privacy, and I sure wouldn’t want it violated when I can do nothing about it.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
54. That's the way I feel too
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:05 PM
Jan 2020

the families of the others might want to remain private and not want their names splashed all over the media.

Ohiogal

(32,036 posts)
51. Yesterday
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:43 PM
Jan 2020

F—-g Yahoo put a photo of Keri Altobelli on the feature article on their home page yesterday ....
In a low-cut bathing suit! Obviously taken when on the beach somewhere. Headline about “Coach’s wife killed in Kobe helicopter crash”.

I don’t know what’s worse....

usaf-vet

(6,194 posts)
52. I know this post will get me in trouble but... If the citizen of this country spent 1/2 the time
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 02:44 PM
Jan 2020
they spend watching, talking and dreaming about their favorite sports team and instead involved themselves in local, state, federal and even international affairs. Watching the slow-moving but directed destruction of the things that have made this country great we would all be better for it.

It's never failed to amaze me that you can ask the average person on the street what is your favorite team, who are the key players, what is their current standing and when was the last time they won a national trophy? What you will likely get is a stream of stats that would impress a statistician.

But ask them who, their mayor is, who are their school board members, who is the superintendent in their kid's school, what is the community annual budget, what is the school district's annual budget and you will likely get a blank stare.

Now the real test. Who is the President, VP, Speaker of the House, Senate Majority leader and of course who are your Senators and Representatives? Same blank stare.

Part of the blame for this failure is we stopped teaching Civics in public schools.

In this recent tragedy, the world knows the sports star and his daughter. But that is where it stops. Seven other victims are mostly still unknown.
 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
66. Why do you need to know?
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 03:51 PM
Jan 2020

When the Titanic went down, the famous were mentioned first. Pretty much the definition of “famous”. The other names came out later. Do you know any?

Why are you so interested? Sounds like morbid curiosity to me.

SaschaHM

(2,897 posts)
74. Some people can't help but turn everything into an us vs. them situation. nt.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 05:10 PM
Jan 2020

Celebrity + Black = The DU Bitterness brigade is going to rise from the swamps.

SaschaHM

(2,897 posts)
73. There's a difference between a private citizen and a public one.
Tue Jan 28, 2020, 05:08 PM
Jan 2020

Of course, others died in the tragedy. However, given the private space that they occupied in life, most people would feel awkward talking about them and subjecting their family to that. They're getting the same privacy in death that they had in life.

Kobe was a public figure so the treatment of him and various aspects of his life including his death will be different. No one has any qualms about mentioning that he died and reminiscing about his public life.

It's not disrespectful to refuse to subject grieving private families to having to read headline after headline about their private families members because they had the misfortune of of dying near a celebrity.

It's not a competition. It's an acknowledge of the spheres that each individual occupied and a respect for it after death.

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