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Ayanna Pressley Reveals She Has No Hair (Original Post) comradebillyboy Jan 2020 OP
She's very brave, indeed Ohiogal Jan 2020 #1
Good for her. She is beautiful with or without hair. hlthe2b Jan 2020 #2
Yep! Absolutely! calimary Jan 2020 #8
Proud, brave woman, IMPRESSIVE woman! George II Jan 2020 #3
That was a genuinely wonderful video lunatica Jan 2020 #4
She's beautiful with or without hair Green Line Jan 2020 #5
couldn't agree more. cab67 Jan 2020 #12
Strong lady get the red out Jan 2020 #6
I really admire and like Congresswoman Pressleey Gothmog Jan 2020 #7
K/R progressoid Jan 2020 #9
That's a brave thing to do peggysue2 Jan 2020 #10
That's courageous nt Raine Jan 2020 #11
"... Find JOY in options!" NurseJackie Jan 2020 #13
Very compelling story. aikoaiko Jan 2020 #14
I think she's really underrated as a freshman Congressional Rep. ehrnst Jan 2020 #15
Ricki Lake also recently revealed she has no hair. SunSeeker Jan 2020 #16
I wonder if she knows about PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2020 #17
I imagine that is because bald men are considered normal in society, unlike bald boys and women. nt SunSeeker Jan 2020 #18
Honestly, I think it was that they both lost their hair young enough PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2020 #19
Well, as a woman who lost her hair during chemotherapy, I found very little amusing about it. SunSeeker Jan 2020 #21
I am not making fun of cancer, or the hair loss from chemotherapy. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2020 #23
That is a very courageous woman. brer cat Jan 2020 #20
I have a friend with the same syndrome. She wears some beautiful turbans. Nitram Jan 2020 #22

Ohiogal

(32,005 posts)
1. She's very brave, indeed
Thu Jan 16, 2020, 03:28 PM
Jan 2020

I lost all my hair from chemotherapy 12 years ago....thankfully mine came back. It’s very traumatic especially for a woman. I salute Rep. Presley for bringing awareness to this topic and wish her all the best. She looks great.

hlthe2b

(102,290 posts)
2. Good for her. She is beautiful with or without hair.
Thu Jan 16, 2020, 03:29 PM
Jan 2020

Alopecia occurs for a lot of reasons--some more treatable than others. While I recognize that there are unique issues among black women, it is true that extensions, tight braids, and even tight ponytails can lead to hair loss in women of all races.

We are all much more than our outward appearances, but I applaud her honesty.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
4. That was a genuinely wonderful video
Thu Jan 16, 2020, 03:34 PM
Jan 2020

Very liberating and surprisingly soothing. Her wig looked like it was her real hair so it’s obvious she didn’t need to go public with her condition. She’s a woman of principle and that means everything! We are so lucky to have her representing us!

Thank you for sharing this and your own situation.

peggysue2

(10,830 posts)
10. That's a brave thing to do
Thu Jan 16, 2020, 05:41 PM
Jan 2020

Though she is a beautiful woman either way, I think most women would readily identify with this, how difficult the adjustment must be, how much moxie it takes to do a reveal like this.

Brave and poignant. to her.

 

ehrnst

(32,640 posts)
15. I think she's really underrated as a freshman Congressional Rep.
Thu Jan 16, 2020, 06:17 PM
Jan 2020

Right up there with Katie Porter, Debra Haaland, and Sharice Davids.

Doing the grinding work of the job, and not seeking the spotlight.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,861 posts)
17. I wonder if she knows about
Thu Jan 16, 2020, 06:22 PM
Jan 2020

the National Alopecia Areata Foundation. It's an amazing organization. My older son lost his hair when he was four years old, his younger brother at the age of ten. Both wound up with the most extreme form, alopecia areata universalis, meaning neither one has any hair whatsover.

We used to go to their conferences, but as they reached adulthood they no longer were interested in attending.

Here's a link to the NAAF website. https://www.naaf.org/

Added on edit: I see she does know about NAAF.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,861 posts)
19. Honestly, I think it was that they both lost their hair young enough
Thu Jan 16, 2020, 06:33 PM
Jan 2020

that by the time each was 18 or so it was as normal as the fact they had brown eyes. And perhaps they associated the conferences with being little kids.

I will say it was very interesting being the mother of two totally bald boys, especially as they were both small for their ages. People understandably assume a bald kids has cancer. I'd be out in public with them, and I'd see people noticing them, and then I could see them thinking, "OH! That poor woman! Two of them!" I'd usually start smiling and almost giggling, because not only did they not have cancer, they were both extremely healthy all around. And then I could see the person thinking, "And she handles it so well!"

There really were any number of amusing things connected to the alopecia.

SunSeeker

(51,571 posts)
21. Well, as a woman who lost her hair during chemotherapy, I found very little amusing about it.
Thu Jan 16, 2020, 07:15 PM
Jan 2020

The men in the chemo ward simply did not have the same stigma, or damage to self esteem, as the women did. Indeed, bald men are often considered strong and virile, like the Rock. Even the male reporters copy his look:




I remember my doctor told me one of her female breast cancer patients refused chemo because she did not want to lose her hair. She later died after it predictably metastasized.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,861 posts)
23. I am not making fun of cancer, or the hair loss from chemotherapy.
Thu Jan 16, 2020, 10:38 PM
Jan 2020

I do not find that at all amusing.

But my young sons were bald from alopecia, and there were any number of amusing incidents with them. I very much want to apologize to you if what I said in any way seemed insensitive.

It is truly, truly sad that someone would refuse chemo because of the hair loss.

I will add this. That I would get very irritated when people would tell me it was okay that my sons were bald because so many men shave their heads. Well, the shavers can grow their hair back. My sons never have. And then I remember that people are trying to be helpful and sympathetic with their comments, and try not to be grumpy to them.

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