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imanamerican63

(13,812 posts)
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 12:21 AM Jan 2020

Wow! I just had a talk with a older lady about Trump and let me...

tell you she didn’t hold anything back! I have a a delivery here in Georgia and went to the little fuel stop across from where I have to deliver. The place wasn’t busy, so we started to chat. She was very pleasant and we talk about the weather then she brought up Trump. Now I didn’t know how react when she began. I thought “oh boy here we go”, I’m in Georgia too. But to my surprise, she was so against him! She is her early 70 & all still has to work. She was retired nurse and was doing fairly well until Trump cut her social security and Medicare. She had voted for him but will not vote for him this year. She went on to say that she lost her husband to cancer two years, because of the cuts here in Georgia. She than turned it on and said if any Republicans can’t see what Trump was doing to our country need to be put out on our he street too. I guess you just never know people think? We talked a bit more and then she need to her job done cause it was the end of $12 an hour shift.

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Wow! I just had a talk with a older lady about Trump and let me... (Original Post) imanamerican63 Jan 2020 OP
I am curious but Skittles Jan 2020 #1
My question too. lunatica Jan 2020 #3
As a former nurse, maybe she had a pension cut because she was in a union? LakeArenal Jan 2020 #55
Thanks, Skittles. I thought I must of missed something big. Midnight Writer Jan 2020 #4
I'm in my 70s and my social security and medicare radical noodle Jan 2020 #9
I have not had any cuts, either -- I wonder what the lady was talking about? Sounds like Nay Jan 2020 #35
The state can't cut SS or Medicare radical noodle Jan 2020 #38
Yeah, I know, but I wondered if she was on some state program that got cut and she Nay Jan 2020 #41
Answer: James48 Jan 2020 #12
strange Skittles Jan 2020 #17
Thanks for clarifying radical noodle Jan 2020 #40
Her husband died two years ago ribrepin Jan 2020 #23
and that is Trump's fault....how Skittles Jan 2020 #25
Just a coincidence that it happened the year tRump took office MiniMe Jan 2020 #49
That's my guess too. She for sure lost income because of that. Hortensis Jan 2020 #31
I hate to sound unethical. Blue_true Jan 2020 #57
That thing wasn't too popular today in the little neighborhood grocery store I shop at. catbyte Jan 2020 #2
There's a epidemic of rolling eye strain in our country lunatica Jan 2020 #5
Love your post! It is surely the bright spot in my day. Thank you. n/t Judi Lynn Jan 2020 #7
MAGA hats have become modern day scarlet letters aeromanKC Jan 2020 #11
I just love this post. It deserves to be an OP mahina Jan 2020 #21
Catbyte is in Michigan. mnhtnbb Jan 2020 #29
:) In MI's fine too. Hortensis Jan 2020 #32
That's really good news too. mahina Jan 2020 #42
I'm in Michigan, but it is one of the rust belt swing states that installed that thing in office catbyte Jan 2020 #36
Thank you for the context. mahina Jan 2020 #43
My Son-in-Law is from Michigan itcfish Jan 2020 #45
What part of Michigan is your son-in-law from?!? catbyte Jan 2020 #47
Milan itcfish Jan 2020 #48
Figures. Southeast lower Michigan is the heart of Michissippi. catbyte Jan 2020 #51
Thank you itcfish Jan 2020 #53
Great news! Thanks for the status...it's always good news to see something like this tidbit of... SWBTATTReg Jan 2020 #54
I live in rural Kansas MuseRider Jan 2020 #44
After the how's your 409k comment today my deplorable co worker had to concede he is UniteFightBack Jan 2020 #6
Well, when her husband died, she lost one marybourg Jan 2020 #8
Ummm, Trump did not cut her SS. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2020 #10
I disagree that nurses are paid well. Turin_C3PO Jan 2020 #13
Where were you? PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2020 #15
About the CNA's, I Turin_C3PO Jan 2020 #46
He wrote that she works in a convenience store. n/t Tess49 Jan 2020 #14
That's not clear in the OP. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2020 #16
My impression was that she was working at the "fuel stop" across the street from where he Tess49 Jan 2020 #18
From the OP: yonder Jan 2020 #19
She was a retired nurse. Ilsa Jan 2020 #28
Western Mass... druidity33 Jan 2020 #56
Trump is Terrible But He Hasn't Cut Any One's SS ......Not Yet Anyway Indykatie Jan 2020 #20
Maybe in the tax laws, or she was confused? imanamerican63 Jan 2020 #24
he's proposed cuts to SS and Medicare/Medicaid NewJeffCT Jan 2020 #39
The OP mentions the lady voted for him in 2016. ooky Jan 2020 #59
I'm hesitating because I don't want to be an ass mahina Jan 2020 #22
Post hoc ergo propter hoc? Loki Liesmith Jan 2020 #26
Sorta! Thank you. mahina Jan 2020 #27
Except for a stupid typo in my title Loki Liesmith Jan 2020 #30
Trump hasn't cure SS or Medicare/// brooklynite Jan 2020 #33
Let her think Trump cut her SS/Medicare benefits DeminPennswoods Jan 2020 #34
Had something similar happen, duforsure Jan 2020 #37
I play poker with a group of gun-toting redneck conservatives. Binkie The Clown Jan 2020 #50
one other possibility... getagrip_already Jan 2020 #52
that is what i was thinking, her medicaid or what it pays for might of gotten cut questionseverything Jan 2020 #58

Midnight Writer

(21,793 posts)
4. Thanks, Skittles. I thought I must of missed something big.
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 12:35 AM
Jan 2020

I have no doubt that this lady believes this, but I wonder why.

It reminds me of stories my co-workers would tell me about how their insurance companies screwed them after "Obama took over the health care". Even though none of them were on an Obamacare policy, they had the same company insurance they had carried all along.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
35. I have not had any cuts, either -- I wonder what the lady was talking about? Sounds like
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 09:41 AM
Jan 2020

she got cuts from somewhere, the state maybe?

Nay

(12,051 posts)
41. Yeah, I know, but I wondered if she was on some state program that got cut and she
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 10:29 AM
Jan 2020

thought it was Trump's fault, and was mistaken in thinking it was an SS cut. But the other explanations about how her husband's death had changed her SS -- that's what's going on, I think. But that's just the way SS has always worked.

James48

(4,440 posts)
12. Answer:
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 02:15 AM
Jan 2020

Her husband died. So their family Social Security was cut from two people, to survivors benefits- one person.

From the SSA website: “When a Social Security beneficiary dies, his or her surviving spouse is eligible for survivor benefits. A surviving spouse can collect 100 percent of the late spouse’s benefit if the survivor has reached full retirement age, but the amount will be lower if the deceased spouse claimed benefits before he or she reached full retirement age. (Full retirement age is currently 66 but is gradually increasing to 67 over the next several years.)

If you were already receiving spousal benefits on the deceased’s work record, Social Security will in most cases switch you automatically to survivor benefits when the death is reported. “


She must think Trump did it. It’s always been the law, but I wouldn’t bother to correct that misinformation.

radical noodle

(8,013 posts)
40. Thanks for clarifying
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 10:26 AM
Jan 2020

but OMG the things that get in people's heads. (and thanks for not bothering to correct her)

ribrepin

(1,726 posts)
23. Her husband died two years ago
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 06:12 AM
Jan 2020

She probably lost some social security. They let the surviving spouse choose between their own social security or the husband's so she lost one social security payment.

MiniMe

(21,718 posts)
49. Just a coincidence that it happened the year tRump took office
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 01:20 PM
Jan 2020

That is actually not tRump's fault, though my guess is that tRump would like to get rid of SS.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
57. I hate to sound unethical.
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 09:00 PM
Jan 2020

But if a Trump voter in 2016 now feels that he has screwed them and plan to vote against him AND any republican they can, why the fuck should we worry about minute details? Let's just welcome their potential vote and work to reenforce their hatred of him and republicans. If Facebook and other social media sites are going to allow the telling of obvious lies, are we well served to insist on always telling or insuring the telling of the truth?

catbyte

(34,440 posts)
2. That thing wasn't too popular today in the little neighborhood grocery store I shop at.
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 12:34 AM
Jan 2020

I went to stock up on supplies for the winter storm that's supposed to hit this weekend and there was a crabby-looking old guy in a red MAGA hat in front of me at the checkout. I glanced back at the woman in line after me and she looked at him then rolled her eyes. Then I looked at the front door and two people came in, looked at the guy, rolled their eyes, shook their heads, and laughed. Then when he left, the checkout clerk rolled her eyes and shook her head. I just had to laugh. And most of the folks doing that looked like they could've voted for him in 2016.

mahina

(17,693 posts)
21. I just love this post. It deserves to be an OP
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 05:39 AM
Jan 2020

What part of the country are you in if I might ask?

Dare I hope the south?

catbyte

(34,440 posts)
36. I'm in Michigan, but it is one of the rust belt swing states that installed that thing in office
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 10:08 AM
Jan 2020

Last edited Fri Jan 10, 2020, 02:26 PM - Edit history (1)

--by only 10.3K votes out of almost 5M cast. That's a margin of "victory" of about .002%. There are parts of the state that should be renamed Michissippi. Because of gerrymandering, Michigan was red, red, red. They dominated both houses of the state legislature and have held all of the major state administrative offices since 2010. 2018 saw a seismic shift. We won the election for Governor, Secretary of State, Attorney General, and Chief Justice of the MI Supreme Court--all of them women. We also have the first African American Lieutenant Governor and we managed to make significant inroads in the state legislature. The gop lost their supermajority in the state senate (losing 6 seats) and reduced their majority in the house (losing 7 seats). We also passed an anti-gerrymandering prop that will completely redraw the map after the 2020 Census. An independent commission instead of the state senate will be drawing the map which will eliminate the gerrymandered districts. That thing has a 31% approval rating according to the last polling I've seen & 61% think that thing should be removed from office.

Things are looking up in the Great Lakes State.

itcfish

(1,828 posts)
45. My Son-in-Law is from Michigan
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 11:32 AM
Jan 2020

he is very liberal and was a big Bernie supporter in 2016 but voted for Hillary. He now is a Pete supporter but again will vote Blue No Matter Who, but his family is very MAGA, very immigrant hating very, liberal hating and my poor daughter suffers so much when she visits Michigan. All she sees are all the Trump 2020 signs. She hates all the remarks from friends and family about immigrants. My parents were immigrants from Europe and my husband is Iranian. Can you imagine? She sees Confederate flags all over the town, she just wants to leave Michigan the minute she arrives. Are there any progressive areas in Michigan besides Detroit? Could it ever go Blue?

catbyte

(34,440 posts)
51. Figures. Southeast lower Michigan is the heart of Michissippi.
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 01:54 PM
Jan 2020

There are goobers & rednecks in other areas of the state, mainly rural northern lower & upper Michigan, but that area is the absolute worst. There are lots of blue areas of the state as evidenced by the 2018 elections and will be even bluer when the districts are un-gerrymandered.

SWBTATTReg

(22,156 posts)
54. Great news! Thanks for the status...it's always good news to see something like this tidbit of...
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 02:14 PM
Jan 2020

news being positive! Thanks for the uplifting news on this Friday!

MuseRider

(34,117 posts)
44. I live in rural Kansas
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 11:08 AM
Jan 2020

close to Topeka but rural. My county is often blue but has become a little more competitive sadly, it went for Trump. I spend a lot of time in feed stores and farm supply stores and have seen only one MAGA hat. I know my feed store guys very well but we do not talk politics. I would wager money they voted for Trump but when that MAGA hat man left (he is actually a retired doc that we know since I as a nurse and my husband is a retired doc and we were stunned by the hat) the all looked rather amused. Support for Trump here is not normally loudly known or shown. I am really surprised by that because support for W was pretty out there, of course the war spurned that on quite a bit. It actually got a little weird and disconcerting but faded. It is odd how support comes with support from the true believers. I do not think there are many here.

Thanks for your post, it is always good to read.

marybourg

(12,634 posts)
8. Well, when her husband died, she lost one
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 12:58 AM
Jan 2020

s.s. check. She may be getting his amount now, if it was more than her’s, but it’s still only one. The same people who were dumb enough to blame Obama for this sort of thing may now be blaming tRump.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,895 posts)
10. Ummm, Trump did not cut her SS.
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 01:24 AM
Jan 2020

If she lost her husband, and lost his SS, I'm sincerely sorry, but that has nothing to do with who is President. It has to do with how SS works. And I'm also sorry that she didn't understand that.

If she's a nurse, and works as a nurse, she would be getting a fuck of a lot more than $12/hour. Nurses are very well paid, depending on where they work and exactly what they do. But $25/hour is pretty much the rock bottom minimum. I have a cousin who is an ER nurse in the NYC area and she makes six figures.

However, all that said, I'm glad this lady (my age, I'm 71) is anti Trump.

Turin_C3PO

(14,037 posts)
13. I disagree that nurses are paid well.
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 02:29 AM
Jan 2020

Where I worked (as a CNA), we made $9 an hour and nurses made $22/hr. Granted this was in 2013 but nurses should be paid much better than that. I’d say at least $40/hr. Their job is as important as a doctor’s, IMO.

As far as the SS thing goes, just let her think Trump did it lol, couldn’t hurt.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,895 posts)
15. Where were you?
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 02:38 AM
Jan 2020

I know that location matters a lot.

Here in Santa Fe, back in 2011, newly minted nurses were making $25/hour. With all due respect, a CNA isn't a nurse. Although they should be paid more than they are.

My mother was a nurse. She became an RN back in the 1930s, so long ago that she wasn't taught to give injections. Yes, a very different world. And although she knew she could get work anywhere, which was why she had the courage to take her five children from upstate NY to Tucson, AZ, in 1962 to escape an abusive, alcoholic husband, the pay then was truly abysmal. She worked every extra shift she could get just to keep us afloat. A year or so later I had a Saturday babysitting job that paid all of $3.00 for the day, which in all fairness (and working with an inflation calculator) was around $25 in today's money. Because we were truly desperately poor, I always spent that money on groceries for my family, usually asking the mom of the girls I babysat to please stop at the grocery story when she was driving me home. She was always astonished, and I never was, because keeping us fed was basic. And Mom didn't always earn enough for that.

But when nurses earn six figures(as my cousin does), while they do deserve it, they are not underpaid.

Teachers should earn as much.

Turin_C3PO

(14,037 posts)
46. About the CNA's, I
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 11:37 AM
Jan 2020

never said they should be paid anywhere near what a nurse gets paid. Although I will say if the minimum wage goes up to $15/hr then CNAs should get $17-20/hr, IMO. And yes, I agree, teacher’s pay should be much higher.

Tess49

(1,580 posts)
18. My impression was that she was working at the "fuel stop" across the street from where he
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 04:10 AM
Jan 2020

made a delivery. Aging may have something to do with working in a store, rather than in her field of nursing. Nursing involves a lot of lifting etc., that she may not be able to do at this point in her life.

yonder

(9,671 posts)
19. From the OP:
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 04:25 AM
Jan 2020

"She was retired nurse..." Maybe her license lapsed, age related disability, etc. Who knows?

Ilsa

(61,697 posts)
28. She was a retired nurse.
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 07:20 AM
Jan 2020

As an older nurse, I've noticed the physical, mental, and emotional stress all add up, and she may not be able to do that job any more.

Indykatie

(3,697 posts)
20. Trump is Terrible But He Hasn't Cut Any One's SS ......Not Yet Anyway
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 04:31 AM
Jan 2020

The annual increased tied to the CPI has been very small but at least Trump hasn't reduced the monthly SS payments. Same with Medicare. Nothing has been cut yet for existing beneficiaries of Medicare. I'm glad this woman won't be voting for Trump but I think she's attributing sins to him that he hasn't committed yet.

ooky

(8,928 posts)
59. The OP mentions the lady voted for him in 2016.
Sat Jan 11, 2020, 12:08 AM
Jan 2020

She doesn't sound all that smart. But at least she has figured out Trump isn't helping her.

mahina

(17,693 posts)
22. I'm hesitating because I don't want to be an ass
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 05:50 AM
Jan 2020

...Nah! Going!

Ok- there’s a name for this logical fallacy.
Post hoc ergo propter hoc, or
“If that, then because if that”, or “correlation is not necessarily causation.”

Examples? Sure

I gave my kid her vaccinations and she is autistic. Must be the vaccines.

The crops failed after a new family moved into the area. They must be witches and crops failed because of their presence.

It it always necessarily being an insufferable jackass to get excited about sharing logical fallacies?

Most schools don’t teach reasoning and we have an apathetic and 49% misinformed electorate that has an amazing tolerance for disinformation. Well there may just be a correlation there.

DeminPennswoods

(15,290 posts)
34. Let her think Trump cut her SS/Medicare benefits
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 08:10 AM
Jan 2020

and encourage other Trumpers to think the same. Don't feel bad about not giving out the correct information either.

duforsure

(11,885 posts)
37. Had something similar happen,
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 10:09 AM
Jan 2020

A couple of people in my family have seen the light after being strong supporters , and now are almost fanatical about being against him. So much so they have already convinced others to switch away from trump.I think a lot of people have woke up to trump and the republicans , and are fed up with all their lying and corruption, and alignment with other corrupt criminal dictators.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
50. I play poker with a group of gun-toting redneck conservatives.
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 01:50 PM
Jan 2020

And, yes, they actually are really very nice people, but when the subject of Trump comes up they don't hold back. They hate Trump with a passion. That tells me that all hope is not lost.

getagrip_already

(14,830 posts)
52. one other possibility...
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 02:05 PM
Jan 2020

Is that here aca benefits either got whacked or her ability to use medicare expansion benefits never materialized because GA didn't vote for it.

There was something about states having to vote for medcare expansion that would effect aca benefits, but I'm fuzzy on the details.

On Edit: This is what I was thinking of. https://tcf.org/content/commentary/georgia-waiver-plans-gut-aca-protections-state-residents/?session=1

It was medicaid, not medicare, but it effectively guts aca benefits in GA, and the feds approved it.

questionseverything

(9,657 posts)
58. that is what i was thinking, her medicaid or what it pays for might of gotten cut
Fri Jan 10, 2020, 11:52 PM
Jan 2020

or she doesn't qualify for food stamps because of fed changes

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