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Atticus

(15,124 posts)
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 05:56 PM Oct 2019

Not an excuse, but, perhaps, an explanation.

Last edited Mon Oct 21, 2019, 06:46 PM - Edit history (1)

I will admit that I am often deeply impressed by the consistent, serious wisdom regularly provided by many of the regulars on this board. Others can be counted on to post something that will bring a smile or even a chuckle to many of us who desperately need one. Still others are always reminding us that tolerance, kindness and love of our fellow men and women is what we are supposed to be about. Finally, there are those who freely voice their anger and indignation at what they see as the traitorous behavior of Trump and his cult.

I am of an age when the satisfaction of speaking my mind easily outweighs the lifelong conditioning to avoid embarrassment at all costs. Some days I am optimistic and enthusiastic and post encouragement to "fight the good fight". On other days, I am down in the dumps and may do nothing but moan and complain. And, sometimes I just feel silly and crack a joke, share a poem or pen new lyrics for a "golden oldie". Some days I hit it out of the park. Some days I shoot myself in the foot.

In short, I am consistently inconsistent---and that bothers me not. I wake up each morning in an area in which nearly four of each five residents voted for Trump. I see MAGA caps when I shop and "Dixie swastikas" and worse on the vehicles I pass on the street. I have been ridiculed, cursed and threatened for the "sin" of wearing an "Impeach Trump" tee in public.

And, so, here, among friends, I am unapologetically my stubborn, graying, erratic self. Thank you for the island of sanity and tolerance you provide.

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Not an excuse, but, perhaps, an explanation. (Original Post) Atticus Oct 2019 OP
((Atticus)) blm Oct 2019 #1
That was beautiful. It is nice to be able to relax and feel dewsgirl Oct 2019 #2
Bad enough that you have to put up with trumpie that you are also Haggis for Breakfast Oct 2019 #19
I live in a red county in a purple state. cwydro Oct 2019 #3
As always, thanks for being you. nt 42bambi Oct 2019 #4
Thanks Atticus. DU truly is a great place to be. alwaysinasnit Oct 2019 #5
A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds... kentuck Oct 2019 #6
I always enjoy your posts lillypaddle Oct 2019 #7
These can be trying times for those of us who are sane. llmart Oct 2019 #8
As a group community we don't need to rehash everything from scratch every time. lunatica Oct 2019 #29
Brothers-in-Arms.... spanone Oct 2019 #9
Thanks for your post Atticus. smirkymonkey Oct 2019 #10
Keep up the good work! Fight the good fight!❤ Karadeniz Oct 2019 #11
I am of an age when the satisfaction of speaking my mind easily outweighs the lifelong conditioning Evolve Dammit Oct 2019 #12
Unfortunately, IMHO, it isn't as good as it could be Cary Oct 2019 #13
And the best thing is after Trump is removed it will be a party at your place. Botany Oct 2019 #14
I ALWAYS find you delightful -- and funny and smart -- no matter which mood you're in. fierywoman Oct 2019 #15
These are dark and terrible times. It's good to have this place to remind us... Hekate Oct 2019 #16
It's our safe room. tavernier Oct 2019 #17
Wow, what an awesome post. CaptainTruth Oct 2019 #18
Keep wearing that t-shirt with pride notinkansas Oct 2019 #20
Don't change you are best the way you are. wendyb-NC Oct 2019 #21
loveya orleans Oct 2019 #22
"Home is where you can take your girdle off and scratch where it itches." Hermit-The-Prog Oct 2019 #23
4 of 5 residents in your area are supporting a serial criminal. You are not the problem, sir. NCLefty Oct 2019 #24
Birds of a feather.... SergeStorms Oct 2019 #25
Loved Red Green. great show! mountain grammy Oct 2019 #28
Never missed an episode on PBS. SergeStorms Oct 2019 #34
May all of your time MyOwnPeace Oct 2019 #26
Yes to everything you said.. mountain grammy Oct 2019 #27
Villages all need lunatica Oct 2019 #30
DU has been my sanctuary since 2002. The 2016 election was made so much more traumatic when DU catbyte Oct 2019 #31
This message was self-deleted by its author catbyte Oct 2019 #32
I've never seen a post from you that made me wish either for Harker Oct 2019 #33

dewsgirl

(14,961 posts)
2. That was beautiful. It is nice to be able to relax and feel
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 06:13 PM
Oct 2019

comfortable expressing our opinions without feeling the need to defend ourselves. I too live in a red area. I just moved, I now live in Matt Gaetz's district and believe me it is just how you would think.

Haggis for Breakfast

(6,831 posts)
19. Bad enough that you have to put up with trumpie that you are also
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 11:13 PM
Oct 2019

saddled with Gaetz (R-Breathalyzer), too. What a train wreck. More like a three-ring circus.

My last duty station was Pensacola, but that was long before Baby Gaetz climbed into Daddy's shoes.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
3. I live in a red county in a purple state.
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 06:20 PM
Oct 2019

I’ve only seen one MAGA hat in the last few years. I do see pro-gun bumper stickers.

I drive a Subaru with obviously liberal stickers. No one’s ever verbally assaulted me. I’m sorry you’ve experienced that.

But NC is generally a friendly place, so maybe that’s why.

kentuck

(111,110 posts)
6. A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds...
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 06:51 PM
Oct 2019

...or something like that.

(edited to add "A foolish&quot

llmart

(15,557 posts)
8. These can be trying times for those of us who are sane.
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 07:20 PM
Oct 2019

Sometimes I can't believe how many of my posts contain swear words, even if I do use asterisks sometimes in the place of the letters. If you met me in person you'd know that I rarely use swear words in front of other people, unless I really, really know them well enough to know it won't offend. The situation we find ourselves in at this point in history has driven me to not even recognize myself any longer! I've also resorted to name calling and one-line posts because I honestly have run out of ways to describe Trump. Some days I can't even read any more of the craziness, so I do a quick perusal of DU headlines and then stop because there's only so much I can take without wanting to scream.

Anyway, I suspect a lot of us on here feel the same way. Recently a new poster stated that he/she was a bit disappointed in DU because he came here expecting a lot of good intellectual policy discussions and all he was seeing were one line comments or jokes or whatever else he said he found. I thought about that a lot and came to the conclusion that yes, maybe we do a lot of that these days, but I equated it to criticizing someone on the Titanic just running around and yelling curt orders while the ship is slowly sinking instead of analyzing what happened to make the ship start sinking. Right now I think we just don't have the energy to discuss ad nauseum (because we've already done that) how this happened to our country.


lunatica

(53,410 posts)
29. As a group community we don't need to rehash everything from scratch every time.
Tue Oct 22, 2019, 12:35 PM
Oct 2019

That’s an idiotic demand.

If a new person wants to give this site a try to see if it fulfills some personal standard then they can easily lurk and figure it out without barging in to make some rules for a long established site.

Also, with a tiny bit of effort they can figure out which posters are the ones who do post and invite discussions.

It also helps to understand the wise use of links that do flesh out and corroborate the opinions of DUers.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
10. Thanks for your post Atticus.
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 07:22 PM
Oct 2019

It's a nice reminder that it takes all kinds and everyone brings something to the table. We all have our moments, both good and bad. It's nice to have a place like DU to come to when it all gets to be too much out there.

Evolve Dammit

(16,781 posts)
12. I am of an age when the satisfaction of speaking my mind easily outweighs the lifelong conditioning
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 07:59 PM
Oct 2019

to avoid embarrassment...

ME TOO. All done with that! Thanks Atticus.

Cary

(11,746 posts)
13. Unfortunately, IMHO, it isn't as good as it could be
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 08:03 PM
Oct 2019

But I appreciate your positive attitude. I have tried to be positive. It isn't as easy as it should be at Democratic Underground.

Hekate

(90,859 posts)
16. These are dark and terrible times. It's good to have this place to remind us...
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 08:27 PM
Oct 2019

...of sanity and the hope ofbetter times to come.

tavernier

(12,410 posts)
17. It's our safe room.
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 08:50 PM
Oct 2019

Always a friend or three on the couch, another eating popcorn in the recliner. Nice place to drop into a few times a day.

CaptainTruth

(6,607 posts)
18. Wow, what an awesome post.
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 11:01 PM
Oct 2019

You're not the only one who feels that way.

I truly appreciate all my DU friends. You rock.

notinkansas

(1,096 posts)
20. Keep wearing that t-shirt with pride
Mon Oct 21, 2019, 11:57 PM
Oct 2019

I was warned in Missouri that I should be careful where I wear the Warren 'Nevertheless she persisted' shirt. Surprisingly though, I actually got a few 'like your shirt' comments in McConnell's Kentucky. So there's hope? Maybe?

Hermit-The-Prog

(33,480 posts)
23. "Home is where you can take your girdle off and scratch where it itches."
Tue Oct 22, 2019, 04:24 AM
Oct 2019

That bit of wisdom was proclaimed by my high school civics class teacher. (Funny what will stick for half a century). It was a clear message regardless of gender.

NCLefty

(3,678 posts)
24. 4 of 5 residents in your area are supporting a serial criminal. You are not the problem, sir.
Tue Oct 22, 2019, 05:05 AM
Oct 2019

And we can't let the 92 million non-voters off the hook either. They outnumber Trump voters by 30 million!

SergeStorms

(19,204 posts)
25. Birds of a feather....
Tue Oct 22, 2019, 06:42 AM
Oct 2019

and all that. I find myself in much the same situation, and DU has been an oasis of sanity (for the most part) since the republicans stole the election from Al Gore.

Quoting an old Canadian showman named Steve Smith, better known to most as 'Red Green', "We're all in this together".

SergeStorms

(19,204 posts)
34. Never missed an episode on PBS.
Tue Oct 22, 2019, 09:28 PM
Oct 2019

I even took the family to Toronto in 1999 to watch a live taping for a future show. We got to meet 'Red', 'Harold' (Patrick McKenna), and 'Edgar Montrose' (Graham Green from "Dances with Wolves" fame). We had a ball. Good clean fun, and hilarious!

MyOwnPeace

(16,940 posts)
26. May all of your time
Tue Oct 22, 2019, 06:49 AM
Oct 2019

on "that island" be rewarded with a bottle floating to shore - and in it is a note that says:

"Help me - they've thrown me out of the White House. Donnie"

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
30. Villages all need
Tue Oct 22, 2019, 12:41 PM
Oct 2019

their village drunk, fool and wisemen. Evidently you choose to stand out as the village wise man.

catbyte

(34,484 posts)
31. DU has been my sanctuary since 2002. The 2016 election was made so much more traumatic when DU
Tue Oct 22, 2019, 01:11 PM
Oct 2019

was hacked and went down for weeks. It actually traumatized me. It's the first site I log onto in the morning and the last site I check before I turn in at night. It's indispensable. You are indispensible. Even though we squabble, I still love you guys.

Response to Atticus (Original post)

Harker

(14,055 posts)
33. I've never seen a post from you that made me wish either for
Tue Oct 22, 2019, 06:53 PM
Oct 2019

an apology or an explanation.

Thanks for your involvement. This is a much better place for you being here.

Are you preparing to make an outrageous statement?

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