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Bayard

(22,075 posts)
Thu Aug 29, 2019, 10:47 AM Aug 2019

Compassionate Cops

"Yesterday, SGT McCoy met a man by the name of Dan Williams, age:57, sitting in front of Wendy's in Horn Lake. He was down on his luck and was hungry. SGT McCoy walked him inside and offered to buy the man lunch. The Wendy's Management would not let the deputy pay, because they covered Mr. Williams' meal instead!
SGT McCoy sat down and ate lunch with Mr. Williams. He found out that Mr. Williams had no money or phone and has been catching rides from Ohio in an attempt to get down to Monroe, Louisiana to be with family.

SGT McCoy could tell that Mr. Williams had a good heart and wanted to help him, so he got with Deputies Brea, Garrett, and Andrews. They all pulled money out of their own pockets and pitched in to buy Mr. Williams an $89.00 Greyhound bus ticket to get home, along with an additional $60.00 for some food and necessities. SGT McCoy later said that Mr. Williams broke down and cried as he was dropping him off at the bus station in Memphis, TN. Mr. Williams looked over to SGT McCoy and told him, "Out of all of the people that reached out to help me in my time of need, it was the cops. Thank you!!"

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Compassionate Cops (Original Post) Bayard Aug 2019 OP
What an uplifting story....we sure can use more of this, considering the lack of asiliveandbreathe Aug 2019 #1
Human beings can still surprise me every now and again... nt Guy Whitey Corngood Aug 2019 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author Bayard Aug 2019 #3
"SGT McCoy could tell that Mr. Williams had a good heart..." WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2019 #4
This is the first I'm seeing it. SMC22307 Aug 2019 #7
We needed that...thanks! Karadeniz Aug 2019 #5
K&R...👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 spanone Aug 2019 #6
Great story, BUT.... A HERETIC I AM Aug 2019 #8
nonsense Skittles Aug 2019 #10
Uh huh A HERETIC I AM Aug 2019 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Aug 2019 #13
****L O L**** A HERETIC I AM Aug 2019 #14
This stuff is sadly the exception Lordquinton Aug 2019 #15
Absolutely A HERETIC I AM Aug 2019 #17
That's the real thing Lordquinton Aug 2019 #18
Wonderful touching story. Duppers Aug 2019 #9
it is 3 years old, BUT it is real, not some fake internet tosh Celerity Aug 2019 #11
Heartwarming story. smirkymonkey Aug 2019 #16
There are good cops and bad cops Bayard Aug 2019 #19

asiliveandbreathe

(8,203 posts)
1. What an uplifting story....we sure can use more of this, considering the lack of
Thu Aug 29, 2019, 11:00 AM
Aug 2019

compassion we hear about every day....thanks for passing this along..

Response to Bayard (Original post)

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,347 posts)
4. "SGT McCoy could tell that Mr. Williams had a good heart..."
Thu Aug 29, 2019, 11:22 AM
Aug 2019


Also this story has been floating on the internet for a few years already.

SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
7. This is the first I'm seeing it.
Thu Aug 29, 2019, 08:54 PM
Aug 2019

Impossible to keep up with everything floating around on the internet.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,368 posts)
8. Great story, BUT....
Thu Aug 29, 2019, 09:17 PM
Aug 2019

Of this I have ZERO doubt;

For Ssgt McCoy, if he is anything like a MAJORITY of police officers in this country, the distance between being "Officer Friendly/Do Good/Kind and Decent" and "Officer Beating the Shit Out of You With a Stick" can be measured with a micrometer.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,368 posts)
12. Uh huh
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 08:00 AM
Aug 2019

Sure it is

It’s predictable that when a police officer acts like a decent human being, you know, like they SHOULD, the reaction is always “how wonderful” or “so touching” but when that same Officer is INEVITABLY caught doing something illegal or inappropriate, it is very often “the perpetrator shouldn’t have resisted” or something similar.

THERE.

ARE.

NO.

GOOD.

COPS.

PERIOD.

If there were, there wouldn’t be any bad ones.

I would bet a days pay that Sargent Nice Guy Up there has witnessed on more than one occasion, a fellow officer do something illegal, yet didn’t arrest him or even stop him. That makes him just as bad as the rest

Response to A HERETIC I AM (Reply #12)

A HERETIC I AM

(24,368 posts)
14. ****L O L****
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 06:09 PM
Aug 2019

It’s nonsensical to think that the police in this country are the good guys.

They aren’t.

There is a reason why these sorts of stories are stories at all.

Because they are the exception, not the rule.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
15. This stuff is sadly the exception
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 07:02 PM
Aug 2019

It's a publicity stunt, but the profession is inherently opressive and not there to serve the public.

A HERETIC I AM

(24,368 posts)
17. Absolutely
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 07:17 PM
Aug 2019

I realize that it isn’t the case that every single police officer is a criminal or out to do intentional harm, but the fact is, the “profession” attracts a certain personality type, and that is one who easily leans toward authoritarianism.

Getting arrested for “contempt of cop” is increasingly common.

I’m glad to read officer McCoy did the right thing here, but I am confident in my statement above; if circumstances were only slightly different, that homeless man would have had a dramatically different experience.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
18. That's the real thing
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 10:54 PM
Aug 2019

The situation could have gone the complete opposite direction, and a lot of the people holding this up as an example of cops doing nice things would be defending the cop arresting/shooting the guy.

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
9. Wonderful touching story.
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 04:04 AM
Aug 2019

Last edited Fri Aug 30, 2019, 05:06 AM - Edit history (1)

Heartwarming.
Hallelujah! Not all cops are jaded and corrupt.

K&R



On edit:
Btw, I've a soft spot in my heart for one young Tennessee cop, a hwy patrolman in Bristol (the other end of the state). He treated me so decently one night after stopping me for speeding. Never had been pulled over by such a sweet cop ever before.

Also reminds me of the last time we were in a little wide-place-in-the-road called "Quiet side of the Smokies," officially named Townsend. Outside the small sandwich Shoppe where we were ordering lunch, there was an older bedraggled gentleman who obviously was having some mental and mobility issues. He was pacing and mumbling to himself. Customers at the counter were looking a bit worried about him. The waitress behind the counter, sensing our concern, told us all what she knew about his story, about his being a homeless Vietnam vet with debilitating PTSD. And of course he was broke. So touched by the story, the lady in front of us put $6 or $7 on the counter and told the waitress she was paying for his food. Then the dam broke! Most all the customers, us included, went to the tip basket and filled it with a bundle of bills, enough for him to stay overnight at the cheap motel nearby. This was after we learned that he sometimes spends nights sleeping on porches of businesses or at the sm local jail where compassionate cops also feed him breakfast the next morning. Don't remember having such an experience before.
And I don't think there are any "social services" in that tiny burg other than the local wait-staff and the warmhearted cops and tourists.

I should always remember this man whenever I start slipping into any self-pitting state.


Celerity

(43,383 posts)
11. it is 3 years old, BUT it is real, not some fake internet tosh
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 04:15 AM
Aug 2019
Hitchhiker Trying to Meet Family Is Treated to Lunch, Bus Ticket by Generous Cops: 'We're Here To Help' (video too)

Inside Edition•August 19, 2016

https://news.yahoo.com/hitchhiker-trying-meet-family-treated-161500043.html
 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
16. Heartwarming story.
Fri Aug 30, 2019, 07:15 PM
Aug 2019

I know a lot of people here hate cops, and I think a lot of cops can be cruel authoritarians at time (especially in large cities), however I don't think they can all be judged by the actions of some of those in their profession. I have known some kind, decent cops - even in NYC, believe it or not - who were genuinely concerned about the safety of the people they were sworn to protect.

Bayard

(22,075 posts)
19. There are good cops and bad cops
Sat Aug 31, 2019, 10:37 AM
Aug 2019

I met a lot of the good guys in Louisville when I was attacked while out on a run one day.

I met some really bad ones--manhandled by one that caused some permanent nerve damage--when I lived in Calif, west of Fresno.

The bad ones get all the publicity, while the good ones go quietly about their jobs. Kind of like the general population.

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