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leftieNanner

(15,173 posts)
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 12:29 PM Aug 2019

A very happy announcement!

We just returned from Cambridge, MA where we witnessed our daughter give her PhD Thesis Defense in Physical Chemistry at MIT.

Lots of happy smiles and tears from Mom (but of course I cried!)

And yes, we DO have a doctor in the house!

Side note: she is like her mother - very progressive and politically active!

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A very happy announcement! (Original Post) leftieNanner Aug 2019 OP
That is wonderful pandr32 Aug 2019 #1
Congrats to you and the new PhD! CTyankee Aug 2019 #2
One of the things I love about her ambition leftieNanner Aug 2019 #7
With that sort of ambition, I am sure she will be happy in life. CTyankee Aug 2019 #11
People seldom realize that the bright ones murielm99 Aug 2019 #20
Oh Muriel! leftieNanner Aug 2019 #21
Just remember that you started this! murielm99 Aug 2019 #22
Excellent! leftieNanner Aug 2019 #24
I won't hijack. murielm99 Aug 2019 #58
Wonderful - no small fete - congrats to all! asiliveandbreathe Aug 2019 #3
Congratulations! smirkymonkey Aug 2019 #4
K&R... spanone Aug 2019 #5
Congrats to you all! MelissaB Aug 2019 #6
How wonderful for you all, and how nice you could be there to share the moment! Hekate Aug 2019 #8
wow! A PhD in P-Chem from MIT? Botany Aug 2019 #9
Here's to more women in the field of chemistry! Congratulations!! Mrs. Overall Aug 2019 #10
Congratulations NewJeffCT Aug 2019 #12
OMG!!! renate Aug 2019 #13
LOL leftieNanner Aug 2019 #18
Congratulations! You must be very proud of your daughter. LastLiberal in PalmSprings Aug 2019 #14
Fantastic! Thanks for Sharing! dlk Aug 2019 #15
I thought you were notifying us that ... aggiesal Aug 2019 #16
Well that would certainly be a wonderful announcement! leftieNanner Aug 2019 #23
Huge shout out from one Chemist to another. NNadir Aug 2019 #17
Good for him! leftieNanner Aug 2019 #19
There was only one Ivy I thought... NNadir Aug 2019 #27
For him to have a supportive adviser is huge leftieNanner Aug 2019 #30
Yes. He interned this summer at ORNL. NNadir Aug 2019 #32
Congratulations!!! redstatebluegirl Aug 2019 #25
Looks like you have a lot to be proud of!.congratulations one and all!❤ Karadeniz Aug 2019 #26
when our kids do great things msdogi Aug 2019 #28
Congratulations! nt Granny M Aug 2019 #29
Wow - fabulous cilla4progress Aug 2019 #31
Physical Chemistry leftieNanner Aug 2019 #33
Of course! cilla4progress Aug 2019 #34
Yay!!! Good news is SOOOOOO welcome right now! calimary Aug 2019 #35
Congratulations to all! blueinredohio Aug 2019 #36
WOW! Good for her and good for you. That is no small feat! Raven Aug 2019 #37
Yay! LittleGirl Aug 2019 #38
I was misbehaving at one point leftieNanner Aug 2019 #42
Hee hee. LittleGirl Aug 2019 #44
Wow that us a staggeringly immense accomplishment. mahina Aug 2019 #39
Mahalo mahina! leftieNanner Aug 2019 #40
Woot!! Congratulations to ALL! Hulk Aug 2019 #41
You must be bursting with pride. AJT Aug 2019 #43
That is AWESOME!!!! Wiseman32218 Aug 2019 #45
YAY science! YAY education! YAY progressive and politically active... CousinIT Aug 2019 #46
On top of her academic work leftieNanner Aug 2019 #50
Oh damn. She's fabulous and in good company! CousinIT Aug 2019 #52
Outstanding!!! PCIntern Aug 2019 #47
Wonderful! panader0 Aug 2019 #48
I'm very impressed! Poiuyt Aug 2019 #49
Funny leftieNanner Aug 2019 #51
Here's a funny story: Poiuyt Aug 2019 #56
Great story leftieNanner Aug 2019 #60
Congrats and BumRushDaShow Aug 2019 #53
My oh my! What an accomplishment. MontanaMama Aug 2019 #54
Wonderful malaise Aug 2019 #55
Congratulations to you and your daughter. Mike 03 Aug 2019 #57
Excellent! GeoWilliam750 Aug 2019 #59
Congratulations, proud Momma!! nt Sogo Aug 2019 #61
Big smiles for you and because of you. Congrats to you all. Hortensis Aug 2019 #62
Wonderful achievement. More women scientists bring truth into the open. JudyM Aug 2019 #63
Teaching leftieNanner Aug 2019 #64
Nano - so cool! She'll be teaching at the cutting edge. JudyM Aug 2019 #65
Evidence of some great parenting!!! nt/t GetRidOfThem Aug 2019 #66
Woo Hoo! Congratulations! jimlup Aug 2019 #67
congratulations! handmade34 Aug 2019 #68
Wow. Physical Chemistry at MIT. PatrickforO Aug 2019 #69
Big time congrats discntnt_irny_srcsm Aug 2019 #70
Congratulations !!!! Talitha Aug 2019 #71
a major achievement Demovictory9 Aug 2019 #72
Awesome! Roy Rolling Aug 2019 #73
Excellent! leftieNanner Aug 2019 #75
Wow congrats to you all! Blue_playwright Aug 2019 #74

leftieNanner

(15,173 posts)
7. One of the things I love about her ambition
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 12:50 PM
Aug 2019

is that she wants to teach at a college level (not university) so that she can mentor students as she was mentored.

She could make a lot more money in industry or at a bigger school in the future, but that's not why she is doing this.

She's off to do a post-doc job for a few years before she finds the college position.

We are immensely proud of her. She's bright, certainly, but she works her butt off!

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
11. With that sort of ambition, I am sure she will be happy in life.
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 12:53 PM
Aug 2019

She will feel fulfilled and take joy in what she does. That is the most important thing!

murielm99

(30,771 posts)
20. People seldom realize that the bright ones
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 01:21 PM
Aug 2019

do work their butts off. Many people think it just comes to them.

Congrats. I love it when parents brag about their great kids.

Hekate

(90,846 posts)
8. How wonderful for you all, and how nice you could be there to share the moment!
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 12:50 PM
Aug 2019

Finishing a doctoral dissertation and defending it are damn hard work. I hope she takes a moment to just enjoy the achievement.

renate

(13,776 posts)
13. OMG!!!
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 12:57 PM
Aug 2019

A PhD?

In physical chemistry?

From M I freaking T??????



Color me impressed!!! Congratulations and well done to her!!!

leftieNanner

(15,173 posts)
18. LOL
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 01:17 PM
Aug 2019

I refer to it as M I freaking T too!

Her work is far above my pay grade - but I actually understood a great deal of her presentation. She will be a good teacher.

14. Congratulations! You must be very proud of your daughter.
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 12:58 PM
Aug 2019

Both attending MIT and getting her PhD are significant accomplishments.

aggiesal

(8,935 posts)
16. I thought you were notifying us that ...
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 01:10 PM
Aug 2019

Dolt45 quit, resigned, kicked out, ...

But, this is fantastic news.
Congrats!

leftieNanner

(15,173 posts)
23. Well that would certainly be a wonderful announcement!
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 01:27 PM
Aug 2019

I'm reading prognosticators recently who expect him to drop out of the 2020 race. Pence would pardon him and Barr would have his back. Maybe not so far fetched at this point. Although that would still leave him open for state charges in New York.

Somebody needs to check for a piece of paper on his desk with a list of countries without extradition treaties!

NNadir

(33,563 posts)
17. Huge shout out from one Chemist to another.
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 01:14 PM
Aug 2019

It's great to add another to our under appreciated science.

My boy is thinking Grad school at MIT, although he's a few years off. He's Mat Sci, and I'd love it if he got to work with their Nuke people.

leftieNanner

(15,173 posts)
19. Good for him!
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 01:20 PM
Aug 2019

She felt that MIT was a good place to go for grad school, but undergrad would not have been right for her.

So many people in different chemical fields with whom I have discussed this have said "Oh, P-Chem! I hated P-Chem."

Not her!

NNadir

(33,563 posts)
27. There was only one Ivy I thought...
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 01:34 PM
Aug 2019

...he should apply to for undergrad but he declined to do so.

The Ivys, I think are great for Grad school, since the faculty's focus is research, not teaching, usually.

He's at a very good research school and is getting a fabulous education, but he's among people who are psychologically similar.

Happily for him, his advisor has taken him under wing, and he's having a tremendous experience being guided into research.

There is so much angst involved in undergraduate Ivy admissions, that it can be a killing field.

In my life I've seen a number of young kids get chewed up by the process, exceptionally bright kids too.

Your daughter did it right and you have every right to be extremely proud.

leftieNanner

(15,173 posts)
30. For him to have a supportive adviser is huge
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 01:42 PM
Aug 2019

My daughter went to Wellesley and because it's not a university, there are no graduate students. This meant that the research assistants are all undergrads. She had so many outstanding opportunities to do work that is traditionally done by grad students. When she graduated, she had the equivalent resume of someone with a Masters degree.

I hope your son is having opportunities for summer internships. That was very important.

Agree about the Ivys. They are super intense and not necessarily the right environment for every student.

Best of luck to your son.

NNadir

(33,563 posts)
32. Yes. He interned this summer at ORNL.
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 01:48 PM
Aug 2019

They just set him free to accomplish a task.

He learned to love research, and learned a lot about serendipity as well.

cilla4progress

(24,782 posts)
31. Wow - fabulous
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 01:47 PM
Aug 2019

and impressive! Physical Chemistry?! Woooo!

(can only guess what it is! )

Good job, mom and all!!!!!

leftieNanner

(15,173 posts)
33. Physical Chemistry
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 01:49 PM
Aug 2019

is kind of a combination of Physics and Chemistry. At least that's the way I understand it.

And thanks.

leftieNanner

(15,173 posts)
42. I was misbehaving at one point
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 02:16 PM
Aug 2019

And she told me "The problem with raising thoroughly self confident daughters is that it's impossible for you to embarrass us."

Bazinga!

 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
41. Woot!! Congratulations to ALL!
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 02:15 PM
Aug 2019

Job well done. Happy for all of you! Make the world a better place...starting here at home.👍

CousinIT

(9,261 posts)
46. YAY science! YAY education! YAY progressive and politically active...
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 03:27 PM
Aug 2019

....THESE are the things that give me hope for the future.

WELL DONE!

leftieNanner

(15,173 posts)
50. On top of her academic work
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 03:58 PM
Aug 2019

She was also chair of the graduate student external affairs board. Got to travel to DC to lobby Congress, in particular that provision in Paul Ryan's tax monstrosity that wanted to tax graduate tuition scholarships as income.

Angela Merkel has a PhD in P Chem. Hmmm. What do you think?

CousinIT

(9,261 posts)
52. Oh damn. She's fabulous and in good company!
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 04:01 PM
Aug 2019

Tell her to run for POTUS - like, if she gets bored or something.

Poiuyt

(18,130 posts)
49. I'm very impressed!
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 03:58 PM
Aug 2019

I took P-Chem in college, and I have no idea how I passed the course. It's traditionally one of the most difficult classes at any university, but to work towards a PhD and at MIT no less is amazing!

PS - I was an organic chemist, but that's just glorified cooking.

Poiuyt

(18,130 posts)
56. Here's a funny story:
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 04:08 PM
Aug 2019

When I was in physical chemistry, I had trouble with all the advanced calculous. The professor moved very fast, so I would furiously scribble down what he wrote on the board, and I'd try to figure it out in the evening. I was afraid to ask a question, because I didn't want to ask a stupid question.

One day, the smartest kid in the class raised his hand and said, "Dr. Mac, what the hell are you talking about?" Everybody in the class let out a big sigh of relief. Apparently, no one understood what he was talking about, but we were all afraid of slowing the rest of the class down. The only student who did understand was a physics major who was just talking the course for fun.

leftieNanner

(15,173 posts)
60. Great story
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 04:47 PM
Aug 2019

I took organic chem at Cal from a Nobel Laureate who was a singular jerk. He was writing madly on the chalk board - the kind that are on a track and after you have filled one board, you push it up and keep writing. Someone in the class asked a question several boards back, and his answer was "if you were two weeks ahead in your assignments, as you should be, you would know the answer to that." Then he kept writing. He was one of those professors that is forced by the university to teach a lower division course when all he wants to do is further his research. I learned much more from my TA than I ever did from him.

BumRushDaShow

(129,608 posts)
53. Congrats and
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 04:03 PM
Aug 2019

OMG P-chem!!!! (yes I had 2 semesters of it and that was more than enough - Schrödinger's equation )

MontanaMama

(23,344 posts)
54. My oh my! What an accomplishment.
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 04:04 PM
Aug 2019

Congratulations to your daughter and to you. This is indeed a good day.

JudyM

(29,292 posts)
63. Wonderful achievement. More women scientists bring truth into the open.
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 05:08 PM
Aug 2019

Does she have a special interest within the field?

leftieNanner

(15,173 posts)
64. Teaching
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 05:48 PM
Aug 2019

At the college level, not University. She wants to mentor students as she was mentored by her major professor.

Edit to add: Her research involves nano particles.

JudyM

(29,292 posts)
65. Nano - so cool! She'll be teaching at the cutting edge.
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 05:56 PM
Aug 2019

Maybe teaching/inspiring folks who will find cures to diseases, since nano is such an expanding frontier in medicine.

So happy for both of you.

jimlup

(7,968 posts)
67. Woo Hoo! Congratulations!
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 08:15 PM
Aug 2019

More than a doctor - an expert in Physical Chemistry. We need more of them in the world.

PatrickforO

(14,593 posts)
69. Wow. Physical Chemistry at MIT.
Tue Aug 20, 2019, 10:22 PM
Aug 2019

That's a really, really proud thing! Congratulations to her for a wonderful accomplishment.

Roy Rolling

(6,941 posts)
73. Awesome!
Wed Aug 21, 2019, 05:52 AM
Aug 2019

My wife and I made a May trip to Cambridge for the same reason. Our MIT daughter is something special, as is yours. Congratulations.

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