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JI7

(89,264 posts)
Tue Aug 13, 2019, 08:57 PM Aug 2019

Man Invites Public to Wife's Funeral (El Paso victim) becsuse he has no other Family

I hope many people go and Antonio Basco will see he has many family members in his community. I hope Beto O'Rourke is able to go.


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Margie Reckard was "an angel" to Antonio Basco, her husband of more than two decades. And with his late wife's passing, Basco says there is no remaining family, so he is opening up her funeral to the community.

Services for Reckard will be held on Friday from 5 to 9 p.m. at Perches Funeral Home at 4946 Hondo Pass in northeast El Paso. The funeral home director told ABC-7 that his chapel will hold about 200 people, and he hopes it will be filled for the service.

Basco said that he and Reckard were together for 22 years, and her kindness and selflessness were incomparable.

"I mean you didn't even have to be there to talk to her. You could just look at how she was, how she acted, how she presented herself. She was an awesome lady," he recently told The Associated Press. "You see Margie, more or less, was the brains of the family."

Basco said he and Reckard knew there was something between them as soon as they met, and their life together was like something out of a fairy tale. Reckard was the strong one, he said, and she's "going to be missed a lot."

"We were gonna live together and die together," he said. "That was our plan."

https://www.kvia.com/news/el-paso/el-paso-man-with-no-remaining-family-invites-community-to-shooting-victim-wife-s-funeral/1108910199
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Man Invites Public to Wife's Funeral (El Paso victim) becsuse he has no other Family (Original Post) JI7 Aug 2019 OP
I also hope Beto can make it Hekate Aug 2019 #1
I can't imagine how lost he must feel Bettie Aug 2019 #2
I wish I could be there. I will be there in spirit. .. CatMor Aug 2019 #3
That's heartbreaking on so many levels. lapucelle Aug 2019 #4
... Me. Aug 2019 #8
OMG. So heartbreaking. SunSeeker Aug 2019 #5
I am devastated to read that. I know his community will respond and turn out for him, but hlthe2b Aug 2019 #6
I'm sure Ted Cruz will show up... Gumboot Aug 2019 #7
Sadness ellie Aug 2019 #9
My heart breaks for him. Marie Marie Aug 2019 #10
One other thing I'd like to see ... lpbk2713 Aug 2019 #17
good idea for those who can't make it JI7 Aug 2019 #18
Heartbreaking Joinfortmill Aug 2019 #11
This hurts. Physically hurts. tymorial Aug 2019 #12
I know, if I lived in El Paso I would go. Initech Aug 2019 #21
K&R. Wish I could be there to help show him he is family. KPN Aug 2019 #13
That is Faux pas Aug 2019 #14
oh! Kali Aug 2019 #15
Absolutely heartbreaking Raine Aug 2019 #16
So tragic. I hope people show up for him and his beloved. smirkymonkey Aug 2019 #19
I wish I could send flowers 912gdm Aug 2019 #20

Hekate

(90,793 posts)
1. I also hope Beto can make it
Tue Aug 13, 2019, 09:01 PM
Aug 2019

These communities will grieve a long time, and individuals will grieve forever.

Bettie

(16,124 posts)
2. I can't imagine how lost he must feel
Tue Aug 13, 2019, 09:01 PM
Aug 2019

without my husband, I can't even imagine being able to go on. But, we have kids, so I'd have someone to hang on to.

CatMor

(6,212 posts)
3. I wish I could be there. I will be there in spirit. ..
Tue Aug 13, 2019, 09:18 PM
Aug 2019

how very sad this all is. I personally blame trump for this happening.

hlthe2b

(102,357 posts)
6. I am devastated to read that. I know his community will respond and turn out for him, but
Tue Aug 13, 2019, 09:50 PM
Aug 2019

I wish I could join them. He'll be in my thoughts, that is for sure.

Gumboot

(531 posts)
7. I'm sure Ted Cruz will show up...
Tue Aug 13, 2019, 10:01 PM
Aug 2019

... to express his sincere condolences, too.

Naaah, he'll be miles away in the safety of Washington, accepting another check from an NRA lobbyist.


Marie Marie

(9,999 posts)
10. My heart breaks for him.
Tue Aug 13, 2019, 10:27 PM
Aug 2019

I hope there is a huge attendance at her funeral. And I am guessing there will be.

lpbk2713

(42,766 posts)
17. One other thing I'd like to see ...
Tue Aug 13, 2019, 11:38 PM
Aug 2019


Because the name and address of the funeral home was posted on the
internet I'm hoping flowers will be in abundance sent from people from
far and wide. It won't be much of a consolation but it will be a thoughtful
gesture from those who could not be present.

Joinfortmill

(14,456 posts)
11. Heartbreaking
Tue Aug 13, 2019, 10:29 PM
Aug 2019

This is so poignant. He has such love and admiration for her. I hope the church is filled.

tymorial

(3,433 posts)
12. This hurts. Physically hurts.
Tue Aug 13, 2019, 10:31 PM
Aug 2019

No one should be alone. I am going to bed miserable after reading this. God I wish I was even remotely close just to provide this man some comfort and compassion.

Initech

(100,102 posts)
21. I know, if I lived in El Paso I would go.
Wed Aug 14, 2019, 01:39 AM
Aug 2019

This is just unbelievably sad and what an unnecessary tragedy. There has got to be something we can do to end all of this.

Raine

(30,540 posts)
16. Absolutely heartbreaking
Tue Aug 13, 2019, 11:25 PM
Aug 2019

reading that brought me to tears for this man in the loss of his wife. RIP sweet lady ...

912gdm

(959 posts)
20. I wish I could send flowers
Wed Aug 14, 2019, 01:32 AM
Aug 2019

can't afford it atm. this just gets me cause I know that's me in 10 or 20 years..

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