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OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 04:48 PM Aug 2019

Am I the only one who thinks that sometimes things are just as they appear?

Epstein was suicidal. He had tried before. He couldn't stand life in prison so he took the easy way out.
He was a tricky bastard. He probably acted all normal and calm so he could be taken off suicide watch.
He planned it.

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Am I the only one who thinks that sometimes things are just as they appear? (Original Post) OKNancy Aug 2019 OP
Occam's Razor. Codeine Aug 2019 #1
Right elleng Aug 2019 #3
What? There was a razor!!!!!11! Yonnie3 Aug 2019 #6
Damn you and your logic - sounds like we might have a college boy over here. Shaddox Aug 2019 #9
I wish! Codeine Aug 2019 #12
Freud: "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar." SharonAnn Aug 2019 #13
+1000! The DU is crazy at times! nt USALiberal Aug 2019 #72
IMO this seems to be a reverse Occam's razor. It's too convenient... brush Aug 2019 #96
His suicide does seem a trifle premature. Ligyron Aug 2019 #112
What an absurd and bizarre theory! jberryhill Aug 2019 #2
Not the only one...nt emmaverybo Aug 2019 #4
I bet I am not the only one washing socks today. n/t rzemanfl Aug 2019 #7
I'm not. But my wife is. Lochloosa Aug 2019 #16
I have done two loads of socks just today! ChubbyStar Aug 2019 #23
Can someone explain the "washing socks" reference Codeine Aug 2019 #27
I believe it just refers to finding some mundane thing to do to avoid the news for whatever reason mr_lebowski Aug 2019 #36
Ohhhhhhh. Codeine Aug 2019 #38
Not my experience with you my friend (nt) mr_lebowski Aug 2019 #44
I got that in response to my mentioning how much I miss my parents since they are both gone. emmaverybo Aug 2019 #43
For reals? That sucks! ((hug)) nt mr_lebowski Aug 2019 #45
Oh my gosh. Thanks for that hug! emmaverybo Aug 2019 #46
((((hug)))) ((((hug)))) ((((hug)))) ((((hug)))) ((((hug)))) ((((hug)))) mr_lebowski Aug 2019 #50
You make it better, emmaverybo Aug 2019 #57
Glad to be of service. May all your remaining loved ones have the same good fortune :) (nt) mr_lebowski Aug 2019 #64
I miss my parents too. Very much. cwydro Aug 2019 #65
Oh, so sorry. I saw both my parents live with that. It helps somehow to know that others do know emmaverybo Aug 2019 #69
I think it means something else. cwydro Aug 2019 #49
Like I said ... that's what I assumed, not what I KNOW :) mr_lebowski Aug 2019 #51
I'll pm you. I don't want to cast aspersions lol. cwydro Aug 2019 #53
Could also mean cleaning up after a hookup. Is that what you didn't want to cast asparagus about?nt zackymilly Aug 2019 #110
Rinse. Recycle. Reuse. Repeat. sheshe2 Aug 2019 #59
You're not the only one CatMor Aug 2019 #5
Yup. FiveGoodMen Aug 2019 #81
I agree. Tipperary Aug 2019 #8
You can't fool me, lol. BootinUp Aug 2019 #10
murdered, period Eliot Rosewater Aug 2019 #11
Ooh be careful, Eliot. You're going to make some people clutch their pearls and throw themselves Cousin Dupree Aug 2019 #20
We NEVER seem to learn, do we Eliot Rosewater Aug 2019 #32
Hope your NEVER on a real jury! nt USALiberal Aug 2019 #74
Not likely Pacifist Patriot Aug 2019 #93
I'm with you Mike 03 Aug 2019 #14
Because he's a narcissist who thought he could buy his way out of it? BannonsLiver Aug 2019 #30
He bought his way out the first time. TwilightZone Aug 2019 #34
Maybe, but these guys often think they can get through anything. BannonsLiver Aug 2019 #55
His fortunes were turning against him Mike 03 Aug 2019 #37
Narcissists also can't stand being destroyed StarfishSaver Aug 2019 #76
No, narcissists never accept the proposition that they've even been destroyed PandoraAwakened Aug 2019 #99
There is NO way he killed himself for a variety of reasons especially the narcissist Eliot Rosewater Aug 2019 #109
The ones who believe it was just an unassisted suicide are either... brush Aug 2019 #114
Russian Embassy openly supports Gabbard and yet she has some fans here, SIGH Eliot Rosewater Aug 2019 #115
Yeah, they say it's just another conspiracy theory even though... brush Aug 2019 #117
Doesn't fit kurtcagle Aug 2019 #85
I believe most of the suspicion... Pacifist Patriot Aug 2019 #90
Whether he did it himself or not - he should have been on suicide precautions. harumph Aug 2019 #15
Agree! Mike 03 Aug 2019 #19
Uh-huh, and Trump & Barr are good guys who didn't have anything to do with Epstein... polichick Aug 2019 #17
Yep. Tried to kill himself once, things looking worse, stopbush Aug 2019 #18
No GeorgeGist Aug 2019 #21
Well, maybe so, but if so, they may well have LIHOP. gristy Aug 2019 #22
Of course that may be the truth. But there is every reason to be suspicious, given he'd been on hlthe2b Aug 2019 #24
+1, it's irrational to take the Trump administration at face value uponit7771 Aug 2019 #42
One thing we might be seeing on DU Mike 03 Aug 2019 #25
+1000 smirkymonkey Aug 2019 #63
I'm skeptical. nt barbtries Aug 2019 #26
This Was a Very Convenient Suicide dlk Aug 2019 #28
Dunno. Igel Aug 2019 #39
If you block your wife on your phone jberryhill Aug 2019 #77
This was a Convenient Suicide for Those Who Utilized Epstein's "Services" dlk Aug 2019 #79
+1, uponit7771 Aug 2019 #41
Many examples of prisoners killing themselves. nt USALiberal Aug 2019 #89
Maybe he faked his death torius Aug 2019 #29
Maybe he is with that Enron dude lunasun Aug 2019 #52
Things are just as they are. Appearance is the illusion of observational perspective. WheelWalker Aug 2019 #31
I read a while ago Epstein was severly depressed. Not unusual to be suicidal and riversedge Aug 2019 #33
What is perfectly clear to me as things appear randr Aug 2019 #35
If you ignore the obvious yes uponit7771 Aug 2019 #40
obvious what? AncientGeezer Aug 2019 #48
That bar and Trump are running the government uponit7771 Aug 2019 #54
Well yeah..1 is potus the other is ag.... AncientGeezer Aug 2019 #58
Bookmarked uponit7771 Aug 2019 #60
How dare you.....be reasonable...unacceptable. AncientGeezer Aug 2019 #47
No, you are not the only one. GoCubsGo Aug 2019 #56
Always or are there ever exceptions? BannonsLiver Aug 2019 #61
No. Sometimes. A weed in the flower bed is just as it appears but an egg in the unicorn nest IADEMO2004 Aug 2019 #62
I agree. AJT Aug 2019 #66
But then people wouldn't have so much fun pretending life was like their favorite TV show or movie! PSPS Aug 2019 #67
I hadn't thought of the alien angle jberryhill Aug 2019 #78
The next thing you know, we'll start seeing things like this PSPS Aug 2019 #80
"Usual end to a child molester's life is suicide." Is it? PandoraAwakened Aug 2019 #97
Many personality disorders are overlapping and often do not exist in isolation. People out of emmaverybo Aug 2019 #107
Overlapping disorders does not change the physiological science PandoraAwakened Aug 2019 #118
Rather not argue with you about PDs. I will say that although diagnostically they provide a emmaverybo Aug 2019 #119
Definitely not arguing with you. I will say, however, PandoraAwakened Aug 2019 #120
Oh for goodness sake. Attitude. I taught college English. I know what an oxymoron is. Just never emmaverybo Aug 2019 #121
Oh, good grief. I'm not sure which is worse... PandoraAwakened Aug 2019 #123
Thanks. It has. NT emmaverybo Aug 2019 #124
That thinking is why people in prison are being released because of shraby Aug 2019 #68
Certainly not Sunsky Aug 2019 #70
You are 100% correct, but people LOVE a mystery, reality is boring! nt USALiberal Aug 2019 #71
Not these days! BadgerMom Aug 2019 #102
No, you're not StarfishSaver Aug 2019 #73
It appears like a lot of deals were made to keep him out of prison NightWatcher Aug 2019 #75
"Some times a cigar is just a cigar". -- Sigmund Freud n/t ColesCountyDem Aug 2019 #82
it is a possibly adequate explanation bucolic_frolic Aug 2019 #83
Well, Bill Barr recently expressed his love of vigillante justice. Pathwalker Aug 2019 #84
No but I'd like details on how he did it underpants Aug 2019 #86
It is certainly one possibility. warmfeet Aug 2019 #87
I don't doubt that anyone in his position would be suicidal. But... Pacifist Patriot Aug 2019 #88
This. Exactly this. Boomer Aug 2019 #95
If he needed murdering, why in a highly controlled Hortensis Aug 2019 #91
Because killing him in the most highly.visible high profile way possible StarfishSaver Aug 2019 #101
Oh, of course. Duh! Hortensis Aug 2019 #108
It seems likely that things really are as they appear. TomSlick Aug 2019 #92
Nah ... lillypaddle Aug 2019 #94
I came across this though JonLP24 Aug 2019 #98
Call me crazy, but Crunchy Frog Aug 2019 #100
No, you are not the only one. PoindexterOglethorpe Aug 2019 #103
Fascinating how the propaganda wheel turns PandoraAwakened Aug 2019 #104
Am I the only one who thinks 24 hours isn't enough time to have a definitive opinion? meadowlander Aug 2019 #105
Agree. It's not hard at all to imagine him committing suicide. nolabear Aug 2019 #106
Two philosophies that pretty much cover it all... not_the_one Aug 2019 #111
Absoutely. Yet any suicide should be investigated while the individual was incarcerated. BeckyDem Aug 2019 #113
If he looks like a racist and acts like a racist, well... Joe941 Aug 2019 #116
My guess is he did this by his own hands LanternWaste Aug 2019 #122

brush

(53,781 posts)
96. IMO this seems to be a reverse Occam's razor. It's too convenient...
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 09:10 PM
Aug 2019

too so many rich and powerful people that this guy who had all kinds of damaging info in his head and endless money to hire attorney's to cut a deal, would just suddenly kill himself–without any assistance.

Please! Many are not buying that tale.

Ligyron

(7,632 posts)
112. His suicide does seem a trifle premature.
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 02:36 PM
Aug 2019

But it sure is convenient timing for the orange rapist and the rich and powerful.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
27. Can someone explain the "washing socks" reference
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:13 PM
Aug 2019

to me? I’ve always been confused by that one.

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
36. I believe it just refers to finding some mundane thing to do to avoid the news for whatever reason
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:30 PM
Aug 2019

Suggesting someone is not really interested in the silliness they're sure to witness if they 'pay attention'.

That's what I've always assumed.

emmaverybo

(8,144 posts)
43. I got that in response to my mentioning how much I miss my parents since they are both gone.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:35 PM
Aug 2019

Not appreciated.

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
50. ((((hug)))) ((((hug)))) ((((hug)))) ((((hug)))) ((((hug)))) ((((hug))))
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:42 PM
Aug 2019

I got's bunches for you!






Haven't lost a parent yet (I have 4) but I damn sure don't look forward to losing any of them. I'm sure it's going to be a huge bummer for a really long time.

Sorry someone was so insensitive

emmaverybo

(8,144 posts)
57. You make it better,
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:54 PM
Aug 2019
May your parents all live a long and healthy life. Blessings be upon you, mr_Lewbowski.

emmaverybo

(8,144 posts)
69. Oh, so sorry. I saw both my parents live with that. It helps somehow to know that others do know
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 06:35 PM
Aug 2019

what this heartbreak is and that they manage. I like to believe we will see them again, in one way or another. Thank you for responding.

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
51. Like I said ... that's what I assumed, not what I KNOW :)
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:43 PM
Aug 2019

If you want to enlighten us, please share ... I think that's what Codeine was hoping for ...

zackymilly

(2,375 posts)
110. Could also mean cleaning up after a hookup. Is that what you didn't want to cast asparagus about?nt
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 02:13 PM
Aug 2019
 

Tipperary

(6,930 posts)
8. I agree.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 04:54 PM
Aug 2019

Until there’s other evidence, that seems the most likely.

MCC still has a lot to answer for however.

Cousin Dupree

(1,866 posts)
20. Ooh be careful, Eliot. You're going to make some people clutch their pearls and throw themselves
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:06 PM
Aug 2019

onto their fainting couches.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
93. Not likely
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 07:48 PM
Aug 2019

It is entirely plausible he took his own life. What is improbable is the utter break down in suicide watch protocols that enabled him to do it. That is what needs explaining.

Mike 03

(16,616 posts)
14. I'm with you
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:00 PM
Aug 2019

One thing I haven't seen in the hundreds of posts I've read today on DU is one person giving us one reason why he WOULDN'T kill himself. Look at how he controlled every single aspect of his life so it revolved around one thing and he would never see that one thing again. His lifestyle went up in smoke. What did he have to look forward to except complete and utter humiliation and facing his victims and their parents in a court of law, having all his secrets exposed. This was a very private guy and a controlling bully who lost control of everything.

BannonsLiver

(16,387 posts)
30. Because he's a narcissist who thought he could buy his way out of it?
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:18 PM
Aug 2019

A narcissist who is probably well aware of the different standards of justice in this country for those who are wealthy.

Those are two pretty good ones.

TwilightZone

(25,471 posts)
34. He bought his way out the first time.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:23 PM
Aug 2019

This time, he was pretty much screwed and the process was only just beginning.

BannonsLiver

(16,387 posts)
55. Maybe, but these guys often think they can get through anything.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:48 PM
Aug 2019

Did he kill himself? Probably. Is it okay to ask questions, demand accountability etc.? Fuckin A right it is.

Mike 03

(16,616 posts)
37. His fortunes were turning against him
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:31 PM
Aug 2019

A few things happened that really screwed up his escape plan. 1. The contents of his safe were seized. 2. People who had stood by him in the past were throwing him under the bus, like Dershowitz and Wexner. 3. The massive haul of documents he'd fought for years to keep secret was just dumped, which also contain extremely embarrassing revelations. I think he knew his game was up. I think his lawyers probably even told him his game was up.

PandoraAwakened

(905 posts)
99. No, narcissists never accept the proposition that they've even been destroyed
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 10:06 PM
Aug 2019

...which is what makes the supposition of suicide implausible if you also believe the person to be narcissistic.

See post #97 below for an explanation.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,112 posts)
109. There is NO way he killed himself for a variety of reasons especially the narcissist
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 02:06 PM
Aug 2019

condition and I cant believe how many people on this site go out of their WAY to argue with me and others about it

hmmm..hmmm...

plants everywhere

brush

(53,781 posts)
114. The ones who believe it was just an unassisted suicide are either...
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 03:52 PM
Aug 2019

extremely naive or are for some reason ignoring history—i.e., Oswald killed Kennedy without any previous connection to anybody else. Please!

And Jack Ruby got into the detention facility unassisted and killed Oswald before he could spill his guts. Really?

And the DC Madame hung herself conveniently too. Oka-a-a-a-a-y.

Come on! Political murders happen quite often. Epstein knew too much about the sexual predilections of too many powerful, rich people.

Eliot Rosewater

(31,112 posts)
115. Russian Embassy openly supports Gabbard and yet she has some fans here, SIGH
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 05:25 PM
Aug 2019

Epstein OBVIOUSLY murdered and yet I am told I am the one who is out of his mind.

We dont deserve to survive.

brush

(53,781 posts)
117. Yeah, they say it's just another conspiracy theory even though...
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 10:34 PM
Aug 2019

Barr visited that jail before Epstein's demise. What the hell for? An Attorney General visiting a jail? Please.

And speaking of Russians (who have a preferred candidate), they use poison quite often.

Wonder if they offered their services?

kurtcagle

(1,603 posts)
85. Doesn't fit
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 07:28 PM
Aug 2019

1. Epstein was wealthy enough that he could afford the best lawyers. He stood a good chance of a hung jury, a light sentence or even acquittal, especially if he turned state''s evidence.
2. He was in solitary, under video surveillance, and was a high profile politically connected prisoner.
3. There are a lot of people breathing easier now that he's gone.
4. Narcissists very seldom commit suicide. It is quite literally foreign to their nature

It is possible that this is exactly what it appears on the surface, but given the political ramifications of Epstein testifying and the brazen failure to follow protocol, it stinks to high heaven

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
90. I believe most of the suspicion...
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 07:45 PM
Aug 2019

Is not about the manner of his death, but why he was in a position to be able to take his own life. That doesn't make sense in these circumstances.

harumph

(1,900 posts)
15. Whether he did it himself or not - he should have been on suicide precautions.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:00 PM
Aug 2019

That's the mystery - and no, I'm not credulous enough to accept that
it was "Oops - we just fucked up - sorry..." situation. He may very well have
killed himself. That's not even the relevant issue. The issue is why he wasn't on
suicide watch. He was high value. What is going on? It's SOP to have prisoners
with his history on suicide watch - however much they dislike it. This stinks to me.

polichick

(37,152 posts)
17. Uh-huh, and Trump & Barr are good guys who didn't have anything to do with Epstein...
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:03 PM
Aug 2019

and would never tamper with justice, even if they did know him.

stopbush

(24,396 posts)
18. Yep. Tried to kill himself once, things looking worse,
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:05 PM
Aug 2019

already on a suicide watch, and he ends up killing himself.

If only there had been a sign that he might kill himself.

hlthe2b

(102,282 posts)
24. Of course that may be the truth. But there is every reason to be suspicious, given he'd been on
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:09 PM
Aug 2019

suicide watch not long prior and taken off. Not to mention the scores of former Federal Prosecutors and even FBI officials who are questioning this.

Suicide in prison is not rare. Nor is homicide. Nor is negligent oversight. With FBI/IG investigations (even under Barr), there may be some final determination. We can only hope.

Mike 03

(16,616 posts)
25. One thing we might be seeing on DU
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:11 PM
Aug 2019

with the difference of opinion is that some of us probably expected him to kill himself, and maybe those of us who did, like me, should be more skeptical of the suicide story. I definitely don't trust William Barr. I just think there's a better than fifty percent chance that it's a suicide, but by no means do I think it's 100%.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
63. +1000
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 06:06 PM
Aug 2019

I am always skeptical when it's anything that is remotely involving the US government. Always.

Igel

(35,317 posts)
39. Dunno.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:32 PM
Aug 2019

The primary witness(es) are still around.

"Convenient" is one of those adjectives that really requires arguments (like verbs) to have much meaning. Convenient to whom? For what purpose? Having a cell phone is convenient (for me) at times, at other times it's very much not convenient. Sometimes it's convenient because it's a timer, sometimes because it's a paperweight, or a camera. Sometimes it's inconvenient for me but very convenient for somebody else--my wife, for instance, trying to tell me to do something.

To say it's convenient itself requires a raft of assumptions about to whom and for what--but they're often nothing more than assumptions.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
77. If you block your wife on your phone
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 06:43 PM
Aug 2019

Then she at least has to find you first.

Plus, it takes care of your girlfriend getting jealous when your wife calls.

dlk

(11,566 posts)
79. This was a Convenient Suicide for Those Who Utilized Epstein's "Services"
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 07:00 PM
Aug 2019

And who terrorized and abused hundreds of underaged girls. Their probability of being outed has now been been drastically reduced. Comparing these horrific crimes to a timer or paperweight or camera doesn’t sound the least bit misogynistic. Only someone with no conscience would make light of this horrific situation.

torius

(1,652 posts)
29. Maybe he faked his death
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:17 PM
Aug 2019

with the help of Trump and Barr, and is back on his private island. We may never know...

riversedge

(70,237 posts)
33. I read a while ago Epstein was severly depressed. Not unusual to be suicidal and
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:20 PM
Aug 2019

yes, I am very skeptical that anything or anyone had him killed.

Now, the why someone took him off suicide watch needs very careful study.

randr

(12,412 posts)
35. What is perfectly clear to me as things appear
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:25 PM
Aug 2019

A man with dubious sources of income and a corral of young girls who partied with an abundance of rich and powerful people was about to be put on a witness stand.
We wait for further news.

 

AncientGeezer

(2,146 posts)
58. Well yeah..1 is potus the other is ag....
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:54 PM
Aug 2019

What the HELL has that got to do with Epstein taking the cowards way out?

GoCubsGo

(32,084 posts)
56. No, you are not the only one.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 05:51 PM
Aug 2019

I can see how people can be suspicious, and I admit to a being a bit skeptical, myself. But, more likely than not, things are probably just as they appear.

IADEMO2004

(5,554 posts)
62. No. Sometimes. A weed in the flower bed is just as it appears but an egg in the unicorn nest
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 06:01 PM
Aug 2019

atop the banana plant in the same Iowa flower bed needs a second look.

AJT

(5,240 posts)
66. I agree.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 06:12 PM
Aug 2019

And it's disturbing to see so many people go down the conspiracy theory rabbit hole. This is how the people on the right ended up going over the edge. When the facts come out a lot of people on the left won't believe them if they don't line up with what they want to believe.

Please wait until the facts come out. Be rational.

PSPS

(13,599 posts)
67. But then people wouldn't have so much fun pretending life was like their favorite TV show or movie!
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 06:13 PM
Aug 2019

Never mind that the usual end to a child molester's life is suicide. It's THIS one that's all deep-state QAnon-worthy, probably with alien intervention to boot!

PSPS

(13,599 posts)
80. The next thing you know, we'll start seeing things like this
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 07:06 PM
Aug 2019

This was one of Rumsfeld's 2001 fantasies that was uncritically repeated by the press at the time.


PandoraAwakened

(905 posts)
97. "Usual end to a child molester's life is suicide." Is it?
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 09:52 PM
Aug 2019

Do you have citations for that?

I think, more accurately, it depends on whether the molester suffers or doesn't suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

If the molester has NPD, as many here claim about Epstein, then he most certainly did NOT commit suicide.

With NPD, what is called the "false image" has virtually complete control of all thought and behavior, and self-preservation at any cost is it's overriding objective. It is actually physically impossible for someone with NPD to even contemplate suicide.

I'm not speculating one way or the other about Epstein's death. I'm just saying you can't have it both ways. He could not have been both clinically narcissistic and suicidal.

Honestly, I really wish more people would do even a small amount of research on NPD---if they did, then they would completely understand and be able to anticipate every vile word and action coming from the pResident-in-Grief.

emmaverybo

(8,144 posts)
107. Many personality disorders are overlapping and often do not exist in isolation. People out of
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 12:51 AM
Aug 2019

options, facing confinement, knowing they may be killed even if they are kept apart from gen. pop., and who have a history of attempting, are at risk. He was likely a narcissistic sociopath.

It is not unusual for sociopaths to react strongly when their house of cards is destroyed, the lies they tell exposed, their ability to exploit others taken from them.

I do think he knew this time that he was finished.

As to how he was let off suicide watch, well that’s a question. If we calm down and wait, it might get answered.

PandoraAwakened

(905 posts)
118. Overlapping disorders does not change the physiological science
Mon Aug 12, 2019, 04:11 AM
Aug 2019

that if one of those disorders is Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), suicide is most definitely off the table.

I, for one, am not so willing to make an assertion such as "likely a narcissistic sociopath" about Epstein. Not all sociopaths, and, indeed, not all psychopaths, have NPD. In fact, most clinically diagnosed psychopaths do NOT also have NPD. Studies show that NPD in prison populations, including those convicted of murder, appears to be approximately the same as that of the general population---about 4%.

Again, I don't really have an opinion one way or another about whether Epstein died of suicide or homicide. Either of those determinations can only come from scientific forensic evidence, not from opinion. Now, whether you'll ever get to hear the truth of that evidence is a whole other story. The history of similar high-profile cases says no, you will not ever know, regardless of how calmly or hysterically you await.

The main point I wanted to make in my previous post, which seems pretty clear even as I re-read it, is that those who proffer the supposition, "Epstein committed suicide because he's a narcissist" are just sadly misinformed about the physiology of narcissism. "Narcissistic" and "suicidal" in the same sentence is an oxymoron.

emmaverybo

(8,144 posts)
119. Rather not argue with you about PDs. I will say that although diagnostically they provide a
Mon Aug 12, 2019, 05:27 AM
Aug 2019

framework, they are not hard and fast, written in concrete, nor is the criteria to determine them as set out in the DSM followed to the letter in practice.

The prevalence of sociopathic features in the criminal population has been well studied and, in fact, as I am sure you know, gave rise to the original checklist developed by Hare.

Though you insist that Epstein, at least in so much as we know about his behavior, his history, his thinking, can only have been a pure narcissist, neither you nor I can diagnose him with certainty. He just as easily could be labeled a sociopath, and in any case, there is nothing in the literature to suggest these disorders are mutually exclusive.

As to your “physiology of narcissism,” as with other personality disorders, psychiatry has not determined a particular physiology underlying or linked to it, even on an interdisciplinary basis.

All of this, the area of personality disorders, is still theoretical, based on useful constructs, not even accepted universally as having a scientific basis. No matter, let’s accept your diagnosis.

And let’s discount the fact that psychiatry often fails miserably at predicting behavior. This is especially borne out in forensic psychology studies.

You are simply wrong to state that a person with narcissistic traits never commits suicide. Many propose that narcissism is a cloak for self-hatred, for low self-esteem. Whether or not that is the case in every case, a narcissistic individual placed in a room without mirrors, so to speak, deprived of the means by which to sustain the myth of self, no longer adored, stripped of props, without the means to exert ego, or to feed the incessant need to shine in the eyes of others, loses that defense and that weapon, the mask of narcissism. Aging Lotharios, whose physical appearance has been essential to feeding narcissistic needs, will sometimes suffer such distress, they enter therapy.

With or without entertaining psychological profiling, it is clear Epstein was losing everything. Freedom is crucial to most people. So that alone...

Epstein’s victim stated that his and his partner-in-crime’s lives revolved around their obsession with sex. But sex with young and beautiful people, not a shady cell mate. Gone. Money, status, power related to the ability to exploit others (if nothing else, Epstein was predatory) and to achieve ego satisfaction, all gone.

Epstein, by any measure, had every reason to commit suicide. Whether or not he did though, if he
was enabled, who knows? Neither you nor I do.



PandoraAwakened

(905 posts)
120. Definitely not arguing with you. I will say, however,
Mon Aug 12, 2019, 06:59 AM
Aug 2019

that you saying, "Though you insist that Epstein...can only have been a pure narcissist" is a rather stunning example of the importance of reading comprehension skills, given that I most
most definitely did not insist on anything of the sort in any way whatsoever.

In fact, an actual analysis of what I wrote would lead an unbiased reader not clouded by defensiveness to understand that I doubt Epstein suffered from NPD.

In the interest of not encouraging the practice of gaslighting (which is itself a distinctively narcissistic trait), please reread your own post where YOU not I, definitively pronounced Epstein a "narcissistic sociopath" and proferred that as a primary argument for a suicide theory.

Finally, as I already stated, but am repeating to break through the skim-reading barrier, I myself am unwilling to opine on whether a suicide or a homicide occurred based solely on armchair psycho-analysis issued with sweeping, definitive statements, especially those that are in and of themselves oxymorons. And frankly, to do so is irresponsible.

P.S. A good friend just suggested to me that perhaps you thought my use of the term 'oxymoron' was a personal insult, which it definitely is not. Apparently, or so he insists, many people don't know that this is a grammar term for when someone combines two diametrically opposed ideas in the same proposition. He says most people think the term is synonymous to the derogatory 'moron.' I am so sorry if that is the cause of your misread.

Peace to you.

emmaverybo

(8,144 posts)
121. Oh for goodness sake. Attitude. I taught college English. I know what an oxymoron is. Just never
Mon Aug 12, 2019, 07:10 AM
Aug 2019

heard of “the physiology of narcissism” which prevents a narcissist from killing herself.

PandoraAwakened

(905 posts)
123. Oh, good grief. I'm not sure which is worse...
Mon Aug 12, 2019, 12:49 PM
Aug 2019

...a former English teacher who displays a blatant lack of comprehension by claiming an author has written something that they didn't...

or...

...a former English teacher who, called out for the double whammy of both misconstruing and misrepresenting, is incapable of acknowledging their error, instead deflecting to the childish ad hominem attack of "attitude" (progeny of a patriarchal society that attempts to paint women who stand up for themselves as "bitches&quot ).

How very, shall we say, narcissistic of you: "Oh for goodness sake. Attitude." ---"Not me, you!" --- "I'm no puppet; you're a puppet!" Sound familiar? The very fact that you can barely control yourself from responding with anything but an apology proves the point.

BTW, this current college professor believes in calling out insidious gaslighting at every turn that it rears its ugly head.

Good luck, and may peace and love find you.



shraby

(21,946 posts)
68. That thinking is why people in prison are being released because of
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 06:32 PM
Aug 2019

the finding that they ARE innocent.
Sometimes things are not as they seem.

Sunsky

(1,737 posts)
70. Certainly not
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 06:35 PM
Aug 2019

However, I do not believe it is the case with Epstein's suicide. There are many unanswered questions. For example, why was he released from being on suicide watch just a few days post an attempted suicide? This is unheard of in this field. Did hand wringing take place which caused someone to go against best practices? Who knows?
Also, it is good to be skeptical at times. It's good not to accept everything at face value. When we have criminals at the helm of our government, I say skepticism is a necessity. It's early days.
I remember some of us being called conspiracy theorists after the Nov 2016 elections, when we stated that we believed Russia had meddled with our election.
Time will create a more accurate picture.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
75. It appears like a lot of deals were made to keep him out of prison
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 06:41 PM
Aug 2019

And when those shady deals were overturned, that at least two attempts were made to kill a man who was supposed to be in protected custody.

underpants

(182,817 posts)
86. No but I'd like details on how he did it
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 07:30 PM
Aug 2019

Seems strange that he was able to get around the standard policy and procedures for someone under suicide watch. No spinning theory here. I just think knowing the how will allow for a full understanding.

warmfeet

(3,321 posts)
87. It is certainly one possibility.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 07:33 PM
Aug 2019

So far, I see conjecture and speculation. Early days, don't you know. The story will be filled in with facts in the days ahead - or not. Opinions will change, conjecture will change - or not. As with Jeffrey Epstein, so it goes.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
88. I don't doubt that anyone in his position would be suicidal. But...
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 07:43 PM
Aug 2019

While statistics alone make it not at all surprising, serious questions remain.

That he was able to carry it out is what defies reason. Anyone familiar with the protocols involved with suicide prevention in detention facilities will understandably have questions. If on watch, how was it not prevented? If not on watch, why not given the circumstances and statistics?

US reps like Ted Lieu and Lois Frankel are hardly tinfoil hate wearing conspiracy theorists and they have expressed concerns.

I don't think he was murdered. I want to know why he was allowed to commit suicide.

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
95. This. Exactly this.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 07:54 PM
Aug 2019

I have no doubt that Epstein was suicidal or that he finally succeeded in killing himself. That part is blatantly obvious.

What I want to know is how he managed to get OFF suicide watch. Who made that decision and why, given his recent history and the importance of him living long enough to go to trial. Then let's take a good close look at the bank accounts of the prison staff who made some really poor judgment calls.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
91. If he needed murdering, why in a highly controlled
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 07:46 PM
Aug 2019

environment like jail? Why not outside any time in the past couple years when anyone might have done it?

And why no one else? No one'd be safer with Flynn, or Manafort, or, or, or...dead?

 

StarfishSaver

(18,486 posts)
101. Because killing him in the most highly.visible high profile way possible
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 10:12 PM
Aug 2019

under circumstances that will lead the press, Congress, law enforcement and most of the public to raise questions within hours of the death is the smartest and most adept way to murder someone to keep him quiet and throw suspicion off of you.

TomSlick

(11,098 posts)
92. It seems likely that things really are as they appear.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 07:47 PM
Aug 2019

The problem is that we have reached a point the nothing - nothing - this administration says can be taken at face value. Just because Epstein was in a federal facility under the control of AG Barr and Barr quickly - before an autopsy or an investigation - said it was suicide doesn't mean it wasn't suicide. Then again, it doesn't mean that we can be confident that it was suicide. (Trump has re-tweeted that Bill Clinton had him killed - so apparently Trump isn't convinced that Barr is to be believed.)

We're in dark times when we immediately - and reasonably - suspect that our government is lying to us.

I wish that I had confidence that a complete investigation will occur. Unfortunately, the FBI is under Barr's control, so I cannot have that confidence.

Dark times, indeed.

JonLP24

(29,322 posts)
98. I came across this though
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 10:01 PM
Aug 2019

Former MCC inmate: There’s ‘no way’ Jeffrey Epstein killed himself

When you’re on suicide watch, they put you in this white smock, a straight jacket. They know a person cannot be injurious to themselves.

The clothing they give you is a jump-in uniform. Everything is a dark brown color.

Could he have done it from the bed? No sir. There’s a steel frame, but you can’t move it. There’s no light fixture. There’s no bars.

They don’t give you enough in there that could successfully create an instrument of death. You want to write a letter, they give you rubber pens and maybe once a week a piece of paper.

Nothing hard or made of metal.

And there’s a cop at the door about every nine minutes, whether you’re on suicide watch or not

https://www.google.com/amp/s/nypost.com/2019/08/10/former-mcc-inmate-theres-no-way-jeffrey-epstein-killed-himself/amp/

The time he tried before he actually said it was an assault.

Crunchy Frog

(26,587 posts)
100. Call me crazy, but
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 10:10 PM
Aug 2019

It doesn't make sense to me that he would have been taken off suicide watch and close monitoring under the circumstances.

His death was too convenient to too many people for me to buy the "just a suicide" explanation.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,858 posts)
103. No, you are not the only one.
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 10:47 PM
Aug 2019

People here are far too quick to jump to the nearest conspiracy. In another post on this topic someone darkly predicted that those who took him off suicide watch will be the next to go. Really?

There can be a serious lack of critical thinking on DU.

And yes, I'm certain the SOB offed himself rather than face what he did. On my FB page a friend who suffers from depression (and posts about it frequently) posted that he wasn't sure if Epstein didn't succumb to depression. I responded that he was most likely depressed because he'd finally been caught and that I had zero sympathy for him.

Just my take.

PandoraAwakened

(905 posts)
104. Fascinating how the propaganda wheel turns
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 10:56 PM
Aug 2019
"Epstein was suicidal." Please cite the clinician issuing this supposed edict.

"He had tried before." And yet, most stories on the incident from a few weeks earlier do note that Epstein himself repeatedly insisted he had been beaten up and that the finger marks around his neck were not his own. (BTW, hasn't science proven that it's actually impossible to choke oneself with your own hands? Has anyone here ever tried this trick themselves? Just curious.)

"He probably acted all normal and calm so he could be taken off suicide watch." Wasn't he taken off suicide watch because he was quite vociferously insisting that he had been attacked, and someone who actually understands how physiology works agreed that he couldn't have choked himself to near death?

So, I guess, in an odd and perverted way, the original post is correct, just not in the way the writer thought (exactly opposite, in fact), in that "sometimes things are just as they appear."

meadowlander

(4,395 posts)
105. Am I the only one who thinks 24 hours isn't enough time to have a definitive opinion?
Sat Aug 10, 2019, 11:01 PM
Aug 2019

We have literally no evidence one way or the other.

It is interesting though how invested some people seem to be in arguing that it must be a suicide and that no foul play could possibly have been involved.

Is there good reason to think he was suicidal? Yes. Does that mean he wasn't "helped"? I don't know. But I would like to know why he was taken off suicide watch and why the cameras were "broken" and whether or not anything else suspicious was happening at the same time.

Being skeptical and asking reasonable questions isn't the same as brokering in conspiracy theories.

nolabear

(41,963 posts)
106. Agree. It's not hard at all to imagine him committing suicide.
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 12:38 AM
Aug 2019

I’ll reserve opinion on what happened or what was really going on with him but when something that utterly narcissistic blows up in someone’s face a reaction like that isn’t unimaginable at all.

I hear nothing about family, how they think he made his money, or anything else other than that madness about wealth and getting away with monstrous acts. Very odd.

 

not_the_one

(2,227 posts)
111. Two philosophies that pretty much cover it all...
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 02:24 PM
Aug 2019

Nothing is EVER as it seems...

and

There is no such thing as a coincidence.

Now, carry on.

BeckyDem

(8,361 posts)
113. Absoutely. Yet any suicide should be investigated while the individual was incarcerated.
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 02:40 PM
Aug 2019

Also had been flagged for suicide. He was a coward and I suspect incompetence behind this....which is not conspiratorial on any level, more common than one might imagine.

 

Joe941

(2,848 posts)
116. If he looks like a racist and acts like a racist, well...
Sun Aug 11, 2019, 05:31 PM
Aug 2019

But the media bends over backwards to make excuses.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
122. My guess is he did this by his own hands
Mon Aug 12, 2019, 09:05 AM
Aug 2019

As recently as three months ago, the guy was sitting on top of his world. Last week, he's in solitary confinement with little hope for anything better in his future.

I'd guess it's tough to go from a life of champagne and lobster to bologna sandwiches. Privilege is a difficult thing to say good-bye to.

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