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MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 01:30 PM Jul 2019

The Days of Blow and Groupies

Taking sexual advantage of underage victims is a heinous thing to do. It's also very common out there in the real world.

Back in the 60s and 70s, and even in the 50s, popular musicians often gave into the temptations of taking advantage of underage groupies. Even Elvis was not immune, and others, from British rock stars to American R&B stars were known to have engaged, if not assaulted such groupies.

Maybe it's the entertainment industry, in general. There are plenty of stories of prominent actors taking advantage of underage fans and would-be actors looking for an industry "in." Everyone from Fatty Arbuckle to Roman Polanski and others whose name could be listed were guilty of such behavior.

Rich people, powerful people, and famous people seem prone to such things, probably because they believe they will not be prosecuted for them. When they are caught, though, they often seem to skate away from their doings with little harm because of them.

Maybe you can think of some examples to share.

Odd, isn't it?

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The Days of Blow and Groupies (Original Post) MineralMan Jul 2019 OP
Jimmy Page? Heartstrings Jul 2019 #1
Yes. I remember that. MineralMan Jul 2019 #2
Oh yes! Penny Lane? Heartstrings Jul 2019 #4
Michael Jackson. Jerry Lee Lewis. nt tblue37 Jul 2019 #3
Ah, yes, sadly. MineralMan Jul 2019 #6
I added Jerry Lee Lewis to my post. nt tblue37 Jul 2019 #9
Again, that's called rape. LanternWaste Jul 2019 #5
I'm euphemizing for effect, see. MineralMan Jul 2019 #8
Ted Nugent wrote a song about it MaryMagdaline Jul 2019 #7
So she did. MineralMan Jul 2019 #10
California is one of them, somewhat interestingly. And there's 7 where it's illegal to sleep w/them mr_lebowski Jul 2019 #17
I've known a couple of people who married first cousins. MineralMan Jul 2019 #18
Kings and Queens Dave in VA Jul 2019 #31
Oh, yes. In Middle Eastern countries, too, cousin marriage is the norm MineralMan Jul 2019 #34
It's not surprising ripcord Jul 2019 #37
Remember the song, "Go Away Little Girl?" MineralMan Jul 2019 #16
It's been going on as long as there has been history and I've wondered if... TreasonousBastard Jul 2019 #11
Good question. I don't know. MineralMan Jul 2019 #12
We are more likely to hear about the wealthy when they get caught. SouthernProgressive Jul 2019 #13
"In like Flynn" bluedigger Jul 2019 #14
The idea that there's something RADICALLY wrong with it is pretty new in history ... mr_lebowski Jul 2019 #15
Lynyrd Skynyrd bpj62 Jul 2019 #19
I wasn't familiar with that song. I'm not a real Lynyrd Skynryrd fan. MineralMan Jul 2019 #24
Epstein cannot claim that young girls were seeking him out. He is not Elvis or the Beatles. He was a MaryMagdaline Jul 2019 #20
Yes. It's different, for sure. Epstein sought out and groomed his victims. MineralMan Jul 2019 #22
Get'm young when they are "pure." hunter Jul 2019 #21
Steven Tyler From Aerosmith JimGinPA Jul 2019 #23
I could give a entire feminist lecture on that topic. ismnotwasm Jul 2019 #25
Of that I have no doubt. MineralMan Jul 2019 #32
Yeah, should and will are different things obviously ismnotwasm Jul 2019 #35
Yes. There's a responsibility adults should have, MineralMan Jul 2019 #36
An Oboe groupie ismnotwasm Jul 2019 #38
I know. I thought it odd, but just wrote it off to MineralMan Jul 2019 #39
Hank Harrison, Grateful Dead manager and Courtney Love's father. Sugar Smack Jul 2019 #26
I'm not familar with him, although I am with Courtney Love and MineralMan Jul 2019 #27
He and his friends thought it was really cute to give the children acid. Sugar Smack Jul 2019 #30
Roman Polanski oldtime dfl_er Jul 2019 #28
Gary Puckett LW1977 Jul 2019 #29
Another story I don't know. MineralMan Jul 2019 #33
When you're a horny man.. MicaelS Jul 2019 #40
They don't call underaged girls "jail bait" for nothing n/t TexasBushwhacker Jul 2019 #41
Nope. n/t MicaelS Jul 2019 #42
 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
5. Again, that's called rape.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 01:38 PM
Jul 2019

"Taking sexual advantage of underage victims"
Again, that's called rape.

"Odd, isn't it?"
It's certainly getting there.

MaryMagdaline

(6,856 posts)
7. Ted Nugent wrote a song about it
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 01:39 PM
Jul 2019

Courtney Love says she had sex with him at age 12.
Jerry Lee Lewis - 14 y.o. girl friend (might have been a cousin, too)

MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
10. So she did.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 01:41 PM
Jul 2019

And it was Jerry Lee Lewis's cousin. They got married. But that didn't help him in England, where it was a huge scandal. Back home, here, though, few noticed. Priscilla Presley was about the same age when she started hanging with Elvis.

Note: Marrying your cousin is perfectly legal in about half of the 50 states. Age? Well, some states allow early marriages with parental approval. Not as many as it used to be, like in Jerry Lee Lewis's day, though.

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
17. California is one of them, somewhat interestingly. And there's 7 where it's illegal to sleep w/them
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:38 PM
Jul 2019

The states it's where illegal to marry your first cousin are mostly 'red states'. Lol ... that's probably because they 'have problems with it there' ...

Personally I'm of the opinion that (first) cousins are not closely related enough (12.5% genetic match) that it should be made outright illegal. I think it's icky as hell, but I don't support the government saying YOU CAN'T.

MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
18. I've known a couple of people who married first cousins.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 03:10 PM
Jul 2019

In both cases, they met that cousin at a family reunion far from where they lived. So it's not like they grew up nearby. The idea never really bothered me very much. As you say, there's not a big risk in it, so who cares, really.

Dave in VA

(2,039 posts)
31. Kings and Queens
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:27 PM
Jul 2019

I believe that Queen Victoria and Prince Albert were first cousins. Very common in European Royalty.

ripcord

(5,537 posts)
37. It's not surprising
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:45 PM
Jul 2019

The goal of marrying as close within a family has to do with keeping the bloodline as pure as possible without having to deal with the "irregularities" that pop up when people marry too close.

MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
16. Remember the song, "Go Away Little Girl?"
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 02:02 PM
Jul 2019

Bobby Vee was the first to sing it, but it has been covered by many, many artists. It's about that very thing. Written by Gerry Goffin and Carole King, I'm sure it was about the problem of love-struck youngsters and performers dealing with them, one way or another.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
11. It's been going on as long as there has been history and I've wondered if...
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 01:43 PM
Jul 2019

there was a special attraction to adoring innocents by celebrities who had their own dark shadows.

 

SouthernProgressive

(1,810 posts)
13. We are more likely to hear about the wealthy when they get caught.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 01:55 PM
Jul 2019

There also isn't a national rumor mill for non-wealthy individuals.

Sexually abusing young girls and boys knows no socioeconomic status when it comes to the rapists.

"Maybe it's the entertainment industry, in general."

I think it's men, in general.

"Rich people, powerful people, and famous people seem prone to such things, probably because they believe they will not be prosecuted for them."

Again, I don't think that is it. At all.

"Offenders are more likely to be relatives or acquaintances of their victim than strangers"

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8885590

 

mr_lebowski

(33,643 posts)
15. The idea that there's something RADICALLY wrong with it is pretty new in history ...
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 01:58 PM
Jul 2019

It's certainly been 'frowned on' for a long time, esp. by the parents of the girls but was looked at 'by society' as not 'worth the bother' of investing public resources to bring wealthy people to justice over.

Advances in DNA testing have also made prosecutions a lot more viable than they were 40 years ago.

I'd also say ... most of the examples of rock stars were when they were in their 20's or early 30's, not 40+, like say ... you know who. Young enough that it's believable that teen girls legitimately found them attractive, IOW. Not saying that makes their behavior okay, but I certainly find it less distasteful if I don't feel the young women were literally 'forced' or taken advantage of due to their life circumstances.

MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
24. I wasn't familiar with that song. I'm not a real Lynyrd Skynryrd fan.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:17 PM
Jul 2019

Sounds about right, though.

MaryMagdaline

(6,856 posts)
20. Epstein cannot claim that young girls were seeking him out. He is not Elvis or the Beatles. He was a
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:06 PM
Jul 2019

Wall Street type who had to get others to procure children for him. It wasn't as if they were chasing after him and he gave into temptation. He's a special type of criminal.

MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
22. Yes. It's different, for sure. Epstein sought out and groomed his victims.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:16 PM
Jul 2019

Those celebrities and performers had just one thing they needed to do - say no. But they didn't. That's why I started a new thread.

JimGinPA

(14,811 posts)
23. Steven Tyler From Aerosmith
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:17 PM
Jul 2019

He had a 15 year old girlfriend & they "hired" her parents to go on tour with them so she could travel with him.


MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
32. Of that I have no doubt.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:28 PM
Jul 2019

Once I graduated from high school and turned 18, I had nothing to do with any girls of high school age. Which is not to say that there were no consensual shenanigans when I was in high school, because there were.

Once a guy is an adult, he should leave those kids alone. Let them fumble around with other kids in their own age group. As an adult, the answer should always be no to anyone who is not an adult, even if it seems to be yes.

That doesn't seem all that difficult to me. If you have a young groupie, just say, "Sorry. Not with me."



ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)
35. Yeah, should and will are different things obviously
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:32 PM
Jul 2019

This whole thing is just so ugly. It happens to young boys as well.

MineralMan

(146,333 posts)
36. Yes. There's a responsibility adults should have,
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:39 PM
Jul 2019

especially when it comes to fan crushes. Oddly enough, it happened to me - just one time. I used to play oboe in a woodwind quintet. We played here and there, and were always appearing at musical gatherings. I started noticing this young woman in her 20s who kept showing up whenever we were playing. She started flirting with me.

Our bassoon player teased me about having a groupie. Well, one time, after our performance, she came up and made a blatant pass at me. At the time I was about 36 and quite happily married. I mumbled something about being flattered but not available, and she never came to another performance. I guess I did have a groupie. I simply said no, thanks.

That's my one and only groupie story.

Sugar Smack

(18,748 posts)
26. Hank Harrison, Grateful Dead manager and Courtney Love's father.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:21 PM
Jul 2019

Hank Harrison's still running around loose on the streets, last I heard, and has written yet another book about Kurt Cobain.

Sugar Smack

(18,748 posts)
30. He and his friends thought it was really cute to give the children acid.
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 04:25 PM
Jul 2019

And none of the underage girls had a choice or a chance.

MicaelS

(8,747 posts)
40. When you're a horny man..
Wed Jul 10, 2019, 07:48 PM
Jul 2019

In your 20s/30s and beautiful girls are throwing themselves at you, it would take a strong willed man to say no.

A lot of guys who wanted to be rock n roll stars said they did it "to get girls".

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