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Tanuki

(14,918 posts)
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 10:19 PM Feb 2019

"Too big for designers to dress" Bebe Rexha looked fabulous at Grammys

https://www.buzzfeed.com/sheridanwatson/bebe-rexha-showed-up-looking-incredible-to-the-grammys

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"Bebe Rexha Showed Up To The Grammys Looking Incredible After Designers Refused To Dress Her.
She's nominated for Best New Artist and Best Country Duo/Group Performance tonight!

Last month, Bebe posted a video to Instagram that called out designers for refusing to dress her because of her size.

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"Too big for designers to dress" Bebe Rexha looked fabulous at Grammys (Original Post) Tanuki Feb 2019 OP
She looks amazing, gorgeous dress. MLAA Feb 2019 #1
WOW. She's HUGE. 50 Shades Of Blue Feb 2019 #2
This has been a problem recently. xmas74 Feb 2019 #10
size 8 for the love of God dsc Feb 2019 #3
Really. NT enough Feb 2019 #4
How the hell did they graduate if they Lars39 Feb 2019 #8
Siriano xmas74 Feb 2019 #11
I don't know if I buy her story. You have only to look at other attendees who are bigger... Stand and Fight Feb 2019 #5
Yup. There are many larger women in the music biz. What about Adele? Maraya1969 Feb 2019 #6
Adele is in the big leagues. xmas74 Feb 2019 #16
She's HOT!!! IluvPitties Feb 2019 #7
Unreal! Size 8 is now too 'big?' peggysue2 Feb 2019 #9
Size 8 is tiny! ProudLib72 Feb 2019 #12
Not in designer samples xmas74 Feb 2019 #14
Well then designers need to get over themselves and their twig thin models ProudLib72 Feb 2019 #17
A list of others who designers have refused xmas74 Feb 2019 #13
And not just haute couture designers....also some ready-to-wear retailers Tanuki Feb 2019 #18
Holy Cow! Alliepoo Feb 2019 #15
I have no idea who this person is, but she looks fabulous. Vinca Feb 2019 #19
wouldn't it be something special if... MissMillie Feb 2019 #20
Jesus Christ. Since when is size 8 big? LuckyCharms Feb 2019 #21

50 Shades Of Blue

(10,001 posts)
2. WOW. She's HUGE.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 10:32 PM
Feb 2019


No designer would dress a Grammy nominee? Riiiiiiiiiiight.

Shameless publicity grab and an insult to women who are truly ostracized because of their weight.

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
10. This has been a problem recently.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:08 AM
Feb 2019

Designers don't want anyone outside of their perfect look. Two very public examples are Leslie Jones and Megan Mullally. Jones doesn't fit the bill for a classic model and Mullally wasn't interesting (read : young) enough, even though she was hosting an awards show.

Christian Siriano has been welcoming to all of the so-called "misfits" but you'd think others would pick up the slack.

dsc

(52,162 posts)
3. size 8 for the love of God
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 10:34 PM
Feb 2019

She should have publicly named the designers who refused. There are some, including a recent Project Runway winner, who specifically dress larger women. I mean size 8.

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
8. How the hell did they graduate if they
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 11:41 PM
Feb 2019

don’t know how to design for every body type and size?! Bogus excuse!

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
11. Siriano
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:11 AM
Feb 2019

And he adores dressing "real" women. He does great work and I bet he'd have dressed her if he knew. But why is he one of the only designers doing this?

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
16. Adele is in the big leagues.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:28 AM
Feb 2019

She will have something.

There are reports of this all the time. Even Beyonce has said that designers used to refuse to dress her because she was AA and too curvy. Once she got on the A list things changed.

peggysue2

(10,829 posts)
9. Unreal! Size 8 is now too 'big?'
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 11:48 PM
Feb 2019

That's my size and only once, once in my life have I been smaller. And that was with starving myself which I vowed I'd never, ever do again.

Meanwhile the dress looks fabulous on her. These designers want women's bodies to look like bony clothes hangers.

Meanwhile she looks gorgeous.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
17. Well then designers need to get over themselves and their twig thin models
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 01:35 AM
Feb 2019

It's a complete cop out on their parts. What exactly does it say about them? To me it means they are incapable of making something that looks decent for anyone who isn't anorexic. Can you imagine any other industry that could get away with that? "Sorry, but we won't sell you that car because you must be 4'10" or under to drive it."

xmas74

(29,674 posts)
13. A list of others who designers have refused
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:17 AM
Feb 2019

In the past. Even the Queen Bee herself, Beyonce, is on the list along with a Kardashian and a couple of Oscar nominees.

This is actually a problem in the industry.

Vinca

(50,273 posts)
19. I have no idea who this person is, but she looks fabulous.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 08:55 AM
Feb 2019

Size 8 is big????????? My left thigh is a size 8.

MissMillie

(38,559 posts)
20. wouldn't it be something special if...
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 09:34 AM
Feb 2019

...every single woman over a size 6 showed up at the next awards ceremony wearing a potato sack?

Think of the ramifications: the red carpet show might last all of 10 minutes, which would completely piss off the advertisers.

"A little rebellion, no and then, is a healthy thing."

LuckyCharms

(17,441 posts)
21. Jesus Christ. Since when is size 8 big?
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 09:44 AM
Feb 2019

Most of the women I know are size 14-20, and I would not call them "big". By that I mean that it is not important to me, so I don't care what their size or body type is. I know perhaps one woman who is perhaps smaller than an 8.

I think that if women (and men) are judged by the size clothes that they wear, well, that just goes along with everything else that is fucked up in this country right now.

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