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Coventina

(27,121 posts)
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 12:31 PM Feb 2019

Fairfax should resign, but I am FRUSTRATED, no, INFURIATED

that, what was it? 20 or so women reported being sexually assaulted by Trump, and he was ON TAPE BOASTING about sexually assaulting women and he still became *gag* president.

Men who rape or assault need to be punished.

But why, oh why is there such a double standard?



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Fairfax should resign, but I am FRUSTRATED, no, INFURIATED (Original Post) Coventina Feb 2019 OP
oh my! Thanks from the bottom of mine, for the Valentine heart!! Coventina Feb 2019 #1
Not to mention wealthy celebs (and likely R's) Matt Lauer and Les Moonves leave with enormous $$$ hlthe2b Feb 2019 #2
IKR? Coventina Feb 2019 #4
Republican mindset: "Pussygrabber? At least he's not a Democrat!" Beartracks Feb 2019 #3
It really must come down to that. They'd let them rape their own daughters, apparently Coventina Feb 2019 #6
Because Christian values, obviously! Beartracks Feb 2019 #9
Who Would Jesus Rape? Coventina Feb 2019 #12
Not to mention Justice Kavanaugh dalton99a Feb 2019 #5
Yes, I will never stop being angry over that creep. Coventina Feb 2019 #7
Normally, it's the correct thing Corgigal Feb 2019 #8
There is a double standard customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #10
It more than hurts....it's actually CRIPPLING Coventina Feb 2019 #11
If he didn't rape anyone he shouldn't resign Buckeyeblue Feb 2019 #13
I agree with that. But my instinct is to believe the women who have come forward. Coventina Feb 2019 #14
I just worry that we have thrown due process out the window Buckeyeblue Feb 2019 #15
I understand and share your concerns. Coventina Feb 2019 #17
I get that it's not a criminal prosecution but Buckeyeblue Feb 2019 #18
I get that, I really do. And, for that reason, I hope he is not innocent. Coventina Feb 2019 #19
I too hope they aren't lying for all the reasons you state Buckeyeblue Feb 2019 #20
It's fairly black and white if you ask me ProudLib72 Feb 2019 #16

hlthe2b

(102,295 posts)
2. Not to mention wealthy celebs (and likely R's) Matt Lauer and Les Moonves leave with enormous $$$
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 12:34 PM
Feb 2019

payouts... So that is the punishment--untold wealth to do nothing more than leave?

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
4. IKR?
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 12:36 PM
Feb 2019

Giving these perps millions of $$ is not exactly an incentive for other men to stop similar behavior.

Beartracks

(12,816 posts)
3. Republican mindset: "Pussygrabber? At least he's not a Democrat!"
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 12:35 PM
Feb 2019

They have their priorities .

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Coventina

(27,121 posts)
6. It really must come down to that. They'd let them rape their own daughters, apparently
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 12:38 PM
Feb 2019

rather than have a "D" in government.

The mind boggles.

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
8. Normally, it's the correct thing
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 12:41 PM
Feb 2019

but too much dirtying mess is being thrown in the past few weeks. If the republicans can always collapse us with the same issue from 10to 20 years ago, true or not then no one is safe. We as a party need to vet better, and we should knock out our own candidates.

A new election will be coming, find clean people ( no guarantees that the republicans won't make something up), but we don't allow the other party to steal our power. I'm sure the voters of Virginia will fix the ballot the next time.

The women can prove their case in civil court, after the election. I doubt this can be chargeable in a criminal court.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
10. There is a double standard
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 01:05 PM
Feb 2019

simply because there are two major political parties in this country, and they (and their voters) have fundamentally different standards of morality. That's why we are who we are, and they are who they are.

And, sometimes it hurts to be the better person.

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
11. It more than hurts....it's actually CRIPPLING
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 01:10 PM
Feb 2019

No, I don't think we should give up our values.

I just wish that Republicans were better people.

They aren't, and that's just so hard to accept.


It make me hate them and wish them dead.

Seriously.

I no longer want them in my world.

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
14. I agree with that. But my instinct is to believe the women who have come forward.
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 02:15 PM
Feb 2019

False accusations are very rare.

Multiple false accusations even more so.

Buckeyeblue

(5,499 posts)
15. I just worry that we have thrown due process out the window
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 02:20 PM
Feb 2019

with these cases. Let's just suppose he didn't do it. How does he prove that?

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
17. I understand and share your concerns.
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 02:26 PM
Feb 2019

But, we are not talking about criminal prosecutions (AFAIK) in this case.

But there comes a point, FAIR OR NOT, that unless he is able to prove he is not guilty, he needs to step down for the good of Virginia.

This is because false accusations are very rare, and without STRONG indications that it is a smear job, we have to believe the women.

This is not a case of "beyond a reasonable doubt" in a courtroom. This is about the knowledge that most women have experienced some form of sexual assault in their life, and that reporting and filing criminal charges is not yet the norm. (Sadly).

Buckeyeblue

(5,499 posts)
18. I get that it's not a criminal prosecution but
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 02:32 PM
Feb 2019

If he steps down without a fight, he will be labeled a rapist for the rest of his life. He needs to fight back while he has some position of leverage to do it.

If he resigns to fight back, no one will ever care about the final results.

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
19. I get that, I really do. And, for that reason, I hope he is not innocent.
Sat Feb 9, 2019, 02:36 PM
Feb 2019

(I know, that sounds twisted and it sadly is, because we live in a twisted world).

But we have to weigh the whole case on its merits and right now I am not seeing anything that indicates these women are lying. If something else emerges, then of course I will re-evaluate.

And if these women are lying, they need to pay a very, very heavy price.

Because, yes, this is life-ruining.

If they are not lying (and at this point, I don't think they are) being raped/assaulted is also life-ruining. (Recovery is a long, slow road that has no end).

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