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pnwmom

(108,980 posts)
Fri Feb 8, 2019, 05:33 PM Feb 2019

One thing I hope at least some men learn from the Fairfax situation.

If you would like a woman to go down on you, don't put your hand on her neck or head, and try to "guide" her in the direction you want her to go. Even if you think you know her very well.

DON'T GRAB. USE YOUR WORDS!!!

And wait for her to use hers.


(This is not a judgment on the truth of the Fairfax/Tyson situation, which I don't know. It just seems to be a good time to remind people about the importance of full consent.)

ON UPDATE, as a side note: The WA Post is now reporting that a second woman has come forward, alleging that she was raped by Fairfax when they were students at Duke.

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