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brooklynite

(94,688 posts)
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:06 PM Feb 2019

BREAKING: Virginia LG Justin Fairfax sexual assault accuser named






Academic History
MA and PhD in Political Science, University of Chicago
BA in Politics, Princeton University
Certificate in African American Studies, Princeton University

Biography
Tyson’s first book manuscript Twists of Fate: Multiracial Coalitions and Minority Representation in the U.S. House (under contract with Oxford University Press) explores structural inequality in the United States and how members of Congress have formed multiracial coalitions as a strategy to provide for their diverse constituencies. Having worked on political campaigns since she was 12 years old, she carefully considers how political dynamics affect policy formulation and consequent outcomes. Tyson also spent years working as an advocate for sexual violence awareness and prevention.
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BREAKING: Virginia LG Justin Fairfax sexual assault accuser named (Original Post) brooklynite Feb 2019 OP
She was named in the original report on the right wing website ... Jarqui Feb 2019 #1
There is no way to prove this...and we will never really know what happened...I am not willing to Demsrule86 Feb 2019 #2
Neither am I Jarqui Feb 2019 #16
They can't win elections so their only hope is attack and attack some more. Demsrule86 Feb 2019 #47
That is exactly what is going on here. Demsrule86 Feb 2019 #204
should all sexual assault victims be taken seriously? at140 Feb 2019 #101
Yes. Victims of a crime should always be taken seriously. Wouldn't you at least like hear ... marble falls Feb 2019 #119
Personally I take every sexual assault accusation seriously.. at140 Feb 2019 #123
Of course, so should the person who they're accusing. #metoo doesn't equal quilt by accusation. uponit7771 Feb 2019 #121
I don't think that you can ruin a person in a he said she said moment...others came forward. Demsrule86 Feb 2019 #203
And so does he Empowerer Feb 2019 #6
For sure. Two credible people. Jarqui Feb 2019 #27
Credible like Dr. Ford. democratisphere Feb 2019 #3
The story is the same. The victim comes out because of the potential job promotion. irresistable Feb 2019 #9
So it's okay for Lt. Governnor? n/t rzemanfl Feb 2019 #14
I haven't seen anyone here take that position Jarqui Feb 2019 #18
She went to the Washington Post when he ran for Lt. Governor. irresistable Feb 2019 #23
actually no dsc Feb 2019 #26
How do you know that Dr. Tyson has never told anyone? irresistable Feb 2019 #31
Tyson told the Post she'd never told anyone. octoberlib Feb 2019 #49
She seems to be dedicating her life to helping abuse victims and researching sexual abuse. irresistable Feb 2019 #55
Oh, I'm not doubting her word. octoberlib Feb 2019 #62
It does; the accusation is credible but that doesn't mean Fairfax is guilty. An investigation should uponit7771 Feb 2019 #132
I don't believe that an investigation can help in this case. irresistable Feb 2019 #197
+1, the post sounds like they did their due diligence in this case. I remember the past is what sunk uponit7771 Feb 2019 #131
because the Washington post investigated the story dsc Feb 2019 #66
So if the victim stays silent for a period of time, forget the assault charge? at140 Feb 2019 #105
Can we all be honest? We forget it if she accused a Democrat theboss Feb 2019 #169
Exactly same story... at140 Feb 2019 #102
Probably having a beer ? OnDoutside Feb 2019 #107
Probably more than one beer...a 6-pack? at140 Feb 2019 #109
A long time since he had a six pack ! OnDoutside Feb 2019 #112
This is false, Ford told people before BK was selected uponit7771 Feb 2019 #114
Well, this is certainly a depressing development... n/t hlthe2b Feb 2019 #4
My sentiments exactly. DemocratSinceBirth Feb 2019 #99
No shit. cwydro Feb 2019 #134
This isn't "breaking news." Her name's been out there since the story surfaced over the weekend. Empowerer Feb 2019 #5
Wow, she looks really credible to me. redstatebluegirl Feb 2019 #7
He's also credible Empowerer Feb 2019 #12
No but as a woman who was sexually assaulted in college and did not report it. redstatebluegirl Feb 2019 #17
Her timing was exactly the same as Dr. Ford's. irresistable Feb 2019 #39
+1, I'm starting to think the rat**cking part is #metoo is guilt be accusation. uponit7771 Feb 2019 #133
She needs to show proof Yosemito Feb 2019 #8
Like what proof? BlueStater Feb 2019 #78
His lying corroborated it... lame54 Feb 2019 #130
I agree, but I was referring to physical evidence. BlueStater Feb 2019 #135
We may have gotten much closer to truth if repukes Laura PourMeADrink Feb 2019 #156
Didn't you believe Dr Ford? at140 Feb 2019 #113
Only after BK refused FBI investigation, Person A being credible doesn't mean person B is guilty uponit7771 Feb 2019 #115
There must be one standard for all sexual assault cases at140 Feb 2019 #120
Agreed and the standard HAS NEVER BEEN guilt by accusation ... PERIOD. That's not sound thinking... uponit7771 Feb 2019 #122
She wants an investigation? BlueStater Feb 2019 #136
No, the DNC should do an investigation whether she wants it or not. Same thing they did with uponit7771 Feb 2019 #137
Unfortunately in most rape cases there is little absolute proof. moriah Feb 2019 #205
Have they elaborated on the claim of sexual assault? Vinca Feb 2019 #10
Both acknowledge sexual interaction. brooklynite Feb 2019 #21
So unless there was a fly on the wall who can give testimony, there is no proof of either claim. Vinca Feb 2019 #30
Is the new standard "there must be a witness" in sexual assault cases? brooklynite Feb 2019 #36
Are you saying that it should be sufficient for a woman to say "he raped me" for a many to be deemed EffieBlack Feb 2019 #64
The old standard is something like innocent until proven otherwise Jarqui Feb 2019 #83
Nobody is convicting him... brooklynite Feb 2019 #84
Who is bringing it forward? Jarqui Feb 2019 #85
Everything you are saying is a verbatim transcript of the Kavanaugh defenders theboss Feb 2019 #86
I disagree. There are differences Jarqui Feb 2019 #90
Well, MichMary Feb 2019 #106
That is a lot more than this woman has Jarqui Feb 2019 #110
The big difference is we know the people in this case were together theboss Feb 2019 #183
I'm not sure where you are getting your last two points from this dialogue Jarqui Feb 2019 #185
Someone posted today that she just remembered last week that she was raped. Autumn Feb 2019 #124
How would you prove it? Seriously. Vinca Feb 2019 #92
Is your new standard believe everyone no matter what? BannonsLiver Feb 2019 #198
I wasn't aware that a decision had to be made immediately brooklynite Feb 2019 #199
I don't recall any of us taking that view Codeine Feb 2019 #52
The Washington Post either could not find, or did not believe this woman? rzemanfl Feb 2019 #11
She shopped her story to the Post more than a year ago Empowerer Feb 2019 #15
More specifically, they couldn't find any basis to conclude one way or the other onenote Feb 2019 #19
That's what I said Empowerer Feb 2019 #25
Can you quote the Washington Post? Yosemito Feb 2019 #24
Here: onenote Feb 2019 #43
From the Washington Post csziggy Feb 2019 #60
"Shopped her story?" Bradshaw3 Feb 2019 #35
One need not ask for money to "shop" a story Empowerer Feb 2019 #37
Saying she "shopped it" certainly makes it sound that way Bradshaw3 Feb 2019 #46
Ok - how about this: Empowerer Feb 2019 #53
Approached the Post is more fair and accurate Bradshaw3 Feb 2019 #57
A TV Station knew about the allegation wellst0nev0ter Feb 2019 #188
"shopped" her story? peacefrogman Feb 2019 #48
yes, the smears begin Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #56
I'm only responding to this... Charlotte Little Feb 2019 #141
Not true - they determined it was a he said she said w/o corroboration Laura PourMeADrink Feb 2019 #70
I am assuming that they did not want to be in a position for libel. Caliman73 Feb 2019 #140
Yes, except it's more about no way to prove Laura PourMeADrink Feb 2019 #154
They also didn't believe him. lark Feb 2019 #80
This is a right wing coordinated take down. MrGrieves Feb 2019 #13
Northam not stepping down has nothing to do with Fairfax Empowerer Feb 2019 #20
Why would this woman participate in RW take-down? onenote Feb 2019 #22
Why would a man admit being the guy in blackface smiling next to a Klansman he wasn't? Empowerer Feb 2019 #28
Thanks for the unhelpful non-sequitur. onenote Feb 2019 #32
Not a non-sequitur - an illustration Empowerer Feb 2019 #41
You deflected Bradshaw3 Feb 2019 #42
Not at all Empowerer Feb 2019 #45
No you answered with a non-sequitur as the other poster said Bradshaw3 Feb 2019 #51
he might have assumed it was a photo of his michael jackson dancing Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #59
THAT's what his Michael Jackson outfit looked like? Empowerer Feb 2019 #76
I've looked at things without seeing them because my mind was racing Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #94
It's hysterical that the time he dressed in blackface isn't captured by that picture theboss Feb 2019 #95
You're suggesting the state's chief executive, with power over the NationaGuard, among other things, Empowerer Feb 2019 #97
it actually has nothing to do with his official duties Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #108
Too true! peggysue2 Feb 2019 #63
She certainly could be credible. MrGrieves Feb 2019 #38
Somethings not right. Strong background in sexual violence awareness and prevention? bluestarone Feb 2019 #29
actually she reached out to the press in 2017 before he was inaugurated Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #61
Blasey Ford taken seriously? Certainly not by the republicans. Achilleaze Feb 2019 #98
Ford told people YEARS before BK was put on a list IIRC uponit7771 Feb 2019 #117
And I didn't tell anyone until i began therapy years after the fact Fresh_Start Feb 2019 #125
True, none of that He's guilty. #metoo isn't guilt by accusation its at the least believe the uponit7771 Feb 2019 #127
Ford talked about it with her therapist when he was being considered for the DC circuit. Calista241 Feb 2019 #163
I understand what you are saying theboss Feb 2019 #181
Doesn't look good. She has a strong resume. jalan48 Feb 2019 #33
Is there anyone left who believes this is not the work of Roger Stone??? PubliusEnigma Feb 2019 #34
Feeling Like A Coordinated RF ProfessorGAC Feb 2019 #65
Agreed about the RF. mahina Feb 2019 #69
So this woman is conspiring with Roger Stone? theboss Feb 2019 #72
Did I say that? mahina Feb 2019 #143
You said Roger Stone is causing this theboss Feb 2019 #157
Tina Dupuy is a dyed-in-the-wool Democrat wellst0nev0ter Feb 2019 #189
Yep...and/or his minions. They are trying to get AA's against Northam and MeToo against Fairfax Baltimike Feb 2019 #166
She's hired the same law firm that represented Christine Blasey Ford inwiththenew Feb 2019 #40
Wow - would have never hired them in a zillion years. nt Laura PourMeADrink Feb 2019 #71
So? 2naSalit Feb 2019 #73
I thought this was investigated MFM008 Feb 2019 #44
The Attorney General is next in line, I believe. A democrat. n/t rzemanfl Feb 2019 #50
I wonder where that AG stands on abortion rights, the first issue mahina Feb 2019 #68
How do you know there are no skeletons in his closet? LisaL Feb 2019 #145
How do you know Northam doesn't have more skeletons in HIS closet? Empowerer Feb 2019 #149
I didn't say there weren't or that they couldn't be manufactured. n/t rzemanfl Feb 2019 #150
Soon Gillibrand will be telling him to resign too...nt helpisontheway Feb 2019 #54
This seems far more credible than I initially thought Va Lefty Feb 2019 #58
I'm sure Republicans are doing a happy dance now DBoon Feb 2019 #67
I believe the Attorney General is next in line. Another Dem. n/t rzemanfl Feb 2019 #74
We need to figure out the rules here theboss Feb 2019 #75
Classic he said she said bpj62 Feb 2019 #77
The problem is that you can't make this a RW conspiracy without implicating her theboss Feb 2019 #81
Yes you can bpj62 Feb 2019 #82
That's the million$$$ question. Ufta88 Feb 2019 #87
How did Drudge get the Lewinsky scandal? theboss Feb 2019 #88
Linda Tripp or Lucianne Goldberg bpj62 Feb 2019 #91
And everything they said was largely true theboss Feb 2019 #93
Wow thst is a Stretch bpj62 Feb 2019 #103
Clearly, they were attracted to each other..... theboss Feb 2019 #159
Once again the hit squad is out in force bpj62 Feb 2019 #171
Does a RW troll website publishing this make her a liar? theboss Feb 2019 #89
Nice trap there bpj62 Feb 2019 #96
Yes it makes it suspect. rockfordfile Feb 2019 #184
Remember how last weekend the fact that Northam's picture was released by a far right website EffieBlack Feb 2019 #187
I'm defending the accusor theboss Feb 2019 #191
Actually you can Empowerer Feb 2019 #139
So was she lying in her Facebook post? theboss Feb 2019 #161
I don't know. Do you? Empowerer Feb 2019 #165
This is the crux of the matter, I believe MrsMatt Feb 2019 #100
I don't know what to think about this. BlueStater Feb 2019 #79
Fairfax is an intelligent, successful, well-educated man who has no history of assaulting women Empowerer Feb 2019 #142
And Bill Cosby was a beloved celebrity until he wasn't. BlueStater Feb 2019 #151
You're making my point Empowerer Feb 2019 #158
Not really. BlueStater Feb 2019 #162
So it's on him to prove he didn't do it. Empowerer Feb 2019 #167
That's pretty much what we demanded of Kavanaugh theboss Feb 2019 #168
No, it's not Empowerer Feb 2019 #170
Maybe I'm not remembering the Kavanaugh saga well theboss Feb 2019 #172
Agreement that "something of a sexual nature occurred" is NOT corroboration of rape! Empowerer Feb 2019 #174
It's collaboration that they met and something happened theboss Feb 2019 #175
So every time a man meets a woman and has sex with her, he has to worry that could be evidence Empowerer Feb 2019 #176
I don't know the last time you dated, but....the answer is kinda yea.... theboss Feb 2019 #177
We're done here Empowerer Feb 2019 #179
No, you didn't say that EffieBlack Feb 2019 #193
What outrageous thing didn't I say? theboss Feb 2019 #195
Here's the thing. BlueStater Feb 2019 #178
That doesn't even make any sense Empowerer Feb 2019 #180
What about it doesn't make any sense? BlueStater Feb 2019 #182
I honestly am deeply uncomfortable with this "no other accusor" idea theboss Feb 2019 #194
This ain't good. nt UniteFightBack Feb 2019 #104
The Kavanaugh decision has set the precedent. There is even less evidence than for Dr Ford. Should OnDoutside Feb 2019 #111
No, Ford came forward years before KNaw was put on a list uponit7771 Feb 2019 #118
I agree but there's a conversation that people need to have about OnDoutside Feb 2019 #126
My understanding is #metoo was at least believe the accuser enough to investigate which wasn't ... uponit7771 Feb 2019 #128
Two people in hotel room many years ago. LisaL Feb 2019 #144
"What do you think investigation could possibly come up with? " ... Facts and under oath statements uponit7771 Feb 2019 #147
Valid-Valid-Valid..very Valid point at140 Feb 2019 #152
Both of them agree they were in a hotel room. LisaL Feb 2019 #153
Which - again - is way more than we ever got in the Kavanaugh discussion theboss Feb 2019 #173
He claims the encounter was consensual, she apparently claims otherwise. LisaL Feb 2019 #196
So because we lost on Kavanaugh, we simply give up on holding politicians accountable? theboss Feb 2019 #160
Holding politicians accountable or using unsubstantiated allegations to destroy OnDoutside Feb 2019 #200
When there is Zero Tolerance for GOPers, these accusations hit us too. I hope it works out. Hoyt Feb 2019 #116
+1, at minimum there should be an investigation which is what did NOT happen with Franken or Ford uponit7771 Feb 2019 #129
The Democratic candidates for President should be saying for trump to resign. rockfordfile Feb 2019 #186
Not good. n/t demmiblue Feb 2019 #138
This is such a strange story. The sexual encounter happened in 2004 underthematrix Feb 2019 #146
+1, I think the DNC would do themselves some good by investigating the accusation like what happened uponit7771 Feb 2019 #148
In Ellison's case accusations were found to be unsubstantiated. LisaL Feb 2019 #155
The DNC is not equipped to do this type of thing theboss Feb 2019 #164
No, we didn't believe Franken's accusers wellst0nev0ter Feb 2019 #190
And we've never said "Believe all women" EffieBlack Feb 2019 #192
This message was self-deleted by its author Mosby Feb 2019 #202
Is there a Go Fund me account set up yet? MichMan Feb 2019 #201

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
1. She was named in the original report on the right wing website ...
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:12 PM
Feb 2019

She has strong academic credentials
She has supported other Democrats for election

Demsrule86

(68,636 posts)
2. There is no way to prove this...and we will never really know what happened...I am not willing to
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:15 PM
Feb 2019

throw Fairfax under the bus because of a rightie conspiracy.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
16. Neither am I
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:24 PM
Feb 2019

I am wary of the GOP propping up allegations like what happened with Franken

Can't go along with that

Demsrule86

(68,636 posts)
204. That is exactly what is going on here.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:18 AM
Feb 2019

And look at Warren where a 1986 document turns up...we better gird for some serious ratfucking and be prepared to fight and not allow these possibly Russian or dirty GOP operatives to get us to destroy our own.

at140

(6,110 posts)
101. should all sexual assault victims be taken seriously?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:28 PM
Feb 2019

It usually comes down to she said he said. Always a complex situation.
Kavanaugh is allowed to sit on SCOTUS. Why not allow Fairfax the same favor?

marble falls

(57,152 posts)
119. Yes. Victims of a crime should always be taken seriously. Wouldn't you at least like hear ...
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:04 PM
Feb 2019

hear what she's got to say before we shrug our our shoulders?

at140

(6,110 posts)
123. Personally I take every sexual assault accusation seriously..
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:09 PM
Feb 2019

As a father of 2 daughters. But my opinion is not important.

What is important is to apply equal justice in all assault cases.
If the victim gains nothing by coming forward, then it has to be taken seriously.

Demsrule86

(68,636 posts)
203. I don't think that you can ruin a person in a he said she said moment...others came forward.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:15 AM
Feb 2019

In the Fairfax situation, I do not find her story credible and it can't be proven. Aspects of the Me to movement have troubled me lately anyway, and I am a woman. I do not believe some of the accusations are true. And if it is he said she said then...nothing can be done. Don't vote for the person again in this instance. But clearly the Democrats are being ratfucked in Virginia...if the GOP managed to rid themselves of all three Democrats a GOP would become governor and appoint all the other offices.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
27. For sure. Two credible people.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:27 PM
Feb 2019

One word vs the other with little evidence to support either claim.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
18. I haven't seen anyone here take that position
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:25 PM
Feb 2019

But you have to have more than an allegation. Christine Blasey Ford did.

dsc

(52,166 posts)
26. actually no
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:27 PM
Feb 2019

Dr. Ford had told people (her husband, her therapist) years before Kavenaugh was up for any jobs. This woman told no one before Fairfax was elected Lt. Gov (she went to the Post between his election and his inaguration).

octoberlib

(14,971 posts)
49. Tyson told the Post she'd never told anyone.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:41 PM
Feb 2019

It was one of the reasons the Post declined to print her story. No corroborating witnesses(no surprise, they were in a hotel room), She hadn't told anybody after it happened and they investigated FairFax's school years and political circles and could find no previous sexual misconduct allegations against him

 

irresistable

(989 posts)
55. She seems to be dedicating her life to helping abuse victims and researching sexual abuse.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:53 PM
Feb 2019

Maybe that tells us something.

uponit7771

(90,351 posts)
132. It does; the accusation is credible but that doesn't mean Fairfax is guilty. An investigation should
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:25 PM
Feb 2019

... ensue minimum by the DNC as with a uninterested party.

 

irresistable

(989 posts)
197. I don't believe that an investigation can help in this case.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 11:40 PM
Feb 2019

I believe her, but if she never told anyone about it, nothing more can be done.

uponit7771

(90,351 posts)
131. +1, the post sounds like they did their due diligence in this case. I remember the past is what sunk
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:24 PM
Feb 2019

... Mike Tyson in his case that he had multiple women come forward and say he was aggressive towards them sexually.

dsc

(52,166 posts)
66. because the Washington post investigated the story
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:25 PM
Feb 2019

and said they found no one she had told. Given that she want to them, one presumes the Post would have found someone if someone existed.

at140

(6,110 posts)
105. So if the victim stays silent for a period of time, forget the assault charge?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:35 PM
Feb 2019

May be some sexual assault victims are scared, confused, ashamed after an assault.
Maybe they keep wondering if it was their fault. May be when they get older and
more mature, they decide to come forward.

What would be the motive for this woman to come out now?
What will she gain? I just don't know.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
169. Can we all be honest? We forget it if she accused a Democrat
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:56 PM
Feb 2019

We are suddenly highly concerned with evidence, collaboration, etc.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
134. No shit.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:27 PM
Feb 2019

I’m watching this from out of the country and really just thinking what in the hell?

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
12. He's also credible
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:22 PM
Feb 2019

And entitled to the benefit of the doubt at this point. If more information comes out supporting her claim, that's one thing. But if we don't get more than the allegation, and there's no evidence of any comparable behavior on his part at any time in his life, that's not sufficient to destroy his career and label him a criminal.

redstatebluegirl

(12,265 posts)
17. No but as a woman who was sexually assaulted in college and did not report it.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:24 PM
Feb 2019

I do understand why it took so long. I am concerned about her timing.

 

Yosemito

(648 posts)
8. She needs to show proof
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:20 PM
Feb 2019

Of some sort.
We can't just be like, "Yup, her parents gave her a name at birth. Fairfax busted".

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
78. Like what proof?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:59 PM
Feb 2019

Christine Ford couldn't prove that Brett Kavanaugh tried to rape her either, but I believe he did.

In the vast majority of sexual assault cases, there is no physical evidence. It's just she said vs. he said.

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
135. I agree, but I was referring to physical evidence.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:30 PM
Feb 2019

At least I believe that's the sort of "proof" the person I was responding to meant.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
156. We may have gotten much closer to truth if repukes
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:28 PM
Feb 2019

Hadn't limited the FBI. I remember that day and someone it worked at the FBI who said they will rise to the occasion. They will put her in a car and drive around the neighborhoods hoping to spur recollection. "They only have a week but trust me they can do it" look how that turned out.

On a related note I don't have a link but just read a long article published by a psychiatrist with no political agenda. It was quite interesting and he concluded that it was likely she was not telling the truth. Either consciously or subconsciously.

at140

(6,110 posts)
113. Didn't you believe Dr Ford?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:56 PM
Feb 2019

No one takes a video during a sexual assault. And no one takes notes.
And the victim must be so petrified as to not think about grabbing any dna present,
or keep her soiled dress safely locked up to bring up as evidence later.

at140

(6,110 posts)
120. There must be one standard for all sexual assault cases
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:05 PM
Feb 2019

Like I said, victims of sexual assault will not think about grabbing any physical evidence during the ordeal. How many would grab the used condom and place it in a plastic pouch? How many would keep the soiled dress for long period without cleaning it? They are probably petrified and want to get away ASAP.

So it is always going to be she said he said. Either we believe all victims or believe none.
The only consideration should be the motive. Does the victim gain something by coming forward?

In this particular case what was she going to gain by accusing him?

uponit7771

(90,351 posts)
122. Agreed and the standard HAS NEVER BEEN guilt by accusation ... PERIOD. That's not sound thinking...
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:08 PM
Feb 2019

... and things should be investigated at minimum which did ... NOT ... happen before #metoo

In this particular case what was she going to gain by accusing him?


Same as Ford; nothing
Same as Ford; investigate which BK didn't want

Guilt by accusation is not sound thinking

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
136. She wants an investigation?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:34 PM
Feb 2019

If so, this really appears bad because people who are lying don't usually want to take it to this length.

As far as Fairfax himself is concerned, I can't speak on behalf of his credibility because I know absolutely nothing about him. I never even heard of him until three days ago.

uponit7771

(90,351 posts)
137. No, the DNC should do an investigation whether she wants it or not. Same thing they did with
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:37 PM
Feb 2019

... Ellison.

That an accuser wants an investigation doesn't mean the accused is guilty.

There should be an investigation

moriah

(8,311 posts)
205. Unfortunately in most rape cases there is little absolute proof.
Thu Feb 7, 2019, 11:53 AM
Feb 2019

Rarely are there ever cooperating witnesses, except to discussions after the fact or the fact the two were alone together.

While DNA evidence found on a murder victim, or a victim of an extremely violent stranger rape, could provide proof... without the proof they were not friends/acquaintances and either physical evidence of a violent confrontation or a drug test showing they were roofied... DNA in a "rape kit" can be called the results from consensual sex.

So there are many victims of rape who simply don't have "good cases" to present to cops. And may, knowing the difficulty of prosecution, delay or never report.

At the same time, because there are rarely witnesses to consensual sexual encounters either... it's very hard to disprove an allegation.

If I were Fairfax, I'd be looking at whether there were any emails archived between them after the Convention that weren't work-related. She claims she cut off all contact, he says they remained in contact. Unfortunately, my earliest account on Gmail is from around the 2004 election, not the DNC convention, and while I'd archived all my sent mail and didn't delete emails on the Yahoo account I had then... it wasn't a default setting because of space concerns then.

Vinca

(50,301 posts)
10. Have they elaborated on the claim of sexual assault?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:21 PM
Feb 2019

If this is "sexual assault" the way it was depicted for Al Franken, it's definitely questionable.

brooklynite

(94,688 posts)
21. Both acknowledge sexual interaction.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:26 PM
Feb 2019

She claims Fairfax sexually assaulted her after the two met during the 2004 National Democratic Convention. The lieutenant governor says the encounter was consensual.

Vinca

(50,301 posts)
30. So unless there was a fly on the wall who can give testimony, there is no proof of either claim.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:29 PM
Feb 2019

That shouldn't destroy Fairfax's career.

brooklynite

(94,688 posts)
36. Is the new standard "there must be a witness" in sexual assault cases?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:34 PM
Feb 2019

Or does this only apply if the accused is a Democrat?

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
64. Are you saying that it should be sufficient for a woman to say "he raped me" for a many to be deemed
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:06 PM
Feb 2019

a rapist?

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
83. The old standard is something like innocent until proven otherwise
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:20 PM
Feb 2019

We cannot convict people just because someone points a finger at them - or we'd darn near all be convicted of something.

We have to have some due process.

They both maintain they were making out in his hotel room consensually. She maintains the blowjob he got was not consensual. He says sex between them was. He said - she said. According to what I've read, she told no one for more than a decade and has provided no other evidence. Washington Post found no other evidence or past claims one way or the other.

The Washington Post couldn't come up with enough evidence to run a story.
If that is all the evidence there is, then this woman is not going to get a result she will be satisfied with.
Unfortunately, if nothing changes, that is her tough luck and the end of it.
Because the converse, to destroy the Lt Gov solely because a woman makes an allegation ... that is not right.

As I've mentioned before, my father rented a room from a prison warden. That warden maintained 30% or so of the men in his prison for sex crimes were innocent.

You have to go through a careful process. Unfortunately for this woman if she is the one telling the truth, there is not enough evidence to take action.

brooklynite

(94,688 posts)
84. Nobody is convicting him...
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:25 PM
Feb 2019

Has anyone called for him to step down?

Where we stand is that a credible accusation has been made, and needs to be investigated.


FWIW - the only reason Northam was "convicted" was because 1) he admitted to the picture on Friday, and 2) he admitted to another instance on Saturday.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
85. Who is bringing it forward?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:33 PM
Feb 2019

The right wing website?

Recently, she has allowed her name to be published.

Where is the criminal complaint?
Where is the civil complaint?

Contrary to Northam, Fairfax has not admitted any wrongdoing.
And he has formally responded with his statement.

She has yet to formally make any statement or assertion.
And according to the Washington post, she has not provided a shred of corroborating evidence.

So right now, we're in an open and shut no case situation.

The onus is on her to provide something she could not provide the Washington Post.

What is there to investigate? He said one thing. She said another. No witnesses. No evidence.

Her only hope is for a small parade of women step forward with similar claims.

Otherwise, this claim is not going anywhere.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
86. Everything you are saying is a verbatim transcript of the Kavanaugh defenders
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:38 PM
Feb 2019

There was no criminal complaint.
There was no civil complaint.
There were no witnesses. (I'm not sure how there could be).
There was no real evidence aside from some third party statements over the years.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
90. I disagree. There are differences
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:50 PM
Feb 2019

There were third party witnesses to Cristine Blasey Ford - many years ago. This woman has none.
There were other women and complaints. Washington Post couldn't find those.

Christine Blasey Ford would never get a conviction based upon what we've heard.
And she probably would not win a civil claim based upon what we've heard.
As brave and as compelling as she was giving her testimony, it wouldn't have been enough on it's own.
So that much - quite a bit - is similar.

This woman didn't discuss it with anyone until last summer. No one else has come forward. We do not have much to work with in her case.

But all the other claims with Kavanaugh, his lies, etc - that was bad on him and warranted more looking into. This woman currently doesn't have any of that going for her.
If it changes, we have a different story. If it doesn't, her claim is toast.

MichMary

(1,714 posts)
106. Well,
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:46 PM
Feb 2019

although Blasey-Ford told her therapist she had been assaulted, Kavanaughty's name didn't appear in the notes. The people, including her best friend, who she said had been at the party could not corroborate any such party. Her best friend claimed she had never met Kavanaughty. The subsequent accusations were weak, at best, some recanted, some outright ridiculous.

I would maintain that these two situations were much more similar than dissimilar.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
110. That is a lot more than this woman has
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:54 PM
Feb 2019

And she was consensual making out with Fairfax - unlike Ford.

and there were the others who made allegations against Kavanaugh - not just Ford - no one else against Fairfax (so far)
and there were Kavanaugh's lies and other allegations - we have no Fairfax lies or allegations

You cannot cherry pick and ignore all that.

All this woman has is a disagreement whether the blowjob was consensual and unlike Ford, no witnesses, no evidence, no lies and no other claims.

There is a gigantic difference between the two.

Her first decision is whether she is even going to address this further.
Without that, this is over.
Then, if she does address it, she is going to need others to come forward because she cannot substantiate her claim.

Ford has some of that going on and the Republicans shut it down.

Big differences in the two cases.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
183. The big difference is we know the people in this case were together
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:41 PM
Feb 2019

A disagreement over whether a blowjob is consensual is pretty damn important don't you think?

Does anyone ever stop and think that the message we are sending as a Party is that "If you give a blowjob, you are clearly a whore."

I honestly feel like the animus that you still see directed at Monica Lewinsky is that she gave oral sex and apparently that is bad.

Jarqui

(10,130 posts)
185. I'm not sure where you are getting your last two points from this dialogue
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:47 PM
Feb 2019

This has nothing to do with it in terms of the discussion I've been having - nor do I agree with it:

"If you give a blowjob, you are clearly a whore."


I also don't know where this came from - nor do I agree with it
"I honestly feel like the animus that you still see directed at Monica Lewinsky is that she gave oral sex and apparently that is bad."


I strongly suspect more folks were turned off by the President getting a blowjob in the Oval office than whether getting a blowjob on it's own was bad.

and I have no idea what that has to do with Fairfax - these are extrapolations within your own head.

The only blowjob question with Fairfax is: was it consensual or not?

Autumn

(45,120 posts)
124. Someone posted today that she just remembered last week that she was raped.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:12 PM
Feb 2019

That fucking floored me.

Vinca

(50,301 posts)
92. How would you prove it? Seriously.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:52 PM
Feb 2019

The problem with not coming forward at the time of the incident is that there is no evidence to gather. People who might be interviewed are long gone. Are you willing to hang this guy out to dry based on a Facebook post? I don't want Al Franken, Part Deux. He was railroaded over a comedic photo and a woman who claimed he put his hand on her waist while taking a photo. If our purity test becomes much purer only bubble people will be eligible to run for office as Democrats.

BannonsLiver

(16,435 posts)
198. Is your new standard believe everyone no matter what?
Wed Feb 6, 2019, 12:01 AM
Feb 2019

Because based on the above post it sure as hell seems like it. Heaven forbid you ever sit on a jury FFS.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
15. She shopped her story to the Post more than a year ago
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:23 PM
Feb 2019

They investigated but couldn't find any basis to conclude that her story was true.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
25. That's what I said
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:27 PM
Feb 2019

But since she made the allegation, it's on her to prove it happened, not on him to prove a negative. So the question is whether there's anything to support her story - they couldn't find anything.

onenote

(42,739 posts)
43. Here:
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:36 PM
Feb 2019

"Fairfax and the woman told different versions of what happened in the hotel room with no one else present. The Post could not find anyone who could corroborate either version. The Post did not find “significant red flags and inconsistencies within the allegations,” as the Fairfax statement incorrectly said.

[SNIP]


"The Post, in phone calls to people who knew Fairfax from college, law school and through political circles, found no similar complaints of sexual misconduct against him. Without that, or the ability to corroborate the woman’s account — in part because she had not told anyone what happened — The Post did not run a story."


https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/va-lt-gov-justin-fairfax-denies-sex-assault-allegation-from-2004/2019/02/04/05fb0f6c-272b-11e9-ad53-824486280311_story.html?utm_term=.357c84ffbf0f

csziggy

(34,137 posts)
60. From the Washington Post
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:57 PM
Feb 2019
Va. Lt. Gov. Justin Fairfax denies sex assault allegation from 2004

By Theresa Vargas
February 4 at 9:13 PM

<SNIP>

The woman and Fairfax first met in Boston at the 2004 Democratic National Convention.

During a conversation, the two realized they had a mutual friend. It was that commonality, she recalled, that put her at ease enough that on the afternoon Fairfax asked her to walk with him to his hotel room to pick up some papers, she thought nothing of joining him.

Fairfax and the woman told different versions of what happened in the hotel room with no one else present. The Post could not find anyone who could corroborate either version. The Post did not find “significant red flags and inconsistencies within the allegations,” as the Fairfax statement incorrectly said.

<SNIP>

The Post, in phone calls to people who knew Fairfax from college, law school and through political circles, found no similar complaints of sexual misconduct against him. Without that, or the ability to corroborate the woman’s account — in part because she had not told anyone what happened — The Post did not run a story.

More: https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/va-lt-gov-justin-fairfax-denies-sex-assault-allegation-from-2004/2019/02/04/05fb0f6c-272b-11e9-ad53-824486280311_story.html?noredirect=on&utm_term=.1772506f8d81

Bradshaw3

(7,526 posts)
46. Saying she "shopped it" certainly makes it sound that way
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:38 PM
Feb 2019

There are more accurate ways to phrase it than that. I hope you don't have an agenda of trying to discredit her.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
53. Ok - how about this:
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:46 PM
Feb 2019

She approached the Post with her allegation but they were unable to find any proof to support her allegation, nor were they able to find any evidence that Justin Fairfax had ever in his life engaged in the behavior she alleged.

I don't have any "agenda" to discredit her. But I am concerned and will push back against what I see as a clear agenda to discredit Fairfax based on an unsupported allegation, particularly obnoxious when it comes from people who expected people to die on a hill fighting in defense of Northam's racist history.

Bradshaw3

(7,526 posts)
57. Approached the Post is more fair and accurate
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:55 PM
Feb 2019

They have not been able to back up her claim. Maybe it's true and maybe it's not. But she appears to be a credible person and anyone trying to link her with the Northam scandal needs to come up with proof that the two are connected. Until then, or others come forward about Fairfax it is he said, she said. I certainly hope it's not true. He appears to be a rising star.

Fresh_Start

(11,330 posts)
56. yes, the smears begin
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:54 PM
Feb 2019

and the hypocrisy begins...suddenly we no longer believe victims.

And his team lied in their press release...Washington Post did not find inconsistencies and red flags.
And he knew about this more than a year ago.

Did he tell his supporters about this event?
DU demanded that if Northam were sincere he would have broadcast his past failings.

Yes, we are being rat-fucked by the right.
And I do think its strategic that they are targeting the democratic coalition
First lets relight the black versus white controversy
Then lets relight the male versus female controversy
I fully expect a LGBT v CIS revelation to hit the news also to damage the coalition.





Charlotte Little

(658 posts)
141. I'm only responding to this...
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:40 PM
Feb 2019

"Did he tell his supporters about this event?
DU demanded that if Northam were sincere he would have broadcast his past failings."

This is insanity. If you believe that you are (and/or are) innocent and wrongly acccused, why would you mention an accusation to your supporters? Northam's photo & nickname are fact, not accusation. This is an accusation, that's all at this point.

And while I strongly assert that we should believe women, I do NOT condone believing women instantly without an investigation.

When I was raped from age 14-15 and finally told on the 35 year old perpetrator at age 21, the DA didn't just take my word for it and destroy his life. I had to give interviews and details since six years had gone by. In the end, the DA believed me as I had plenty of information and there were other victims. The perpetrator, a veteran, still didn't lose his job, only his coaching gig and his marriage (although, she was in on it too and ended up corroborating me). It was a long, painstaking, ugly process, but I was telling the truth and that couldn't be denied.

So, forgive me if I'm a bit uncompromising with my views on this subject, but everyone needs to sit down and chill out. If this accuser is credible and is telling the truth, justice should prevail.

Let's see how Fairfax responds to an investigation but let's not shame others for not just jumping on the "believe her" bandwagon instantly. It doesn't make us hypocrites. We're reasonable.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
70. Not true - they determined it was a he said she said w/o corroboration
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:33 PM
Feb 2019
https://www.cnbc.com/2019/02/04/virginia-lt-gov-justin-fairfax-denies-assault-allegation-as-ralph-northam-mulls-quitting.html

snip
The Post also said that "Fairfax and the woman told different versions of what happened in the hotel room with no one else present."

"The Washington Post could not find anyone who could corroborate either version. The Post did not find 'significant red flags and inconsistencies within the allegations,' as the Fairfax statement incorrectly said."

The newspaper detailed the woman's claims of a sexual encounter with Fairfax "that left her crying and shaken."

Fairfax told the newspaper the encounter was consensual, according to The Post.

Caliman73

(11,742 posts)
140. I am assuming that they did not want to be in a position for libel.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:38 PM
Feb 2019

While I am sure that the protections for libel in the US are considerable as opposed to other countries, printing an uncorroborated story would likely harm the paper's reputation and expose them. Fairfax is likely as sure of his perspective as Ms. Tyson and would likely have sued the Post as he is threatening to sue the website.

The horrible tragedy is that we have a situation where neither may be lying. It could be a matter of how each perceived their encounter and their ideas about it after the fact.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
154. Yes, except it's more about no way to prove
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:22 PM
Feb 2019

what someone is saying is true. No point at saying he said this and she said that neither can be proved.

lark

(23,147 posts)
80. They also didn't believe him.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:05 PM
Feb 2019

They said they could not corroborate either version, his or hers. So, who are we to believe?

 

MrGrieves

(315 posts)
13. This is a right wing coordinated take down.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:23 PM
Feb 2019

I think I am starting to understand why Northam is refusing to step down.

We may need to about face and start talking about making changes in ones life, becoming a better person and renouncing our past.

I don't like it. But we may be utterly fucked now in VA.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
20. Northam not stepping down has nothing to do with Fairfax
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:26 PM
Feb 2019

He's refusing to step down because he thinks he didn't do anything wrong and it's not fair that people think he should be held accountable for his raviat behavior - entitlement.

But I am suspicious that the Fairfax allegation has something to do with Northam.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
28. Why would a man admit being the guy in blackface smiling next to a Klansman he wasn't?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:29 PM
Feb 2019

People do all kinds of things that don't make sense.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
41. Not a non-sequitur - an illustration
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:36 PM
Feb 2019

of how people sometimes to strange things for reasons we don't understand.

Bradshaw3

(7,526 posts)
42. You deflected
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:36 PM
Feb 2019

So he is credible but she might be doing something "that doesn't make sense"? Seems to me coming out in public like this doesn't make sense for her - unless she has a malicious intent, for some reason tht isn't apparent at this time.

Bradshaw3

(7,526 posts)
51. No you answered with a non-sequitur as the other poster said
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:43 PM
Feb 2019

Using Northam asn an example is not in any way related to her, unless you have some evidence. Saying people do things that don't make sense and relatign it to her situation is getting close to a smear.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
76. THAT's what his Michael Jackson outfit looked like?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:51 PM
Feb 2019

Because Michael's straw hat, plaid pants and jet black skin were an iconic part of his look.

Fresh_Start

(11,330 posts)
94. I've looked at things without seeing them because my mind was racing
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:03 PM
Feb 2019

and I never purchased or looked at my college or grad school year (if there even was a grad school yearbook?) and neither apparently had he

Yes, I looked at my high school yearbook but that was the last one

PS: my son didn't look at or purchase his college yearbook either so it can't be all that strange

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
95. It's hysterical that the time he dressed in blackface isn't captured by that picture
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:06 PM
Feb 2019

How many times have you had your blackface parties confused?

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
97. You're suggesting the state's chief executive, with power over the NationaGuard, among other things,
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:17 PM
Feb 2019

was so overcome or distracted with fear and a foggy brain that when shown a photo that had huge implications for him, he just glanced at a picture of a guy in blackface standing next to a guy in a Klan robe and without looking at it closely, said "Yeah, that's me" when it actually wasn't?

If that's the case, he needs to be removed from office for incapacity and incompetence.

peggysue2

(10,837 posts)
63. Too true!
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:05 PM
Feb 2019

People do strange things all the time for a variety of reasons. Apologizing then rescinding an apology is pretty strange because you would think if you'd appeared in blackface or donned a Klan sheet you would . . . remember the incident rather vividly. And if you didn't appear in the photo, you'd deny it like crazy--Hell no, that's not me!

Very strange. And a flaming fiasco to boot.

 

MrGrieves

(315 posts)
38. She certainly could be credible.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:34 PM
Feb 2019

And she deserves to be heard. That is my point. But this is a story that was looked at a year ago and it went nowhere. Now all of a sudden it is back? But I think the RW machine is banking on us going all out to cut ties with people before anything is actually proven. Please don't let us be this stupid again.

bluestarone

(17,017 posts)
29. Somethings not right. Strong background in sexual violence awareness and prevention?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:29 PM
Feb 2019

THEN not say anything until this week?? WHY? Just gotta wonder here.

Fresh_Start

(11,330 posts)
61. actually she reached out to the press in 2017 before he was inaugurated
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:00 PM
Feb 2019

so it wasn't JUST THIS WEEK

it must have really hurt her to see Blasey Ford taken seriously and she was ignored.

Fresh_Start

(11,330 posts)
125. And I didn't tell anyone until i began therapy years after the fact
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:14 PM
Feb 2019

so not telling someone is not proof of her lying about it

and they both admit there was sexual contact

she felt badly enough about it that more than 10 years later when she discovers he's running for office, she tries to get the story out.

So clearly it stuck in her psyche as "a bad event"






uponit7771

(90,351 posts)
127. True, none of that He's guilty. #metoo isn't guilt by accusation its at the least believe the
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:18 PM
Feb 2019

... attacker and investigate which sounds like didn't happen with Franken and damn well better happen with Fairfax

Calista241

(5,586 posts)
163. Ford talked about it with her therapist when he was being considered for the DC circuit.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:39 PM
Feb 2019

Without naming him. It only got widespread interest when BK was promoted to the Supreme Court.

Tyson followed a similar path in that she went to the Post around when he became Lt. Governor. It’s only being publicized and talked about now because he’s about to get a promotion to Governor.

Personally, i think this sheds a negative light on the Post when they publicize one person’s claim and not the other. The Post also did stories on other accusers of BK that were totally unsubstantiated. The fact that this post will be seen by some as defending Brett Kavanaugh absolutely sickens me. That man is not worth my time, thoughts or respect.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
181. I understand what you are saying
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:38 PM
Feb 2019

We went after Kavanaugh without evidence that he and Ford ever met. Because we believed Ford. I liked to think that I believed her, because I believed her. Not because it served my politics. If anything, my personal animus towards the type of white prep school culture infuriated me more than anything political.

In this case, we have distinguished, apparently liberal college professor who we know for a fact was in the same hotel room with the accused, and suddenly we need a lot more facts to come out.

Either we believe women because we believe women or we believe women when it suits us politically.

ProfessorGAC

(65,136 posts)
65. Feeling Like A Coordinated RF
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:07 PM
Feb 2019

Targeting a flippable state
And the OP is just stirring the pot
It's what he does!

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
157. You said Roger Stone is causing this
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:33 PM
Feb 2019

I don't see how Roger Stone can make a woman lie about sexual assault without making the woman lie about sexual assault.

I think the fundamental problem is that no one on this site actually knows what "Rat-fucking" is.

 

wellst0nev0ter

(7,509 posts)
189. Tina Dupuy is a dyed-in-the-wool Democrat
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 11:08 PM
Feb 2019

yet she put out an obvious sex assault smear against Al Franken. It doesn't have to be all Republicans.

Baltimike

(4,146 posts)
166. Yep...and/or his minions. They are trying to get AA's against Northam and MeToo against Fairfax
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:49 PM
Feb 2019

we need to stand together or perish as fools

MFM008

(19,818 posts)
44. I thought this was investigated
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 04:38 PM
Feb 2019

and there was no evidence.
Strange how this works out.
The right wing points our noses and everyone rushes off.
They are going to work through democrats until they find a republican
to replace Northam.

mahina

(17,693 posts)
68. I wonder where that AG stands on abortion rights, the first issue
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:31 PM
Feb 2019

Northam was called out for right before the racist picture.

LisaL

(44,974 posts)
145. How do you know there are no skeletons in his closet?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:49 PM
Feb 2019

Or if there are none, none will be made up? Republicans could bring them all down util next in line is a republican.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
149. How do you know Northam doesn't have more skeletons in HIS closet?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:02 PM
Feb 2019

We didn't know about his Coonman days until four days ago.

Under this argument, why bother to ever elect any Democrats to any office? It's always possible they could have skeletons in their closet and the Republicans could target them and push them out of office and fill the seat with a Republican.

DBoon

(22,395 posts)
67. I'm sure Republicans are doing a happy dance now
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:26 PM
Feb 2019

They will have ratfucked an elected governor AND the lt governor out of office.

We will have the satisfaction of removing those who violate our principals

They will have control of Virginia

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
75. We need to figure out the rules here
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:46 PM
Feb 2019

Do we believe all women? Do we believe all women who accuse Republicans and some who accuse Democrats if that Democrat has a sketchy history with women? Do we believe all women who accuse Republicans and some who accuse Democrats if that Democrat has a sketchy history with women unless that person is Bill Clinton? Do we believe all women unless it's really really really an inconvenient moment to believe them? Do we need collaboration all the time? Some of the time? None of the time?

bpj62

(999 posts)
77. Classic he said she said
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 05:54 PM
Feb 2019

So we have a case where both parties admit to a consensual encounter over 14 years ago at the DNC in Boston. Both parties where single at the time of the event. For 13 years each party went about thier daily lives with both of them clearly reaching success in thier chosen careers. Neither party speaks about the encounter to anyone over that time frame but when Fairfax becomes a candidate for Lt. Governor she takes her story to the Post and they investigate both parties and can find nothing that supports her allegation in his past. Fairfax denies any wrong doing and that is the end of the story.

Suddenly out of nowhere a right wing rag starts trolling the story two days after the whole Northam affair goes public. My question is this, who gave them the story and why.

For those of you who are not familiar with Virginia politics i will offer a primer as a life long resident of the Commonwealth. If the Governor resigns or dies while serving the Lt. Governor assumes thier term. However the new Governor does not pick the next Lt. Governor. That is done by the legislature and currently the legislature is Republican controlled in both houses. So if Fairfax was forced to resign the Republicans would control the entire Legislature . The census is in 2020 and this is the first time that a Democrat is in the Governor's office since 1990. Virginia also is in the middle of a federal gerrymandering case.

I will not cast any dispersions on either party. 14 years ago they got together in a hotel room and over the course of time someone's view of the events that night has changed while the other persons hasn't. Unless evidence is brought forward that supports her claim then I think we all need to look at why this came up now. I do not believe in coincidences nor do I believe in conspiracy theories either.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
81. The problem is that you can't make this a RW conspiracy without implicating her
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:08 PM
Feb 2019

Can you?

I don't understand how one can, but maybe there is a logical argument for it.

bpj62

(999 posts)
82. Yes you can
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:16 PM
Feb 2019

My question is simply this how did a rw wing troll website that is connected to Corey Stewart get this story. As for his accuser she has now hired a law firm because this whole thing suddenly became bigger than her. Unless there is something out there thst she is holding onto it is a case of he said she said.

 

Ufta88

(31 posts)
87. That's the million$$$ question.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:39 PM
Feb 2019

"how did a rw wing troll website that is connected to Corey Stewart get this story

I'm seeing a little more rfking going on with this & it's not just the RW Corey Stewart involved.

Who wants to get Dems out of office more than the Republicans?
The answer is, the person who made sure Stewart got the story.

It's beyond simply ratfking...



 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
88. How did Drudge get the Lewinsky scandal?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:46 PM
Feb 2019

Somehow the story got out the way these things normally do - someone talked.

If I'm a Republican, I have to wonder what the hell is wrong with my opposition research team in Virginia to miss all this back in 2018.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
93. And everything they said was largely true
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:53 PM
Feb 2019

The standard you seem to be preaching is that unless we like the source of the story, it's fake news.

bpj62

(999 posts)
103. Wow thst is a Stretch
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:33 PM
Feb 2019

Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky had a consensual affair. Both have said so. Lewinsky in recent years has said that she regrets the affair but also states that she now understands the power dynamics that existed. She was infatuated with the President and he took advantage of that infatuation.
In this case both parties admit to a consensual affair. She has not provided any physical proof that it was anything other than that. The Post reviewed her story and found no there there. They also looked into his backround to see if there were any ither other reports of sexual impropriety in his past and they found nothing.
Maybe you should ask Ms. Tyson why she waited 14 yesrs to bring this up. Justin Fairfax was a nobody in 2004. He was a delegate at the DNC Convention and clearly they were attracted to each other because they both ended up in the same hotel room.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
159. Clearly, they were attracted to each other.....
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:35 PM
Feb 2019

Why did she wait 14 years?

Is the next question, "What was she wearing that night?"

bpj62

(999 posts)
171. Once again the hit squad is out in force
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:14 PM
Feb 2019

Nuether you nor I was in yhecroom that night. Secondly I gave not said a disparaging word about his accuser. It is people lije you who make posting about serious issues very difficult. Why are you so concerned about what she was wearing that night because i certainly wasnt

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
89. Does a RW troll website publishing this make her a liar?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:48 PM
Feb 2019

Everyone is trying to have their cake and eat it too.

No one is accusing her of lying while simultaneously arguing that this is rat-fucking, which - unless the definition has changed - is dirty tricks tied to a lie.

bpj62

(999 posts)
96. Nice trap there
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:15 PM
Feb 2019

Did I call her a liar in any of my posts. No I didn't. Does that mean that the RW troll brigade can take her allegation and use it to thier sdvantage? Absolutely it does. Look at all the posts today about this allegation. We have the usual suspects at DU already calling for Fairfax to resign because all women must be believed. We have the group that says where is the proof and the group that says this is a conspiracy.

My question is simply this, who has the most to gain from damaging Justin Fairfax reputation, it isn't Ms. Tyson because unless she was shopping this story around after the Post refused to publish her allegation then she has no dog in the hunt. She could have gone public with this story last year and she didnt.

I keep bringing this up but no one is listening, the Virginia legislature is on the verge of going Democratic for the first time in 20 years. If Northam resigns and Fairfax becomes Governor the legislature picks the next Lt. Governor and right now thst would be a Republican. Virginia is also in the midfle of a federal gerrymandering case and the district court just picked a plan that favors the Democrats. Throw in the 2020 cesus which affects those districts and maybe you see who has to gain by creating this chaos.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
187. Remember how last weekend the fact that Northam's picture was released by a far right website
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:54 PM
Feb 2019

meant that he shouldn't step down, despite his admission that it was him in the photos and that he had worn blackface?

Yeah. Me, too.

Good times.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
191. I'm defending the accusor
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 11:13 PM
Feb 2019

Unless she collaborated with the far right website, I don't care how the story broke.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
139. Actually you can
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:38 PM
Feb 2019

So far, she's said very little. She posted something on her Facebook page and someone else shared it. It's very possible that she had no intention to come forward or accuse him of anything but this information got in the hands of the wrong people and they're running with it and now both she and Fairfax are caught in a nightmare.

MrsMatt

(1,660 posts)
100. This is the crux of the matter, I believe
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:23 PM
Feb 2019

I've read this explanation before (on Twitter).

Seems plausible.

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
79. I don't know what to think about this.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 06:03 PM
Feb 2019

She's seems to be an intelligent, successful, well-educated woman. I presently have no reason to believe she's lying. This looks quite bad, in all honesty.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
142. Fairfax is an intelligent, successful, well-educated man who has no history of assaulting women
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:41 PM
Feb 2019

Do you similarly believe you have no reason to think he raped anyone?

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
151. And Bill Cosby was a beloved celebrity until he wasn't.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:18 PM
Feb 2019

I have no reason to believe that most women, especially highly successful ones with great careers, would put themselves through the hell of accusing a powerful man, an action that usually destroys their lives and reputations even if they're not lying, if there wasn't some degree of truth to the allegations.

Could she be lying? Sure, but I can't think of any reason why she would, at least at the moment.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
158. You're making my point
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:35 PM
Feb 2019

We don't know this woman or Fairfax any better than we knew Bill Cosby. Therefore, assuming that she's more credible than he is or that he should be presumed to be a sexual assaulter solely because we heard second hand that she said he is - just as assuming she's a NOT telling the truth - is really off base.

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
162. Not really.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:38 PM
Feb 2019

I'm looking at things from her perspective far more than his and rightfully so. She's the one instigating this. He's merely reacting.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
167. So it's on him to prove he didn't do it.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:51 PM
Feb 2019

Fortunately that's not how the law works. Unfortunately that's how human nature works ... and since there's no way he can prove he DIDN'T do it, well I guess that's just too bad for him, eh?

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
170. No, it's not
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:03 PM
Feb 2019

Kavanaugh was required to respond to much more than a mere uncorroborated allegation.

Not the same thing. Not even close.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
172. Maybe I'm not remembering the Kavanaugh saga well
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:16 PM
Feb 2019

As an aside, I am the author of a brilliant unpublished essay about how every Ivy League grad until at least the mid 90s knew several Kavanaughs and watched the entire saga with "Yea, that checks out" belief.

I also apparently was in school with the alleged victim here thought I don't think we ever met.

Anyway, we have quite a bit of collaboration here in that both parties admit to being in the same hotel room at the same time and something of a sexual nature occurred. We have no fundamental agreement of the facts in the Kavanaugh-Ford story (though I believe Ford).

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
174. Agreement that "something of a sexual nature occurred" is NOT corroboration of rape!
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:22 PM
Feb 2019

Any more than it's proof that the sex was consensual.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
175. It's collaboration that they met and something happened
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:23 PM
Feb 2019

Which again is more than we ever got during the Kavanaugh hearings.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
176. So every time a man meets a woman and has sex with her, he has to worry that could be evidence
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:28 PM
Feb 2019

that he raped her?

That's the mirror image of how the fact that a woman was in an intimate situation with a man meant that, if he raped her, she "asked for it."

Both assumptions equally stupid. Fortunately, very few people today think that either of these makes any sense whatsoever.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
177. I don't know the last time you dated, but....the answer is kinda yea....
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:34 PM
Feb 2019

That is one of several risks associated with sleeping around.

This is not a new idea. In my college orientation in 1992, we had to watch a play about this very thing.

And again - no one was ever able to present definitive evidence that Kavanaugh and Ford were ever at the same party. But we believed her. At least I did.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
195. What outrageous thing didn't I say?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 11:25 PM
Feb 2019

I had a friend who had to take a year off from college because of a drunken sexcapade that became an accusation a few days later. To this day, I don't really don't what happened. At 20, I liked him and didn't know her so I was convinced of his innocence, but in retrospect, I don't know.

It's very weird in retrospect that the solution to this issue was "Why don't you graduate in 1997 rather than 1996?"

BlueStater

(7,596 posts)
178. Here's the thing.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:35 PM
Feb 2019

Her being successful and educated is more relevant in her case and not so much in his because she's the one starting this. It doesn't make any sense, at least on an obvious level, why a respectable woman would risk ruining her life by making random accusations that are false. That's why I tend to believe, in most of these cases, the accuser is telling the truth.

Him being successful and educated is only relevant to the extent that it can be used to paint him as someone who would never commit sexual assault. It's also a poor defense, as far too many people who were found to have been total assholes who did awful and evil things were once respected and beloved individuals who were never accused of wrongdoing until they were. Bill Cosby and Kevin Spacey come immediately to mind.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
194. I honestly am deeply uncomfortable with this "no other accusor" idea
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 11:22 PM
Feb 2019

It seems to give everyone one free assault - at least if we like you.

Though Ellison had two accusations on his resume, and that went nowhere.

OnDoutside

(19,965 posts)
111. The Kavanaugh decision has set the precedent. There is even less evidence than for Dr Ford. Should
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 07:54 PM
Feb 2019

Democrats demand his resignation, just to be on the safe side ?

OnDoutside

(19,965 posts)
126. I agree but there's a conversation that people need to have about
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:17 PM
Feb 2019

what are the lines. It used to be court of law but that has been rushed out the gate.

uponit7771

(90,351 posts)
128. My understanding is #metoo was at least believe the accuser enough to investigate which wasn't ...
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:19 PM
Feb 2019

... happening before #metoo IIRC.

It didn't happen with Franken, Ford and hopefully we don't make the same mistake with Fairfax.

LisaL

(44,974 posts)
144. Two people in hotel room many years ago.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:48 PM
Feb 2019

One says one thing, the other says a different thing. What do you think investigation could possibly come up with?
This is a classic case of he said,s he said. You can investigate all day long, I fail to see what do you think could be found one way or the other all these years later.

uponit7771

(90,351 posts)
147. "What do you think investigation could possibly come up with? " ... Facts and under oath statements
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:52 PM
Feb 2019

... from both parties.

Also I think it would take some "the did nothing" pressure off of the DNC by having a credible outside party investigation like what happened with Ellison.

at140

(6,110 posts)
152. Valid-Valid-Valid..very Valid point
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:19 PM
Feb 2019

I would guess 99% of sexual assault incidents do not have a 3rd party present with a video camera rolling. As the accuser says in this case it was in a hotel room with just him and her. Am I correct?

Which then follows 99% of sexual cases have no physical evidence especially after lapse of years or in some cases decades. How is any investigation going to prove the assault actually happened or did not if there is no evidence, no DNA, no torn clothing, no soiled dress preserved. The best the investigation can do is prove or disprove that the 2 persons were present in a hotel room on that day. But that is no proof an assault or that a crime did happen.

Which means those of us who believe in equal justice for all, have only 2 options.

1) Give benefit of doubt to the alleged victim
2) Give benefit of doubt to the accused.

So if there is motive present for the accuser, give the benefit of doubt to the accused.
If the alleged victim has nothing to gain, give benefit of doubt to the victim.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
173. Which - again - is way more than we ever got in the Kavanaugh discussion
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:20 PM
Feb 2019

Putting them in a room together immediately grants her some credibility.

LisaL

(44,974 posts)
196. He claims the encounter was consensual, she apparently claims otherwise.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 11:37 PM
Feb 2019

So it's not in dispute they had a sexual encounter.
So not sure why the fact that both admit they were in hotel room grants her credibility. Dispute is not whether sexual encounter took place, dispute is whether it was consensual.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
160. So because we lost on Kavanaugh, we simply give up on holding politicians accountable?
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:37 PM
Feb 2019

I mean, I don't think that's the view we should have.

OnDoutside

(19,965 posts)
200. Holding politicians accountable or using unsubstantiated allegations to destroy
Wed Feb 6, 2019, 03:16 AM
Feb 2019

someone's reputation, in order to support a wider societal point ?

 

Hoyt

(54,770 posts)
116. When there is Zero Tolerance for GOPers, these accusations hit us too. I hope it works out.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:01 PM
Feb 2019

LG Fairfax deserves consideration, but she does too.

uponit7771

(90,351 posts)
129. +1, at minimum there should be an investigation which is what did NOT happen with Franken or Ford
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:20 PM
Feb 2019

... and pray that mistake isn't remade with Fairfax

rockfordfile

(8,704 posts)
186. The Democratic candidates for President should be saying for trump to resign.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 10:48 PM
Feb 2019

With Franken and others resigning, it should be shouted from the roof tops for trump to resign.

underthematrix

(5,811 posts)
146. This is such a strange story. The sexual encounter happened in 2004
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:49 PM
Feb 2019

at the Democratic National Convention in HIS hotel room. But more importantly, Fairfax ran for VA attorney general in 2013 which if he had won would have made him the chief law enforcement officer of that state. It seems to me that would have been the time to raise her claim. But according to a statement attributed to her, her alarm was raised because he was running for Lt Gov, a position which would give him tremendous power. It appears this came out during his run for Lt Gov and WAPO investigative reporters could not either story except that there was a sexual encounter which was confirmed by Justin Fairfax. This is similar to what happened to Keith Ellison.

uponit7771

(90,351 posts)
148. +1, I think the DNC would do themselves some good by investigating the accusation like what happened
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 08:54 PM
Feb 2019

... with Ellision

LisaL

(44,974 posts)
155. In Ellison's case accusations were found to be unsubstantiated.
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:24 PM
Feb 2019

I think it's a fair guess the same thing would happen here.
It still doesn't tell you if it did or didn't actually happen.

 

theboss

(10,491 posts)
164. The DNC is not equipped to do this type of thing
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 09:45 PM
Feb 2019

The whole Ellison fiasco felt like a good old fashioned white-washing.

He was accused by two women (which puts us squarely in the "pattern" camp which everyone loves), but apparently, he just has really bad luck with relationships.

In fairness, no one outside law enforcement is equipped to handle this sort of thing, as the NFL has so clearly shown over the years. Congress clearly isn't either.

It basically comes back to who you believe.

"Believe all women" is obviously becoming "believe all women except in instances which are profoundly uncomfortable." It's clear that the Al Franken episode happened as it did in part, because he was going to be replaced by a Democrat. A Republican governor in Minnesota would have made that whole episode 50 times more complicated.

 

wellst0nev0ter

(7,509 posts)
190. No, we didn't believe Franken's accusers
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 11:12 PM
Feb 2019

Because they were lying two-faced trumpanzees. Nothing more, nothing less.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
192. And we've never said "Believe all women"
Tue Feb 5, 2019, 11:15 PM
Feb 2019

We've been fighting for women to be listened to and taken seriously.

Response to EffieBlack (Reply #192)

MichMan

(11,959 posts)
201. Is there a Go Fund me account set up yet?
Wed Feb 6, 2019, 08:41 AM
Feb 2019

Sure many might be interested in donating for her legal fees etc.

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