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NRaleighLiberal

(60,021 posts)
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:33 PM Feb 2019

Must be dinner time. Democrats are eating their own again.

Not excusing any errors of the past, but.. we really do occasionally act as our own worst enemy.

Yet...leave Manchin alone because our values don't count in WV.

Politics in this country is broken.

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Must be dinner time. Democrats are eating their own again. (Original Post) NRaleighLiberal Feb 2019 OP
Eating their own is something Democrats do really well. LisaL Feb 2019 #1
Unfortunately! COLGATE4 Feb 2019 #69
This message was self-deleted by its author dalton99a Feb 2019 #2
LOL. No. He should clearly resign. He was 25 at the time, not a teenager or a child. manor321 Feb 2019 #3
My god. It was 35 VERY LONG YEARS AGO, & it doesn't and SHOULDN'T define the man TODAY. LBM20 Feb 2019 #5
It wasn't "dumb", it was hateful. Deliberately so. Codeine Feb 2019 #59
BINGO ChubbyStar Feb 2019 #61
The only solution is to fully integrate the entire country. I think the lack of diversity delisen Feb 2019 #64
It was also 35 years ago and he didn't commit any crimes OliverQ Feb 2019 #8
I do not agree with you. Desert grandma Feb 2019 #10
I so agree with you! Desert grandma Feb 2019 #4
the Sec of State of Florida just resigned KayF Feb 2019 #6
But that behavior was so much more recent. LBM20 Feb 2019 #9
Yeah, he did blackface in 2018. Not 35 years ago. OliverQ Feb 2019 #11
If you're referring to Gov. Northam cyclonefence Feb 2019 #7
Oh heck, it was 35 LONG years ago. Please. DUMB and WRONG but SO long ago. We don't crucify people LBM20 Feb 2019 #12
If you are not a person of color cyclonefence Feb 2019 #13
Thank you. jrthin Feb 2019 #38
Guarantee the GOP is already scouring for something to pin on Fairfax Jake Stern Feb 2019 #14
It works every time Bettie Feb 2019 #34
35 years ago, he has apologized. No one gets through this life without doing Autumn Feb 2019 #15
We are allowing our party to be manipulated to having no NRaleighLiberal Feb 2019 #16
If it was a Republican governor the GOP would close ranks and support him. Autumn Feb 2019 #18
That GOP Governor would still be an open bigot today. Dawson Leery Feb 2019 #30
Amen appalachiablue Feb 2019 #39
I can't even conceive of the Democrats rallying around him KayF Feb 2019 #17
We really do love to eat our own. It's monumentally fucked up. CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2019 #19
Can I share that banging wall with you? NRaleighLiberal Feb 2019 #21
You sure can, anytime! Plenty of room here. CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2019 #22
You'll run out of space on that wall soon enough Bettie Feb 2019 #35
I hear you, my dear Bettie... CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2019 #36
Is there more room? mr_lebowski Feb 2019 #60
Absolutely! CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2019 #63
Me too. COLGATE4 Feb 2019 #70
If there is nothing else like this in his past, I would forgive him. He was young - 25. Honeycombe8 Feb 2019 #37
"Our own" should not include his ilk. nt Codeine Feb 2019 #68
So, we are the party of perfection. No mistakes, no learning, NRaleighLiberal Feb 2019 #20
No Ted Kennedy, No Robert Byrd Jake Stern Feb 2019 #43
Obviously any honors bestowed on Ted Kennedy should be recalled. JFK was a womanizer delisen Feb 2019 #67
I live in the South OBrien Feb 2019 #23
Wow. babylonsister Feb 2019 #24
You rang??? NRaleighLiberal Feb 2019 #25
Demnivorous. democratisphere Feb 2019 #26
I like that...must remember. NRaleighLiberal Feb 2019 #27
When i first heard about this I didn't marlakay Feb 2019 #28
Agreed. Snackshack Feb 2019 #29
That is our superpower. elfin Feb 2019 #31
Good points. nt Baltimike Feb 2019 #32
Northam may be one of "your own," but he is not one of mine fountainofyouth Feb 2019 #33
+1 Codeine Feb 2019 #66
We claim Vermont as a state despite the fact it allowed racism to drive its African delisen Feb 2019 #71
If he resigns the Lt. Gov Justin Fairfax will take his place yaesu Feb 2019 #40
You know, maybe we would be well-served in this instance by adopting the usual republican stance... Volaris Feb 2019 #41
Sorry but his own lack of convincing damage control here certainly didn't do him any UniteFightBack Feb 2019 #42
K&R UTUSN Feb 2019 #44
Meanwhile, Repug Senator Hawley continues to vote creep judges to lifetime appointments Hassler Feb 2019 #45
Yes a mistake but leaders have to lead angrychair Feb 2019 #46
They've been trying their best here in New Jersey DirtEdonE Feb 2019 #47
come on...if it were a Republican Chakaconcarne Feb 2019 #48
Don't care if it's been 35 years ago - hate is hate. KKK hoods and blackface are symbols iluvtennis Feb 2019 #49
Exactly. We Are Better Than This. Dem2theMax Feb 2019 #51
So crucify someone for their entire life over a dumb mistake decades ago? Not right. LBM20 Feb 2019 #53
Not wanting to be represented by a person Codeine Feb 2019 #65
Agreed. Owl Feb 2019 #50
we need... myohmy2 Feb 2019 #52
The Lt Gov would replace him and the Lt Gov is a Dem. iluvtennis Feb 2019 #54
thank you... myohmy2 Feb 2019 #58
Preet Bharara says "Be Gone" iluvtennis Feb 2019 #55
This message was self-deleted by its author appalachiablue Feb 2019 #56
Rev Dr Barber: Yes, the photo of Gov Northam is a form of racism that's ugly & grotesque, BUT... iluvtennis Feb 2019 #57
Afraid so. delisen Feb 2019 #62
K&R nt backtoblue Feb 2019 #72

Response to NRaleighLiberal (Original post)

 

manor321

(3,344 posts)
3. LOL. No. He should clearly resign. He was 25 at the time, not a teenager or a child.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:44 PM
Feb 2019

This wasn't from the 1950's.

 

LBM20

(1,580 posts)
5. My god. It was 35 VERY LONG YEARS AGO, & it doesn't and SHOULDN'T define the man TODAY.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:46 PM
Feb 2019

Yes, it was a DUMB and WRONG thing to do. VERY WRONG. But SO long ago. EVERYONE, and I mean EVERYONE, has done something dumb in the past. Said things, done things that were DUMB and WRONG and IGNORANT.

ALL of us.

Enough of this condemning people for something stupid from LONG ago.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
59. It wasn't "dumb", it was hateful. Deliberately so.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:56 AM
Feb 2019

Stop minimizing egregious shit like this. If he had been sporting SS regalia and making Holocaust jokes we wouldn’t be trying to explain it away, would we?

Fuck, people. Some things are sufficiently beyond the goddamned pale that a shrug of the shoulders and an apology aren’t going to cover it. A grown-ass man pulling a stunt like that in the mid-80s and we’re supposed to act like it doesn’t matter?

ChubbyStar

(3,191 posts)
61. BINGO
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:04 AM
Feb 2019

The man has to resign. I don't care if it was 1984, 1964, or 1928. His behavior then was reprehensible. And it is reprehensible today.

delisen

(6,044 posts)
64. The only solution is to fully integrate the entire country. I think the lack of diversity
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:16 AM
Feb 2019

neighborhoods, entire states, and institutions is a real problem.

I think we need to call upon states such as Minnesota and Vermont to become proactive in diversifying their populations.

We need to end the race and class divisions in all our institutions. Possibly the college that published Northam's picture should be shut down.

 

OliverQ

(3,363 posts)
8. It was also 35 years ago and he didn't commit any crimes
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:50 PM
Feb 2019

and hasn't displayed that he's still a racist.

Desert grandma

(804 posts)
10. I do not agree with you.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:51 PM
Feb 2019

Who has not done something in their past that they regret?? It is the PRESENT and FUTURE that are important. Wow! We never learn. Focus on where these folks are NOW in their thinking and judge them by their present actions. Otherwise Republicans will use every opportunity to use some dumb thing some Democrat said or did in the past to turn us against each other.

Desert grandma

(804 posts)
4. I so agree with you!
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:45 PM
Feb 2019

Republicans know this and use it to their advantage. I hope he does not resign. I am tired of Democrats beating up on other Dems for political advantage for dumb things done in jest. Republicans do not do this. So I say, "Stop already!"

KayF

(1,345 posts)
6. the Sec of State of Florida just resigned
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:47 PM
Feb 2019

for a photo that surfaced of him in blackface. That happened a week ago.

 

OliverQ

(3,363 posts)
11. Yeah, he did blackface in 2018. Not 35 years ago.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:51 PM
Feb 2019

We also know it's extremely rare for Republicans to ever resign over something like that. Usually they get promoted.

cyclonefence

(4,483 posts)
7. If you're referring to Gov. Northam
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:48 PM
Feb 2019

I respectfully disagree. This was no high school kid, and he is an experienced adult now. He should have known this was going to emerge eventually, and he should have been in front of it before he ran. Hell, just being aware of his own history of racism should have been something he was concerned about long ago, and it's way past time for him to try to explain or apologize. Blackface and "Coonman" are not reflective of Democratic values, and if he doesn't understand that, he's not much of a Democrat.

Manchin = whataboutism

 

LBM20

(1,580 posts)
12. Oh heck, it was 35 LONG years ago. Please. DUMB and WRONG but SO long ago. We don't crucify people
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:51 PM
Feb 2019

for a dumb mistake from SO long ago.

Jake Stern

(3,145 posts)
14. Guarantee the GOP is already scouring for something to pin on Fairfax
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:52 PM
Feb 2019

An off-color joke to a subordinate or some college frat brothers to testify that Fairfax used sexist language or a disgruntled ex to spill the beans.

They've found their silver bullet and they sure love to use it.




Bettie

(16,126 posts)
34. It works every time
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:56 PM
Feb 2019

even an anonymous accuser saying he touched her waist at a photo op can make him resign.

Autumn

(45,120 posts)
15. 35 years ago, he has apologized. No one gets through this life without doing
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 09:57 PM
Feb 2019

something stupid in their life. People need to look at what he has done since he has been in politics.

NRaleighLiberal

(60,021 posts)
16. We are allowing our party to be manipulated to having no
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:01 PM
Feb 2019

Adequate candidates...an impossible purity test. The irony is that repubs end up winning with moral garbage. They play the game for keeps.

Autumn

(45,120 posts)
18. If it was a Republican governor the GOP would close ranks and support him.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:06 PM
Feb 2019

His apology seemed sincere.

KayF

(1,345 posts)
17. I can't even conceive of the Democrats rallying around him
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:02 PM
Feb 2019

what would that look like? Take the dem presidential candidates, which ones might stand up for Northam? If some did, how long would they last? Would the Democratic primary become a debate about the pros and cons of blackface and KKK costumes?

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,704 posts)
19. We really do love to eat our own. It's monumentally fucked up.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:08 PM
Feb 2019

No one is without fault. No one is perfect.

I find this incredibly frustrating. The Republicans really know how to divide us, and their tactics help them beat us.

It's insanity.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
37. If there is nothing else like this in his past, I would forgive him. He was young - 25.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:05 PM
Feb 2019

At med school. Parties, women.

God, I shudder when I think about my party days. I'm glad there are no photos (that I know of).

The people of Virginia should decide. Who takes his place? If he's ousted, does his opponent take office? I hope not!

Jake Stern

(3,145 posts)
43. No Ted Kennedy, No Robert Byrd
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:15 PM
Feb 2019

Ted Kennedy contributed to the death of someone.

Robert Byrd didn't just dress up like a Klansman - he really WAS a Klansman.

Yet both of them managed to move beyond their past to become beloved Democratic leaders.

This is going to kill us.

delisen

(6,044 posts)
67. Obviously any honors bestowed on Ted Kennedy should be recalled. JFK was a womanizer
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:23 AM
Feb 2019

and we need to acknowledge dishonorable behavior.

While I am being sarcastic, maybe it is actually better to be completely evenhanded on these matters.

OBrien

(363 posts)
23. I live in the South
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:13 PM
Feb 2019

How the fuck can you except to get votes down here past mistakes aren’t forgiven?? It was insensitive yes!!!! But FFS it was 35 yrs ago!

marlakay

(11,498 posts)
28. When i first heard about this I didn't
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:41 PM
Feb 2019

Know if governor was D or R, I told my husband if he’s a republican he will stay in office if its a dem they will chase him out.

And sure enough.....

elfin

(6,262 posts)
31. That is our superpower.
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:42 PM
Feb 2019

Waiting for the shakeout and hope it happens soon. My most likely hopeless final ticket is either Biden or Inslee with Klobuchar as VP.

Still mourn a bit over losing Bill Bradley so many years ago. He would have been fantastic.

And yes, I am a geezer.

fountainofyouth

(409 posts)
33. Northam may be one of "your own," but he is not one of mine
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 10:55 PM
Feb 2019

How can we possibly be doing our party favors by claiming a man in blackface as "our own"?

delisen

(6,044 posts)
71. We claim Vermont as a state despite the fact it allowed racism to drive its African
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:30 AM
Feb 2019

American legislator out of office, has not even made any apology, and had not been proactive in diversifying its population.

I think Rev. barber is right. it is the institutional racism that is the larger problem. I think the attacks on individuals is a substitute for not addressing the institutional racism.

yaesu

(8,020 posts)
40. If he resigns the Lt. Gov Justin Fairfax will take his place
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:12 PM
Feb 2019

an African-American 39-year-old Democrat who is a supporter of the Affordable Care Act, prison reform, tighter gun control, campaign donation limits, and increased taxes for infrastructure. Justin Fairfax could also run for Governor at the end of his term, bucking the one term law. Its totally up to the Gov whether to resign or not, I hope he makes the choice that is best for his state and party.

Volaris

(10,274 posts)
41. You know, maybe we would be well-served in this instance by adopting the usual republican stance...
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:13 PM
Feb 2019

Keep our collective mouths shut, and let the electorate of his state make the decision on what happens to him.

I'm tired of only playing by their rules when it works in THEIR favor.

 

UniteFightBack

(8,231 posts)
42. Sorry but his own lack of convincing damage control here certainly didn't do him any
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:13 PM
Feb 2019

favors. I could of written a better I'm sorry speech....really.

Hassler

(3,390 posts)
45. Meanwhile, Repug Senator Hawley continues to vote creep judges to lifetime appointments
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:20 PM
Feb 2019

Maybe if he'd worn black face while BREAKING THE LAW, our presidential candidates would be calling for him to resign.

angrychair

(8,733 posts)
46. Yes a mistake but leaders have to lead
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:40 PM
Feb 2019

He has an excellent Lt Governor that is a good Democrat and has popular support that can take the mantle of support without a cloud of doubt around them.

 

DirtEdonE

(1,220 posts)
47. They've been trying their best here in New Jersey
Fri Feb 1, 2019, 11:58 PM
Feb 2019

And now, Governor Murphy, who has been under attack for a case he had zero personal involvement in, is calling for another Democratic governor's resignation over a year book photo while traitors and serial blackout drunk sex abusers sit in the Oval Office and on the Supreme Court!
When are Democrats going to start demanding the same from the pubicans who never resign under any circumstances?
The very thought of Kirsten Gillibrand on the ticket makes me wretch after what she did to Al Franken. Where is Kirsten now? Why didn't she stop kavanaugh? How can she sit still while trump is in the White House.
Oh, but again, for a few photos, Al Franken had to go IMMEDIATELY!
What a joke. When are Democrats going to wake up and smell the coffee? This is war. They're winning because they fight dirty while we worry about playing fair.

iluvtennis

(19,873 posts)
49. Don't care if it's been 35 years ago - hate is hate. KKK hoods and blackface are symbols
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:17 AM
Feb 2019

of racism against black ppl. It's unacceptable behavior. Just like it was unacceptable for Kavanaugh to drink and sexually assault girls.

Don't care what their party affiliation is - wrong is WRONG.

Dem2theMax

(9,654 posts)
51. Exactly. We Are Better Than This.
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:24 AM
Feb 2019

We would not accept this from Republicans. We sure as hell shouldn't accept it from our own party.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
65. Not wanting to be represented by a person
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 01:20 AM
Feb 2019

who (as a grown adult, mind you) displayed such an egregious combination of bigotry, callousness, and poor judgement hardly qualifies as crucifixtion. He will be fine in the private sector.

myohmy2

(3,176 posts)
52. we need...
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:32 AM
Feb 2019

...Dems in office...isn't WV a one-term governor state?

...if he resigns, would a Dem replace him?

...if not, I'd condemn him but not encourage him to resign...

...no matter how offensive he was, a puke will be much more offensive...

...

myohmy2

(3,176 posts)
58. thank you...
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:54 AM
Feb 2019

...now I'm conflicted...

...if the Lt Gov shared similar views and abilities as Manchin, give Manchin the boot...

...

Response to NRaleighLiberal (Original post)

iluvtennis

(19,873 posts)
57. Rev Dr Barber: Yes, the photo of Gov Northam is a form of racism that's ugly & grotesque, BUT...
Sat Feb 2, 2019, 12:52 AM
Feb 2019

RevDrBarber, 32m32 minutes ago
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Yes, the photo of Gov Northam is a form of racism that’s ugly & grotesque. But the worst racism is policy & structural racism.



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