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onetexan

(13,066 posts)
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 03:01 PM Nov 2018

HELP! Need ammo for a trump-supporting sibling

Does anyone have a link to a site where a watchdog group is keeping track of all of trump's offenses/violations against the Constitution, ways he's devastating the government, the environment, our democracy, etc.? I need ammo to argue with my Fox-watching, trump-supporting sibling. She thinks trump is doing a damn good job with the economy and helping small business owners. She uses that to excuse his misogyny, his racism, and his ineptitude elsewhere.
My older sister (only by a couple of years) is a kindhearted and loving person, and a successful small business owner whose just a bit shallow in her thinking and have watched a bit too much of Fox news. I believe she is salvageable and can be led to "see the light" if i have enough ammo to make a reasoned argument with her.

Thanks, and happy Thanksgiving everyone!

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Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
2. Sure: Shoot tranquilizer darts. Find something in her viewpoint
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 03:21 PM
Nov 2018

to agree with, even if it's very limited, discuss that, and finish with a smile and suggestion you both go get more pie.

If she's still defending Trump, I can practically guarantee she's not half so reachable as you imagine, maybe just trying to keep things amicable. The time will eventually come when she won't be bringing the subject up.

Goonch

(3,618 posts)
3. My long time auto mechanic
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 03:25 PM
Nov 2018

whom I like and trust very much is a strong Trump supporter, has a TV in his waiting room airing Fox news and has a "DEPLORABLES" sign hanging proudly. He has always treated me fairly and given me exceptional service so while I wait for my car we chat about anything but Trump.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
4. If they listened to reason they wouldn't support him
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 03:35 PM
Nov 2018

Save your breath until he's gone, then be obnoxious as you chant "told ya so" as he's removed from office like the rest of us will.

onetexan

(13,066 posts)
14. that day cant come fast enough
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 06:14 PM
Nov 2018

given she's older i won't do the 'told ya so'. The events will speak for themselves and hopefully she'll see it.

violetpastille

(1,483 posts)
5. If someone wanted to convert me from being a liberal Democrat,
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 03:36 PM
Nov 2018

First it wouldn't work.

Second, a litany of "facts" would not sway me.

What would?

Lots and lots of diagnostic questions. Not answers.

"What is most important to you?"

"What are you willing to give up to get it?"

"What will you never compromise on?"

I think there is something scared and hateful about Trump supporters, and if there is anything that is "salvagable" it is not going to be reached by logic.

It's pure emotion. Find the scared part and talk it out of the cave.



Niagara

(7,682 posts)
8. I have a time issue today
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 04:28 PM
Nov 2018

Last edited Fri Nov 23, 2018, 05:53 PM - Edit history (1)

I wanted to login and respond to this quickly. This is a motto that I've lived by for awhile now.

If they had ANY reason and logic, they wouldn't be a trump supporter/republican to begin with.


Happy Thanksgiving to you!

onetexan

(13,066 posts)
10. i don't think my sis is a die hard trump fan
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 06:10 PM
Nov 2018

she just doesn't see things objectively. I think she can come around in due time.

Niagara

(7,682 posts)
21. You know your sister better then any of us do
Fri Nov 23, 2018, 09:30 PM
Nov 2018

Some people can be reached and some not so much.

Wishing you the best in that department.

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