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rustysgurl

(1,040 posts)
Tue Nov 20, 2018, 11:12 PM Nov 2018

Light A Candle For Roofus

So tomorrow is the day we will help our 15 y/o black Lab, Roofus, find his way to the Rainbow Bridge. Born with congenitally subluxated patellas on his back legs (that we didn't discover until he started to gain his adult weight), he has bunny hopped, sad sidesaddle, and romped through our lives, always giving us a loud 'AROO' and a big Roofus grin. Yes, his kneecaps are on the sides of his legs -- not on the front as they should be. Not a surgical candidate, and not one to let grass grow under his feet, he (along with Bobo the Wonder Dog -- our dachshund) escaped the yard not once, but TWICE. They crossed 4 and 6-lane streets to swim in a nearby apartment pond, or in the pond near a local high school. A repaired gate and a sturdy padlock solved that problem. As he aged, Roofus' ability to run and walk worsened, and we often helped him out to the backyard. Still, he would lie on his ultra-thick bed, watch football with us in the den, and enjoy the warmth of the fire. He has started having seizures, and we now know it is time. So, light a candle for Roofus to help him find his way and join Zack, Bobo, and all the kitties who groomed him and slept with him. Preston will show you around Rooferoni.

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Light A Candle For Roofus (Original Post) rustysgurl Nov 2018 OP
... JDC Nov 2018 #1
I am so sorry. SouthernIrish Nov 2018 #2
Aw Raine Nov 2018 #3
.... Marie Marie Nov 2018 #4
Yeah, He Deserves a Candle Leith Nov 2018 #5
So sad! ProudLib72 Nov 2018 #6
:( love_katz Nov 2018 #7
Peace to Roofus. lostnfound Nov 2018 #8
thoughts for Roofus. Take care of yourself too, I know too well the pain you're going through. jezebel321 Nov 2018 #9
Thank you for being a good friend and companion to Rooferoni. herding cats Nov 2018 #10
It is true, Scarsdale Nov 2018 #74
Roofus will always be with you. It doesn't matter what after life you believe in. dameatball Nov 2018 #11
. spanone Nov 2018 #12
Tears in my eyes. Laffy Kat Nov 2018 #13
Thanks for giving us a glimpse of Roofus. I know that takes a lot. sandensea Nov 2018 #14
Sweet Boy montanacowboy Nov 2018 #15
He'll run so well, chasing squirrels on the other side of the rainbow bridge. Ilsa Nov 2018 #16
15 years is a long long run for a lab so you have done well by your dog Botany Nov 2018 #17
Nice tribute to Roofus. Hoyt Nov 2018 #18
Safe transition, sweet Roofus lunamagica Nov 2018 #19
May his journey be blessed, and PatrickforO Nov 2018 #20
Sorry Roofus. BigmanPigman Nov 2018 #21
Sorry BP mr_lebowski Nov 2018 #32
Thank you. BigmanPigman Nov 2018 #40
Tell him to say hello to my kitties ... CaptainTruth Nov 2018 #22
... iluvtennis Nov 2018 #23
To Roofus Solly Mack Nov 2018 #24
I am so sorry. ellie Nov 2018 #25
I had to help my Daphne across. WinstonSmith4740 Nov 2018 #26
I'm so sorry. violetpastille Nov 2018 #27
Ave atque vale. ChazInAz Nov 2018 #28
I know Roofus will be waiting for you someday........ hostalover Nov 2018 #29
So very sorry! MuseRider Nov 2018 #30
... Wawannabe Nov 2018 #31
Sorry for the pain. I also have a black lab named Rufus lancelyons Nov 2018 #33
+1 Faygo Kid Nov 2018 #71
Godspeed Roofus ... mr_lebowski Nov 2018 #34
. backtoblue Nov 2018 #35
Darn it. I'm so sorry. MontanaMama Nov 2018 #36
🕯 sprinkleeninow Nov 2018 #37
Ohhh! I am so sorry to hear about Roofus! smirkymonkey Nov 2018 #38
Cross easy, Roofus, to wherever good, good dogs go. nolabear Nov 2018 #39
I'm sorry, too. Rhiannon12866 Nov 2018 #41
My screen name is Pepsidog in honor of our first black lab Pepsi.She was great and had hip problems Pepsidog Nov 2018 #42
... Moostache Nov 2018 #43
tears kanda Nov 2018 #44
Two days ago, a dog I dearly loved, passed away. Dem2theMax Nov 2018 #45
Farewell Chelsea, Run Free Donkees Nov 2018 #68
Thank you. Dem2theMax Nov 2018 #85
There's a Zoomie Celebration as new friends arrive :) Donkees Nov 2018 #96
To light your way, Roofus! pazzyanne Nov 2018 #46
One of our vets once said to me that we let animals into... 3catwoman3 Nov 2018 #47
I will hug our The Wizard Nov 2018 #48
Awww I'm so very sorry. StarryNite Nov 2018 #49
Dogs are perfect mirrors of our soul, You are a goodboy Roofus! Demonaut Nov 2018 #50
... The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2018 #51
What a great friend, I am so sorry. peacebuzzard Nov 2018 #52
Cross the Rainbow Ridge Roofus....many happy dogs thee to play with. chillfactor Nov 2018 #53
They will. Hearts up. Thank you for sharing about him. Healing vibes for you. mahina Nov 2018 #54
My sweet Roxie will welcome him sweetroxie Nov 2018 #55
🕯️ irisblue Nov 2018 #56
Too sad malaise Nov 2018 #57
I'm so sorry that Roofus must go to the Rainbow Bridge. He will run again there. sinkingfeeling Nov 2018 #58
My Poker dog will cross with Roofus today voteearlyvoteoften Nov 2018 #59
Farewell Poker, Run Free Donkees Nov 2018 #65
I'm so sorry for your loss renate Nov 2018 #98
Bless your hearts.... Raster Nov 2018 #60
Safe passage Roofus jpak Nov 2018 #61
Arf shenmue Nov 2018 #62
An act that shows your true love for Roofus. TNNurse Nov 2018 #63
I'll light a few for Roofus lillypaddle Nov 2018 #64
Farewell Roofus, Run Free, AROOOOOO Donkees Nov 2018 #66
They're not here for long... RichardRay Nov 2018 #67
Lady of the Beasts, please hold Roofus close in Your loving arms, and send peace and comfort niyad Nov 2018 #69
The Rainbow Bridge niyad Nov 2018 #70
All my life's beloved dogs will meet Rufus on the other side! lunatica Nov 2018 #72
Lighting a candle for the big boy to find his way to meet his friends, and wait for you. Honeycombe8 Nov 2018 #73
that was the sweetest pet eulogy ever barbtries Nov 2018 #75
Yes of course we wil light a candle to help Roofus thru the darkness and to the Rainbow Bridge.. samnsara Nov 2018 #76
: onecaliberal Nov 2018 #77
My pleasure...... Hotler Nov 2018 #78
Love to Roofus BigMin28 Nov 2018 #79
he sounds amazing! what a beautiful life he had with you! renate Nov 2018 #80
Picture of Roofus ? Rene Nov 2018 #81
I would love to post a pic but ... rustysgurl Nov 2018 #91
Sleep with the angels and run with the big dogs. sheilahi Nov 2018 #82
So beautiful .. thank you. rustysgurl Nov 2018 #97
... Scurrilous Nov 2018 #83
Roofus is lucky to have such awesome owners FakeNoose Nov 2018 #84
I hope he meets our Jazzi....... mrmpa Nov 2018 #86
I am so sorry ... rustysgurl Nov 2018 #93
My cat, Rufus, says he is so sorry. tavernier Nov 2018 #87
..... dhol82 Nov 2018 #88
((Hugs)) r/o BlueInRedHell Nov 2018 #89
There is little that is more difficult radical noodle Nov 2018 #90
A HUGE Thank You to all rustysgurl Nov 2018 #92
So sorry Meowmee Nov 2018 #94
... Celerity Nov 2018 #95

SouthernIrish

(512 posts)
2. I am so sorry.
Tue Nov 20, 2018, 11:17 PM
Nov 2018

I will light a candle and say a prayer for him and your family. You will be with him again one day and he will be healthy,playful,and frolicking. I know it is hard to let him go on. It is the last act of kindness that you can give him. I am glad that he had the loving family that he did.

herding cats

(19,565 posts)
10. Thank you for being a good friend and companion to Rooferoni.
Tue Nov 20, 2018, 11:23 PM
Nov 2018

Peace and love to you tonight, and in the following days.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
74. It is true,
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 03:24 PM
Nov 2018

they really do "leave paw prints on our hearts" I have had several dogs, all loveable personalities. Plus a few cats who were truly amazing. So sorry for what you are going through. It is never easy, no matter what time of year it is. You have given your pets a loving family, that is all you can do. They can leave, knowing that they were loved and important in your lives.

dameatball

(7,398 posts)
11. Roofus will always be with you. It doesn't matter what after life you believe in.
Tue Nov 20, 2018, 11:29 PM
Nov 2018

The connection you had in this life exists. Every thing else is gravy.

sandensea

(21,636 posts)
14. Thanks for giving us a glimpse of Roofus. I know that takes a lot.
Tue Nov 20, 2018, 11:48 PM
Nov 2018

I myself lost my Shar Pei a couple of years ago, and my Basset a couple of years before that.

They were old (15 and 13, respectively), so it was not unexpected - but none the easier because of it.

The aroos, arfs, grunts, and howls always sound as clear as a bell in your mind, and the paw prints always stay in your heart.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours, and All the Best.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
16. He'll run so well, chasing squirrels on the other side of the rainbow bridge.
Tue Nov 20, 2018, 11:53 PM
Nov 2018

I feel for you and know it hurts.

Botany

(70,512 posts)
17. 15 years is a long long run for a lab so you have done well by your dog
Tue Nov 20, 2018, 11:54 PM
Nov 2018

You are giving your friend the best gift you can but that will not take the hurt away.
I just went through this with my lab in early Sept. and it was and still is not easy but
I wish you well. Just remember the more you hurt will show you the more you loved
each other.

BigmanPigman

(51,608 posts)
21. Sorry Roofus.
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 12:14 AM
Nov 2018

You are loved....and always will be.

We had a death in our dog family recently and I am not able to enjoy Thanksgiving at all now.

Solly Mack

(90,769 posts)
24. To Roofus
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 12:19 AM
Nov 2018

The sun never sets on a memory. Run free forever in the minds of those you loved and those who loved you.



ellie

(6,929 posts)
25. I am so sorry.
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 12:20 AM
Nov 2018

Godspeed Roofus.




I lost both of my cats this year. The house is so empty without them.

WinstonSmith4740

(3,056 posts)
26. I had to help my Daphne across.
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 12:26 AM
Nov 2018
It's tough, but when life itself gets to be too much...
Hope you enjoy this...it's SO true.

ChazInAz

(2,569 posts)
28. Ave atque vale.
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 12:29 AM
Nov 2018

All of my cats that are buried in my back yard had this declaration from the Egyptian Book Of The Dead said over them.
So it's good for Roofus.
"Behold! I am young again, forever. I am at play on the Isle of Reeds."
Rest well.

MuseRider

(34,111 posts)
30. So very sorry!
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 12:43 AM
Nov 2018

I had a friend do that this afternoon, she is beside herself. I have a friend who thought she was going to have to do that with her kitty yesterday and another one several days ago but they are both OK. I am up most nights right now with one of my kitties who is very ill, may be a bit better tonight (fingers crossed). I don't know if it is the seasonal change, I have never noticed it before but maybe it is just hard on the older critters like it is us as we age.

May Roofus have an easy passage and find his way to the bridge to wait for you. I am so sorry, it hurts so much! Be well.

 

lancelyons

(988 posts)
33. Sorry for the pain. I also have a black lab named Rufus
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 12:49 AM
Nov 2018

Sorry for your pain. I know it's tuff. I lost a chocolate lab the same day McCain passed. I also have a black lab named Rufus and he is also a spectacular dog. He is also weak having been through the last year with cancer and becoming a tripod. I know what you are feeling. Remember the fun times

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
38. Ohhh! I am so sorry to hear about Roofus!
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 01:01 AM
Nov 2018

My heart aches for you. I am here at my brother's house for the holiday just looking at their sweet little black lab and thinking of how heartbreaking it must be for you.

Rhiannon12866

(205,467 posts)
41. I'm sorry, too.
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 01:06 AM
Nov 2018

I've been there, too, and it never gets any easier. But it sounds like you gave Roofus a wonderful life.

Pepsidog

(6,254 posts)
42. My screen name is Pepsidog in honor of our first black lab Pepsi.She was great and had hip problems
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 01:06 AM
Nov 2018

later in life. One regret I have is we probably put her down 2 weeks later than we should have. We have our second black lab Boo who also is a wonderful dog. It’s so hard to let them go but you know when it is time. The only things dogs want is to be loved and taken care of. It sounds like your Roofus was a lucky dog. Hang in there

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
43. ...
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 01:07 AM
Nov 2018

for Roofus

Today is 4 years to the day that we lost our beloved Schmoo...it never gets easier when we lose our fur babies or when their lives have run their course. It certainly sounds like you have plenty of great memories of a life well-lived and shared, I do hope those flood you in the days and weeks to come.


For all the others too...

kanda

(175 posts)
44. tears
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 01:17 AM
Nov 2018

Shedding tears for you and Roofus and every other person in this thread that has lost fur babies. It is never easy. Grief is the price we pay for love. As much as it hurts--and oh boy does it hurt--I am a better person for having loved my puppies and kitties. They have made my life immensely better. RIP Roofus. sending love and hugs to you, rustysgurl.

Dem2theMax

(9,651 posts)
45. Two days ago, a dog I dearly loved, passed away.
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 01:17 AM
Nov 2018

My heart goes out to you, and may Roofus go peacefully across the rainbow bridge. I hope he finds my beloved Chelsea, and that they can play together.

Dem2theMax

(9,651 posts)
85. Thank you.
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 07:38 PM
Nov 2018

Chelsea loved to run and play with other dogs so much. You could tell she was getting older when she stopped doing that. It makes my heart happy to think of her, and Roofus, and all the other beloved members of our families that just happen to have fur, or feathers, or whatever, out there in those rainbows, having fun all over again.

3catwoman3

(24,005 posts)
47. One of our vets once said to me that we let animals into...
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 01:45 AM
Nov 2018

...our hearts, knowing that we will outlive them, but we do it anyway, because it is so worth it.



peacebuzzard

(5,174 posts)
52. What a great friend, I am so sorry.
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 02:44 AM
Nov 2018

So very sad to lose the best pal.
I will light a candle when I make it home.
Go sweetly and gently little angel.

voteearlyvoteoften

(1,716 posts)
59. My Poker dog will cross with Roofus today
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 11:54 AM
Nov 2018

He is almost 15. Probably a golden chow mix with the golden personality all the way. Rescued him at 18 months from the kill shelter. He has been our best boy for 13 years. I’m going to miss him so much. Our daily walks , his snoring, him poking his food all over the floor. His stuffies everywhere.
Lap of love is coming to our home today. He is very ready. 😭🐕 We will think of you and Roofus. They can be buddies now.

renate

(13,776 posts)
98. I'm so sorry for your loss
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 11:47 PM
Nov 2018

Poker sounds like such a sweetheart. I love the way pups have their favorite toys... what innocent hearts they have. And our homes seem so utterly empty when they go, don’t they?

TNNurse

(6,927 posts)
63. An act that shows your true love for Roofus.
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 01:12 PM
Nov 2018

Many of us know and understand how you feel. Tears come to my eyes for my DogGirl as I type this.

RichardRay

(2,611 posts)
67. They're not here for long...
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 01:38 PM
Nov 2018

...they’re just here for good.

When this day comes with the dogs I live with I try to recall that it’s the last favor I can do for them. It doesn’t really help, but I try.

niyad

(113,325 posts)
69. Lady of the Beasts, please hold Roofus close in Your loving arms, and send peace and comfort
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 01:41 PM
Nov 2018

to those who love him.

niyad

(113,325 posts)
70. The Rainbow Bridge
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 01:41 PM
Nov 2018



Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
73. Lighting a candle for the big boy to find his way to meet his friends, and wait for you.
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 02:45 PM
Nov 2018

It sounds like you have given Roofus a wonderful life, and he has repaid you tenfold.

Goodnight to the big boy. May he find comfort and run like the wind when he gets there.

(I hope my buddies are waiting for me. The love doesn't go away just because the body does.)

samnsara

(17,622 posts)
76. Yes of course we wil light a candle to help Roofus thru the darkness and to the Rainbow Bridge..
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 03:32 PM
Nov 2018

...and I am keeping you and you family in my thoughts and close to my heart during this time of profound sadness. Godspeed sweet Roofus.. what a GOOD boy you are! (((hugs)))

renate

(13,776 posts)
80. he sounds amazing! what a beautiful life he had with you!
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 04:21 PM
Nov 2018

It's so unfair that dogs' and cats' lives are so much shorter than humans'--but he was lucky to have a long, long life for a dog, and he had such a wonderful time, having fun and giving and receiving so much love. He will always have a warm, snug, cozy place in your hearts. I hope those memories will help to heal your heartache from the inside.

sheilahi

(277 posts)
82. Sleep with the angels and run with the big dogs.
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 06:14 PM
Nov 2018

Today you did the bravest thing
Today you set me free.
Thank you for showing me the ultimate dignity.
I'm sorry that my leaving
Has broken your kind heart
But we both knew this day would come
The day we had to part.
Don't think I did not hear
Every last word that you said
Don't think I did not feel
Your trembling hand touch my head.
Today you did the bravest thing
Today you set me free
Thank you for a wonderful life
Thank you for loving me.

RIP Sweet Roofus

FakeNoose

(32,641 posts)
84. Roofus is lucky to have such awesome owners
Wed Nov 21, 2018, 07:33 PM
Nov 2018

It's hard to say "Good-bye" to your best friend, but he's going to a better place where doggies can play all day.



rustysgurl

(1,040 posts)
92. A HUGE Thank You to all
Thu Nov 22, 2018, 02:07 AM
Nov 2018

Y'all are the best. It has been an up and down day. My niece arrived at 8:30, McDonald's cheeseburgers in hand. She had to convince the manager to fire up the lunch grill for my Rooferoni (he did). So, his last breakfast was CHEESEBURGERS! Lots of pets and love followed. The vet arrived at 9am, and was very kind. He explained the process to us, gave us all the time we needed, and was very respectful. Our vet runs a mobile vet service -- he doesn't practice out of an office. Roofus being able to transition on his own bed, under his own blankie, with his favorite squeaky, and surrounded by all who loved him is worth more than gold. Given his mobility challenges, I cannot imagine the stress and anxiety he would suffer trying to get into a vehicle, driving, and then going into an strange, cold, antiseptic office.

It's hard to look down in the den and see the empty bed. I meant to tidy up and move some of his things, but it's just too soon. Thank you all again for your words of support and encouragement. Reading them caused the tears to flow, but they were healing tears, and that's ok.

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